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heyness my names Regina im 17 and i live in VA i love jus helping people out and giving advice...soo lol ask me anything and i'll try my best to help!

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im 13/f
what should i do if my crush would ask me out or something, but my friends realllyy like him too?
(i have this one friend, she likes the same guy that i do. she says she loves him and everything. but she doesnt know that i've like him since like 5th grade.) i have an idea that he kinda likes me too. i hear that he talks about me to his friends, and whenever im around him he asks me for hugs. im not sure if its just playful, or actually something. im not sure how to react if something happened, and he asked me out?? nfsap idk. im really confused. any tips????
-stuckkkkk

tell your friend taht youve liked this guy for so long and before going out with him if he does ask you make sure you talk to her about it before doing anything because friends are way more important and you wouldnt want her to get mad @ you so yeah talk to her about it 1st and see waht she says hope i helped! good luck!

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wat is a std and wat is oral sex

an std is a sexutally transmitted disease and oral sex is like everything till 3rd base..like giving head eating out etc...

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Alright. I've been dating my boyfriend for over ten months and we've started to have a lot of problems. Around the six month marking period we starting getting into a lot of arguments and got upset with eachother easily. This has been going on for the past three or four months. He's in a different state for a couple of weeks and I usually get to talk to him, but for some reason this trip is different. I've talked to him maybe 30 minutes in total in a week or so. So I went to a party today and I met a guy that I had seen during drumline camps and stuff. He invited me along with a bunch of other drumline people to come over to his house. We got to talking and stuff and he texted me while we were watching fireworks with everyone if I wanted to hang out with him sometime, that'd be fun. So, I texted him when I got home and told him that'd be fun. The thing is IDK what to do. I don't know if i can go on much longer with my current boyfriend the way things are going. This other guy is dropping hints like crazy that he wants to know me better. "I haven't had a girlfriend in over a year, so yeah" and so on. please help.

get to know the guy better before anything and hold on to your current boyfriend...dont do anything now it'll be better to get to know this guy better before you do anything then if you feel you start to like him then maybe you really should end your relationship with your boyfriend since you guys've been in lots of fights and seem to be growing apart...hope i helped! goodluck!

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im on the phone w/ my bf, wut do we talk about? im not usually like this! but idk! HELP

aw well talk about just a bunch of random things lol whatever comes to your head or just some stupid little things lol those are the cutest hehe you'll never forget the stupid things you guys talk about

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well, my bestfriend ( guy )( who likes me ) just slept over my boyfriend house last night and he is telling me all this stuff about how my boyfriend was talking to my bestfriend ( girl ) non-stop for like 2 hours this morning and last night. and my bestfriend (girl) isnt really that nice .. she always tries to make me jelous and shit. so i dont know if shes trying tog et me mad or if my boyfriend likes her ( cuz they liked eachother at the begining of the year )
can someone please help me !! i'll rate 5's for good help=D

whoa thats relly mean! well it does prolly seem that they still like each other since they liked each other in the begining of the yearr...talk to your boyfriend about it and ask him if he still does...if shes just trying to make you mad act like you dont care at all cause that'll then get her irritated and she'll eventually stop when she realizes that its not affecting you... hope i helped and good luck!

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Is it possible to not be able to kiss someone because their nose is "too big"? I haven't kissed anyone yet but I've heard stories of girls that's noses were "in the way" when they were trying to make out with their boyfriends. So0rry if this sounds stupid it's just, my boyfriend made a comment about mine && now I'm kind of self-counsious (sp??) about it.

lol yeah tilt your head and you'll be fine!

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Hey advice-giving people! I have this friend who acts like I should be devoted to him and I should have no other friends beside him since I've known him since pre-k. Ok, well, one of my other friends, Jessica, asked me to go to the beach with her and I said sure because well.. the beach ROCKS! But anyways.. We told John Ross (the obsessive friend) not to tell Brittany (our other friend) because we knew it would make her mad at us. Ok, well he went & told her & it made her mad. He's ALWAYS doing stuff like that. How do I tell him to shut the freak up without losing him as a friend?

wow yeah talk about obsessive lol Hmm well try talking to him about how you feel and how it annoys you...also tell him that yes you guys are good friends but that you guys have other friends too and that you cant like, just have ONE friend im sure he has other friends too...well yeah talk to him about it IN a NicE way and hopefully he understands... hope i helped! and good luck!

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Umm...on my 15 b day my friend gave me a vibrator like a solid one and it got some scratches on it after a while and yet i still use it! one day i was using it and it started to be painful and when i hit climax, i noticed it had blood on it and i think i have already popped my cherry and i kno it wasnt that time of the month, so could the scratches on the vibrator be cutting me? Please help thanx!

maybe you should change your vibrator it culd be it and yeah you prolly did pop your cherry

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My X-botfriend dumped me about a few months after he asked me out. I had liked him for a whole two years, and was really excited when he did. After he dumped me I was devistated, and we decided to stay friends. I saw him at a get together with all of our friends and some of the new ones. I don't know if it is just him, but he acted like we were still together. He huged me alot, and lied on my stumache, tickled me, and chased me. My friends acted afended, and kind of stand-offish when we acted like that. My friend says that he told her that he doesn't like me anymore, but to me, he acted like he still does. So here is my quwstion: How do I find out if he still likes me or not, so that I can move on in life?
P.S.
(I already tried asking, and my friends tried asking also!)
Can you help me?

O0o man mixed signals i h8 that well like hes prolly messin wit you i h8 that too thats like soo mean lyke he did dump you an you knoe he doesnt like you n e more an hes acting like he does?! thats like so wrong cuz then you get so confused...well prolly avoid all of what he does that makes you think he styll likng you culd b all like well yOU dumped ME an then you culd ask him like if he relly does styll like you an stuff an he'll hopefully back off from ther g/l hope i helped!

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ok well yes. i know, its a girl question, but im not sure about it. I have a had my period for about 9 months, but this month it hasnt came it was due on the 21st, but it still isnt here, i have never ever had sex. and i dont know what to do! please please tell me its goin to be okay...i dont need to be pregnet at 14...

thanks
scared!

hey yeah i think you'll be finne honestly i knoe somE people that are even older than you an styll dont get it every month its styll lyke irregular fur them ...so yeah it'll come back dont wry bout it hope i helped!

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Okay, so I`m going out with this guy and I reallllllly like him. But the only problem is, he uses drugs and alcohol a L0T. I`m totally against this.. I have seen families torn apart and people`s lives ruined because of alcohol/drug use.. I would never do anything like this, and he knows that, and he`s okay with that.. But I don`t want him to hurt himself. And I really don`t like the fact that he does.. I know that I can`t change him.. What should I do ?

i think that you shuld prolly talk to him about how you feel and that try to tell him that you knoe what these kinda things culd do ta him but yeah thats tru you culd never change'em so it'll be best for you if you leave him and hopefully he'll think twice next tyme when he realizes that his actions even affect his girlfriend enuff to leave him hope i helped! g/l

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