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I was watching Laguna Beach today, and a song came up. It's during the part where Stephen suprises LC on Valentine's Day...the song sounded so familiar and I really liked it and I'm hoping to download it. I would search for it myself but I forgot the lyrics so, please help. :) Thanks in advance!

Wow! I watched laguna beach today too! Same episode and I totally wanted the same song to download on my computer! I wondered what it was. I did a little research on the net for you and it came up with some pretty good results. try going to www.stlyrics.com tell me if it works!

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I cheated on my boyfriend and now he is really mad at me. he is thinking about breaking up with me. What can i do to fix this?

Of course you don't want a lecture! But it was wrong of you to cheat on your boyfriend. I think that now that you did it, it's hard for him to trust you. You first have to earn his trust back. Tell him you love him and if you did it, tell him the exact reason why. was it lust? was he not treating you as good as u wanted? talk to him as to what put you up to cheating on him. If you feel a certain way you should be able to share it with him. If he decided to break up with you, it would be best to be there for him by his side and help him through his anger. If you lost him as a boyfriend you should keep him as a close friend. If he decides to break up with you, if you love him that much you'll have to accept his choice no matter what it may be.

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..Well i dont do any sports or anything so i have like no muscle on my arms and i am really thin..I would just to get some muscles and a six pack can anyone help mee with that and tell me what to do?
Ill rate 5's
Thankx

Everything you do that involves moving burns at least some percent calories your carrying or tones your body up with muscle. slow periods of time. If you enjoy sk8boarding or riding your bike, or maybe running or playing football with your friends, I suggest that! riding your bike tones legs and thighs. Football tones legs thighs and torso. Sk8boarding mostly tones your legs. for the arms, try helping your mom with heavy shopping bags, she needs the help and so do you! but be becareful, don't hurt yourself. JUST HAVE FUN!

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i have this friend who is always there for me..and everything..we're ireseperable..but she thinks she is my only friend..and when my other friends call and ask to do stuff she gets mad. her mother even thinks im her only friend. the problem is she is my very BEST friend. but i do have other friends and i do like to hang out with them. please give me your advice.
thanks, much love~ two-split friend

Take her out and talk to her a bit. If she thinks your her only friend. Introduce her to your other friends!! Im sure she'll be interested in hanging with them AND you. If you don't want to hang out with her at all, try to limit conversation and hang out maybe every other weekend instead of everyday or every weekend. You need to breathe, you need space. But saying that upfront to her face is a definate no-no. Try hooking her up with one person you think is right for hanging with her the most. it works!

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Does anybody know where you can get really nice cute clothes for bigger sized girls, I mean im not fat fat but i am bigger than most girls my age ( 15 ) so if anybody knows any good places to get cute clothes your help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!!

Where to get cute clothes from, depends what state and area you live in. I live in NYC we may have some clothes stores here that you don't have over there. But if not, I recommend going to " Pretty girl" they have nice clothes for any size there. I also recommend " danice" They have any style you're looking for. Or maybe if you want something Punk-ish looking. I suggest " mandee's" Old navy has usually prep, surfer or just relaxed and laid back styles in women and kids sizes. Good luck with Shopping til you drop!

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well ... i got up the courage to let my friend erin tell this guy brendan that i like him...(i really love him)and i really thought i might have a chance cuz were really friendly and i thought he might have liked me.
erin was at my house at the time... so she let me go on her screen name wen she left so i could talk to him... this is how it went:
erin(me): wasnt that surprising?
brendan: i kinda could tell
erin (me) : oh?
brendan: not to be mean or anything but i would NEVER go out with her
erin (me): oh I have to go...bye
and i signed off... i dont know what to do! I need to know what to say to him... im allowed to go on erins screen name again in the morning... but idk what to say... what do you think i shoujld... should i try to convince him? well the worst part is ... i keep blaming it on parts of me... like i think i make too many jokes now... and now i think its because i am a little overweight... but i thought he was the kiond of guy that didnt care about looks...
please dont say "get over him" because i have liked him for 2 years and ive tried that!!!
i'll rate high...please ... i need help before like 10 tmw morning :-(
~heartbroken

Dear Heartbroken,
Rejection feels bad.. Trust me. Since you don't want me to tell you " get over him" I won't. Don't EVER blame yourself for a guy not liking you. It's his fault. He see's something in you or on you he doesn't like. How is that your problem? Who cares if your a little overweight? so am I!! or make too many jokes ( alot of people do ) That's just who you are. You shouldn't try to convince him to like you... you can't make someone like you. I suggest that you stay who you are.. or if you want him that badly.. ask him or let a friend ask him what kind of girls is he interested in, personality or look wise if thats the case. He answers, you analyze the kind of chick you are and compare it to the kind of chick he wants. You shouldn't have to change yourself to get a guy to like you. But if you're in love, let nothing stop you! He should accept u and like you for who you are. Find the difference in the girl you are from the girl traits he's interested in... AND BECOME THAT TYPE OF GIRL HE'D BE INTERESTED IN. Improve yourself. Show him you got what it takes to be his love! but remember. keep your characteristics and personality traits so you don't lose your true self over a guy.

~ Laydee Aki

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I was just wondering if any has any suggestions for a really good foundation - preferably something with full-coverage and with a flawless look?

If you're thinking foundation as in cover up and make-up. I suggest " Zuri" The Perfect color Liquid Make-Up. it's water based. You can find it in any pharmacy.

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ok so me and this guy are always "cuddling" so-to-speak, we always lay on the couch together and he always has his arm around me and in other words we're always like having our arms around eachother..but that's all we do and its only for a short period of a time. i don't know how to explain it but how do i like "lead him on" to going further like i want to kiss him or make out with him or something, but without just giving it away. i don't want to just say it or anything, how do i "lead him on" to doing something like that? i'll rate 5's for good answers! =) thank you!

Guys easily get freaked out as much as girls do if you mention to them " OMG I WANT TO MAKE OUT WITH YOU" however I recommend little hints. You always have your arms around him, maybe draw him closer to your body or stare deeply into his eyes to tell him you're interested in doing more. If he looks directly back into your eyes for a moment and leans into your face closer, I suggest you meet him halfway there into the kiss. I hope all goes well with you and your guy!

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ok im 14..and ive gone out with tons of guys..but i havent had my first kiss yet..a bunch of my other friends have though..im currently dating this really nive really hot guy, and he seems to like me a lot, but hasent shown any sign of wanting to kiss me..i dont want to make him kiss me and send the wrong message..is that weird? what should i do?

xOxO--> troubled love

Dear Troubled Love,

I can relate to your situation. For I am your age, and never have been kissed. Yet went out with a ton of guys. He seems to like you alot and you like him. A first kiss can lead some guys on to them wanting more. I say choose wisely. If he doesn't show any sign of kissing you, I say maybe he's nervous. Guys think the same way as girls sometime. He doesn't want to kiss you and send you the wrong message. If you feel for him the same way he feels for you, he doesn't have to make the first move. You can. But approach him slowly. Don't want the guy to get freaked out! It's not wierd at all. You don't have to kiss a guy right now if you don't want to. You can wait until you really feel like it with the guy you like the most. Giving up your first kiss could be important, or maybe just fun for some girls. If you're not sure if he wants to kiss you or not, I say go for it or talk to him about it first. Afterall, he may feel like you do in this situation.

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