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Ok i think i have been close to my period since i was about 10 im 12 now but i am fed up of waiting and need to know some exact signs anyone got answers? (link)
Okay I will tell you the signs but first I will tell you that i got mine three days ago and you need to fully enjoy your time without it I have only had three days and I already fully hate it and wish i had enjoyed my time without it more! But there are really no spefic signs since girl's period effects everyone diffrently! But trust me you'll know!


when Ive got cramps durning my period they hurt so bad,I cant use a heating pad because I burned myself one day and drugs constipate me what else can I use (link)
A nice ho bath and try a cold pad instead that can sometimes help cramps if you cant use heating pads!


so.. i put my first tampon in for the first time last night and i didn't really know how but i figured it out. i slept in it.. which was about eight to nine hours.. i woke up and went to the bathroom and i tried to take it out.. it didn't and so i went to the bathroom and it still didn't.. what do i do? is it because i stopped my period maybe? all i know is that it REALLY hurts when i try to take it out :( (link)
You need to take it out immediatley! It will hurt but you dont want TSS so yes it may hurt but just pull on it no atter how much it hurts!


I'm 13 and just started my period a couple of months ago. I decided to wear tampons because I'm in swim team and I had no other choice. I took my a couple of my mother's w/o her knowing (I never got the nerve to tell her I had started). The tampons she had were the big ones. But I had no choice. But a couple of weeks ago I got diarrhea and I was extremely dizzy. I had heard about TSS and was really freaked out. What do you guys think it is? (link)
You definatley shouldnt be using the big ones if you just started tell your mom because you will have to at some point and get the smaller ones because TSS can be fatal and talk to your Mom about it!! Dont be scared!


How old do you have to be to buy tampons? (link)
No age at all. You can get tampons as soon as you get your period!! Just learn how and where to put them in before you hurt yourself.


ok, so I usually start my period around the 22nd I didn't start until today, I go to mexico in 9 days, my mom said it should be over by then but I was wandering since I started so late will my period last longer? or do you think it'll be over by the 11th? (link)
Yes it will go a few day's longer because it started a few days late but if your lucky then it will be over just in time for you trip!


Im 13 and a girl
I like am always having discharges even when im not close to my period and there always really heavy and my period has never been light never, its always been heavy is this normal or do I have a problem? (link)
Discharge is not part of your period it's your body's lubricant for your vagina. And it's totally normal everyone's period is diffrent I have alway's had a heavy period to it's fine you DONT have a problem trust me!!


Im 13 and have had discharge for over a year and armpit and pubic hair for almost 2 years. No period.. whats the hold-up Mother N? (link)
Oh god,
I just got mine three days ago and it's total HELLLLLL you definatley WANT Mother N. to make it come late I have only had it three days and Im already tired and annoyed with the freaking thing. I know how you feel though. You want because it means your a woman and your more mature but trust me ENJOY your time when you dont have to deal with leaky blood every single month!


I went on vacation last week and in the airport on the way there and on the plane i felt a burning on my upper left by my ribs. It hasn't FULLY gone away but it wasn't as bad as it is now. Like, i could hang with my friends and forget all about it but then when i got home, it hit me like a ton of bricks. like it's not the worst pain, but it feels weird. I immediately thought i have mono until i remembered that i had it when i was younger. I have really bad anxiety and stress so my mom thought that it could be a stomach ulcer. i took two exlax's to see if i was just constipated, but i don't feel much different, although it helped somewhat, but i wouldn't say much. i keep on burping every hour and my bowls are fine. I think its something in my stomach because when i eat it burns and so does my esophogaus. have you ever experienced this? if so, what diagnosis did you have? help. asap (link)
Oh gosh you need to see a doctor RIGHT away I think you might have a heart problem go see a doctor RIGHT AWAY!!


18F.

this will probably be long but PLEASE bare with me, i will return the favor to all who help!

so i met this amazing guy about two months ago. i've never met a guy whose treated me so well, EVER. i could go on and on about how happy i was. we haven't done anything sexual either, which i like about him. well then something happened, and out of no where his mood seemed to change. he doesn't really text me anymore, last time i really talked to him was monday night and i was happy because i was the first person he wanted to see when he got home from washington that night, but i couldn't go over there. well then we had a conversation and i think i might have said something that pissed him off here was our convo

MONDAY NIGHT:
him: someday i'll be making millions playing hockey so it's okay that i am constantly playing

me: well then are you gonna buy me a house since i'm so special ;) (and i was joking, obv)

him: maybe....

me: well fine then

him: Ok

me: i think someone needs to go to bed..

him: ok bye

me: ok what the hell nick, whats wrong with you?

him: i don't know maybe i am just tired, sorry.

me: yeah well you know i've been going through alot and i thought talking to you would help me but i dont know now ..

him: woah calm down don't freak out

me: i'm not freaking out you're the one who started acting weird in the first place ..

and he never said anything back after that.

well then thursday i end up texting him asking if he will take me to the driving range when i get back from vacation because i know he loves golf and could help me and all he said back was yep and i said well you don't have to .. and then no response and thats the last i heard from him..

i don't know whats up with him! now monday i'm leaving for hawaii for 10days so i won't be able to see him. i'm just worried i'm really going to lose him, especially to another girl or something. should i text him or leave it alone? i know i'm going to constantly be thinking about him and the whole thing all throughout vacation when i shouldn't be worrying about ANYTHING when in paradise ..

any suggestions on what i should do?? thanks!:) (link)
Well sweetie im sorry to tell you this but this issue has every sign of him being with another girl AND you. So Im sorry but he's probably cheating on you so you need to talk to this guy face to face so that he has to reply. And if he isnt man enough to talk to you then you should break up with him because it just isnt worth it.


someone posted a question on here about thinking they had a panic attack and asked for the symptoms. i read one of the user's replies and most of those symptoms were what happened to me earlier today. i was having chest pains, hot flashes, my pinky started going numb, my heartrate was wild, etc. only thing i'm confused about was i wasn't worrying about anything at the time. i was just sitting on a curb smoking. then it hit me out of nowhere. i don't have a history with panic attacks or a panic disorder. i do get anxiety a lot, but it hasn't been happening very much lately. does anyone know why this happened, or was this something else? (link)
You dont have to be worrying about something or even thinkg about anything to have a panic attack. I have had small ones before and i wasnt stressing or anything so you might have panic attacks even if your not stressed or worrying or even thinking.


i havent been well for a week now. first i got a badcold and then a inflammation of the middle ear (which is almost gone now)
and I didnt eat much cause i felt to weak to do anything. yesterday i only ate a cookie. this morning i ate two slices of toast, one with cheese and the other one with salami.
and a few minutes after i ate i began having a terrible stomach ache & i had to take a poop.
(this is a bit ambaressing) it was quite painful and when i whiped my butt i saw a bit of blood on the toiletpaper.
now im really scared. it stopped and my stomach ache is almost gone but im scared that its smth serious. i dont think i have hemroids & i dont have any other symtoms that cause anal cancer.
im just a bit worried. can it be smth else? (link)
Dont worry your totally fine. I have had that happen to me before and I am quite young. Your fine cause I have had it happen a few times and Im healthy as can be!!


I have this weird bump on my scalp I had my mom look at it and she said it looked like a pimple?

is it just a bug bite or something?
or is it serious?

i'm like freaking out!
please helppp..
(link)
Dont worry about I had one and I hated it me and my mom tried wart stuff and it didnt work so we went to the doctor and he numbs the area and cuts it off the the scalpol.....completley painless I PROMISE!!


Helllo I have a problem when i finger my self i get a really nice feeling and a tingle but am i a bad person for this and am i a slut?x

Please answer this question. (link)
Absolutley not. You are not a bad person for fingering yourself masturbating is completley normal!!


To begin, I have never had sex. I have fooled around with my boyfriend but he's the only one I've ever been with. However, and I don't know if fooling around is the cause, I've had a yellowish creamy discharge problem. From what I can remember, it's been like this for maybe a year but I always thought it was normal so I never found a need to say anything. But from what I've been reading, it sounds like a problem. I don't go to the gynocologist so I really don't know what to do. Are there any medicines that I can buy at a store that would fix this? Any help is appreciated, thanks. 17/f (link)
OKay my answer before was wrong where I said that it's normal and even greenish is healthy....I was wrong okay? I have had "Family Life" many times and I dont know who told me this but I was told it was normal so Im sorry and you should go to your doctor just incase.


16/F

LAst night my boyfriend and i weren't planning on doing anything jus, out to eat and watch a movie at his house. Well after we ate we went to his place and pop in the movie Paranormal. usually scary movies don't scare, but this one did. so i was like jumping all over him and he had his arms around me.

well idk what part of the movie it was but things started to get heatd and before i knew it we were in his bed. now i'm not a virgin but last night i felt like one. we didn't do anything because it hurt so bad when he tried to put it in.

i want to have sex with him because we've been datein for a long time and i'm ready... or was. But i'm afraid that if we do i would suffer from internal bleedind or i would have to be rushed to the ER.

1st. is it possible to suffer internal bleeding?
Can i REALY be rushed to the ER?
Is there some way we can do this with out me getting hurt?
Is this normal to have had sex b4 and now it hurt this bad?
if its any help i haven't had sex for a year and a 1/2 now, could that be it?

Can some one PLEASE give me answers or advice??? (link)
You might have a little infection.


When I have sex, I can feel this barrier inside my vagina? When I lost my virginity I thought my "cherry" popped, so what is this barrier? It feels like a petruding tissue of some kind..? I really want to get pregnant, but I think this is preventing it, so what do I do? (link)
It doesnt stop you from getting pregnant all the extra skin you feel in ther is just kind of little grips kind of things that hold in things like tampons.


In the morning i had sex with my husband and when we were done i had a googy discharge, what does that mean, it never happen before and on top of that i have not taking my birth control pills in almost 3 weeks and we dont use condoms (link)
Could be his cum


Hi...

My friend smokes pot a lot and he invited me to come to his house this weekend and smoke with him. I've been playing it off this entire time and haven't told him that I've never smoked a joint before. It's kind of embarrassing to just tell him that it's new to me though.

I'm a little iffy on the whole issue. I don't know what to think of it. Should I smoke pot with him? It can't hurt to right? (link)
Dont do it sweetie follow my advice and you'll thank me later. Any drug's will ruin your life you'll see that in a couple years if those people still smoke they will probably be on the street or involved in bad things or in a ratty disgusting drugee house. You want to live a nice full wonderful life and drugs wont make that happen.....EVER. Neither will alchohol.


18/m
I really want to get a tattoo, but I can't think or find the right type of symbol. I m joining the airborne in a few months so i want something that wont piss off any drill instructers. Also i want it to revolve around death or dying. If anybody knows any latin that means something along those lines or knows where on the web i can find some pictures off tats like that then by all means please let me know. (link)
Well I think you should actually wait because if you get it to young then you will probably regret it. So you should always wait for your first tatoo until your at least 25.




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