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something happened between us..
18F.
this will probably be long but PLEASE bare with me, i will return the favor to all who help!
so i met this amazing guy about two months ago. i've never met a guy whose treated me so well, EVER. i could go on and on about how happy i was. we haven't done anything sexual either, which i like about him. well then something happened, and out of no where his mood seemed to change. he doesn't really text me anymore, last time i really talked to him was monday night and i was happy because i was the first person he wanted to see when he got home from washington that night, but i couldn't go over there. well then we had a conversation and i think i might have said something that pissed him off here was our convo
MONDAY NIGHT:
him: someday i'll be making millions playing hockey so it's okay that i am constantly playing
me: well then are you gonna buy me a house since i'm so special ;) (and i was joking, obv)
him: maybe....
me: well fine then
him: Ok
me: i think someone needs to go to bed..
him: ok bye
me: ok what the hell nick, whats wrong with you?
him: i don't know maybe i am just tired, sorry.
me: yeah well you know i've been going through alot and i thought talking to you would help me but i dont know now ..
him: woah calm down don't freak out
me: i'm not freaking out you're the one who started acting weird in the first place ..
and he never said anything back after that.
well then thursday i end up texting him asking if he will take me to the driving range when i get back from vacation because i know he loves golf and could help me and all he said back was yep and i said well you don't have to .. and then no response and thats the last i heard from him..
i don't know whats up with him! now monday i'm leaving for hawaii for 10days so i won't be able to see him. i'm just worried i'm really going to lose him, especially to another girl or something. should i text him or leave it alone? i know i'm going to constantly be thinking about him and the whole thing all throughout vacation when i shouldn't be worrying about ANYTHING when in paradise ..
any suggestions on what i should do?? thanks!:)
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Well sweetie im sorry to tell you this but this issue has every sign of him being with another girl AND you. So Im sorry but he's probably cheating on you so you need to talk to this guy face to face so that he has to reply. And if he isnt man enough to talk to you then you should break up with him because it just isnt worth it.
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Whoa, I was having kind of the same issues but everythings fixed now. My guy was just really stressed out so maybe he's stressed? Just give him a day or two to gather his thoughts and text/call him and just be straight forward. I striaght out asked my guy if we were okay and it helped us grow closer because he started venting to me. Don't freak out. If he texts you before you text him then that would be even better. Make sure you don't constantly text him especially if hesitant reply the first time because then he'll start doubting whether or not you guys should even be friends. Basically, if your a blunt person you should talk to him and flat out ask him what's going on. Don't take thinks too serious though. I wish you guys the best of luck (: can you help me? [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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