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how do i get tight again..i want my stuff to be great again any ideas that will make it juss like new again (link)
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squeeze your kegal muscles inside your vagina. (the muscles you use to stop peeing and before you orgasm.) just squeez them, or for better effects, squeez harder n harder until you feel them sorta go up, like an elevator. this exercise is great because you can do it anywhere! even in class lol. because no one will know haha trust me.
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alright so my boyfriend is coming over here this weekend for the first time to spend the night.. and I'm suppose to get my period sometime this week, it sucks but would he be like freaked out to like sleep in the same bed as me? i mean i will obviously have to tell him since we wont be able to do anything like sexually besides me giving him oral.. well at least thats all i can think of does anyone else no what we could do since sex is out of the question? (link)
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oral is pretty much the most sexually charged thing youll be able to do..but there are always romantic things you could do..massages, watching a movie, cuddling :), hxc making out haha..etc. if you wear tampons you should be fine. when that happens to me, like last saturday, i just tell my boyfriend my "bitchy aunt is visiting." that way he knows, and we can talk about my "aunt" without being gross and freaking him out :). he shouldnt be too grossed out..if he is, tell him hes bein mean, bc thatll shut him up (and it is mean.) this usually works, hope i helped!
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What makes a guy think that a girl is good in bed? (link)
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wanting to please, and showing enthusiasm. either or, but both together earn major points
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Ok well we have to pick a greek myth person, monster or god for this project and as an added art part, half of it is based on a display! We have topretend as if it's like a museam and there's usally an artifact or display of some kind. I'm doing Medusa. Any ideas what what display I could create? Maybe a little on the cheap and affordable side..but if not that's ok I just want some helpful ideas. thanks! (link)
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heres what id do if i were you. get some colored modling clay (bout $10 for a good color-selection pack) and makea little clay medusa. then make 3 little clay guys that have been turned into stone. bc youk now theres that greek myth about the 3 guys who looked in her eyes and got turned into rock. haha i dont know if you'll use this but its cheap & creative, so yea. plus clays really easy to mess with, so yea. good luck! hope i helped. :)
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the last time that i had sex was around february 6th or 7th with my current boyfriend of the time of 5 months [we just broke up not too long ago] and he didnt use a condom. Recently, i just finished my period. [it started around the 23 or 24th and ended yesterday february 27th] However, for the past few weeks i have been feeling a little strange. my stomach hurts frequently and sometimes i throw up, my stomach always itches, my vision has been a bit blurry at times, and im always hungry and tired. in school i feel like i cant focus. is it possible that i am pregnant? or am i just scaring myself into thinking it? any help would be appreciated. thank you. (link)
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the same thing happened to me last year, but i wasnt. but its very very possible youre just scaring yourself. its very possible to be a hypochondriac when this happens. i cant say for sure, but since you just had your period its unlikley. when your pregnant you "spot," which means you only bleed for a day or two. the only way to know for sure is to get a pregnancy test. theyre about $10 at drugstores. hope i helped, good luck! :)
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How do you know when you're in love? (link)
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thats kinda hard to answer bc everyone has their own definition of love, but here goes. love is when you feel like you arent complete without that other person. when you see none of their faults, but their absolutley beautiful to you. youd do anything for them..etc. but heres another one i really like from the bible, although im really not religious at all... "love is patient. love is kind. it does not boast, it is not proud. it is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. love does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perserveres. love never fails." that pretty much defines it through & through. hope this helps :)
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My dog is throwing up blood as well as pooping it. This only started happening a week ago and has only happened twice within a week apart. She has a really weak stomach and throws up alot but never blood. She is an inside dog and only eats dog food the same as always. I dont want to take her to the vet because everytime I do that it costs a ton of money and last time I mentioned it they said it was just a weak stomach and they would put her on meds, I really dont want her on any meds for the rest of her life She is only 7 years of age and healthy otherwise. Is there any thing I can do or should I just break down and take her to the vet because it has been blood???? (link)
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i had a cat with the same problem...it DIED. it sounds like kidney failure, which is very serious and can be deadly (case and point my cat.) you need to take her to a vet ASAP...no matter the cost, or theres a good chance she might die.
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I think im getting an orgasm but i really dont know.
when my boyfriend licks my clit or when im in the shower and i put the shower head to a setting and put the water stream running on my clit it feels good to the point where if i kept doing it, i'd probably scream. but when i get to the point where i cant handle it anymore i start getting all squirmy and it feels really good.
but is that an orgasm? (link)
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haha the shower trick is timeless and works great. if your doin it then get "squirmy" and moan, then you most likely are having an orgasm. another way to tell in the shower, is after all that happens, if you feel very drained, like youre gonna fall down, or if you absolutley cant stand it when the water hits your clit again, then yes, you had an orgasm. hope this helped :) -ali 16/f
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these are expensive. $40 for 7 days! i hear they work but still.. can they undo the damage of not not teeth that have touched coffee/tea/teeth-staining beverages but years of bad/barely brushing teeth that have become yellowed? anyone know? (link)
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crest ultra-whitening toothpaste is alot less expensive...and works great. im pretty sure thats what its called. its in a medium sized darkish blue tube. good luck :)
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If I texted someone from another area code/state, would that cost more even though I have a texting plan? And would that number show up on the bill? (link)
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it shouldnt. thats only for calling. i text people from other states all the time, and its the same everywhere. so, no :)
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ok, i feel like i'm horrible at sex! whenever me & my boyfriend have sex his dick always comes out & we have to keep putting it back in and stuff, is that becaise he's too small or what? and also i don't really know how to move, when i do i feel like im doing it wrong.. help! (link)
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i used to have that problem, i dont think many people feel great at sex. it just comes with practice. you should move with him. when he thrusts in/down, you should raise your hips up to meet him. (when your on the bottom.) try bending one knee and keeping one straight with your legs spread; this should help with him popping out, which is kinda a mood-killer haha. hes probably poppin out bc hes so exited that he pulls back too far. but your moving with him, as mentioned above, should help alot with that too. good luck! -ali
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arrite i have really small boobs, i was wondering if anyone knew how to naturally make them grow, if thats even possible. i know that victorias secret used to sell this cream that would just soak into your skin and it would enhance them, well they discontinued it and i was wondering if theres anything like that. im not looking for pills or anything that my parents might have to be envolved with. please help :] (link)
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ok this has been around since like, my grandma was a teenager, but it really works! ive done it bc i have small boobs too xD ok what you'd do it.. get something squishy but that will still offer some resistence, and hold it up&out in front of you, so that your fingers are laced but your palms arent touching, and squeeze the object between your hands like that for as many repititions as you want. this works your pecs, the muscle right behind your boobs. so if that muscle gets bigger, your boobs will stick out farther. haha :) itll take a lil while to see results, like with any workout, but its worth it. its esp. good bc you can do it in bed at night if you cant sleep lol. hope this works for you, it has for everyone i know! good luck :) -ali
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Ok. the frist question is one of my friends has had a crush on one of our guys friends((Lets call my guy friend Marc and my friend who has a crush on him Rosa))Anyway,Rosa has had a crush on marc for who knows how long but the problem is rosa and all my other friends know marc is gay.Rosa was going to confess to marc last week but she was soo nervous to say anything to him that she had a chance to tell him she left running away leaving all her things with me.
A friend of ours who knows Marc really well((I'll call her kate))Kate told Rosa that if she tells marc he'll be all 'Ewwwww.....how gross' to her,and she do'sent want that((even though there is a high possibilty he might say that since he can be really cold))I just dont want her to feel hurt.Besides she also likes someone else and I tell Rosa that she should just get over marc.
But she is soo determined to tell him and I dont want marc hurting her feelings.
So should Rosa tell marc her feelings or should I try reasoning with her and tell her to get over marc and go for the other guy she likes?
My second problem((though I really dont think its a problem or not i dont know))on valentines day i told my crush that I liked him.But he said he only liked me as a friend and nothing else.But the whole time I confessed to him he was blushing,scratching his head,smiling,I was ready to yell in his face and tell him to stop doing that cause that made me even more nervous that i was.
It's already been about a week since I told him and he still somewhat stares at me like before i i confessed to him.I just dont know if what he told me was true or not cause maybe he does like and is just too scared to admit it or is just not ready for a realtionship,or maybe his parents dont let him have a girlfriend.I dont know but he still gives me the signs saying'I like you' but just not that frequently anymore since I told him.
I'm sorry for the longness,but I serously need help for my friend and me. (link)
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ok well first of all this girl needs to tell him how she feels. i fell in love with my best friends when i was 13 or 14 n i told him..and it turned out he was gay. it made things al ittle awkward at first, and i felt hurt, but now were best best friends again. so yea. second, this guy deff likes you, maybe he likes you so much hes scared. either than or he was just embarrassed. bc guys are just weird like that. but the first ones more likely. hope i helped :)) -ali
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Last time I had my period, is was heavy but this time, it isn't as heavy. I'm 15/F and I'm just curious if it's normal...I think it is. (link)
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yea its normal. like sometimes mine will be really heavy, then next time it wont. it just balences itself out like that. hope this helps! :) -ali 16/f
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how can i get an orgaism
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Stroke your clit till you get one, use a sex toy, if you dont have one use a carrot or something phallic shaped. While in the shower, aim one of the little streams of water at your clit. All of these work for me. Good luck :)
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Ok, so, I'm starting the birth control pill Yaz tonight. How long to I have to be on it before I can have sex without having to worry about becoming pregnant? [Even though I know there's always a chance. He'll have a condom too.] My doctor said it will work the night I start it :/ I've never heard of it working that soon. But, I have an irregular period, and, I was wondering if that has anything to do with how long I should wait. And, I was wondering if I have to take it at the same time every night. I had to be on birth control in sixth grade for my period, because I had it almost the whole month, and, my doctor said I had to take it at the same time every night, or else it wouldn't work. Thanks! (link)
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Yea deffinetly try to take it at the same time every night. It usually takes birthcontrol about a month to start working, but as long as you use a condom you should be fine. Just be extra careful the first month and a half or so. Good luck! :) -ali
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okay I need to find a household lube for masterbation I am a 16 year old girl can you use unscented lotion or vitamin e or aloe vera. Please tell me something I can use (link)
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Noo dont use lotion itll give you an infection. Use baby oil or vasaline. Baby oils the best. Hope this helps :)
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ican anyone give me tips on how to last longer when i have sex. (link)
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Wear 2 condoms, or while your having sex, pull out for a few seconds. But not all the way out lol. If all else fails use lidocain & 2 condoms. The lidocaine is called de-sensitizing cream. Its at drug stores. Hope this helps :)
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If a guy fingers your anus will his nails tear your ass hole? And will it hurt because my guy wants to have anal sex and I don't want him to hurt me (link)
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I had anal sex with my last guy, and i will tell you... It wasnt fun lol. If youre not sure about it, its probly not for u. Guys shudnt really have finger nails at all, but if he does he might tear u. Theres really no yes or no answer to that. If u do have anal sex, just be sure to use lots of water based lubricant and a condom that self-lubes. That help alot, even though itll still hurt. Hope this helps :)
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i have a teal dress for a formal at my school and i was wondering what color shoes to buy? i'm not really a fan of the silver shoes they have for prom but i really can't think of any colors that would look good with teal (link)
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Try black. Black matches everything. :) because usually at dances everyone takes their shoes off anyways
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