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ok so my english teacher is not really the
most liked person but i behave in her class because she will make your life a living hell if u piss her off!well i talked to her alot afta school because when shes not in one of her pissy moods its fun to chit chat with her!well i hav her as a homeroom and study hall teacher and my bf is in there to. we had a talent show and me&my bf were sitting really close 2-getha and he had his arm around me.well the security guard person that i talk 2sumtimes told him to take his arm 4rm around me.well then that teacher came and told my bf she needed to talk to him.well he comes bac and said that she said to lean up and she kept sayn that we wudnt be sittn so close if my dad was here(hes the principle).well the whole talent show she was jus starn at me the whole time.then afta the show she told me the same thing about how we wudnt be doin that stuff if my dad was there and shit.then she was like well if you dont want me to say anything to u guys then ok and i said no that wasnt the case.then when we got back to school in homeroom i didnt say anything to her which most times im really talkative and she said so i guess were on a non-speakn term and i was like no but she kept askn me the same question like she didnt here me so i just didnt say anything to her.well i got home and my dad was like someone told me that you were all layn on some boy and that i cant go anywhere which i never do anyway so it didnt really fase me!but i was jus really pissed that someone would tell.well the next day i asked her if she told and she said yes and that just really pissed me off.before that i kinda trusted her and i came and talked to her alot aND then shes gonna sit there and tell on me.and it wasnt even that i
important .she kept sayn that she told my dad that it wasnt anything to get overly upset with and hes a reall good kid but my dad doesnt care.jus the fact that he had his arm around me makes him overly upset.she keps telln me that if i wanna continue to giv her the cold sholdier thats me but she will still treat me the same way and she still loves me and all that otha shit.and she was like i only told him because i care about
u and all that crap which i didnt understand. well im still really really pissed and i dont know if i wanna talk to her again!! do you think i should give her a second chance or continue to keep to myself seeing as how she kinda betrayed my trust with her!! please help!!again sorry for being so long!!
be nice to her but dont trust her and make sure your on your gaurd cause what you did is totally acceptable and how many other couples has she seen together and i bet you anything she didnt call their parents and tell them! thats unfair and you shouldnt be treated differently or have to be held to a higher standard cause your dad is the princible.
best of luck
HiChick
okay so the last time i had sex was in february. Its now coming to the end of april. Ive missed my period since january or february won or the other dont remember but i think it was february. I havent had it since. Could i be preganent or is it the stressn about it thats making me miss my periods =/ has ne one else been through this?
ok well ya stress can make it late but should have eventually gotten it! there is a good chance ur pregnant so go get yourself a test!!!
Is it true guys think about sex every 7 seconds?
haha i never thought about asking this but now that someone mentioned it .....
ok so the answer is NO they dont think about it every 7 seconds but an average of every 7 seconds. like maybe they think about it pretty much all night and then throughout the day--well adding everything up and averging it=about every 7 seconds. also i would like to add its probably not SEX they think about that whole time but some form of it/ fantasies and stuff like that
hope i helped---please rate
HiChick
i'm 16/f..and don't really wanna hear about how i shouldn't be having sex but idk like what is an orgasm supposed to feel like? I don't know if i've had one or not..am i supposed to cum...like what happens?
kthanks
you'll definitely know when you have one-its an intense feeling and you kinda tingle afterwards and whenever you orgasm is when you cum
hope i helped
HiChick :)
My date is wearing a white tux and my dress is blue. We're coordinating our outfits. I went to the florists a couple days ago and I was trying to order a boutonniere but none of their flowers were blueish at all. So instead, the florist suggested that I just go with white carnations for the boutonniere but I'm afraid it won't stand out against his white tux. I can call them back and change the types of flower I want but I'm not sure if I should because the other colors they have are yellow and red and pink and such but I don't think it would match. What should I do?
i personally think red or pink (if he would wear it) would look nice too and i dont know how they handle there flowers and stuff but you can get a white flower blue by putting blue dye in its like pot cause the dye goes through the roots and stuff but im guessing the flowers arent in pots? or you can call around to somewhere else :)
Hope i helped
okay so me and my girlfriend like to mess around. but like when we start to get really into it she says she has to stop cuz her whole body just gets tickelish to the touch.
is this uncommon?
is there anything to do to prevent it?
her body probably just gets really excited and sensitive so her nerves are reacting to every touch and making it seem ticklish her tongue probably isnt ticklish tho...just makeout with her!! ;]
hi,
im 14 and my penis is 4.5 inchs hard. is this correct or is it small for my age.
its a little on the small side but will probably grow more when you are further in puberty and also it will keep growing for a couple years while you get older and even get smaller a little it changes over years
hope i helped :)
do emo kids get made fun of a lot?
yaa, a lot of the time they are just the butt of a lot of general jokes like not really using names but like the term 'emo'. basically because they are weird and stuff i kno some nice people who like wear black and stuff and they r cool and have friends but the 'emo' kids like are really dark and creepy and think bad things and stuff so they r just WEIRD. hope i helped :)
theres this sight:
http://www.bored.com/mysticalball/index.htm
how does it do it??!?!?
every single time i try it gets it right!!
very creepy.
so how does it do it?????????
well i have no idea how it does that but it got mine wrong it was one off but i didnt concentrate on it exactly and then i trie another time and it was really off but the one thing is the symbols are the same for many numbers so its probably matched up so that whatever numbers you do equal a number with one of those symbols but im not sure how they figured that out and programmed it that way because its very complicated to go through all that lol
hope i helped
HiChick :)
If you have oral sex are you still a virgin? or is sex, sex, or is it just something sexual because my friend said it's concidered half but that dosen't make any sense it's either your a virgin or your not.
depends on what view you want.
the Modern World's view is your a virgin until you have intercourse
the Biblical view is you are a virgin until you have intercourse but have had sex (aka not waited until marriage to have sexual relations) if you give a hj, bj, have sex or get fingered or eaten out before being married
hope i helped :)
I'm turning 16 in 30 days and I need to get in shape for my party so my dress doesn't make me look like a sausage hooker. I weigh 225 pounds right now. I know right seriously I'm a fat ass but I need help. I made up this plan to lose weight. I want to get down to 125, 130. So I also have a wedding in 60 days that I want to get toned up for. Here's my plan:
The days when I have off:
-Elliptical machine for 20 minutes.
-The Firm
-Tae-Bo
-Set of 50 push-ups.
-Set of 50 sit-ups.
-Ride bike for an hour.
-Lift small weights. (to tone my flabby ass arms)
The days when I have class:
-Elliptical machine for 20 minutes.
-The Firm
-Set of 50 push-ups.
-Set of 50 sit-ups.
-Ride bike for half an hour.
-Lift small weights.
Okay so then I like planned out what I would eat and stuff.
For breakfast I would eat a bowl of berry burst cheerios which is 100 calories, and a banana. Then at around 10:30 I would eat a cup of yogurt which is 170 fucking calories. For lunch (on my days off at least) I would have a slice of Elio's pizza which is a lot of calories I bet. So then I would have some grapes between dinner and lunch and then for dinner have a salad. I mean I can't do this when I have class because I can't be like oh hey guys im gonna eat in the middle of class, you know?
What I'm asking is is this a good plan? I reallyyyy need to lose this weight. THANK YOU!
that sounds great and everything but im gonna be honest-you are not going to lose 100 pounds in a month. its physically impossible. make your goals A LOT smaller and more week by week. like 3 pounds the first week, 5 the second, 3 more the next week, 5 the last week. or something like that. you will get dissapointed if you expect yourself to go down like 7 sizes in a month. it just cant happen but try your hardest and you will lose weight-just slower than you were hoping. hope i helped :)
well okay i kissed this guy i like yesterday and it was a weird kiss, like i dont know if i did it right or not. but then after we were like playing footsie. haha idk if it means anything but generally what does playing footsie mean?
playing footsie is when you play with each others feet like touching and teasing and pushing each others feet and usually it means they like you, and/or are flirting with you its really fun and cute!! :) hope i helped
I'm 16, soon to be 17 in june, and I don't like tampons. Im scared that I'll get that TSS, and everytime I tried to wear one, it still bleed onto my panties, and i hate the feeling when taking them out. Is it normal or weird to like pads over tampons at my age?
its normal but i do encourage you to keep trying. use plastic and since you keep bleeding through get a bigger size. it will go in if you need it just try it dont get worried or anything. i didnt believe it when everyone said they are super easy but they are so ya i think you would like it a lot better. most of the time girls say they dont like them cause they havent really given them a chance. and wear a pantiliner on your heavier days if you are worried about bleeding through. i definitely suggest you try some different tampons and find what works best but its ok to use pads too. also they come in handy during the summer when you want to swim haha hope i helped :)
HiChick
I used to feel I was a very strong minded person, now I realize everyones problems are the same, just they come out in different ways. You see, I was a confident person, maybe I still am, but my life just isn't going right. Anybody who looks at me sees my once was confidence. I walk with confidence, and my countenance is confident. I look more confident then I feel at times, though I usually feel confident, when I feel unconfident, I still look confident. I have a lot to be proud of, and I'm taught to not feel like dirt for anybody, or to let my sadness show. See, I'm 14, a cheerleader, I was the freshman homecoming princess- only 1 freshman girl got on court-me, and I'm pretty according to many. I get good grades, boys chase after me, my family history- like my ancient and recent bloodline is very accredited. I'm not famous or anything, but my bloodline is like being related to the queen of 1/4th of a developing country. My problem is that I'm loosing it. I'm loosing my friends because of a pursuasive bitch- my "Friends" know i wont get mad and start drama if they ditch me, but if they ditch her, she'll start somthing. They all hate me and sneak around about it in the most indirect obvious bitchy way, and the gossip is horrible. I'm gossiped about a lot, people say its just jealousy, now I don't know. Lots of my friends are changing for the worst, so we're separated, and the good ones, I loose contact with in ways I can't control. I live under strict rules because im the only girl in my nuclear family, and my extended family females, especially my age have obvious issues. I feel as if my issues are worse than all theirs, but hidden very well. Thats just the way I am. Though I am the skinniest girl in my family, I'm not skinny, I'm not overweight, but I have strech marks. My hair is ugly to me, my grades aren't good enough, I'm not allowed to date or go out with my friends ever, so they get mad,forget about me, and the boys who liked me turned on me, they harrass me verbally, and it hurts. It makes me want to avoid them, not go to school on certain days- which I can't do, and lowers my confidence. People think I'm stuck up, and I feel like I don't have friends, I dont know who my real friends are, and my parents just say "I told you so." My family causes me grief, and people don't get me like they used to. I feel disgustingly hairy and ugly, and I smell bad nomatter how much I bathe (daily, lather untill i turn white), deoderize and purfume myself. I'm booring and nobody wants to talk to me. My parents will never let me get help. People point out my flaws such as these, yet people who claim to like me say opposite. I don't even know what i think about myself, and I dread school all the time. I sit with only 1 girl at lunch half the time. I don't know what to do anymore-I usually know the answers. I'm not suicidal, a cutter, anerexic or bulemic, but bipolar disorder, and ocd aren't foreign in my family. Lots of my family seems to have a facade of high self esteem when they really dont, and i think depression runs in the family, along with excessive stupidity.When I was 6 through 10, family life was hard, and when was 10 and 13, life wasn't easy. Now, things are going wrong. I don't know what to do, and what can help me, without my family freaking out. Big things are expected of me. I used to be really religious, then it drifted away, I guess with good times, and now im not as on fire for God as I used to be, this worrys me, I hope the devil isnt trying to work his way into my life.If you can help in any way, thanks, but if you even took time to read this, thanks. Just your opinion on my situation is fine. My family isn't full of good listeners. Thanks again.
Well, i know high school is an ugly place-im there too. haha but you have to find the friends that really love you for you. i found mine at my church youth group. first off i encourage you to go to just sit down and talk to God about everything that is going on. the amazing thing is if you keep asking him for something and expect Him to come through for you He will. i had awful friends so my mom told me to pray and i prayed all summer and then i found the most amazing friends this year. He was clearly working in my life. Try to go to Him and ask for comfort and help. Tell Him you feel lost and need Him. He never left you but hes been waiting for you to come back. i know you probably are thinking "i already pray and go to Church its not like i gave up God' but there is a big difference between just believing in Him and living for Him.
God is what you need right now. Go to Him and everything else will follow. If you feel ugly take some time to pamper yourself-get your nails done or make a home spa-do something to make you feel pretty. also to help you feel happier and more confident make a list of everything you can thinkthat you love about yourself and make it at least 25 or so things. try and see how many you can get! think positively as much as you can. i know its hard but if you do you will start to feel happier and more confident and upbeat. maybe join a new club or try a new grup of people at you school and try branching out to other people. no offense but i bet the nicer people at your school arent the popular ones.
It will be hard but you can do it. And yes the devil is trying to get at you so go to God and ask for protection. dont think your a bad person but when someone does one thing wrong the devil goes and tries to get them to keep doing thingds against God. Everything WILL get better. I promise and God promises. If you need anymore help just ask and you may want to look into depression if you think you really are. earlier this yr i thought i was but i was just making myself depressed by focusing on the bad things in my life. i hope i helped and that everything works out well
HiChick
I'll be turning 17 in 11 days, and my boyfriend of almost half a year (our year and a half is the day after my birthday), needs some help as to what to get me. I really don't care about it being a surprise for me, as long as he feels confident with giving me the gift. What are a few things I can hint towards when he asks me what I want? I already have a necklace, earrings, and a small ring, so preferably no jewelry. Just practical stuff really.
maybe just spend a day with just the two of you guys, or you could go shopping together and when you see something you like tell him, or tell him to get you a bath set like with bath beads, bath scrub, shower gel, candle, soap, etc. or maybe ask for a shirt or outfit or hoodie or idk how intimate you are with him but maybe you guys could go look at lingerie together and he could buy you some?? thats a gift he would be ecstatic to buy you! haha have fun!! :)
HiChick
i took a practice sat a couple of days ago and it was graded just like the sat's are and i got a 1510. is that good? average? bad? i really dont know
thanks:)
http://businessmajors.about.com/od/satgmatpreparation/a/averageSATscore.htm
13/f
(please dont comment on my age)
I just got a boyfriend, but he's in a different school than me, and he's also a year older.
we really like each other, but do you think its realistic that we could stay together for a while? we live pretty close together (bout a 20 minute bike ride), and we take the bus together.
So do you think it might work out?
(im going to his school next year)
Thanks:)
YA!! unless you keep questioning it??? just saying but no you guys should be FINE :)
hope i helped
HiChick
can someone help me add more?
mustard, wine, coffee, soda, etc
berries, anything with rich color like teas and other drinks mostly
hope i helped :)
HiChick
i have cheer tryouts on tuesday- 5 days away. i had an apicoectomy (surgery to fix a failed root canal) 2 days ago, and im doing really well actually (for now)! my stitches will dissolve any day now. do you think i should be ok enough to do tryouts only a week after the surgery if im careful? dentist said i should be good, but hes not for sure. my tryouts do include flips and stuff by the way. what do you think? is it safe to do if im careful? ive worked so hard to get my skills refined for tryouts, i would be devastated if i cant do it because of my surgery, but my health does come first. opinions? thanks! i promise to rate you great for answering! =]
I think you should be fine and i mean its your mouth and its a minor surgery and generally your mouth doesnt affect like you legs haha. be careful and if you feel like something is wrong then dont push yourself go rest and get checked out but you should be fine. be careful ad dont push yourself too hard and you should do great-good luck! :) also notify your coaches because of your meds and try calling your dentist to ask about the medicine and how it could affect you and also just to make sure your OK :)
HiChick
how much do event planners make a year? any kind of event planner. vacation planners, wedding planners, party planners, anything. what's their salary?
also, how much do travel agents make a year?
thanks.
Event Planner
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The median expected salary for a typical Meeting/Event Planner in the United States is $52,163
(found that online)
http://eventplanning.about.com/od/eventcareers/qt/salary.htm
Wedding Planner
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http://eventplanning.about.com/od/eventcareers/qt/salary.htm
Travel Agents
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http://www.bls.gov/oco/ocos124.htm
http://ezinearticles.com/?Home-Travel-Agent:-Will-I-Be-Able-To-Live-On-My-Home-based-Travel-Agent-Salary?&id=27139
hope i helped and if you have more questions just ask :)