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Hi i'm a teenage girl who has given up on relationships and everything else in life.


Before i commit suicide i want to have a hookup with someone.


How do I go about getting a hookup with a guy who won't hurt me or abuse me?

thx

I understand that you probably won'r pay mind to people who are going to say 'don't kill yourself'. But you have to understand that they are right, you shouldn't kill yourself just because you gave up on life. Know that you are giving up on something that is RIGHTFULLY YOURS .. your life. Anyways, if you wanna hook up with someone go to a party or a club, somewhere where people love to have fun.

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i really would like some new songs for my ipod rap and hip hop only none of these

pop lock and drop it-huey
i tried-bone thugs ft. akon
rock ya hips-crime mob
freakum dress-beyonce
green light-beyonce
upgrade u-beyonce
go getta-young jeezy
this is why im hot-mims
buy u drank-t pain
throw some d's-rich boy
stunnin like my daddy-birdman ft lil wayne
or outta my system

this is the way i live - baby boy
lip gloss - lil mama
umbrella - rihanna
I Tried - Bone Thug N Harmony ft. Akon

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are there any songs about struggling with an eating disorder and not feeling pretty and feeling alone?

unpretty by TLC

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okay well this is the 7th time me and my boyfriend have gone out over a period of about two years now.the last time i broke up with him because he never talked to me. we're in the same school but hes a year older than me but our grades share everything. i saw him everyday but he never talked to me so i dumped him and went out with this other kid like 3 days later and we dated for like 5 months.and i broke up with him to date my ex. anyways. i feel like we're back at stage one. but worse. he not only ignores me at school, but online, never answers my texts, and whenever i ask him to hang out he either says ok he'll ask and then never does, pretends to forget and hangs out with other girls and stuff. and it really pisses me off but i try not to show it and when i DO talk to him, i can't help but be a bitch because he pisses me off. i really like him alot, he's my everything. by the way, i'm in 7th grade and hes in 8th. what should i do? i dont want to break up with him as like a wake up call because that wont do any good, i know for sure. any other ideas? sorry this is so long.

ppshh my ex was the exact same way. dump him hun! he's not shy!!!!!!! i mean he talks to other girls right? so why can't he talk to you? arrgghh whatevs. just dump him, you don't deserve him, you need someone who treats you much MUCH better. trust me babe i was in the same situation, mine was ignoring me too and i felt like a worthless piece of crap cause that's not the way you treat your girlfriend. what an ass! hope i helped!

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hey,
i have a boyfriend but he doesnt really act like my boyfriend. What do i do?

Love,
Help Me

Dear help me,

I was in the exact situation as you are. Unfortunately, mine ended up with us breaking up. But as for you, i suggest finding out why he's acting that way. You can either ask him directly or get a friend to ask him but make sure he doesn't know that you asked a friend or else he'll get suspicious. Once you figure out why he's not acting like a boyfriend around you, try to solve it. I'd like to help you out but i don't know why he's not acting like boyfriend. One thing i know for sure is if he continues to treat this way for a really long time i suggest ending your relationship. I know it's hard but this is what also happend to me. He wasn't acting like a boyfriend and everyone thought so too. It really hurts because a boyfriend SHOULD act like a boyfriend and he's not acting like one right? It would only bother you and make you wonder why he's treating you that way and you'll end up thinking about it all the time and asking yourself if you're doing anything wrong. If you do ask him directly make sure you're both calm and not mad or anything because if you do and you ask him "why aren't you acting like a boyfriend", he'll get really aggrevated and you're fight will end up into a bigger one and soon end your relationship. I really hope i helped you because i don't want any other girl to go through the same thing i did, hopefully i helped save you from getting hurt or something. =]] Take care and let me know what happens ok?

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are most guys a boob man or an ass man?

i'm not a guy either but most of the guys i know are into ass more.

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who won the American idol?

for this season? it's not over yet.

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Do fat people get boyfriends//girlfriends?
Cause the basic trend is dieting your butt off and you rarely see 'fatties' getting bf//gfs.
I'm pretty fat will i get a bf? I mean I hve faith I'll get married and stuff but will i get a bf who will appreciate me?

most definetly! sweetie i used to think that too but it may be hard to believe but there are actually people out there that aren't shallow. i know i'm not really skinny, alright fine i think i am fat lol which is true because i have the fats to prove it but whatever you know, i have a bf and i used to think that nobody would go out with me. don't worry about i though cause this isn't even half the stuff that you should worry about.

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14/f ok so my bf like won't make a flippin move!! its been a month and a half and he hasnt even kissed me yet. and im not that into making the first move and we have talked about him making a move cause im alot shyer then him ...im like pretty much known as the shy girl unless your my close friend then i never shutup and im that way with him so yea. but anyways do you have any other casual ideas of trying to get him to make a move cause i have tried everything.. ive talked to him about it, i had his friend talk to him about it and i have no idea what else i should try please help!!

you're seriously my TWIN!! i was in the EXACT same situation. he's probably more shyer than you are and that's a sign that he really likes you. so my bf was really shy and wouldn't make the first move with me either. i'm sure you two haven't held each others hands either? well if you haven't i suggest YOU make the first move. like when you're walking with him walk really close to each other then tell him, "give me your hand, why are you so shy?" in a really flirty jokey way you know like you're playing around and then grab his hand. that's what i did and it worked for me. hope i helped! message me if you need more help.

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i don`t think this is really advice or whatever, but what does eto na naman tayo mean? it`s tagalog, or philipino or whatever.

it's saying like oh here we go again.

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is there a phobia of getting addicted to anything? if so what is it called and any info would be nice. thanx

hmm i don't think there is a phobia of getting addicted to anything but try googling it

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does anyone know the name of the song and band of this song. it says''cause i got you'' a lot in it in a kind of munchkin voice i can't find it. please help me.

don't matter by akon .... that's my theme song i love it!!

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Okay i really want that emo look. Can anybody help me? I am male, 14, and 6feet tell. thanks a ton

tight jeans, vans, && shoulder length hair that also covers half your face .. oh yeah

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I'm going snowboarding like without a friend tomrrow, and i'm kind of hoping to run into a hott guy. however, im so bad at like making the first move to talk to him. especailly while boarding if hes with friends. Whats a good way to aproach him, or even make him want to come to me?

if you're good at snowboarding then impress him
if you're not then kinda flirt with him by accidentally bumping into him
or have him teach you how to snowboardhave fun
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hey i'm going to middle school next yer and i'm freaking what's going to happen between me and my friends. Are boys going to start likeing me and those school dances. I can't take it i'm so scared what's going to happen to me help please.

i'm in 8th grade and middle school is one of the best experiences in my life! now, high school I'M SCARED lol anyways don't worry about it, whatever happens just happens. you'll meet some of the best people in the world who you'll keep in touch with til high school and you'll also meet well bitches. now boys, wow, they'll be a lot of cuties and you're probably gonna have a lot of crushes and stuff. lol in middle school, you're kinda getting ready for high school and at first it might be awkward for the changes but once you look back on it you'll be like boy middle school was a sitch. but it might depend on you're experience with middle school but you know what .. just go to school, meet some friends, flirt with some boys, argue with a few bitches, do your schoolwork, AND HAVE FUN!!

good luck

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ok well theres this new kid in school and he is REALLY CUTE!!! He stares at me in all the classes we have together...
I really want to get to know him and maybe go out with him somtime.
But the thing is he has the same last name as me which makes it kinda weird doesnt iT???
Do you think it would be really weird??!?!?!?

actually, i think that's pretty cute
&& you're last name is really common so it's not weird

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how can I get smooth lips and get rid of the lines?chapstick does not work.

i would suggest blistex

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wat hair color will look good on a filipina girl with black eyes and yellowish beige color of face?

haha i'm filipina too
my hair is currently black .. my natural hair color
but i think getting red or more close to burgundy highlights would be good.
i don't think us filipinas work well with our whole hair dyed a different color so i would stick highlights.
As for the color of the highlight you can get either burgundy like i said before or a brownish-blondish color.
Hope i helped!

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hey...did anyone notice...that the new "in" thing is acting ghetto? last year,it wasnemo rock whatever....now its ghetto...what the heck? why cant people be original and now follow the crowd? how can i not follow ANY crowd? everyone in my school follows the trends...and im just there,i want to stick out ina good way...any way i could do that? thanks...also...are you with me on this?

actually no .. ghetto as soo last year. emo is definetly in now, atleast it is here in Queens, i live in New York soo i would know about the whole ghetto thing. but emo is starting to rub off people here

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In history we have to make a music video.

My topic is Racism and i need 11 titles for songs.

Like titles that have to do with Racism (made up ones) Not actual songs already. I really dont know what to have the titles called but if you guys could give me a few ideas.

&& i have to use a song that is going to be the song for the music video.

I have

In the flesh - PInk floyd

Ghetto Gospel - tupac shakur ft. Elton John

Which of the two songs would be better?

omg .. GHETTO GOSPEL .. yupp definetly!!

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