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I dont really know what to say about myself. But, I guess I'll just say some stuff about me.

I'm 15, and my name is Melissa.

I'm 5,4 and 105 pounds!

I have brown hair, green/gray/gold eyes, LONG legs, and freckles! But not alot of freckles...more like a bandit mask of them. Lol, like in the shape of a raccoon mask.

I go to CAT pickering, and while there i take Culinary Arts. Then after that, I go back to Downingtown East High School for the rest of the day. I LOVE IT!! I only take like, THREE classes a day and i'm in tenth grade!

I love all music, except for creepy country, (no offense to all you country lovers out there!) and I love to draw!!

I'm not really punk, preppy, goth, or anything like that...i'm more like....me? lol, ANYWAY,

That's all I have to say!

If you need help, feel free to ask me. I dont mind answering your ?'s! Or if you just want to talk, my AIM name is Samarawntstoast. IM me if you want to!

Peace!

~Melissa~
E-mail: tdrod4@comcast.net
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Age: 15
AIM: samarawntstoast
MSN: firefairy141@hotmail.com
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OMG! MELISSA! HELP ME! LOOK AT MY QUESTIONS! AND HURRRYY!!! *is feeling mental pain*!!!

*Jill* (link)
Okay


Hey look my Best friend is a guy and i'm a girl
And we have been going over eachothers houses and playin video games and i think i like him but how can i know if he likes me any idias. He is one of those Sk8er Boyz thnx :-) (link)
Maybe you should just ask him if he likes you...OR you could get a really close friend to go up to him and say "i've noticed that you and (insert your name here) are hanging out alot. Do you like her?" and then go from there.

Hope I Helped!


~Melissa~


well i was wondering is there a way to get rid of under eye bags if you know what i mean?? (link)
Put ice under your eyes, or freeze a spoon and use that! It also works for hickeys!

Hope I helped!!!


~Melissa~


I'm a seventh grader and I was just wondering whether or not i should try out for the Baseball team or the Soccer team? I'm 4.7, 75 pounds, and i'm excellent as a goalie. But I love baseball just as much. What should I do??

I rate High!!

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hnmmmmm, well, i think that you should really go out for whichever one tickels your fancy!!!

Hope I helped!

~Melissa~


when i was in 6 grade i went to a skool called AG...and then in 7 grade i switched skools....its hard for me but ive made a few friends...but friends arent the problem....in 6 grade i played violin for the AG orchestra...and at my new skool im on the orchestra also...but at AG i had a lot of friends in the orchestra and there was a bout 30 people in the class... but at my new skool...the orchestra only has 12 people and guess what...theyre geeks....its making me not like playing the violin because the class is full of geeks and its making me feel like a geek...but i wanna keep playing violin...what do i do

signed,
~confused girl~

ps....please help me...i dont know what to do...im begging you...i need your help (link)
You shouldn't worry about what everyone else thinks, and if you love to play the violin you should keep playing it!!

Hope I Helped!

~Melissa~


What's the best kinds of women's deordorant that smells good? And don't say Lady Speed Stick, because I hateee that. Thanks. (link)
Dont ever use secret!! *hisses* The best type is called ARRID. Its got really nice scents!


Hope I Helped You Out!


~Melissa~


Like when i'm with my boyfriend I sometimes tend to close my eyes and doze off. When I open my eyes back up my boyfriend tells me I look so peaceful when I sleep. My exboyfriend said the same thing when I was dating him.
-Is it normal for guys to like watch girls when they sleep? [not in a creepy way]
-& why do you think they use the word peaceful? (link)
Lol, maybe they just really like to watch you sleep. You never know, i mean if you really do look peaceful when you sleep, then maybe it's just a nice time for a boyfriend to just kinda...you know...look at you. like your face i mean!!!! (oh my, that came out all wrong) Ummm...what I'm trying to say is, maybe they just like you that much! @_@ even i'm confused....sorry.



~Melissa~


I am obsessed with Lindsay Lohan, seriously, its not good, how can i fix this (link)
Take her face and put it on...*dramatic backround music* GEORGE DUBYA BUSH! *everyone screams and runs away* NOT THAT NOOOOOOOO!

Heehee, sorry for the joking, hope it helped! Or at least made you laugh!

~Melissa~


there's this boy i see around a lot, but i've never worked up the courage to talk to him, i'm not very good with strangers. he notices me too, and at once point early on he made an attempt to talk to me but i shot it down accidentally. i didn't realize it at the time but now i do, and i hate myself for it.

anyway, i really really like him, and i know some of his friends but not closely. how do i make it so i can meet this boy, and talk to him? (link)
How bout you hang out with the friends he's really close too. Say, "Lets go see a movie!" and you never know, he may come too!

Hope i helped!


~Melissa~


Ever since I got back to school (middle school now) I have changed. I mean by my attitude. My mom has threatend beatin the shit out of me if I don't stop being a smartass. I didn't even know I was one. Am I gonna stay like this or am I gonna change back to my old self. :( (link)
When you get into middle school, people start to change. It just happens. You might be a smartass all three years of middle school and then totally change during highschool! I know i did!

Hope I Helped You!


~Melissa~


This isnt a random question but I couldnt find a specific catergory. Well today i found out that somebody i went too school with in 8th grade hung herself. I didnt know her well but i cant stop thinking of her... and no offense but she also had an attitude issue and i feel really horrible because everybodys all like IMING everyone and crying and im not... i feel HORRIBle about myself.. is this wrong of me?? i mean i feel bad but what am i too do? and i selfish or something (link)
Your not selfish at all! It's not your fault that this girl felt the need to kill herself, and you didn't even know her that well. If she had been like your BEST FRIEND EVER now then you'd problably be upset. But she wasn't even your friend. So dont worry about it.


Hope I Helped!

~Melissa~


I have songs downloaded on limewire and they are all in my Library. Where do i go about to burn the songs onto a CD?

( i have mediaplayer if that helps )

What is the area thats down below on the library page? Its called the MP3 list i believe. (link)
...Um, hold on, i'll get back to you, with a really good answer.


Sorry!!!! It'll only take like an hour or two!


what does a tease mean? (link)
A tease is someone who flirts and stuff with guys, but then refuses to do anything with them.

Hope I Helped!


~Melissa~


hi i am a guy who shaves his legs. i have recently started to get red bumps on my legs after shaving and they stay there for a long time, they also sting alot too. is this normal? if not what do i need to do to make it stop? thanks for helping and i didnt put this on here to be made fun of i put it here to get a straight answer nothing more. (link)
That can happen if you are shaving to hard. Like if you are pulling on the razor to fast, then it rips the skin as well as the hair. you just have to make sure that you use shaving cream and dont pull as hard.

Hope I Helped!

~Melissa~


im getting my eyebrows done for the first time and im really scared that its going to hurt. what should i do to prevent pain.. beside putting milk on afterward?? please hurry (link)
Dont worry at all about the pain. I just got them done for the first time last week and it doesm't really hurt! It just feels like, a little warm at first, and then it just feels like a little tug on your face. The only part that kinda hurts is the top.

Hope I helped!


~Melissa~


okkkk im a freshman (high school) and theres this guy whos a junior (in high school)..ive hung out wit him before and talk to him a lot online..but now all of a sudden my parents are like "you cant talk to him, you cant see him...etc" ughh i REALLY like him..and my parents dont no him like i do..and they dont want to no him and said they wudnt want to meet him..!! AHHH so ive been sneakin around..just to see him and its getting harder and frustrating!!! oh my god i really like him and we want to be gf/bf..but i dont no cuz im not suppose to see him!!! AHH
HELLPPP!!!!!!! PLLLLZZZ!!!!


ps...homecoming is coming up and he wants to take me but my moms like no you cant go wit him..but its either i go wit him or i meet him there! but they wont listen! ahhh HELP!




I RATE HIGH!
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*sigh* Sorry to tell you this, but alot of parents are like that. Maybe you could make a surprise meeting. Come home with him one day when your parents are home and just pretty much force them to talk. You may never know, he could make a really good impression.

Hope I Helped!


~Melissa~


16/m

i need a way to get back at my friend. The dam SOB is stealing everygirl that i manege to hook up with, this is drivin me mad!!!. its like he doing it on purpose. I meet a girl, i go out with her, then outa nowhere she meets him and she wont talk to me and the next day i see em 2 hangin out or what ever. I WONA FRIKIN KILL THE DUDE!!!! and i would if only i didnt know him for like 5 years.

any help/advince? (link)
Confront your friend. Ask him if he is doing this on purpose. If it turns out he is, ask him not to, or maybe he's just not a very good friend and you shouldn't hang out anymore. Or if he isn't doing it purposly, ask him to be more conceinse (sp?) of the fact that he's doing it.

I really hope I helped!


~Melissa~


well is it weird that im a girl that thinks its better to have guy friends. cause there not all about drama and are really funny. well a bunch of people say that cuz im nice and i hang out with guys that means i like love them or something. and i really dont feel that way about them.
what do you think
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I think that its perfectly okay for a nice girl to hang out with guys. No offense to some girls, but guys can be alot more fun. Their not afraid to do certain things, that girls refuse to do! You should hang out with who ever you like, and no-one should tell you diffrent!


Hope I Helped!


~Melissa~


ok so theres a kid at my school that picks on other people because they cant spell good. hes all like.. you'll never meet anyone if you cant spell.. but we know its not true but no one will stand up to him. what should we do? (link)
Sooner or later someone is going to have to stand up and tell this kid to "sit down and shut up. No body cares what you think, so just keep it to yourself" It may seem scary, but if everyone sees one person stand up to him, than hopefully everyone will get the confidence boost and stand up to him as well.

Hope I helped!

~Melissa~


I'm like an A size bra becuzz I'm pretty skinny for my age, but it's porportionate to my body and I'm not undernourished, or underwieght. Only thing is, since I have such small boobs, they should be round, and they usually appear to be in the mirror. When I look down, it's a whole other story... they look pointy and gross and stuff...... is it maybe the angle I'm looking? I know this is a really wierd question .... but what the hell. (link)
Its probably the angle of which your looking at. If your looking in the mirror and they look round to you, then thats what the probalby look like to other people!


Hope I Helped!


~Melissa~




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