Okay. I have no clue what to do for my boyfriend or even if I should get him something for our 1 month anniversary! can someone please give me Idea's. He likes Sports, and Just the Guy kind of stuff..lol
thanx
hi ... u could get him a sportcheck gift certificate if he likes sports. On our first month anniver. I got mine a book (Cuz, he liked to read).
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hey well me and my ex broke up b/c i cheated and the guy i cheated on him with i go out with now and i dont want to go out with him but i do i am so confuesedand my ex we are friends and he still tells me he loves me and wants to be with me and i told him my ex that i couldnt wait for him for ever well today he was flirting with me and telling me he loves me he says he forgives me but how can he i done him wrong anyways but that dude i am with now is older than me late teens early 20's and i am 16 fixing to e 17 and i dont want to be with him i do but i dont what should i do what if he asks me back out i love him so much and he tells me he misses me but how can i do this plz help
nikki
Nikki, i think u should go back to your ex since you said he still loves u. Maybe he's the best guy for you now. As for the other guy, tell him u don't really like him and you want to remain friends - he's mature enough to understand. I hope it works out for ya
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okay..this is going to be long, but i really need help. Ok, my (old) best friend is bipolar. She is really a hard-to-handle person. I dont know what to do cuz lately weve been getting into fights because im so sick of her bitchy-ness. I have no clue on what to do with her, shes like, starting stuff with her one other friend (cuz thats all she has) with me, so now were fighting too. This girl also walks around and shes all quiet and she thinks shes ugly and EVERYONE is out to get her-when really nobody knows her. If she were louder and had more friends-i think shed be happier. What should i do? PLEASE HELPP!!
I think it's time you need to sit her down and tell her exactly how she's actin'. If it gets worse, adn you know her parents(guardian)tell them how 'she thinks' everyone is out to get her and all. Its not right for her health to be thinking that way- its lack of (if not low self-esteem) self-esteem Meanwhile, you continue to be the good friend that you are. Hopefully, she'll change.
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I know this is long but please help me!! Here is the thing my friend and I got gotten into a fight, (he's goin to be 15 in July and I just turned 15 at the end of March, he lives a few mins from me (just on the other side of our town..he goes to a Catholic school and I go to a public school) the only thing it was it was mostly my fault, I take the blame for starting the whole thing...he was pissing me off and my friend convinced me to call him back in mid-december and ask him to come over so we could talk, he refused and it made the problem even worse, he didn't get why I wanted to do it face to face and no over the phone or AIM. He had swimming so he wouldn't be at youth group on Thursday till Feb. I saw him once since I last saw him in November and that was in January at our friend's father's wake. The whole time we were there, when I looked at him I could see that he was looking at me, I was just to pissed off to look at him or even talked to him so I was trying to focus on my friend then him so which I did. Till this day I still haven't seen him since then. There were nights were I would be up till 2 AM thinking about him and the whole situation we gone threw. We started talking again in Mid-March, we talk here and there and our friendship is getting back to what it used to be. Last night I was thinking about 2 of my friends and some reason I started thinking about him again and the whole problem. I am confused after a month of talking again and all, why am I am thinking about this all again? We both agreed we would drop the whole thing and forget about it, but for me I feel that it is hard to do because even if he doesn't see it I still feel it there and that it's something that I want to just get over for good. I am starting to miss him since its been almost 5 months since I last saw him, I should be seeing him this Thursday but I am not sure. I told him that I may not be the same when he last saw me, and he asked "why?".. I said "because it's going to feel akward when I see you because if everything that we went threw and how I haven't seen you in so long"..he said "I shouldn't feel that way towards him because he doesn't" and that actually got me to smile for once..to the point of how I was in a good mood for once since November. I was tempted to call last night and I had my friend help me (the whole who suggested I called him back in Decmeber) and so I called him last last night just to say "Hi, Whats up?"..but there was no answer. I figure I would do it again tonight, but I am not sure. What should I do? I want to write another poem but I can't get to the right words out. I guess I can only write when I am pissed not when I am in a good mood? Someone help me please!!
heyyyy!!!!! COOL DOWN! I think what you need is somethin' cold, say like ICECREAM!? LOLz ... All i can say is what he has told you already. Don't worry yourself, and pls do NOT call him tonight -as a matter of fact, don't call him till you see him on thrusday. Guys don't like to be pestered with phone calls. So do this-> from now till thrusday, write poems, like u do. Or if not, then hang out with friends and read, or do something. You'll be fine if u do something to take your mind off him. By the way, when you see him on thursday, try to ignore the past- DON'T bring it up. If you do, the meeting is worthless. Tell me how it went.
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my boyfriend always trys to get me to do things in front of other guys... and when i dont' he gets mad and says stupid and prude. he gets his other guy friends to rag on me. and the other night i was on my rag. he wouldn't leave me alone.. so i took out all my anger on him... then he told me i was lucky to have him... hes realy sweeet wen nobody else is around.. and i dont' want to break up with him...what should i do?
Your b/f is in the category of boys who gets influenced alot by his peers. He really doesn't want to or mean to hurt you, in front of he's friends. He wants to show them that he can ask you to do anything and you'll do it. But when you don't it seems he has no power over you, and then he's embrarassed.
First tell him u don't like it and he should stop treating you that way. If He tells you that "you are lucky to have him," then girl, he thinks you are dependent on him. And it's not good for a guy to feel superior in a relationship. He's not worth your unhappiness-> There are other guys who can be sweet 'when nobody's around' and more swwet when everyone is around. Find that guy, or he'll come to you. Let me know how it goes.
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I have been talking to my friend online that I havent talked to in forever. We have known each other for about a couple of years. When I saw his face again, I remembered how hot he was. I trust this dude when he says things because there are things that he told me a long ago that he has kept telling me when I started talking to me again. He wouldnt have remembered them because we havent talked in a while. Then at school, I still really like my best friends brother, Vince. I have liked him for a while now and a crush for me doesnt usually last this long. Then theres my ex. I have been talking to him more and more and I found out when we were messaging each other that he still misses me and still wants to be with me. He has a g/f but he "says" that hes going to break up with her. Its a long story of our history though, but I dont know if I should give him another chance. Although, God has let me see that we are going to get married in the near furture. What should I do.
It sounds like you're a Christain. Thank God for that. But ne how's if God has allowed you to see a future with him, then so be it. But don't give your ex another chance ... yet. Knowin' you have a long history, its best you guys keep away from eachother for another while till the time comes. As for your best friend brother, see if he feels the same way like you do. Don't tell him how you feel, just ask hintin' questions. As for the old friend, do you see him as a b/f material? What exactly are your standards? Use that to decide for both Vince and the old friend.
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Okay, so I'm relationship challenged. I've never had a real relationship and I'm 18. I actually just got kissed for the first time a month ago tomorrow. Well, the guy that kissed me is kind of confusing. I've liked him for a while and he seems to like me. Anyway, over spring break, I asked him to prom, even though I knew he wanted to ask another girl. He said he didn't know if he was going yet, but if he did, he'd definitely go with me. Well, he hadn't said anything about it for a long time, but we'd been hanging out a lot, so Friday I asked him if he'd decided whether or not he was going. He said he was leaning towards no, but he still hasn't decided. However, my friend said she heard that he asked another girl to prom on Thursday and she said no. I still like him, but I'm just confused. Why does he keep leading me on and giving me dumb excuses?
ugh! He's going to hurt u at the end. He really isn't into you, even though he leads you on. He's just flattered that's all.. I've been there. If u have a group of friends, just go with them. It's more fun going with friends than it is a specific boy. I know the difference. And if he haapens to go to prom, without you, just be yourself and let him know you are havin' the time of your life. (Don't pretend, it will happen.) But if you go with him, don't stick to him the whole time. Expand your fun area. He'll see that you're not completely under his 'spell'.
Tell me how it went when prom's over.
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I am desperate to get my ex-boyfriend back. He doesn't want to get back together because we fight alot. I will do anything. How can I get him back?
I think you've hit the drop point. He really doesn't want to get back with you. So, just give it up. The're other guys out there. As for You, You should have learnt why you guys had fights, to may your next relationship not end up like this one, make amends.
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Hello,
I have a problem. I'm conservative and the guy i liked is shy. So what do I do? Will I be the one to do the first move? But i'm a girl and its not proper for a girl to do the first move with boys and they say it could make a boy turn off.
Looks like you're in the position i was a month ago. Its not wrong for a gurl to ask a guy out. But this is wat i did -> I went up to him with 2 of my close friends-whom pretended to be hungry- and asked him if he wanted to have lunch. He said yes, and my friends ditched me as planned. Lolz, He was shy too.
So, Either u do wat I did, or you could start by askin' him questions that will hint you want to get to know him. If that doesn't work, then ask him if he was gay! (got that from a book, so don't). Seriously, just go up to him and talk to him. If He's smart enough, he'll get the hint and you two will hit it off.
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Okay, about a year ago I realized i had like pink/red lines on my inner thighs. i didnt think anything of it but now there are A LOT!! and there dark red and if u look at them at an angle it looks like ridges!! Please tell me what this is!!
*thanks* I'll rate!
definietly Strech Marks. They'll come and go as you grow
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This may sound wierd but im friends with this guy i met maybe 3 weeks ago at a teen dance club im 17 hes 19, i bearly know him and i dont know what makes me feel so much like i need to help him but its killing me that i cant come up with my own solution.
This kid was recently kicked out of his house where he lived with his father and step mother, and that may possibly be a good thing. his father was abusive and it wasnt a good living situation. the last few days hes either been sleeping in his car or finding people to stay with. What hes planning on doing in 11 days is moving back to texas (from new york) and back in with his biological mother who hasnt seen him in forever and who hes only been talking to for 2 weeks. All his friends and his life is here though and hes not even sure if texas is going to work out for him.
i was wondering if anyone has any suggestions of things he can do. chances he has of staying here. He did graduate highschool etc and is really a nice guy though obviously he has his issues. This is a last resort for me. idk if theres people i can talk to or what i just need someones advice on this
thanks
Hey! I think u did the right thing-Your wantin't to help him. For starters, askin' your dad to let him move in will be out of the question. He should definietly let authorities now that he has an abusive father. Especially if he has younger siblings. Then he should go any shelter ... a youth one for now, get a job. And if he still wants to move to texas, He definitely needs enough money for the trip. So pressure him to look for a job. Mind you, there's only little you can do for him If he refuses. I doubt he'll refuse bc he needs a roof over his head asap.
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I didn't want to go to school today in the 1st place bc I have too much on my mind (that they don't even anyways) and I was really tired bc of all the thinking, but I got ready and I got out late so I missed the bus, bc my mom was yelling at me bc my parents got into a fight bc I didn't want to get up in the 1st place and go to school. My dad had woken me up @ 6 and I have to be out by 6:25 and I missed the buss bc someone decided to move the soap and toothpaste and I had to run across the house and get it and ect. Now my mom wouldn't drive me to school and my dad already left for work..it's 7:50 AM and I am bored out of my mind till everyone comes home @ 2 PM...any suggestions?
wwwwwwwooooooo!! lOOKS like we both started on the wrong foot this mornin'. I say u watch Tv/read/write/play games and stay put till everyone returns. Or u could take a walk. Usually, i just sleep!
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This morning my boyfriend is being a major jerk. I don't know why, but it's like he doesn't even care how I feel today. I wish he would just talk to me. I am trying to send him hints, but it's not working! How can I get his attention?
Looks like you both are havin' a bad day. Maybe you should give him time and space while you try to chill as well ... occupy your mind with somethin' else. If it's not workin' tell him how you're feelin' and find out what's wrong with him.
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