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My name is Kate Im from Ohio and I love to give advices and help out with all kinds of problems .

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well im 13 and my sister is 15 but for some reason, evertime a guy likes her or she goes out with someone, i get really pissed off and scare the guy away. ( I even gave a guy a black eye) I know that shes gonna go out with guys, but i dont want anybody to hurt her or take advantage of her. last summer, we went to the same summer camp, and a guy liked her and thats where i punched a kid. we tell each other everything so she knows about the gfs ive had (only 2) and she didnt like my gfs either. should i give a guy a chance, and am i being too overprotective?

You really need to give the guy a chance see how he is around you ask him questions about himself,etc but when she wants to date someone just dont be so protective . Shes older than you and she knows how to take care of herself.Let her enjoy her teenage years.

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i usually dont have confidence issues like this, but i needed some help, lol.

i`m going to a new high school this year, with mostly new kids. i want to try out for the football cheerleading squad. tryouts are in late july. anyway, i don`t know why, but i`m having confidence issues about it. i`m not sure what they expect of us, i`m afraid i`ll screw it all up, and i`m afraid i`m going to embarrass myself since i haven`t done cheerleading in such a long time. should i just go for it, or forget it?

i`m also shy to tell my family and friends that I want to do it and i don`t know why because really looking at it its not a big deal. i can dance and stuff, but like i said i don`t know what they expect. ugh, can someone give me some guidance?

Go for it if you got the skills why not use them . You never know until you try you maybe be mad at yourself one day because you didnt try out and you missed on a great chance . Positive things may come out of it such as you making new friends and becoming well known around the school:) what is there to lose? I hope I helped.

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I like some one allot but he told me the other day he doesnt believe in God. He believes in Jesus just doesnt think he is his son. I told him stuff that can prove he is real. I also told him that, If I believe he is real and he isnt I am not missing out on anything but if he is real and I believe in him I am doing right. but I still dont know what to tell him to make him believe in him. I mean I would really fill good about my self if I can turn some one into the right track. his family believes in him just not him I dont understand. pleaze help

I dont think you can make some one believe in something if they dont want to believe it themselves. If he believes in Jesus but doesnt think he is his son then thats his point of view .Maybe you can tell him to read the Bible if you really want to help him.I hope that helped!

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I have tons of friends, quite a few good friends, and 9 best friends. but I dont have one or two BEST friends. It kinda bugs me because most of my 9 best friends all have one or two BEST friends. i love all my friends to death, but something seems to be missing.

also, i am so different than my other friends and i really dont fit in with any of them. we are going into high school in the fall and i am SO nervous that they will split into a couple different groups and i'll be left to wander.

I also have trust issues i guess you could say. I have such a hard time trusting my friends. i feel like i cant talk to them about hard stuff because i'm supposed to be the strong one, that looks out for them. I end up keeping everything bottled up cuz i have no one to talk to. it's just so difficult because i have so many great friends, but i always feel like there is never anyone there for me.

Any advice on any of these friend issues would be appreciated thanks.

-14/f

If they are such great friends they would ask you if theres anything wrong or maybe you can tell them straight up dont keep everything bottled up. If they stay by your side in good /bad conditions then they really are your real friends but if they dont then you need to find better friends than them.I hope I helped.
Kate

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i have a bf of 2 weeks..for the 1st week we talked all the time on the phone and stuff but then we just stopped..we talk ocasionaly on the computer and stuff but not alot like most couples..i still like him but going out with him isnt as great as i imagained..he always seemes irrated by me and i dunno if thats just his guy tone..i dunno if i should break up with him and see what else is out there..im just scared b.c i love the idea of having a bf and dunno if ill find some else

plz help/ill rate

Seems like you dont want to be alone well you should break up with him.If he is irrated by you then he is not into you .If a guy likes you would know it because he would be nice,sweet and gentle towards you not the way your bf threats you. There are so many guys out there which are much better than him. You deserve better not a jack ass like him.Even if it takes you a while to find mr.right its always good to be single:)!I hope I helped!

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I've had terrible luck in love lately. I haven't found any guy who meets my standards (which aren't extreme, just funny, sweet, smart, etc.) I've been thinking a lot about my former crushes and boyfriends, and I thought of this guy, "Josh". Josh and I were friends & hung out a lot last summer. We sort-of dated for probably a month, but then after school started, we drifted apart because we were at 2 different schools (he's a year younger than me). Thing is, I really miss him and I think I'm in love with him. He's been on my mind so much lately, and it's driving me crazy because I never see him anymore! What am I supposed to do?

You both go to different schools and he's a year younger than you. I know how that is I was in the same situation i wasnt able to see my ex bf and we started falling apart i wasnt able to know what he was doing at his school and who was he flirting with etc . I think that you should move on and just be friends with him or just be cool with him.Dont ever think of going back with any of you ex's there is always some one better for you out there than them! I hope I helped.

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There is this absolute gorgeous guy who I have somewhat of a crush on. My friends and I just started hanging out with him a few times this summer. He was flirting with one of my friends at a party. I was talking to him on IM that night, and we were flirting alot. He asked me when we were going to hook up. I told him only if hes not hooking up with other girls, and he said no only you. A few nights before he told me he wanted to hook up, he slept with this one girl. They didn't have sex, they just slept together. I don't want to go out with him, and I know this won't be anything serious, but I'm scard that if I hook up with him, I might get involved, and end up with a broken heart. I've never hooked up with a guy before, and this is the only guy I would ever want to. What do i do?

Well I think you should hook up he sounds like a nice guy but you never know dont get to attached to him incase you guys break up or anything else.

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