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Q: Ok so boys mature slower than girls and girls mature faster than boys...so they say. Well I'm in a relationship and I know I'm young(14) and he is too(15) but I dnt think he feels the way I feel like I know guys dnt really think seriously until they are older but I dunno what to do I see him flirt and like he doesn't get it that i really like him it's been 2 months and I dunno what to do.

Is he serious...well if it affecting that much then I think that you should tell him but I suggest before you do this to really take the time and think is he the one, ask your self questions like what is it that make you feel this way about him...only reason why I say casue some times you can have mixs feelings as in it can be sure or unsure so you may feel this way and once you break up and really think aobut what you had you may stat saying that it was just a phase....tell you the truth I kinda think that it is cause you both don't know much yet...so the best thing that you can do is wait it out and let time tell when the momment is right....

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Q: i need to know how to start to make out, ive never done it and i am ready to makeout with my boyfriend please help me
A.S.A.P

WHAT SUP MAKEOUT...OKAY SO IT LIKE THIS YOU CAN EITHER TAKE CONTROL AND WORK YOUR WAY INTO IT OR LET HIM BE IN CONTROL AND LET HIM MKAE THE MOVE OR YOU CAN JUST LET THE MOMMENT BE THE MOMMENT AS IN (WHAT EVER HAPPEN, HAPPENS...LET IT PLAY OFF ON IT OWN)

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Q: I believe in love. What I don't believe in is that people these days even know what true love is. I've asked some people to give me one couple that is happy and none of them could tell me any. No one is happy these days. No one wants to do anything to change that either. I mean when I go to the doctors or anywhere people are so bitter because their obviously not happy doing what their doing. I mean my parents always say I need to go to college and get good grades and stuff. I know I should go to college and I need to to get a good job, but what if I want to be happy? I want to travel, and have fun, and be happy doing what i'm doing with whoever i'm with. Am I wrong? It seems to me like everyone has given up on trying to be the best that they can be, on being happy, on true love, doing the job they WANT to be doing. I just want to know your oppinion on the subject.

hay love...I understand where you are coming from there are some people that are like that and some just let time tell when it right and I happen to know a couple who's been together and very much happy with each other and that is my own uncle and aunt in law....you are also intitled to what you think but always remember that there is a world full of others who think different and think the same as well as feeling different and the same....I hope to hear fromyou again

Q: hey ok ive had sex like only 4 times and i havent had an orgasm idk why cant i have one i can have one when i masterbate and when i messed around with females i also had one so why cant i have one am i doing something wrong

wat sup is it me... if your talking bout having one with a guy it could be you only cause you get more enjoyment from a girl if you had sex more with girls then guys if not then it could be him and if it it then tell him how you like it direct him and paly your part...let me know what happen

Q: Ok my boyfriend is going to be 18 in january. and im a 17 yr old female. my boyfriend is completely head over heels in love with mariah carey since he was 7 years old1 so i thought hey doesnt oprah do nice things for people and i remember seeing an episode were she gave these two girls trips to her show so they can meet the jonas brothers cause they were so in love with them. so i was thinking if i write oprah and email her enough maybe shell be able to get my boyfriend to meet mariah carey for his birthday! my first question is do you guys think that is a good idea? like a good 18 birthday gift? and second. how can i absolutely get her to read them and were do i send them? i send her an email from her site. and i sent a letter to her publisist. and her agent. do you guys know anywere else to send stuff or anything i can say that is sure fire to work. this would make my boyfriends dreams come true. hes loved her since he was 7 and hasnt even been to one of her concerts! how sad! =[ so do you think you guys can help me please!
thanks a bunch!

hay...look I dnt think that a bad idea at all
1. she taken
2. he just a fan...lol joking
but on a serious level no it not a bad idea at all
and i belivev that he will love it and never forget it especially the person who made it happen for him, anyway im not sure bout others place to send a letter to oprah but it sometime help to keep send it to the same place...hope that it work out for so let me know the details....

Q: 16/f

'Symptoms of stress include, feeling anxious, feeling scared, irritable or moody. Stress affects thoughts. Thoughts of low self-esteem, fear of failure, inability to concentrate, worrying about the future, preoccupation with thoughts/tasks and forgetfulness can be present. Stress affects behavior.'

that pretty much describes how i have been feelin lately. im around 6 months pregnant, and i feel like im in a deep depression.
i feel like no one likes me anymore. i feel very socially awkward in situations that id never feel that way in normally. i feel worried about every single thing people might think about me. i feel like im always on the verge of a panic attack (which ive had one and totally scared of it happenin again).
before, this was never me. i was very out goin, easy to get along with, always the one to calm down others, always laughin and havin a good time. now i feel like no matter where i go im out of place. even chillin with my girl-friends who ive been friends with for 4 years now.
especially when i try to talk to guys, its like i forgot how to talk to them ! its so weird, because i can usually flirt and get along great with guys, but now i cant even talk to them because i feel like theres no point :/

someone please give me some tips or ways to cope with this, i feel like im goin crazy. thanks

okay mamas this is normal of what your feeling cause some people go through different emotions when they are pregnant and trust me when you have your baby it will start to blow over yes others may still look at you in a way but it won't effect you as much now as far as the guys to be honest there is no point cuase there not looking at you anymore there looking at your belly with a baby in it (not to be harsh)

TIPS: DNT STRESS IT NOT GOOD FOR YOUR PREGNACIE AND I KNOW THAT IT MAYBE HARD BUT YOU HAVE TO TRY OR YOU CAN PUT YOU AND YOUR BABY IN DANGER NOT SAYING THAT IT MAY HAPPEN TO YOU BUT IT A GREAT POSSIBILTY ASK YOUR DOCTOR....

Q: I don't really know if this is the right topic or whatever but here it goes..

17/f and he's 16/m
so on halloween, I invited my boyfriend of 5 months to hang out with my friends and i. it was like, 6 girls [including me] and then him. they all like him, so it wasn't awkward. but like.. we were making out when the lights were out [we were laying down on the couch side by side]
then like, the lights went on we were all just talking and taking pictures. after a while we turned the lights off and started watching a movie. well i started falling asleep on my boyfriend and he was like wake up cutie and all that. it was cute :] and then like, he playfully bit my shoulder, and then like my knuckles and then my finger. it wasn't really a bite, but more like a light nip hahaa, if that makes sense. it was playful :] not intentions of hurting me. but is there a reason why he did this? idkk. hahaa. explanations anyone ? I'm just curious.
THANK YOUU.
oh and if it helps any, all we've done is make out and hes felt me up.

hay biting...this is just a simple case of boo love playing around and all the chemistry in the air just a case of boo love and who know's if everything goes well with you and him then it start to turn out to be love or maybe it already is and if so then for that momment it was just a case of boo love (lol boo love is like is just another way of saying and showing how you feel and what you do with your boyfriend you know kissing,lauging, talkin just sharing a momment with each other sorry if you didn't understand that....)

Q: I love working with children and decided to go into ECE after completing a co-op program in a grade 1 class room. My original goal was to become a Teacher but since I couldn't get into University I decided to start with college but now that I realise how hard it is to get into teachers colege I realise my dream may stop at completing Just the diplome for ECE. I just gto back at my placement at a daycare centre and do not like it, I love the children but the role that the otehr ECE are taking are not my type. I hardly saw them interact with the children and they are JUST babysitting. I became an ECE so as not to JUST babysit. I want to make a difference. my question is to people with experience as ECE, is this how it is, do ece spend the majority of their time setting up activities, snack etc and just let the children choose w/e activity without helping and influencing or suggesting better more meaningful activities. In class I learned so much about helping the child learn and pushing there skills into new skills but at this centre they just sit back and spend all there time doing other things. Is this ther eality of ECE? is this what i will be doing as an ECE????

hay ece...not every center is not like that but if this is not what your looking for then try to make it work for you find something that the kids like to do and teach them through it however you can't call something your dream if your just going to give up on it go back to school and make a difference in your life yes it going to be hard but look at the bigger picture you succeed your goal and your able to help others succeed theirs....tell me how everything goes

Q: so in the morning, i set my alarm for 5:45. I dont get up until 6:20 I can never seem to hear my alarm clock and my mom is getting really mad about it. Im sixteen and cant wake up she eventually has to come in there 3-4 times until im out of bed. Why cant i drag myself out of bed? my mom just established i acctually have a bedtime-_- not only that its 9:30 that is riddiculous. im sixteen, and a junior in highschool. i mean that is insane. she said it will drop when i get myself up but i cant seem to do it ive tried. Help me get ways to get out of bed!. oh and i dont need an alarm clock. its what gets my mom up in the morning. she doesnt have to get up until like eight.

okay sleepy head...the questions is what are you doing and what ever it is you need to stop or at least slow down or else you won't feel the need to rest till it time that you think is normal to rest...you should always have a nap and food to keep your body energized out your whole day it help and the best thing you can do is follow mom bed-time try this and tell me how it work for you
and you should try planning and timing so that you have enough time to sleep, eat, think, and wake up on time..........

Q: when me and my boyfriend dry hump or i rub against something i orgasm but people say that is a clit orgasm and the orgasm you get from penetration feels different and way better. the orgasm i get from rubbing against something only lasts about 10 seconds and i cant really feel pain while its happening and it jus makes me wanna keep going till its over. how does the other orgasm feel?

well orgasms...it feel just about the same but more exciting and adventures and just make you want it even more like your craving for it or you just got to have it

Q: Okay so the other night i was fooling around with this guy and i wouldnt call what we did sex because it never fully went in and im pretty sure he never came.however he didnt use a condem, but ive been on birthcontrol for a good 3 years but this weekend i missed pills and lost my birthcontrol and am getting a new pack in like an hour. And my cherrys never even been popped. I know obviously theres still a chance i could be pregnant but i guess i need someone to reassure me that im just freaking myself out. Also i got over my period like 3 weeks ago but than was bleeding for a couple of days last week because i missed pills. Im supposed to get it next week, so what should i do till than? I reallly just need someone to calm me down about it.

Hay reassured...here my advice cause the other one just don't sound right so im keep it real
if he didn't stick it in and he didn't bust in you and you came on your period even with extra days so no I don't think your pregnant at all
even doe he didn't make it all the way in he had to bust and if he didn't do that then there is no baby...okay

Q: So I was watching that movie today ^ And Joel made the best point ever that I've been trying to put into words for myself for the longest time. He was writing in his journal and asked himself "Why is it that I fall in love with every girl that shows me the slightest bit of attention?" This statement is true for me as well, -except for me, its boys, but you get the idea. So I've been wondering the same thing,but when it comes down to it I just honestly don't know. So I'm kind of hoping you guys know the answer? I'm stumped, but it happens to me often. Does anyone know why? Or is this just the poetic version of a pathetic question hopeless romantics ask themselves everyday? How do I change? Ah.. thanks.

Hay love...I been through this before I got so wrap up in to the movies and the books and I just kept wanting it so bad that I started looking for it sometimes not knowing that I was...lol so what you need to do is take your time and come back to reality do what im doing let time math out your love life... investment(take control)pre-up

Q: So I go to a pretty good sized state university about 2 hours away from my home. The truth is, I don't really like it here. I've met a few nice people but other than that i just do not feel like I fit in. My best friend goes to school in Boston, which is like 40 minutes from my house. Every time I visit her, I love it. I have so much fun, and love the people and the atmosphere. So, Im thinking about transfering. I just dont know if thats the right thing to do. Here, I just feel lonely and unwelcomed. I want to be somewhere where I know people and feel comfortable. Is the whole mess of transerring worth it? Or should I just stick it out for the next 4 years and hope something changes?

Hay college Gurl... okay im going to keep it real with you sometimes change can be the best movement in your life and sometime not the best and i'm in college myself so if it really effected you that much then I say go for it just be smart about how your doing it...so make sure you let me know how things went....

Q: Im 17 and a female. So, I have a best friend but we have had bad fights throughout our friendship and almost stopped being friends and it ended up happening once and then we ended up becoming friends again. But she met a guy last year and they ended up dating. The 3 of us all became close! Except for it seems to me that she likes him better now and wants to be with him more even though im her best girl friend! Her bf has even told me that she said she loves him more!? she shouldnt just dump me for a guy right? she hasnt exactley but we have been talking less and I'm not sure what to do. It does kinda hurt but I dont think she realizes it. Even though shes important to me i think I'm gonna let her go. It's already happening so why not? Or no? It just feels thats whats going to happen. advice please?!

Hay best friend...Look I completely understand
how you feel in all of this but and it sound a little like the love bug that got your friend caught up in time so if you really care for your friend the way you do then you will find away to talk to her...sometimes let something could be the best thing to do but it can also be a bad movement in your life so just be wise about your choices...but do me a favor and tell me how things goes with you and your friend

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I am me a average gril just like you I have this passion of wanting to help others so I came across this site I hope to seek the answer that you are looking for. I been a writer since I was 6 or maybe 7 started of with songs then traveled on into writing poetry I still do those things, however the reason why I want to become an advice columnist cause their is always someone coming to me and telling me what is going on and ask me how do they handle it I be amazed at how I help them and I start to notice that this happen to me more then once and I should make a carrer out of it. So I been told that I have a gift and if it true then I perfer to share it with you.....