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i am 16 and my boyfriend has been talking about getting married he said he was going to ask me to marry him soon...how do you guys feel about teenage marriage? and why do you feel this way? i need ohter teens advice! thanks xox (link)
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One question: Are you ready?
It's not the age that matters, some people really care about age and stuffs. I too, care about the age most. But it's not what important, really, it's just the reputation... the important thing is when you finally are ready to do that. I myself will say that it's too early for marriage, but if you're ready, why not?
Think again of what may come and go... Just think before you decide to do something. If you're ready, then just do what you think you must do.
Wish you always the best luck. ^_^ I hope I've helped.
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How do you know when you are in love with someone? And how do you know if it is true love? (link)
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When you are in love with someone, you don't see him/her as you want him/her to be, but as themselves. You always want that person to be happy, to protect them, be with them, and want the best for them. True love is when you have the courage to let that person go when you know that he/she can't love or be with you. True love is when you sacrifice something for someone with no pity but with your own will. You'll know if it's true love when you're hurt when he/she's hurt and you're sad when he/she's sad...
I wish you will find out soon. Hope I've helped! ^_^ Wish you the best luck always.
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I really need advice. I'm so low in self esteem its crazy. I'm dating my bestfriend and im completely depressed. I love him SO much and he seems to be happy and he loves me too. But, I'm not happy. I get so jealous all the time, because he hangs out sometimes with his ex-girlfriend. Then i feel like i'll never compare to her, and i push away from him and put up this emotional wall. I'm not always unhappy, but im afraid of loosing him and thats when i get upset. Is there anything i can do, to stop getting jealous and start being more self confident? I also hang out with my ex too, and i know its not fair that i get mad when he does. Oh someone please help me!
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Maybe he's jealous because you hang out with your ex, so he hangs out with his... That's what happens to me and my boyfriend (and he's my best friend too!!) Sisters!! ^_^ Well, talk to him. Tell him that you don't feel really well seeing him with other girls. In relationship, honesty is the most important thing. And we always have to be open-hearted with our mates. So, try to tell him how you feel, and that will build a stronger connection between you two. Try it! I hope it'll work, actually, it always works.
I wish you the best luck!! Lots of love,
Vin
PS: Usually, when a boy dates his best friend, meaning that he really loves her. Because you've known each other so well... don't worry, for him, you're number one.
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Okay, i have this friend and she can really get annoying. what really gets on my nerves is when she brags about how cool she is. shes always like "yeah, i think i like this guy because we hung out yesterday and he told me how pretty i was and blah blah blah". she always does this to get attention. its like she adds little facts about what she and her other friends did the day before when it doesn't relate to what we're talking about at all. i know she just does it for attention but she always acts like she's better than me. and it feels like she wants me to take notes on how popular she is. i hate when people do that so much. its like, do i really care that you have a boyfriend 5 years older than you?
also, she's very trashy. she'll go out with a person for a few days and then decide that she has a new fad for this other guy that she hasnt even met before. you cant just do that. we've had a lot of good memories in the past but sometimes i just want to tell her to shut up. can anybody relate to this?
please help. how can i tell her to just quit it? (link)
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I think you should ask her if she ever has problems with her family or others. Some people who are like that usually do have problems with their families. So that they want to get attentions for themselves to cheer themselves up. My best friend is like that too, but I understand her situation... if I were her, I would have done something to cheer myself up too. To fight in despair... But if it's different with your friend, I don't know what I can say... she maybe is jealous of you so that she tries to make herself look better. Sometimes try to understand what people feel and what they will do, it will help you alot, though I know that it hurts and annoys you. Try to talk to her, ask her why she's changed. If she's your real friend, she will trust you and tell you what she's really into.
I wish you the best luck. Good luck.
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this always happens to me i start liking someone and then when they start liking me i stop liking them. guys ask me out everyonce in a while but i akways turn them down even if i like them , i have had 3 boyfriends bf not serious tho. and always end up dumping them, so for the past month i have been liking this guy chris, hes really funny and nice. but... he does drugs. lots. and hes not a virgin. so hes starting to like me and is like all over me, but now i have stopped liking him, i am practically giving false hope, if he asks me out and i say no. he probably end up hating. but i would like to be friend, i just dont kno if tahts even possble what should i do to get him to stop flirting with me so much so we can just be friends:/ (link)
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Oh my gosh!! Sisters!! You're just like me!! Or I'm just like you!! I had 7 ex-boyfriends and I never really was serious with them and dumped them all... Well, this is so sad... He's nice but he does drugs... well, don't give him false hope... Better say no to him than letting him get all over you and bring you bad influence. Just tell him that you can't go out with someone like him, you surely deserve someone better. (I think so... I bet you're really nice and everything, surely you deserve someone else...) Tell him that you're ot interested and better to be friends with him.. I don't know what his reaction will be, but it's still better than letting him get under your skin...
Wish you the best luck!!! ^_^ Go you!!
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Not one boy has ever liked me or even said I'm pretty. I think I'm average but I just feel like I have no appeal to boys. What can I do to make myself prettier? Like what are the "in" styles for hair and clothes, and what's some good make-up to wear? (link)
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be patient... that is what I will do...
Someday, it will come a day when someone actually will say that that you're pretty.
And hey, if no one says that you're pretty, doesn't mean that you're not... Just believe in yourself.
be yourself.
for in style...
Wear bright colors and try some natural color make up. For your hair, try to do something with it so that it won't cover your face and make you look gloomy... >.<
Well, I wish you the best of luck.
Good luck,
you're beautiful as who you already are
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ohkay.. well my "best friend" since 5th gradee me and her have been fighting likee crzy this WHOLE YEAR over everything and i can never hang out with like other people unless she gets mad and "cries" and then won't talk to me and thne makes me feel like crap the rest of the dayy and then ughh it makes me soo madd && so idk what to do b/c shes just not nice to mee && it dosn't help that i'm in every noe of her classes this year so idk what to do and i need help!!
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Don't buy it. She's your friend. Try to put yourself in her shoes and think of what she might be feeling right now. If you've done something wrong to her, think what she might think of you now. but if she's done something wrong, think too of her feelings. She probably feels guilty and doesn't think that she deserves you... That's what happens to some people. but if she really is your friend, she will find her way back to you.
I wish you the best luck. ^_^
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i don't like my boyfriend i like my best friend. he lieks me to but i don;t know what to do my boy friend is obsessed with me and i wouldn't want to hurt him i care for him just not as much as my best friend. and now that i have a boyfriend my best friend is a little mad at me. even tohught my best friend had done the same thing to me before knowing i liekd him i feel so guilty doing it to him i just want him i like him so much and i dont want him to loose feelings for me, what should i do? i dont want to be easy because then thatmakes him loose feelings but should i play hard to get? pleaseeee help (link)
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Oh my gosh!! The same thing happened to me about a year ago!! ^_^ Sisters!!
Well, your boyfriend is obsessed with you... (Funny how it goes just like my story...) Really, ask him if he really loves you or is it just an obsession? Do what you must. Tell him that you don't like him. If he asks for a reason, tell him that he's too obsessive. If he says that he'll change, tell him that you have given your heart to someone else and it's too late. (My ex-boyfriend turned to hate me for about a year before he actually found another girl...) So, don't worry. Your best friend actually understands you... I wish you the best luck! I wish I had helped you...
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okay i have been BEST friends with this girl since 1st grade. we are inseperable. but lately she has not been acting like a true friend. i liked this one guy for the longest time and he just told her that he liked her. well she has a boyfriend that she says she "loves" very much. she said that she'll try and hook me and the guy i like up. but he text messaged her and asked if she wanted to hang out and if her bf would have a problem with it. she said he wouldnt then she said "bye sexy" and he said "bye sexier." right when i was sitting next to her. this isnt the first time she started flirting with a guy i liked and got him into liking her. plus my other friend likes a guy named nick but my best friend says she claims him just because he lives across the street and because she has made out with him. and nick is her boyfriends best friend. she is really mean to her bf too. she flirts with other guys constantly. slapping austins ass everyday at lunch..telling other guys their sexy...sitting on guys laps and her boyfriend doesnt even know it. i dont want to stop being her friend cause she seriously is my Best Friend. but i really like this guy and she sits there and flirts with him right in front of me. what should i do?!?!?!? (link)
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Wow, she's so mean... No offense, but your best friend is not doing what is right. She didn't just hurt your feelings, but others'. You have to stop her. Maybe it will cost your friendship, but do what you must do. What is more important: Just stay in quiet and let her do her thing or tell her that she's wrong and stop her from being a monster? And I think you should tell her boyfriend about her behaviour... I'm sorry honey, but this is not only about her and her love life, it's about her life. So help her if you need to.
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i am 15/f and i am totally confused about this guy. He is a good friend of mine and i have liked him for a few months now. recently i feel like there might be something, we have always talked a lot and he helps me out and i have leaned my head on his shoulder quite a few times, and he gives me really nice goodbye hugs. the thing is that he is my age and isn't very experienced with girls, so i can imagine that he doesn't know what he is doing, neither do i really. sometimes he is around a lot and sits next to me and other times he doesn't. How would talking and leaning your head on his shoulder look to a guy if you were just friends with a guy? by not sitting next to me, is he seeing if i will move closer to him or what? i am just very confused as to what this guy is feeling, and would like an honest opinion on what he thinks and what i should do.
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That's so sweet... you guys will make a cute couple! ^_^ I think he really likes you. Because he isn't very experienced with girls and doesn't really know what he's doing. But it is really clear to me that he pays you mind and cares about you. I think you should ask him what he really feels, it might help. Try to be open-hearted with each other...
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Me and and four other friends want to go to Six Flags for my birthday. Of course since there's a lot of us, my parents don't have enough room in the car to take them all and they don't want to have to take 2 cars. What are some ways me and 4 other people could go to Six Flags without my parents thinking it's too much work? And how much would the transportation or whatever cost? And my parents don't want to have to rent a limo just for one day. Please Help! (link)
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I think your friends should ask their parents to bring them to Six Flags by their cars. I don't know if it's a good idea or not... because of course you guys want to spend more time together.. but if there's no other way, I suggest you to use that...
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there are these two guys. one of them seems really nice because i just met him but hes not as cute..but he has a pretty good personality. the other one of them i have liked for awhile and hes been nice to me but sometimes he'll get to be very shy if i'm with my friends and won't say a word...
who should i like?!
i don't know what to do... please help. (link)
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Don't ever care how he looks like... personality is the most important thing! ^_^ I don't know which one of them you should like, because I am not you. (But I now have a problem that is similar to yours... I am confused too, only that I'm torn between two of my best friends...) Well, just follow your heart. Don't judge by the way they look, because it can lead you to a wrong direction. I believe that you've known the answer to it yourself... you just happen to not know it yet... but sooner you'll know the answer. Be patient!
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