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This is kinda complicated. I have known this one guy since like 1st grade and in like 5th I switched schools. Now im in 8th and the guy is at my school he's new and I like him again this year but I don't know if he likes me and I can't even get up the nerve to talk to him. I don't know what to say. He's always around his jock friends and I feel like if I say somethin to him around his friends I'll just look like an idiot plz help me thanx bye!

this is what you should do you should stay around where he is then once he leave his group of friends you should just go up and be like hi how are you and just strike up a conversation

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Well i was at my friends house and my crush was there and we were playin this game "base or building" base means if someone says a guy u have to say how far u would go w/ him ( 1st base - hug 2nd - kiss 3rd - make-out home - well u kno ) and building means someone picks 2 ppl and u say who u would rather push off a building. well i picked base and someone said my crush ( adam ) well he doens't kno i lyke him so i didn't want to say 3rd cause than maybe he wouldn't lyke me so i said 2nd ( but i really wish i would of said 3rd ) than the next time it was my turn they said my ex-b/f and i said almost to 3rd now i wish i could of said 2nd cause all my friends r teasing me saying i still lyke my ex and i don't!!! wut should i do PLEZ HELP ME!!!!

signed, I don't kno wut to do!!

(p.s. I RATE VERY HIGH)

you should just ignor them but you can also go up to (adam) and say that you like him and then maybe he'll ask you out and then you can prove your friends wrong.....lol

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i just got my period and its gross and scary and its my first time help me.

well you have to have a pad or a tampon, i would use a pad at first then when you get to know how to use a tampon you can use them, but after awhile you'll get use to ur period its a monthly thing now and every girl gets it sooner or later so theres nothing to worrie about

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Hey im bisexual and me and my girl have been together for a year as of Aug 15th. Well she is REALLY good friends with my guy cousin Micheal. They went to middle school together and crap. Well she says shes in love with me..and i love her to death but theres one problem. My cousin likes her and she likes him. And it kinda hurts me because Im scared that one day im gonna loose her over him. I really love her. But i dont know what to do. I cry every night because it hurts to see him doing this to me. They flirt like crazy. And when she gets offline she writes him this long ass paragraph on how she loves him and shell miss him..bla bla but when she says bye to me all she says is i love you bye. Is it right? What do i do? PLEASE help me..
Ash

okay i'm a bisexual here to so, this is what you should do, you should go talk to your girl and tell her how you feel about her and ur cuz flirting all the time and tell her that you don't want to lose her just b/c she thinks she's in love with your cuz, just go to her house or call her and say how you feel then she will understand

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me and my friends have a so called"friend" named jodi.weve known her for like half a year.at first she seemed cool.but then she got really annoying.she started acting like a bytch and only do what she would wanna do.so should we keep talking behind her baq and acing like were her friend.or confront her and tell her we dont wanna be her friend
13/f

you could confront her but you could also tell her that she's being a beotch and that she really think about what she dose

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Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm noticing that I'm interested in girls more than guys. I want a girlfriend. Not a boyfriend. But I can't tell anyone about my sexuality because people don't accept gays. I can never have a girl spend the night thought because I don't want something to slip. But I really want an intimate relationship with another girl. Its that ok?

thats perfectly, i mean to tell you tell you the truth i'm interested in girls to but i'm also interested in guys to so i'm Bi sexual but if youi want to tell someone about it just be like hey do you have a problem if someone is a lesbain, a bisexual ,or gay and if they don't mind someone being any of these things you should tell them, thats how i broke it to all my friends

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This girl keeps being mean to me over msn IM (the reason is too long a story to explain) she wont leave me alone. I keep telling her to leave me alone and that I don't want to fight but she wont leave it. What shall I do? We go back to school soon and I'm worried of what she may do to me.

well if she is mean to you like this she might like you but has no way of telling you the way she wants to

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hi um i went on a cruise this summer and bein that i live in virginia there was gonna be people from all ova the united states there and alot of boyz tried to get wit me but i liked this one boy.then on the last day of the cruise i had my first kiss with him we were makin out the whole night.then when i got off the boat i planned on goin back to my regular life cause he lives in florida and i wont be able to see him again but i cant get another boyfriend. i mean yea alot of boyz asked me out but i keep turnin them down the boy i longed 4 b4 the cruise asked me out and i turned him down whats wrong with me

im 14 and a female

okay you feel the need not to have anyone but him but when the opertunity came you didn't want him b/c he left you 2 days b4 and u felt kinda mad so you said no, your just confused by emotions

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one of my friends can never stay single for more than a week! when i first met her she had this boyfriend then they broke up and in a few days she went out with someone else then they broke up (but she swore she loved him) and then she goes out with another guy the next day. then when they broke up shes already planning to hook up with her friend. ugh! it pisses me off that she can never stay single while all my other friends don't care about guys! how can i explain this to her that she does not always need a boyfriend!!!!!!

you have to bring her some place and sit down and have a conversation and say that it is unheathly to keep breaking up and going back out with the people, and you should tell her peole may think that she's becomeing a slut

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Could you get pregnant if a guy had his dick like not in your vagina but right outside it and he cums, and he tries to pull away....but some gets on your clit, could you get pregnant?

- I know its confusing!!

-thanks
-Zero~

no you can not get pregnant b/c the cum has to be inside into you

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I just started school, and I'm a sophmore. Last year I had a boyfriend all year and I was with him every day during lunch and when we changed classes. Now we're broken up and I feel so out of place. I mean I still have my friends and stuff...just bieng with them makes me feel so out of place and I don't know how to act. I know I should just be myself...but I don't know. I feel so uncomfortable, what should I do?

you will feel better, you just have to adapet to the change, change is hard, buit trust me it will get better

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I have a best friend named Amanda, and today at lunch at school she didn't say a word to me so I was like hmm o-well. So I just asked her on aol and here was our conversatoin...

me: Are you mad at me?
Amanda: No, why would I be mad at you?
me: you didn't say anything to me at lunch
Amanda: hmmm yea
me: yea?
Amanda: yea?

Then I told her I had to go...I didn't know what to say...is she mad at me ? What do I do?

maybe she needs some time to think something over or maybe she wants to tell you some thing but she dosen't know how you would react, this is what i would do call her and ask her if she needs to talk to you about something or if theres something wrong

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i just got contacts on saturday and i like them alot and everything but the thing is i can't really see that good with them on. i don't know if i put them on wrong or my eye doctor gave me the wrong prescription. is it normal not to be able to see for the first couple of days you get contacts? or did i do something wrong?


p.s.- i always put the right contact in the correct eye... i have it in an order so i know that they are going in the right eye.

ofcousre it is perfectly normal, i have contacts myself and it i couldn't see out of them for awhile to, so everything is A.O.K.

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