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becca!! your soo sweet!! love ya!

aww thanks!! lol i love you too!*bec

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What are some cool stuff to do on the weekends? me and my friends need more cool things to do.
thanks in advance.

movies? umm...i dont know..im always busy! lol go to the movies..mall...just anywhere! lol hope i helped! *bec

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My best guy friend likes me but i dont like him

What do i do?



haha..i know who this is....I KNOW YOU LIKE HIM!! but....just tell him you dont..if you *really* dont. and hopefully he will get over it! lyl..hope i helped!

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okay... all of those questions were from a LONG time ago...and they are really like..weird.
but whatever
love, me

haha...agreed.

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Is it bad that my boyfriend is over protective? When ever i flirt he gets mad @ me...but he dosnt tell me other people do and its kinda noticable! But when we talk he dosnt say anything..n i dont want him to hold back anything when hes mad i want him to tell me...what should i do? He is always worried im goin to cheat on him with my ex (his best friend, because we are really good friends) He also says that he can see me and my best friend hooking up! Is this normal...hellpp

well yah your bf is WAY over protective...maybe you should find another guy...but if you REALLY REALLY like this dude..then try talking to him about it. tell him that you dont mind him flirting with other girls and you arent going to get back together with you ex boyfriend.but be nice so this doesnt in in a total mess!

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ok well here is the deal i like this girl named britni she is beautiful and cool. BUt i duno if she likes me people say she likes me as a friend but then when i talk to her friends they say that she just doesn't really know what to do or say about it. now my friends want me to talk to her. and tell her how i feel, but i idunno what to do cause she is always with her friends and i dunno hwo to aproach her wether it be at school. or not ok well all adivce is great.

thnx

monn

hmm--- if you like her i would tell her how you feel. and dont be scared or nervous because..there isnt really anything to be nervous about. all she can do is say no! lol just be nice and who knows? she might start to like you.well good luck! *becca

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Ok, I'm a Freshman girl and I am 14.
I have been dating my boyfriend for about 1 month and a week. (He asked me out) We were getting along great at first, but it seems like the relationship is going down. Well not bad. We have gone to the movies 3 times and we flirted heavily while watching it. We made out I think 2 or 3 times and it had always been perfect and he says I'm really good. He usually hangs out with me after school, we have fun flirting and getting pictures with my camera. One thing that annoys me is that a few times he mentions who is Ex girlfriends were and it seems like he has had like 500! One girl he went out with is like the biggest slut in the whole school. Another thing is he keeps joking around that we should have sex, but it is funny though because I joke and say, "Ok." . A day or so ago he said he said, "It is over." But then he told me he was joking. It freaked me out because I thought he was really going to dump me.
Today my guy friend told me that my boyfriend is pissed off because I act too immature. Well I kinda fingured that. I'm crazy! I run around and jump all over my friends, I scream like an idiot, and I wear pink a lot and my friend told me I look like a 3rd grader. But after school we had fun and flirted for a while. But I think he might want to dump me because 2 of my guy friends were joking around and telling him that they would take my away and they told me he said, "Go ahead. Take her." I'm not sure if he was joking though. I think he was. I don't want him to dump me though because I like him so much.
Do you think this guy really likes me? How do I act more mature? Do you think it sounds like he wants to dump me?
Please help... I want to keep our relationship going. Thanks ^_^

well if you like the color pink..then wear it! i love it too! lol and this guy probably likes you, he just is immature. i dont think he wants to dump you, he is just being like that around his guy friends and stuff..(they all act like that) and if you want to keep your relationship going..then just be nice and talk alot..:-)
*becca

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How do you get rid of freckles?

ummmm i dont think you can....but you can put cover up on them :-) *becca

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Me and my b/f are pretty close! I am just worried because he is in a grade older than me and im scared that sumthing might happend becasue hes going to a different school next year! I dont know if i should stay with him or break up with him! If i stay with him i might get hurt later because he might find other girls but if i break up with him now im going to hurt now because i love him and i dont no what ill do when i see him everyday in the halls and maybe get a new g/f!? Everyone is telling me to stay with him but theres just sumthing i dont no im just confused! All my friends are saying stay because then ill go to all the dances with him and stuff! ((*If this helps my BFF is in his grade and im always with her*)) HELPP!

this is hard....well if you still like him i would stay with him....but if your afriad your going to get hurt by him cheating on you or whatever...then break up with him.*becca

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why do you do this thing? all it does it maximize your problems to the world.

umm okay? lol i dont really care

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me and my gf always get into fights...but yet i still luv her as much as i have since the beginning...it seems that every time we get into a fight it is in front of out friends and i am tired of putting up with some of the stuff she says to make me look like the bad guy...so do i dump her or work things out?¿?¿?¿

hmm--- well if you still "love" her i wouldnt dump her but if you dont really like her anymore...then i would dump her. and well maybe you two shouldnt go out in large groups if thats when you guys get in fights. maybe just go with like two other people to the mall or something. thats always fun! and tell her that you dont like getting into fights and that you dont appreciate looking like the "bad guy" or whatever.but talk this out with her, and dont start yelling at her...or she might just get madder. yah us girls..we tend to do that.
*becca

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Ok, tell me the dealio with this mealio. If you still liked jake when u were goin out w/ jordo, y did u reject jake. And after u answer that question, is it true u sed later after he asked u out. If u did, y??



-Wade

WHAT! NO I NEVER SAID ANYTHING LIKE THAT! geezzz! okay well....i thought i didnt like jake anymore..but i guess i did ? i dont know. it confuses me. but whatever. and i didnt say anything like "later after he asked me out"? where did you hear that ? well yah i said no to jake becuase it seemed like he kept running back to me...and i dont want to be a back-up girlfriend!!! *becca

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how come u broke up w/ jordo, cuz people dont like sum 1 for 6 days cuz you'd b jacked up if u only liked sum1 4 6 days. So i wanna no wut the real reason u broke up w/ him is. But dont say it was awkward cuz yall didnt talk alot cuz the reason yall wudent talk alot is that u have dance every second of the week so that wudent give yall a chance 2 talk, so i wanna no wut that real reason was???

okay...well at the school dance we danced and stuff and the friday that jake broke up with me...some of my friends were like, you should go out with jordan. and i kinda started likeing him. so at the school dance..i asked him to dance with me...becuase i thought it would be fun.and well....he asked me out. so i said yes becuase i thought i liked him. but then at school and everything it was weird because we never talked and i had always had a boyfriend that talked. so yah it was awkward. and i guess i wasnt really over jake becuase after we broke up i still liked him. but oh well. *becca

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ok, i have this friend, and shes like the sexxiest studd EVER! i wish i could be like her, what do i do?

hah! hmmmm---just be yourself!! im sure your a sexay studd too! :-) *becca

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hey babaYY!

you are AWESOME! i dont know what i would do without you!! i love you! :-)

umm...lol thanks! i love you too!

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k..my friend is out of town right now and i like her boyfriend..the other day we madeout in his truck when he drove me home..and we've been hanging out a lot since she left for thanksgiving..i feel really guilty but i just cant get him off of my mind..i like him way too much..and i dunno what to do!..i swear im gunna end up going crazy..what should i do??

hmmm-- this is hard...well i think you should tell your friend how you feel about him...but dont make it sound mean or anything :-) and then work out a situation from there. maybe she likes someone else...or you could find someone else or just fly solo for a while...but i think you should tell your friend the complete truth and how you feel if you dont want this to end in a total mess! much love,
becca

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