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I'm Corey, and I'm here to help you! I will do everything I can, including sharing my own life experiences when necessary. I like to think I'm pretty good with tech/software questions, and relationship advice, so if you have any at all just go ahead and ask. I'm also pretty good in a lot of other categories. If I don't have an immediate answer, I'll go ahead and do a little research and then get back to you. Plus, I make a great person to just sit down and talk to. : ) I just want to help you!

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Tonight I called my ex, (i broke up with him in early october). We haven't spoken on the phone since the break up, just occasional texting. Well tonight I told him I still and always loved him and he said that he always knew i loved him. He wants to hang out when i come home for thanksgiving. I don't know what to do. It's sort of like we're starting from scratch? But we went out for 8 months.

Well we need something to do that won't involve sitting in his bedroom because we know where that leads, and we just need to be able to reconnect and talk. I'm basically asking for date ideas?

This will sound a bit typical but maybe you two should go see a movie. If not, then I'd recommend Olive Garden or something. Actually, yeah, I'd really recommend Olive Garden.

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My orchestra teacher has recommended that I take private lessons.... Money is not a concern for me, but I'm not sure what I want to do. I'm currently a freshman, and I play the violin. In middle school, I was a pretty decent/good violinist, seeing as how I was first chair (not to brag or anything)... The thing is, I'm just so confused with everything I've learned. No offense to my teacher, but in middle school, my teacher honestly didn't teach us that well, or that much at all. Now I'm in high school; it's almost like I don't know anything, but I try to 'go with the flow'. It's only some things that I'm confused or lost on. I'm not a horrible player. But I'm not 'the best' either. Now the thing is, I'm honestly nervous to get a private teacher because I don't take/like criticism well. :\ What's it like having private lessons? I don't want to be criticized badly, or look stupid for not knowing certain things. Would the/my teacher be ok with this and help me learn the things I need to know then? You'd probably expect strings musicians my age to know these things by now. (Which most people in my class do. Though there are probably others who don't.) Don't get me wrong, I'd really like to become a better violinist. This may seem stupid, but I'm really self conscious about this. I don't want to look/seem stupid for not knowing certain things. I also know that constructive criticism is good, but still, I don't know, I get nervous about things. When I play, I don't want to 'suck epically', if you get what I mean lol. -.- I'll just feel really bad about myself. Any advice?

Go with the tutor. Most all famous musicians nowadays started with a tutor. There can be no harm from it. : ) I wish you luck.

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Ok, so for a while I have thought that I was bi-sexual (I am 15/female) I am attracted to boys, but i offten feel for girls too.
So, I have known this girl for a while and we have only been friend for about 6 months, but recently we have been getting along better, and spending more time together.
She has started to joke around with me more and touch me and poke me and stuff, and it isn't helping because I have these strange feelings about her that I am trying to make go away!
I am pretty sure that she is heterosexual. So I am kinda dissappointed because I really want to do something with her like... sexually. and I sometimes fantasize about her and stuff like that. I have felt for girls before but nothing like this.
How do I stop feeling this way? Do you think I am bisexual? Do you think I should kinda hint to her about if she likes girls a bit? Any advice is appreciated, thanks. :)

This is just my recommendation. Calmly confront her. Sit down and ask her one day. You two are really close friends, the most that could happen is that she tells you she's straight. I really don't think that would ruin your friendship or anything. Go for it! : )

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Bowser surfing and playing guitar with music notes coming from the guitar...And its in front of a pot leaf!!........and.....in front of a cross because i'm kinda religious because my mom died when i was young.


its SOMETHING along those lines... but what is this from ? thanks :)

It appears to be a t-shirt idea submitted at

http://www.reddit.com

"I want Bowser from Super Mario Brothers 2, with sunglasses on, being all cool. And he has a double-neck guitar and he's like whaling on the guitar and notes are coming out of it. But he's also on a surfboard! He's on a surfboard and waves are coming up at the bottom. So he's like surfing and and whaling at the same time, and in cursive over it, it'll say "Let's Party". The whole thing's in front of a pot leaf. And all that is on a cross... because I'm like really religious because my mom died when I was young. Oh wait, instead of it saying "Let's Party", have it say "Happy Birthday Rick", because he is having a birthday party tomorrow night and he will freak out if he sees that."


http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/9j075/what_would_you_like_on_a_tshirt_ill_draw_anything/


Here's a link. When you enter the page just hit CTRL F and key in "on a surfboard" and it'll jump down to that post. Hope that helps!

EDIT: SORRY! He was absolutely right!
Sorry about that! Here's a picture of it.

http://whitestkids.com/?s=tattoo

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where can you buy the acai berry supplement and the colon cleanser supplement at stores....and does acaiberry juice have good effects on weight loss?

Both can be purchased at Walgreens. I've never tried it, but I've heard some great things. Good luck!

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When is the worst time to get pregnant?

Is there one time that is better and another time that is worse? When is the absolute worst time so I can have sex and not get pregnant?

Actually, I read an article on this. The best time is JUST BEFORE you start your period. (just before the egg drops)Hope that helps. Oh and check out this ovulation calculator.

http://www.marchofdimes.com/pnhec/28699_1904.asp?gclid=CO2AjJ3YhZ4CFSFRagodREkXpg

That should help out a lot.

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I have a Windows Vista laptop and I need help setting up an emulator. The one I'm trying to set up is the PSX one (play station). Like i need step by step instructions on how to do it. Also where do I put the ROM files? And how can I set up the other ones like the N64 and GBA ones?

Hi friend. : )


[PSX EMULATOR]
For the PSX emulator, regardless of which one you are running, you're going to need to search the web for a file called "SCPH1001.bin" and place that in the directory that you install your emulator in, based on its own settings. I assume, you're probably using ePSXe. That's my personal favorite. That file is packaged seperately from most all emulators since the file itself can not actually be legally distributed with the package due to copyright laws. As far as PSX roms go, you'll probably want to try a bittorrent for those. IMPORTANT: You probably should have some pretty good antivirus running before attempting that. Once you have your roms, your bin file, you're going to want to go onto the offical site for the emulator ("www.epsxe.com" perhaps?)and download the plugins needed to run it. This process I believe is self explanatory. When you have everything configured correctly, go ahead and give it a shot.

N64
This ones easy. www.project64.com
That site will supply you with the project 64 emulator, last I checked it was the leading N64 emulator. The process of attaining roms for it is another story though. Maybe try www.coolrom.com or use reliable P2P software, like limewire or a bittorrent. Anyway.. Load up project 64, and then just open any rom you download.

GBA
I would highly recommend using the Visual Boy Advance for this one. Search for roms the same process as you did for the other two consoles.

I know I didn't touch into too much detail, but I'm very tired so I wish you the best of luck. Feel free to key in any of those search terms into good. Hopefully you'll get another answer shortly where someone goes a lot more in depth to it. See ya around! : )

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Does anybody here know of any fer sure ways to tell if the guy you have sex with is a virgin? Are there signs to look for?

Actually, I've read through a lot of online articles about this same issue. There is absolutely no way to know whether or not a guy is a virgin based on appearance alone. Theres absolutely no anatomical difference. If you don't trust him, don't take that chance. Its not worth risking it.

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I just have to know. I have had nothing but pain with guys who have big dicks so why are all the other girls making such a big deal out of this?

Very good question.. Um.. In some cases the line between "pleasure" and "pain" can be pretty blurry for some people. I suppose its all dependent on what you're really into. The media doesn't portray a true concept of reality, I should remind you; so don't ever feel like you're different. Now.. If I had to answer your question quite literally, I'd have to say..

1. Ouch?
2. Isn't the vaginal cavity only 4 inches deep anyway?
3. I think most "pretend" to like a bigger penis just for the comedic value since we've all been brainwashed by the media that freakishly huge penis's are the only ones acceptable nowadays.

I hope you find someone that could you out a bit more if you're still unsatisfied with my answer.

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I am looking for a brand new hair line.

my natural hair is- dirty blonde/light brown and straight.

but i started to straighten my hair everyday and then it became very dry and brittle. then i didn't like my color so i died it a medium/dark brown.

right now my hair is- medium length (shoulder length), medium/dark brown, and it is really frizzy and dry and damaged and it has some kinks in it. also, its thin/medium thin.

I need a hair design line that fits these

for

-very dry/damaged hair
-safe for colored hair (wont fade the color)
-soft/smooth/shiny
-will make my hair turn back into straight and not kinky.
-leave in/deep conditioner

that's about it.

right now i'm thinking about these lines

-aussie
-pantene pro-v
-design-line
-sunsilk

can anyone give me good reccommendations or opinions about those lines or any other lines?

thanks you!!

Have you ever heard of this tree called Melaleuca? A relative of mine is quite fond of ordering large amounts of random Melaleuca products for everyday uses like facial cleansers, soaps, toothpastes, mouthwashes, detergents, etc. Anyway.. There is a certain unlikable taste that comes along with it. But........ I've noticed the melaleuca conditioner to be AMAZING when it comes to repairing damaged hair. I want you to try it for a week, then let me know if you didn't see a drastic change in your hair. : ) It'll open you up to a lot more styles. Good luck.

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So if Christmas is a holiday that is celebrating the birth of Christ, then can someone tell me why non christians celebrate christmas??

Thank you!

This is actually a very good question.. But I counter your question with one of my own. Why do non satanists celebrate hallowean? It all tends to be a very big blur I think, But I'll wish you luck in finding a good answer out there. : )

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what does it mean when your boyfriend acuses you of having sex with other guys?

I haven't had sex with other guys! I just gave a few handjobs and some head but I am only going to have sex with my boyfriend. What is he so mad about? Oh i did have anal with a guy but i was at a party and a little drunk. I am still a virgin so what is my boyfriend upset over??!? I have had anal with him and head and handjobs just like all the other guys i have been with but i am saving my virginity for him.

Well I assume he entered into the relationship with the assumption that you were a "complete virgin". Its nothing to really worry about, I think the average man would be pretty jealous. Theres really nothing to worry about with that since theres no way you can change it. The past is the past. Anyway, you should just confront him and tell him you feel. Express your dislike for his current behaviour and explain that theres no way you can take back those things.

Anyway, on a later note.. I can understand his suspicions; and bare with me on this one.. Its not often that a vaginal virgin, (with an intact hymen) decides to try anal sex. I might find it hard to believe myself.

When you and he are ready to take the giant leap (vaginal penetration), there will be no accusations left to dispute.. When you're ready for it, your blood will reveal you as having told the truth. Good luck.

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I have this thing coming up and I don't wanna have to stand up in front of people. i wanna lose my voice so how do I do this without like hurting myself forever or breaking something?

...why? You planning on skipping school or something? lol

Well its best not to answer a question with another question. Since I'm here, here's your answer.

A) Go to a sports stadium (baseball, football etc) and scream your lungs out

B) Crank out some really heavy (possibly annoying) screamo music and sing to your heart's content.

C) Get into a super loud extremely angry argument with your little/bigger sister/brother. Really scream it out.

Btw.. Might I also point out that all these methods would probably do wonders for relieving stress. : )

..well maybe not that last one.

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Is it just me or do other girls feel guilty after sex? I feel really dirty and awful and sometimes I cry when I am alone later. Nobody is forcing me to have sex... I am the one going after the sex but when it is done i hate myself so much! Can girls feel guilty after having sex or am I the only one this ever happens to?

To be honest, I'm not sure you're giving enough context into your background for someone to actually be able to answer this question.. I'll try and answer this as broadly as I can.

My first theory is.. You grew up with a strong religious background that discouraged premarital sex. I want you to know.. No one in this freaking world can tell you whats right for you but yourself. I swear. You'll do well to remember that.

My second.. Maybe you're afraid you're giving off the wrong impression to your friends or family. I'm sure others have faced similar or this same problem themself. Either way.. You need to bare in mind, no one is here to judge you.

In conclusion.. You shouldn't EVER feel bad about having sex. This could cause some serious issues in your relationships later down the road.

I really don't want you feeling guilty.

Now.. If I'm right about that strong religious background.. Its just a thought.. But. Maybe try a confessional and tell him everything thats happened. There are also religious services available for "rebirthing a virgin".

If you'd explained your situation a bit better, I think I could help more. : S

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hi! I have 34dd boobs but i am not really fat or anything. is this a good size to be? do guys like sized 34dd breasts? so far i noticed that it is really hard to find a good bra in my size and so i am feeling like i am the only one in the whole world with boobs this size. :(

Its a great size. : ) Some guys just like them bigger and bigger. That is rather large though, but.. consider this.. Maybe you're not able to find those bra's because its so common (bought out). eh? hows thats sit in logic? Oh and this is the one time i could say this and get away with it..

Heh.. Nice boobs.

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I'm skinny. I have a good body shape.I want to gain weight but its so hard....i can't....i just don't have much of an appetite. I don't starve myself, i do eat, but not too much. I want to know how I can gain. In the past I have forced myself to eat more often, I end up gaining weight after a while, but then I just fall back into my normal state and lose it all. I don't know what do do! I'm 5"2 105. I want to gain five more pounds and be more lean....like a little muscle...does anyone know an easy way to do this?

Well, this might not be the answer you're looking for.. But I'd recommend you acquire a taste for hamburgers. Did you ever see the documentary "Super Size Me"? Its worth checking out. Anyway, another thing to think about.. There are 2,500 calories in one pound. So, you just need to squeeze in an extra 500 calories into your normal daily eating habits, and logically you'll gain a pound every 5 days. TIP: burritos are around 300 calories each. Om Gosh.. I just noticed you're height. Um.. I wouldn't recommend trying to gain a whole lot of weight.. but.. If its absolutely necessary. Consider what I said. As far as, building muscle mass.. I'd recommend a product called "Cell mass". Its a powder'd mix thats actually a lot like gatoraid. Anyway, I used to be pretty big into working out and thats what I always used. Good luck! : )

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whenever i masterbate, i stimulate the clitoris until climax. my boyfriend and i have had sex a lot but we're always interrupted after at least 15 minutes or so. so obviously, neither of us have orgasmed.

i was just wondering, what does a VAGINAL orgasm feel like? and what usually happens? will i pee, because i know that would be a major turn off, but sometimes when we would be doing it for a little while, i'll already feel my bladder about to explode and i really don't want to pee all over him during in an intimate moment O.O

Hello : )

I don't mean to steer your question in a whole other direction, but I'd like to open your mind to a few new ideas.. My last girlfriend could only recieve an orgasm when I gave her oral sex. Bare in mind, theres a vast majority of men that would want nothing other than a girl that isn't shy in her sexuality to spread her legs for a taste. Out of my own personal preference, and this isn't just men in general, this is on my behalf.. I prefer eating a girl out more than sex itself. Some people are just that way. You could try a seductive manner. My ultimate fantasy is to have the girl of my dreams laying next to me wearing only a t-shirt and then abruptly force my head down and against her vagina as hard as she can. So confront him, maybe jokingly at first, and if you both share a laugh, ask him how he'd feel if you said you weren't joking. One last pointer, most guys prefer a clean-shaven girl. Just something to think about. In any case, to answer a few of your basic questions..

1) You'll feel an involuntary pulse in your abdomin as it tightens a few times, this can actually last around 30 seconds or so. I'm sure you'll find the sensation absolutely amazing.

2) You will NOT pee, but the first time it happens you might feel as though you're about to. (Its just the sensation, but no urine will leave tbe body. DONT WORRY! : )

Anyway, I hope you enjoyed my answer. I wish you well. : )

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