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never had a vaginal orgasm :(
whenever i masterbate, i stimulate the clitoris until climax. my boyfriend and i have had sex a lot but we're always interrupted after at least 15 minutes or so. so obviously, neither of us have orgasmed.
i was just wondering, what does a VAGINAL orgasm feel like? and what usually happens? will i pee, because i know that would be a major turn off, but sometimes when we would be doing it for a little while, i'll already feel my bladder about to explode and i really don't want to pee all over him during in an intimate moment O.O
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Maybe give some free advice about: Trouble Reaching Orgasm?
Most women cannot climax from intercourse alone. many require a combination of stimulation. If you're unable to don't fret. There is NOTHING anatomically wrong with you at all.
Feeling rushed all the time can't help either. Is there any way be it through a lock or something else to ensure privacy? Although not a female myself, orgasm usually consists of pleasurable sensations, ripples, pulsing, throbing in that area and the contraction and release of pubic muscles.
I find it interesting that you mentioned feelig as though your bladder was constantly full and that you had to urinate. This can also be a sign of impending G-Spot orgasm.
Women often feel pressure in that area and an uncomfortable feeling like they have to push down or urinate. When they do they often release a ton of G-Spot fluid (up to a milk bag 1 liter). That could be what you are experiencing. You should always go to the bathroom before engaging in sex.
Even if you did urinate which is unlikely just laugh it off. It's no big deal and I'm sure your partner would be understanding. If he's not than he shouldn't be doing this with anyone let alone you. If you get the feeling like your bladder will explode tell him to stop and then see if you need to use the bathroom or not. If not, than what I said above likely holds true.
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Well a vaginal orgasm does not cause you to urinate although it is a fetish to alot of women ( who are into this) to feel the rush/high of the realief in the pressure of a full bladder.
You wont pee but what you might feel is you heart rate rise, your temperature rise, your breathing could get deep and even to a point be tough to breathe, your body will contract, you might even loose mental and eye visual focus, and dont be surprise if you gasp and cross your eyes or close them your thighs might tighten up and you might even quench your vulva but you will feel a sensation all over your body and it will drain you physically you might even get knocked out youll feel low on energy and might even lay there still not knowing what hit you. Many many women like it when their lovers perform oral sex and then mount them on top allowing the girl to manual rub their clitoris and as the male pumps and thrusts his penis inside them the female will orgasm, another postion is after receiveing oral or manual sex from the male women like the "doggy style" position so that then man can penetrate them while they play with their clitoris until they climax. try tightening your vaginal muscles as he penetrates you, that might build up the pressure to help rocket you into your climax.
I hope this helps
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Hello : )
I don't mean to steer your question in a whole other direction, but I'd like to open your mind to a few new ideas.. My last girlfriend could only recieve an orgasm when I gave her oral sex. Bare in mind, theres a vast majority of men that would want nothing other than a girl that isn't shy in her sexuality to spread her legs for a taste. Out of my own personal preference, and this isn't just men in general, this is on my behalf.. I prefer eating a girl out more than sex itself. Some people are just that way. You could try a seductive manner. My ultimate fantasy is to have the girl of my dreams laying next to me wearing only a t-shirt and then abruptly force my head down and against her vagina as hard as she can. So confront him, maybe jokingly at first, and if you both share a laugh, ask him how he'd feel if you said you weren't joking. One last pointer, most guys prefer a clean-shaven girl. Just something to think about. In any case, to answer a few of your basic questions..
1) You'll feel an involuntary pulse in your abdomin as it tightens a few times, this can actually last around 30 seconds or so. I'm sure you'll find the sensation absolutely amazing.
2) You will NOT pee, but the first time it happens you might feel as though you're about to. (Its just the sensation, but no urine will leave tbe body. DONT WORRY! : )
Anyway, I hope you enjoyed my answer. I wish you well. : )
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