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Can girls feel guilty after having sex ?
Is it just me or do other girls feel guilty after sex? I feel really dirty and awful and sometimes I cry when I am alone later. Nobody is forcing me to have sex... I am the one going after the sex but when it is done i hate myself so much! Can girls feel guilty after having sex or am I the only one this ever happens to?
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A lot of girls do, because they don't wait for the right guy and they rush into it with the wrong person, and they are ushaly very young. You can "become a virgin again" idk if you have herd of that but you can. you should start to pray and go to church and read the bible it might help. You shouldn't have sex in till your wedding night and wait for the guy that you are spending the rest of your life with. It's not to late to be "born a virgin again" Maybe you should get to no your self better be for you take the BIG step in life again, just wait for the right time. I recomend with your future husband.
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No your not the only one :) Infact, a lot of girls do feel bad.For me, I think it's down to the fact I frown upon girls who have sex with anyone, and I frown upon it in general if isn't out of love. So even though I'll do it out of love, I stil feel bad because my attitude to sex is always negative, and then I guess feel bad, like I've become a hyprocrite and broken my morales. That's why I can feel pretty bad. Maybe you should stop having sex,until you're happy with the fact that you're doing it, you shouldn't have to feel uncomfortablea afterwould.
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To be honest, I'm not sure you're giving enough context into your background for someone to actually be able to answer this question.. I'll try and answer this as broadly as I can.
My first theory is.. You grew up with a strong religious background that discouraged premarital sex. I want you to know.. No one in this freaking world can tell you whats right for you but yourself. I swear. You'll do well to remember that.
My second.. Maybe you're afraid you're giving off the wrong impression to your friends or family. I'm sure others have faced similar or this same problem themself. Either way.. You need to bare in mind, no one is here to judge you.
In conclusion.. You shouldn't EVER feel bad about having sex. This could cause some serious issues in your relationships later down the road.
I really don't want you feeling guilty.
Now.. If I'm right about that strong religious background.. Its just a thought.. But. Maybe try a confessional and tell him everything thats happened. There are also religious services available for "rebirthing a virgin".
If you'd explained your situation a bit better, I think I could help more. : S
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