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w e l c o m e heyy y`all!!! asHley here..
ask me anything y0u wAnt
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much love and goOd luck
with yur problems!!! x3 ash
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hey um i was wondering how do you do those cool fading away messages there really cute!! thanks a bunch if ya can help [
hey! well.. i usually use 2 websites to make my fades.. one is - http://members.aol.com/sylcrea/colorcode.html . in order to use this tho.. yu must type < font color="#___">A and insert each code before yu move onto the next one.. (also delete the space after the < sign.. and the other is - http://www.geocities.com/nightshadows21/fader.html they both work wiicked good but can be kinda confusing.. if yu need some more help - just IM me =o)
hOlla !
I really like this kid.. but we're just friends.
I want to be more than that, but I know that he'd never lke me more.
... And yet, it feels like he's the only one for me!
What should i do??? :-\
hm.. that`s a pretty hard question.. but.. do yu ever see this kid? if yu do then try and act all flirty and get him to know that yu like him.. see if he acts any different and stuff! then talk to his friends about it!! sorry i couldn`t help more!! just hang in there!! there are plenty of other great guys if this one doesn`t work out.. =o)
if u have any ideas at all on how 2 help me loose 25 pounds over the summer e mail me at SoFtBaLlGuRl7659@aol.com i really need your help i really wanna b skinny and pleas e mail me thanks jess
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age:10 goin on 11
sex:female
weight:120
hight:4'10
hey! just excersize (like running, dancing, playing sports) and always eat healthy
hey askingashley
im 13 size 00.. how can i stay a 00 or a 0 i dont relli grow but i want to stay that size nd i just cant get my self to eat healthy 24/7..i dont care if u think i should just let it go nd be a bigger size i just want to stay nd how can i try to give up a cookie for a salad??
..x3
well just eat a lot of fruit and excersize a lot.. like, run a lot or sumthing!! sorry i couldn`t help more! good luck!
Hey Ashley,
It's Mike again. I got ur back on this one. yea u can go to a theme park and have a pool party in November. What if the grl lives in Florida or Georgia stupid. Maybe YOU should think before you answer ashley's questions wrong.
Forever got ur back(lol),
Mike
haha thanx mike - but i must admit , i forgot that it would be in november!! but yeh if she lives in florida or sumthin she can have a pool party anyways!! =o) lol thanx! buhbye
Omg askingashley! I dont think that ou gave very good advice to the girl wit da b-day party. I mean er b-days in november.WHO HAS POOL PARTYS IN NOVEMBER?!?!?!?!? and wat theme parks are open then???? Maybe u should think more carefully befor answerin anymore questions like that!
hello! well i`m sorry! i forgot that it would be in novemeber!! please forgive me! and yah i should think more carefully! it took guts to write this.. thanks! so for that girl - she could have a sleep over or go to the movies with a bunch of friends or... have a boy girl party.. or if she felt like doing sumthin big she could like rent a place like roller palace or w/e it`s called and have a bunch of friends come and skate and dance! i don`t really know! but mii b*days in november too and i would`ve thought differently if i had remembered it was cold then! and i`m sry..
my 14th birthdays cuming ^ soon sum1 gimmie sum good ideas for a b-day party... its november 16th. thanks in advance!!
well yu could always ask yur parents if yu could have a boy-girl party.. or if yu had a pool - pool parties are always fun.. yu could have a couple friends come over/sleepover.. or yu could go somewhere fun like a amusement park with a few friends!
i like this guy at skool and he really loves me and he asks me out all the time.hes not very popular tho and im afarid that ppl will make fun of me. plz help me!!! thanks
whoa!! yu shouldn`t ever care wut anyone else thinks! as long as yu like him and yur happy about it, nothing else should matter!!
Ashley,
Hi, my name is Mandy. Lately there has been this girl in my neighborhood that has been such a bi*** to me and my friends. She go's to my school and is in my grade, but i think she is mean is because she know i have more friends than her. I've tried being nice to her but she won't listen. Well now, she has made a friend named Cleo and now missie (grl in my neighborhood) and Cleo both want to fight me!! I've told my boyfriend Blake and friend Crystal about them and Crystal and I think we shoud fight them because we know we can take them..i mean, it would be fun to fight them..and that i would probably stop Missie from being mean?? Is my disision right??
Mandy
not to sound like a loser with the whole "fighting isn`t the answer" phrase but it really isn`t.. i mean yu shouldn`t fight someone because yu think yu can take them!! the only reason yu should fight is for wut yu believe in.. or if they throw the first punch =o| but just talk it out and tell her to leave yu alone!! and if she doesn`tstop buggin yu, stay away from her! but if she takes the first punch, beat the crap outa her!! lol hope i helped...
me n my boyfriend always break up and then make up. it's getting kinda old and i'm always getting hurt. i just cant help myself from going back to him all the time, i guess its because i truly love him. i'm just so sick of getting hurt when one day he'll be all lovey-dovey to me and the next day he'll be so rude n ignorant. i feel that we're going to break up again and in a lil while he'll come running back. what should i do? i think we really do love eachother though.
hey.. i don`t mean to be rude or make yu feel worse but yu really shouldn`t let him treat yu like that... yu shouldn`t let anyone hurt yu, physically or emotionally! if he is rude and ignorant like yu say he is, then he`s just not worth yur time.. i`m really sry! hope i helped
OK i asked the question earlier about the guy i met on vacation...all i kno is that he lived in north dakota with his dad who is in the air force and is moving to tennesse soon...i kno his mom lives in california and his first name is brendan...i guess ill never find him since i dont got his last name..:-( o well any tips on getting over him?
move on to another guy!! just do anything to get yur mind off of him!! and also, stay busy so that yu don`t have TIME to think about him!! hope i helped!
how do i lose weight in my thighs and calves??
ride a bike or run!! it works for everyone!
Help guys, I'm scared to go to the club with my friends because I don't know how to dance! Like even when were just jokin aroudn and dancing I won't do it because I don't know how. I don't know how to move my arms, legs, or stomache. I honestly need help!
Thank You sooooo much
firstly, don`t be worried!! just watch yur friends and then try moving yur body to the music! i mean even just moving yur arms around!!! lol good luck! and hope i helped
i wanna have sex b4 i'm 15...sum of my friendz tell me 2 wait, what do i do?
no offense but.. this would not be a good idea.. if yu are sure yu want to tho, make sure yu use protection! and even if yu do, yu still are at risk of getting pregnant, so make sure that u are all ready! but about yur friends, listen to them! they most likely know yu better then yu think they do and they are only trying to protect yu! if they didn`t love yu then they wouldn`t be worried! remember that people are always caring for yu and yu should make sure yur ready to do things before yu actually do them..
Hey Ashley,
My friend Mandy is going out with this boy named Blake. Me and mandy r like best friends, but the problem is that i like Blake. So then this girl Alicia gets all up in my grill and tells blake that mandy hates him and they soon go out! Finally, I find out that the only reason Alicia is goin out with Blake is to become popular and that Alicia really has a crush on me!! But i mean..I am not lesbian! Should i go out with Blake..or let mandy and him go back out with each other??
- Crystal
well.. first of all, yu needa tell blake wut`s been going on.. this`ll feel a little wierd at first but yu have to find out if he actually liked alicia! if he does, he needs to know the truth about her.. but then yu need to talk to mandy. she deserves to know how yu feel!! yu guys need to work it out together! and in the end, yu need to make the decision... sry i couldn`t help more!
Hey ash! I've had a b/f for over 6 months now and i think i really really like him, but just recently i'm not sure if i still have the same feelings for him. I don't know if it's just a one day thing or my feelings for him are truly becomming less and less. Please help!
hey.. yu should probably put yurself to the test.. try doing something that will show yu wether or not yu like him the way yu think yu do.. or.. if worse comes to worse and yu can`t think of anything, try talking to him about it! don`t be like... "hi__ i don`t know if i like yu anymore" .. just say something like - "hey! i know this may be an odd question for yu but where do yu think our relationship is going" and it may be a little akward but it`ll show yu if he feels the same way.. yu may just be getting tired of him! who knows? maybe even try seperating for a little while! (a.k.a- not seeing each other for a while*) sry i couldn`t help more!!!
hey ash! allie here (ME)/ (RI) ok i am a little nervous bout high school because when i go off to high school dean is not going to be there and a bunch of my high school friends tell me to dump him because i am going to find someone else but i dont know if i should cause right now i really like him wat should i do stay with dean or leave my opptions open?
aww hey babe!! i`m wicked sry bout all that!! dean seems so cool! but anyways.. if i were yu, i would prolly ignore wut the people are saying and see if a somewhat long-distance relationship would work for yu guys! i mean yu could call him as much as yu want and hang out with him on weekends. just try it and see if it workes out! if not then see wut other hotties yu can get!!! lol lotsa love babe!! hope i helped
hey ashley
lately i have been feeling left out
and i think all my friends are mad at me
its a really bad feeling to have . .
what do i do?
hey! oh.. that really stinks.. but first, ask yur friends if they`re mad at yu! if they are then yu`ll be able to tell.. but if not, try and include yurself in everything! instead of just waiting for them to ask yu to do something, ask them instead... just show them wut they`ve been missing lately!! good luck and hope i helped!
Ive been stressed out
help.
first of all, yu should find out why yu have been stressed out.. then once yu do, try not to do it for a little while and see if that helps any, also, just try to relax!! don`t let yurself get uptight. and also, sometimes just taking a walk or letting out all yur feelings helps to relieve yur stres... sry i couldn`t help more.. if yu need more help then sign again telling what yur stressed about!! hope yu feel better
hey do you have any ideas on how to lose weight fast over summer?
work out, run, excersize a lot, stay in shape, and eat right!!