about

I'm 22 and though I'm still young, I'm very mature for my age. I feel that I've been through almost every friend/love/school drama situation possible. I love to give advice to all people and look forward to helping you! *Melissa*

My quote of the week: "We cannot change our past...We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude...

I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it!"

advice

my parents only gave me 100 dollars to spend for school clothes. and i really need both pants and shirts any ideas on how to get alot of the stuff i want for that price. thx. much appreciated!!

I'm a bargain shopper so I believe I can help. Don't go the mall or to department stores. Instead go to Marshalls, TJ Maxx, Ross. They have really cute clothes for cheap. The only thing is that you have to be patient and go through the racks and look carefully for really good deals.

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i have this grl in my class n i really hate her but i dnt kno wut i should do about it plz help me

What kind of question is this? If you hate her...do nothing...ignore her...what else would you do?

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age 14
female
i had a boyfriend, we were going out for 1 and 1/2 years and we were doing really good and he broke with me for one of my good friends and she promised she would never go out with him and she said yes . now shes always rubbing it ibn my face well i have him now and you dont and stuff like that, but i know i sound but i pathetic but whe was my best friend before he was my bf an i miss him. how do i feel better??

Dear Lonely and Depressed,
First off, she was never your friend. Friends don't do those things to eachother. I'm 21 years old and I would never think of doing anything to hurt my friends. Apparently this guy doesnt have a heart either because he wouldnt have done that to you either. Basically there are 2 things that you can do. If I were you I'd cut off ties with both of them. This will show her that you're really upset with her and that you don't need that kind of friend in your life. The second thing that you can do is to act like you don't care. If she knows that it bothers you shes gonna keep getting on you about it. She honestly might be the kind of friend that shes just doing this to see what kind of reaction she can get out of you. These, I feel, are your 2 choices. Both are very hard to do. But I promise, you'll get through it. Good Luck *Melissa*

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ok well I have been having problems at school and with friends. Well a couple of weeks ago a girl said she was gonna kick my ass and what not because ppl were telling her that i had been talkin bout her and i hadnt. Well we got everything straight and we became friends and i went out with her one weekend. Now she said that she was gonna kick my ass cause ppl have been telling her that i said i didnt really like her and the only reason i went with her was because I was scared of her and that i needed a ride and that is not true at all. I have never talked bad about her or anything. What should i do.

Ok. If she was going to beat you up, she would have done it already. AND...if she had even thought about it before she wouldn't have became your friend and went out with you one weekend. Honestly, I'd step to her just to see if she did anything. Not on purpose but if she says I'm gonna kick your ass be like ok lets go. Most likely she wont touch you. I went through stuff like this in HS, she is just someone who thinks that shes sooo cool what she needs is a reality check. Go to her, ask who told her these things, if she gives it up, confront them and try to fix things. Is it realy worth it for you to be friends with this girl? I wouldnt want a friend like this. Youre in HS...trust me from personal experience your gonna make A LOT more friends throughout the years. Things will be fine. Just take my advice.

P.S. Dont let her know that youre scared she'll beat you up. Thats why she does it.

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I really need help. Does anyone have a good idea on wear to put eyeshawdow on yor eyelid without making it too noticeable? Thanks!

Hey There. So I feel like all of the other people that answered you are like 16 and they just started using make up (of offense). For the past couple years I've tried different methods and I've also went to school for aestetics (the study of face, facials, make up). I've learned that best technique for me is to buy those maybelline eyeshadows with the 3 colors in it. Apply the lightest color to the entire lid (right up to underneath your eyebrow). Then place the medium color on just your eyelid. Use the darkest color with a tini bit of the lightest color to the line that creases when you open your eye. This is what works best for me! Remember all people are different. Mess around with it! *C-Ya*

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Ok..i'm a freshman in high school and i never kissed a girl before, but i have the feeling that this is gonna be the year that i get my first kiss. I'm scared that i'll do it wrong or something and i don't know where to put my hands. Any advice?

Hi there. Listen, it's easy for me to say it but dont let the small stuff scare you. When I was your age I worried about the same things. But when I kissed my first boy, it was almost natural where to put my hands and how to do it. It sounds kind of funny but if you want you can practice on your arm. If you need anything else feel free to ask. I'm here! *C-Ya*

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