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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

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so i was watching The Wedding Date earlier, very good movie and the guy said

"I think I'd miss you even if we'd never met. "

what exactly does that mean?


THANKS!!

it means that she is "the one"

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so v-day is coming up and im tryna get a head start because lets face it im a terrible planner lol! my boyfriend and i have what i guess you could call a very "lovey" relationship. so for vday i was thinkin about givin him chocolate and whatever and also doin somethin cute.. i was thinkin 1 of these 2 ideas and would like input on which you like best or if you have a different cute idea. one was to write him like a letter pretty much pouring my feelings out tellin him everything i think of him. the other was to make a list countin to 50.. and by every number put a reason why i love him. if you like this idea can you give me some ideas of what i could put? i know the typical youre sweet, youve always been there for me, you make me smile, that kinda thing and i love the boy to death but lets face it 50 is alot lol but i dont wanna make it too short. im 16 he'll be 17 oh and that'll also be our 7 months! :)

i like the list idea its soo cute
i did a list for my boyfriend of 100 reasons why i love him.. it took me awhile but he really liked it! so you should do that. if your going to do that then leave a message in my inbox and i can give you some ideas for what to write because i have lots!
hope i helped
xoxoxo

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ok sooooo i asked out that girl alex and she said yes right away im sooo fucking happy but i still wonder did i do the right thing??? i mean sure a am very happy but is wat i did going to cause eney kind of problems oh i just dnt no if i did the right thing just something in my gutt.
help please!!

haha you asked her out and she said yes.
that obviously means she likes you. if problems do come up then you will just have to figure out a way to handle them.. but until then just enjoy your relationship!!
congrats :)

hope i helped
xoxooxox

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okay well when my boyfriend comes over he ussually like massages my vagina,,like with my pants on...and it feels really good. but when i so the same for him he doesnt act as excied...am i doing something wrong? or is that just annoying for guys?

well the person below me said that maybe he doesnt notice... im sure he probably notices and NO IT IS NOT ANNOYING FOR GUYS. im pretty sure he probably likes it. i mean seriously what guy wouldnt like that from their girlfriend? maybe hes just shy about showing you that it feels good because hes embarrassed or something. or he could be the kind of person that just doesnt get excited as easily. sometimes when you do that to a guy hes quiet because hes just thinking about what youre doing.. haha so it doesnt neccesarily mean he doesnt like it. also.. i dont knowwhow your doing it so i cant really tell you if your doing it wrong but like theres not really a wrong way to do it... it just helps if you rub like the top part of it because thats where they get the most feeling. lol
hope i helped
leave a message in my inbox if you need more help!
xoxoxox

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when you give a guy a blow job and the cum goes in your mouth? do u spit it out? or swallow it? if you use a condom, does the cum still go in ur mouth.?..can you get an std from it?? hehe thanks soo much!

you can spit it out or swallow it..
whatever you want to do haha
if you use a condom the cum doesnt go in your mouth.. because like the main point of a condom is to not get pregnant when youre having sex and if it let the cum out then you can get pregnant. so yeah im guessing that the cum doesnt go in your mouth. yeah i think you can get an std from it but like in your mouth. so if youre gonna do something like that with a guy.. make sure hes not like sexually active with a lot of girls and stuff.
hope i helped
xoxooxox

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my best friend's grandmother is dying...what do i do...i dont want to see her sad :(

well theres not really anything you can do about her grandmother dying. shes going to be sad. all you can do is be there for her and maybe try to cheer her up. make plans with her to do other fun stuff that will keep her mind off of her grandma.
hope i helped
xoxoxo

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i have curly hair and its extremely hard to straighten it. How can i straighten it without the blower? Do you know of any good straighting irons? cause my is bad.

get a chi
theyre REALLY good
but they are kinda expensive

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14(freshman)/f
i really like this guy, and his name is jack. like really i've never liked someone so much, and i have had alot of serious relationships before. anyway. he is a junior (16). and he likes me back. my parents are kind of being stupid about the whole situation because he is so much older. liek they dont let me hang out with him or anything, and they are like really over-protective when it comes to him. i dont really know how to deal with it, they just seem not acceptable to the whole thing. i mean, i do good in school and so does he. and like i think they are judging him just cuz hes older. they think all he wants to do is get in my pants, and like.. he says he actually cares about me a lot and wouldnt push me to do anything. which is good cuz i think im to young to do anythign serious. any ideas? please help!

maybe you can have your parents meet him and like talk 2 him & stuff..
yeah it would be kinda embarrassing but it might be the only way that they will approve of you going out w/ him
hope it all works out
xoxoxo

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My average day, foodwise, consists of this: 2 pieces of wheat toast, cheese cubes, and coffee (breakfast.). Half peanut butter sandwhich, sunchips, granola (lunch). Chips and salsa (snack), Lean Cuisine veggie frozen meal (dinner). I drink a bottle and a half of water a day and treadmill for 30 minutes.

Any tips for changes I can make to lose 10 pounds quick? Healthy.

drink more water because when you drink water it fills you up so you arent as hungry
also water is really good for u =]

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i have at least a hundred teen vogue and Seventeen magazine issues and i need a way to organize them. i've attempted to go through and clear out the ones i dont like but that only eliminated about four magazines. my house is tiny and my room is extremely tall and i need a way to organize them without making it look like clutter. i often use them for inspiration for my paintings so i really would like not to get rid of them. any help?

get a magazine rack
a good place to look is pottery barn teen

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Ever sence the kid i liked called me fat ive been eating less which i didnt think a problem, i told my friends thatim eating less and lost 5 pound in 2 weeks which is nothing but they flipped and now i dont feel like eating at all.I do though, but not alot just like little things and last night we went out to dinner a an all you can eat chinese place and when i got home i threw up, not intentionaltly just happened and i didnt eat that much.
whats wrong with me cause i always eat alot-always!im known for my size cause my friends love it.I weigh 193 pounds im a fatty no question asked! thats horrible considering im 14.its all in my belly so i started doing situps and running around and up and down stairs but became lightheaded so stopped.I dont want to eat cause ill gain weight but eating a banana and cottage cheese makes me full and i only eat like a spoon full before im like ugh im full.Which i would usually eat the holl container along with a sandwhich!!
why am i not eating and how can i make myself eat more without worring m ganna get fatter.
ps.dont be like ur not fat cause i am i know.

well i hate to say this but you are overweight for your age. losing 5 pounds is a GOOD thing, not a bad one. it sounds like you're fine right now. keep up the good work.

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I just got a Razr cell phone :] I love it. And I took pictures, now how can I get it on my computer?? And how much does this cost..

send it in a picture message {like a text message} to ur email then open it from there.
it probably costs around 10 cents per picture depending on ur phone plan//company
xo hope i helped

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Ok so i like this boy alot. But hes very short. and im tall. and thats just kinda whats stopping me. what do i do?

height doesnt matter
go with your heart

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hey, starting in the afternoon today my boobs became very tender. they hurt so much. is it from my boobs growing? or what is it?

yeah theyre probably just growing
or you might be getting your period for the 1st time if u havent already.. or you're just getting your period

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okay a few questions.
let's say i'm going on a first date with either;

- a good friend that i've known since ever.
- a blind date
- or someone i know for not so long.

do i kiss on the first date?

i dont really think theres an answer to this question. its whatever you and the other person feel comfortable with. its not like theres a rule that you cant kiss a blind date on the first date. lol so yeah pretty much just do whatever feels right
xo hope i helped

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When someone tells you that they believe that you're their soul mate, what does it mean?

it means that they love you and want to spend the rest of their life with you

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all my frineds make fun of me because my penis is too big, i am 14 and it is 9 inchies. Is i thought it was a good thing to have a penis. Is it?

yeah i agree with the person below me.
dont worry about it,
they're definetly jealous & they only wish they had as a big of a penis as you. haha :]

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Hey again, i'm looking for some advice about how to do my hair. I'm a guy but I'm going to a dance next month as a gurl (cuz I hate bein a guy). My hair is straight, brown, and not very long. Basically it looks like a guy and I hate it. Thanks for your advice. 16/m

umm.. what?

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Is facebook really that much safer than myspace?

yes

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haha.. sorry wrong category. Anywayss,, okk i just got a new wire for my braces, and my teeth really really hurt. They're not poking my mouth or anything.. just really sore. Anything i can do??

&&thanks

take some advil or tylenol && eat soft foods
the pain should go away in a few days :]

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