Iam a girl with black hair and gray eyes. I like to go to the gym to workout because it relieves stress. I like to help people no problem whatever they ask I won't judge people I'm just a person willing to give you some advice that's all. I think its important to have a good education and a good carrer in life. I want this world to be peaceful which is one of my biggest dreams!I'm back!I apologize to you all for not being able to help you guys in need for help whatever help you ask for just write me in my inbox,I'll answer as soon as possible.
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Somebody please ready this..
--Okay, welp me and 3 of my friends were on the street next to my house one day. it was about 1:30 am and a cop pulled up to us. He asked us if we knew where this one guy lived becuase he supposedly robbed a beer distributer. We told him and then he asked us for our names, so we gave him them also. Then i went home and thought nothing of it. My mom has a scanner in the house though and i was listening to it..It said my name and my friends' names' and said they caught us out the bush drinking with beer that we robbed, and that they chased us, and had us held at the station untill our parents got us. NONE OF THAT is true AT ALL! He asked us for directions, thats it! My other friends heard this too over their scanners and they said "Well, why would the cops lie about that?" But they did and now my friends think bad things of us..What is there to do? is there any way we can get these cops in trouble??? :/ (link)
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Like what would people do to show people that they lie,want to prove to them something that not even your parents will believe,they use hidden cameras or a recorder of course,speak to the cop why they lie when using of of these,if they still deny keep insisting they are until they say it they will probably even tell you who is going to believe you I mean they think why would a cop lie something like that they will most likely say to you.Or you could get your friends as witnesses as to what really happen or tell your mom why would you do something like that , that she should believe you more because your her son, that some cops are corrupt like he is,that wouldn't she want you to believe her if she had to tell you something that was true against someone that is not suppose to lie and that is a person to complete with their job.Put doubts into her head that may work or try the other two options but the first one will work definitely.
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sorry for being so long just need to know wat it means I RATE 5's !!!!!i had this realy weird dream were these evil rock people were trying to kill me so then finaly we got them in a room and was filling it with deadly gasses and i got locked in side so then i started dieing slowly finally somehow someone gave me a gun slow i pointed the gun to my stomache *bang* *bang* *bang* *bang* *bang* but i didnt die just made my pain worse then i shot my heart *bang* still didnt die shot my head i still didnt die!!!then i woke up (link)
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When you dream of shooting then that means your fears are getting to you,if you dream of having a gun in your hand you will have a great success,pain wil mean you will have pain either in your head or other part of your body.What I also need to tell you is that some dreams come true but hardly though for some people or it is just an illusion that someone gets in their dream.If you had other dreams you want to know the meaning of ask me by writing to me in my inbox.
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I've been Depressed like forever. When i was little i got really bad mentally abused by my mom and to top this all off i'm fat. Well i'll use the Word Big. I'm not ugly or anything and I look normal, well, Good porportioned, not like a big stomach and stuff...I'm 5'8" at 200 :( It really isn't fair. I've been Depressed and Very low self esteem. Right now i'm trying to do exercise and eating less. But I don't know what i can do to cheer myself up or Feel better about myself. I have plenty of Friends, I get along with anyone, I'm the funny girl...But i just don't feel the way about myself as people see me. I just got rid of my addiction of self mutilation to myself and I need to cheer up to become Happy and get the energy to lose weight. I just want to feel good about myself...and It's quite hard :( (link)
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What you can do is do something you're good at,learn something new to be happy about yourself.You could also get into a team sport and win a trophy or compete in other competitions and play a good game either you lose or win it doesn't matter what matters is at least you did your best which is what counts.If you have other interests but you think you can't like a activity game practice a lot to get good at it.Just try my suggestions.
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I have a question about the paranormal. I don't really believe in spirits and such, but then again I do. Alot of things over the years have changed my mind about ghosts and such. Every night before bed I get on the computer talking to my friends and such, and I even keep the computer desk lamp on, but I always here a swish of wind in the hallway beside the computer room. Sometimes if I turn real quick in my chair I see a shadow running through the hallway.I try not to get caught up in what I see, so I return to my computer desk, a few moments later I feel a presence behind me, it's overwhelming. I feel someone watching me, but when I turn around nothing is there. Also after I get off the computer I go to my room, turn the television on because I have to sleep with some sort of light on, and it's comforting for me to have the television on in my room. I have been having restless sleep since I have first noticed strange things, I wake up in the middle of the night frantically scanning over the room because I feel someone watching over me, I believe I have even seen a dark form at the end of my bed. It's really strange, and about 3 months ago in my basement I discovered a drawing on one of the storage room walls. I had never seen it before, it is a dark face, looks like it has been drawn with carcoal, with white for the eyes and white for the hair. It rather distrubed me, but I figured it was my sister that did it or something. I don't know, maybe all this is in my imagination. As for my question, could someone please shed some light on this situation? Maybe even give me an expierience of their own. I am really starting to think I am going crazy or that something is really in my house. (link)
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No you're not going crazy I never did believe in ghosts but now I do because when I was like ten years old I went to another state for my vacation for one week,one night at 1:00 at the night my mom went to sleep then I was watching the news,then I heard voices of a whisper,the weather man on tv was talking. But then it was on commmercials,it said my name a few times,then I heard someone coming to the kitchen,the noise was coming from my room,I didn't dare go check there,then I heard a person throw a glass at the window of the kitchen,and I hid under the pillows.I was so frightened,that very same night I went to sleep later in my room,then my mom woke up,she also heard like someone threw something,got up,checked but there was nothing there.The next day something so scary happened half of the glass of the window was broken and I was so terrified!So ever since I believed in spirits and people have prove sometimes that they seen it on tv because some were caught on camera.Waht you need to do is go to the priest to put god's pure water in your house so the spirits could go away.Take good care of yourself.
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Whenever I babysit, the parents always ask me "How much do you pay per hour?". The truth is, I don't have a rate, and they always overpay me, which I don't mind :D, but I think it's impolite to take more than 15 dollars an hour. How can I politly set a reasonable babysitting rate that isn't too much or too little? (link)
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Well it depends what you things you do at yuor babysitting per hour like do you change diapers,feed the child,and others?Probably at least,ask them what they think will be a fair payment for them to give you.Note the next time what you do per hour to know how much you should receive for a fair payment that is the second option.And how nice of you!
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k so..i have a bf nd i luv him to death..but..i jst found out that my best friend likes me 2..alot..nd i rele dont want 2 hurt him..also..my x..whom i still sumwhat like still likes me..i dont kno wat to do w/ out ne1 getting hurt..i rele dont want to hurt ne of them cuz i kno it will break there hearts as well as mine (link)
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The one you should be with is the one you love as far as the other it is better to just be friends with them and if they tell you they are interested in you then you have to say your very sorry about it but you can't correspond to them but you just prefer to be friends,and you also don't want to lose the friendship or at least they should just understand and that you hope they can find happiness with another person who will have the same feelings for them.
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I like him so much. We have been through so much. He turned me down once but we didn't really know each other then. We have become good friends. When we aren't around everyone we talk and smile and flirt. But when we are we don't talk but we do look at each other except apparently I look too much b/c he said that my eyes were like lasers and he can't sleep at night. I hope I didn't push me away by doing that. Do you think we could have a chance? (link)
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Yeah I think so because he flirts at you and especially what he said about your eyes,all so he really likes you but you should hope he askes you out or if he doesn't other guy will for sure.Get close to your friend talk to him a lot so he likes you even more,and show that you care when he talks about something or about himself.
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okay so i like this kid named mike...and i dont even know what i like about him but i just do...so anyways i can not tell if he likes me or not..you know how boys never share there feelings and stuff..okay so he doesnt do that...anwyas he knows i like him and my friend asked him out for me...and he so no...and so he kinda of flirts with me online and stuff and lately it seems he alwaYS wants to know things and talk to me and stuff usually online we would have boring convos now he asks me a lot of questions and stuff..but i cant tell if he just wants to get to know me more or if he lieks me or not..what should i do...
p.s he HATES when i ask him who he likes! (link)
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What I think is that he probably wants to get to know you more before going out with you and are you okay with that?He also wants to start slow better than fast because you also get to know more about him as well and type of personality he has.As far as asking him I got an idea ask one of your friends who is a guy like him to ask him what he see's in girls but first they should become friends then get information out of him and to ask him which girls he likes maybe he won't get mad and why should he anyways.
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alright i was dating this guy who is a grade ahead of me and when i was dating he was perfect the best boyfriend and i was actully happy with him. well one day i was at work ( i work at a community center) i told my best friend that i had cancer and he gave me a hug because i was crying about it well this chick told my boyfriend i was cheating on him and he flipped out on me.i had told him to shut up and listen to me and that i wasnt cheating on him and he dumps me thats his mistake well he broke up with me and called me the next day and told me he was sorry and he loved me i wouldnt date him again and last night he called me and told me he loved me and cant stop thinking about me and everytime he sees me he likes me more and everytime he talks to me he does well im dating him again but my parents dont like him because he broke up with me for stupied reasons and stuff. and my boss hates him and they tell me i cant date him they dont no that i am yet What Should I Do.. SORRY SOO LONG (link)
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Speak to then that you forgave him because it is important to forgive those who you love and care about.And that you really need him there by your side especially now that you have cancer.They will understand you.Which ever girl said that to him why doesn't she mind her own business and shame on her to say something like that to him and worse lie about something so serious.Have as much fun so you can be happy and not feel upset or lonely.You have to show them that he is truly sorry by telling him to come to your house,to apologize to you in front of them,that he will never make the same mistake to you again by ever doubting you,and also that he will always be there for you and will take care of you,giving you love,and support as well.Hope everything goes well for you and your happiness!
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heyy i wanna good look good make up wise wat kind of makeup should i wear i have blue eyes brown hair and im tan-ishh ne one have any advice?
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You should go to the makeup room site, there they have a makeup of Calvin Klein which is good for all ages,Gel SPF15 which will look great on your complexion or get Sunless tanning Gel from Bobbi Brown.You should definitely order them.
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I know its kinda early for me to be askin for help, but I dont want to screw things up. I just kinda met this guy online. We met from xanga and he got my sn and started talkin to me. I know its not good to talk to strangers online, but come on. I know that these people can be crazy or stalkers. I know all of that so dont talk to me about it. We live in the same town and we got to different schools. I'm 15/f and he's 17/m. We just started talkin today and we showed each other our pictures and tried gettin to know each other. We were kinda flirtin with each other like him callin he hot and all this other stuff. I'm only going to be a freshman and he's gonna be a senior. In my town there are only really two public high schools and we're both going to different ones. He been going to one that all my friends are at so I guess I would meet him soon. What are somethings that I can do to make him interested and so we can get to know each other better? I dont want to make him bored so what are somethings we can talk about? I jus dont want to screw anything up. Sorry this is sooo long. Thanks (link)
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Talk about things he's interested in,sports,small family problems you may have,ask him if he were in difficult situations before,if so how he overcome them,tell him about your family,shows you enjoyed,things you think are really funny,music,dreams you too have for your future,school,good moments you had,fun times you had,ask him his,talk about interesting places you know of or been to,movies,celebrities,games,other interesting things about you,and ask him his.
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im 13/m, and im from the middle east, and my family follows the religion Islam. from time to time, im not sure if i completly believe in the ways of Islam. Sometimes im positive that there can't be a God, other times it's the other way around. But besides believing in God, i also find other things i disagree with about the Islam religion. I'm starting to be interested in Buddhism, and I like how the religion is set around believing whatever you want to believe, but i don't know how to tell my parents this, being that they are kind of religious. I'm also not sure if im too young to change my choice of religion.
sorry if its long. ill rate 5's. (link)
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You are too young to be in a religion in my opinion.But if it is very important to you to want to be in a diffrent religion now or when you grow older let them know how important it is to you ,to understand and respect your interests.I had someone in my family who wanted to vhange their religion,then my family had to accept it because they saw how important it was for him but it was hard convincing them.You should talk to them about this when there not too busy,have then sit down,take your time if you have to and if there is someone that supports you in this then tell that person to help you out to talk about this because this is something very serious.You could also tell them your point of view and why is it you're so interested in Buddhism,talk about the importance of it and use details as well about the religion.Good luck convincing them!
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so my sister annoys the heck outta me.she hasnt lived with me for like 7 years but here she is trying to mess me up.always on my case like she knos me.i love here and all but she needs to back off and let me live my life.what should i do.
ps:shes older than me by 6 years (link)
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Speak to her to just keep out of yuor life that everyone has a right to do their own and not mess it up just to bother others.Haven't you told this to your parents if you haven't well then talk to them about it and if they don't believe you tel then to observe her when you too are alone and she doesn't notice so they could catch her in the act.Or you could have a recorder to record all the bad things she saids to you to mess you up and all.
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I love my boyfriend but lately he has been acting so possessive! He doesn't want me to hang out with my friends (though it fine for him to hang out with his). He doesn't even want me talk to them on the phone when I happen to be around him. He is starting to give me the creeps. Any advice? (link)
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You can't let your boyfriend control you like if you are some object because it will be most likely he will be controlling you all the time.You got to tell him how come he hangs out wiht his friends but you can't.Does your guy have any friends who are girls?If he does then he may be changing because of one of them.You need to let him now that it is very necessary for him to trust so how is the relationship going to go well.Also that it really hurts that now he has become so possesive which is not normal it's like he is obessed with you.One last thing if he hits you then that will be a sign that now that his possesiveness has become very dangerous and then you should break up with him otherwise he will continue to put his hands on you and even go to the limit.
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is it alright to have a crush on an actor as long as you dont go bananas??? like a small one not too serious??? i feel guilty because i do>>>> sorry that this question is properly punctuated> the shift key has suddenly been deactivated
:) hollis (link)
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Yes of course it is alright but yeah you shouldn't go bananas.You should see how crazy fans go when they see a goodlooking actor or actress.But hey who can blame them.I even had a crush on some actors but then I got over them so it's no big deal.But I definitely don't fall into illusions with them.It is also okay if you like a small one but not too serious.Everybody has different likes and dislikes so that is what makes people unique.
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im 14/f - 5.5 - 115 - i think im totally fat! i cant help it.. and the problem is .. is my hips!! and that leads to my theighs!! omg i hate them soo muchh!! my hips stick out soo muchh! and my friends are all flat on the side! and i think my theighs are huge! but they arent that big.. but the thing is .. is when i wear jeans my hips stick out alot!! and it looks like my legs/theighs are huge! and i hate it alot. i wear a size 16 in abercrombie & fitch .. and a 1 or 2 in other stores.. and i think im soo fat!! can someone please help mee!! i give 5's !! =]
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Go to a gym like Bally Total Fitness or YMCA or other gyms available.But the gym I would recommend you to go is Bally Total Fitness,they even have a personal trainer,you must pay for a membership card of course,someone will attend you,ask for your address,phone number stuff like that,you will pay monthly,they'll tell you how,mail the payment to your home, the gym I go has a very great deal.But you could also get an $18 membership for a month,has a lot of machines you could use to lose weight,build muscles,has a water fountain,will have lockers so make sure you get your owm locker tell you parents about it. A lot of people go to exercise so you could talk to your personnal trainer about what you want to do to reach your goals and they will help you on that.
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How Are You Sure A Guy Likes You?
i rate high! (link)
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I'm sure a guy likes me when he smiles a lot for no apparent reason,sits next to me or talks to me a lot,and get's very interested in what I have to say.Also askes me about my personnal life and askes me several questions referring about me.And stares at me a lot and if he likes me a lot his eyes would glow!
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Lately I've been thinking I'm depressed and I've been very unexpected with my moods. I was talking to my boyfriend either and this is what was said:
Me: I don't understand myself sometimes..
Him: honestly, i dont understand you sometimes either
Allowing myself to say it and then hear him say it feels so different. It hit me hard when he said that. Would anyone else be not offeneded, but confused if your boyfriend said that to you? It hurts so much more hearing it from him rather than myself... (link)
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I would be confused and hurt at he same time but I would also say to myself at least he was honest to me.And I do get your point.You should try not to be depressed like have more fun and by going out more with your boyfriend.You should also get support from others which helps a lot and you should probably tell him why you are feeling this way.You could also seek help by asking others if they went through the same feeling and if so ask them how they got through that whole situation.
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I just started Junior High, (Catholic school) and I know everyone. But the thing is, I can't stand all the homework they give us. Today was my second day, and they gave us homework in at least half of our subjects. It took me 3 hrs just to do it! And between cheerleading for 2 hrs after school, and the homework. i just can't take it! And I try to stay focused, because my main goal is the honor roll this year-but in most of my classes, i have to sit next or across from all the girls I HATE. They are such bitches. What should I do? Any tips? If anyone wants to screw around with their answer, it will be an automatic 1. (link)
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Tell your teacher to change your seat because you are not feeling comfortable there and it will even help if you tell her that you don't want to sit near people you don't get along with, that is what I did when I had people I didn't want to sit near and it worked.As with the homework try speaking with the teachers to give you makeups if you forget to do the homework and also try convincing them not to give you a lot of homework.Also try doing your homework at your free time so you don't have that much homework to do.I never been in cheerleading but I heard it is hard and especially when you also have a lot of homework to do and cheerleading must be fun.
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I really like this guy named Zach. Zach is my best friends older brother. I am in 9th grade and he is in 12th grade. I really like him. He always gives me hugs becuase like he thinks of me as his little freshman friend. I want to go out with Zach, but I don't know how to ask. I know people are reading this saying "Ask him out..." It is not that easy, if he says know I will be imbaressed and I doubt he will want to go out with a freshman. What are some ways I can let him know I like him, not just telling him tho, LOL!!
Thank youuu!
Kayla ♥ ♥ ♥ (link)
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Get a friend to ask him what he thinks of going out with a freshman.If he does not care then you could easily ask him saying to him that you have something important ot tell him,then tell him that you always had feelings for him but you were just afraid that he wouldn't want to go out with a freshman but talk to him where there is nobody there.But if he saids he is not interested in going out with a freshman then you might as well get over him and find some other guy because I'm sure he's not the only goodlooking guy at your school ,if you haapen to see another guy show him you like him and get close to him and try working with him and see what happens.
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