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I'm 18 and about to enter my sophomore year of college. Feel free to ask me questions about anything- I'll try to help in the best way possible! :)

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this will sound stupid. but when people say like "what base have you been to" or soemthing i have no clue what they are talking about, so i just go along with it. could you explain like

base 1 is - then tell me

thanks

it's different from person to person but for me i consider it-
1* kissing/making out
2* fingering/hj
3* oral
home* sex

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ok so this may be weird but im just wondering, are there ever people [both guys & girls] that have like a myspace or xanga, and you randomly visit it one day, and then youre like oh well they seem cool or interesting or whatever, so you look at it again one day and then begin to do it often and its almost as if you start to "know" that person without ever talking to them? is that just me lol? im 16/f

It's happened to me before and my two best friends too. I think everybody does it.. so don't worry haha.

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Is 10th-11th grade too late to start cheerleading? (for my high school..jv)? I never had the oppurtinity in gradeschool & I don't tumble. I was with some of my new friends (I just moved) & one is a cheerleader & one is a dancer. They saw my flexibility & asked me if I was a cheerleader & later said that I should be one. It got me thinking because I think it'd be cool but I don't know if I should go for it. I'm loud, average body. Thanks in advanced.

It's not too late! Just practice a lot with your two friends and try to learn some new stuff so that you're ready for tryouts. Definately try out!

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I was wondering if anyone could give
me a list of some sad songs that could help
heal a broken heart. I'm going through
a tough time with two heartbreaks in one
month and I'd really appreciate it if I could
get some names of some songs to listen to.

Right now I'm listening to songs like:
Best of Me- The Starting Line
Better than Me- Hinder
Whats Left of Me- Nich Lachey
Stupid Boy- Keith Urban

thanks

Aww, sorry to hear hun =[ Feel better

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I cant even go to www.myspace.com..it says somthing about it benig in available.. or.. yea..somthing in that field. My sisters compuiter, my computer, and the laptop all are doing the same thing... anyone else encountering this?

It isn't working for me right now either.

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What could you wear with a skirt?

Because it's too short and I don't like my legs showing that much. It's a jean skirt.

Are there certain leggings [colors] that go well with it?

Is thigh high socks a little too much?

I'm not sure if your skirt is dark or light denim, but I really like charcoal colored leggings. I have some from Hollister. Any leggings would probably look good with a jean skirt, depending on what colored or type of shirt you're wearing. Thigh high socks are kind of too much, when I think of them it reminds me of Clueless.=]

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you know those scrubby things that you put in showers and you put soap on them and then rub yur body or whatever? do i have to use that thing with shower gel? or can i just pour the shower gel on my hands and put it on my body and rinse it off?

You don't have to use it to use shower gel. You can basically use shower gel however you want to.

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guys do you prefer blonds or brunettes, thanks.

It's different from boy to boy. Just like the person said below me, just think about who he's gone out with before. I do it! =]

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so i'm a fifteen year old girl.
i've had sex before with my boyfriend with condoms and it's been all good.
until today, we had it with the "mint tingle" from trogen.
we went all the way
and it broke.
we didnt notice it broke until he cumed.

so my questions are
what should i do? i've cleaned my self out a lot. we got it (or most of it) before it got in, i cleaned it with water and i'm about to go shower.
and what are the chances of me getting preg?
and has this happened to some one else, what happened, and what condom did you use?

You probably have a 50/50 chance of being pregnant. Even though you cleaned yourself out with water, that won't get rid of the possible fertilized egg. Some people think that douching works too, but it doesn't. Even if you get rid of visible semen, sperm is microscopic so you won't be able to see it and all you need is one to impregnate you. You're probably best off taking a pregnancy test if you're really worried about it.

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where can you buy those sports hair ties / headbands?

they come in like a roll i think and there are a BUNCH of different colors. they're kinda mesh and wide but they roll up thin and you tie them?


does anyone know what im talking about?

I think you're talking about pre-wrap? It can be used under athletic tape so that it doesn't stick to your skin and girls usually tie it around their heads as a headband. You can get it at basically any sports store, like Dicks. It's really cheap too for a pretty good amount.

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are there any products store or like tips like lemon juice or something that prevents oily and greasy hair?

I'm not sure of any products that prevent greasy hair, but once your hair is greasy I put babypowder on my scalp, and kind of pat it, so that it isn't really white. Yea, it sounds kind of weird but it actually works, hahaha. You just have to make sure that your scalp isn't like white because that'd be really embarassing. haha

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okay i have no idea what to get my girlfriend. i want to ask her what she wants but i hear that's not good to just ask her. i need to just get her something she will like. what should i get her?

You could just stick to flowers, chocolate, a stuffed animal, and a card if you want to. I have a store in my local mall that's calling 'Things Remembered', I'm not sure if you have it or not, but they have these cute charm bracelets and lockets on sale for $29.95, and you can get it engraved with your names or something like that. At that store, there's a lot of stuff to chose from that they engrave for you such as photo albums, picture frames, and jewelry boxes. That'd be really cute.

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i really like snacking while i'm doing my homework or watching tv. i've been snacking on mini oreos lately. thing is, 9 mini oreos is like, 130 calories or something. is there other snacks that are as good or somewhat as good as oreos that doesn't have so much calories in it? nothing too expensive, please. thank you.

I think that they have 100 Calorie Oreo packs, but if not, they do have a lot of other choices. Special K bars are amazing, and there's 90 calories in most of them. Light, nonfat yogurt. Fresh fruit, like strawberries or cherries are naturally sweet, without added sugars and fats.

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So I was checking out questions recently. And there was an answer to one about an online diary. and the website was like... www.diary(something).com and i cant remember what it was. Does anyone know? Thanks In Advance!

www.diaryland.com

i actually read the same question and went on that site right after! hahah=]

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okay so i intake about 600 calories a day and i weigh about 118 and im 5'4. 2 questions. am i fat? and is 600 calories a day okay i'v been doing it for about 6 months so what would happen if i increased it would i gain weight?

You're not overweight at all. You should be eating around 1500 calories, or a little more. You're not getting enough calories, so you should increase your calorie intake. Yea, you'll probably gain some weight, but 600 calories is way too low and definately increase it.

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If your grandmother on your mom's side is Polish, your grandfather on your mom's side is Italian, and your grandmother on your dad's side is Dutch, your grandfather on your dad's side is Italian. Would that make you a full blooded Italian? Or Italian, Dutch, and Polish?

You'd be 1/4 Polish, 1/4 Dutch, and 1/2 Italian.
You're not full Italian because not all of your grandparents are Italian.

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My girlfriend OD'd last night. she took 4 lortabs & 4 kutecs(thats a perscription).she also took 1600 mgs of ibuprofen.she thinks that lortabs were expired because when she opened the bottle, it smelt bad.she became really dizzy, broke out into a major cold sweat, threw up 4 times,tight feeling in chest, and periodic headaches. its been 24 hours and she still is somewhat dizzy, and still has headaches in the back and sides of her head.
how can she get better?
how can i help her?

Take her to the emergency room, IMMEDIATELY!

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please only girls answer.
what types of clothes/outfits do girls like on guys?? Im not interested in things like emo style or goth, no offense to those that are, i just dont like the style. any help would be appriciated. ..thanx..

It really does vary from girl to girl. Some girls LOVE guys that dress in "ghetto" clothes such as Southpole, Ecko.. etc, but that's a turn-off for me. I honestly go for anything that looks good on the guy. If a guy dresses in clothes like Volcom and it looks good on him, then sure. But if he's a prep and that's what he likes to wear, then that's fine. I just don't really like a really really pretty boy, a guy that dresses 1000x nicer than I do, and spends 3 extra hours picking out his clothes than I do. Hahaa.. but yea, basically anything that looks good.

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i need help !!
ok i have green eyes and blck eyeliner doesnt look very good (it makes me look kinda goth cuz of my eyes) what color should i use that would look the best for my eyes ?? plz help !!

I use green contacts, and I used to use black and I thought it was kind of, blahhh. I started to use this metallic-dark charcoaly kind of color, and it looks super pretty. First I put on this dark green eyeliner, and put that over it. I love it.

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whats some good hxc or emo music? anything from like on the last day to um... hit the lights is good. thanks! ^_^

-Silverstein
-Underoath
-Scary Kids Scaring Kids
-Chiodos
-Drop Dead, Gorgeous
-Story of the Year
-Rise Against
-Alexisonfire
-Norma Jean
-Glassjaw
-Senses Fail
-Boys Like Girls
-Alesana
-From Autumn To Ashes
-Mozart Season
-Halifax
-Bullet For My Valentine
-Asteria
-Forgive Durden

Ask me if you want more!=]

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