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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]
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15/f
my best friend is moving . we go to a private school but it was really hard for her single dad to pay, and he just got a job somewhere 45 minutes away. our head of school loves my best friend and really wants her to stay because our school is small and shes a really good student and athlete. anyways she can't get enough financial aid. It's not entirely final and i'm just wondering what i can possibly do. I would be entirely devestated, absolutely miserable if she left, we are really close and I don't have many other close friends at school. what should i do, I have no idea how to cope, i'm so upset. please help
i know private school is expensive..
but you could try starting a fundraiser to help your friend get more money so she can stay at your school!! get a bunch of your friends to help. you will be suprised at how much money you can raise.
good luck xoxo
mkay.well im 15.my guy is 15 as well. me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over 5 months.(actually 7 months, but we broke up over the summer)I am honestly in love with him. and he really likes me as well, we just have a great relationship, we almost never fight. and when we do, like seriously in 5 minutes one of us is calling the other in tears to aplologize. so, i guess im saying that we have a great relationship. BUT. whenever where together, ALL he wants to do is makeout, and finger me, and go up my shirt. like seriously.at my house, the movies,the mall,school.i mean everywhere. we talk on the phone ALOT. in the month of january, we talked for a totaly of 1,658 minutes. most of it late into the night, usually 12:30 or later. im epileptic, so i really need my sleep. One of my problems is that i am SO embarassed about my epilepsy, i have so many great guy friends who care SO much. and are always right by my side when i have a seizure. but, im not sure how HE feels about it. he doesnt want to talk about it usually, but its not like he just doesnt care about me, and my epilepsy. BUt anyways my bigger probelem. whenever we talk on the phone, he ALWAYS wants me to masturbate while on the phone. ive done it more and more recently, i dont mind doing it once in a while, but honestly every night just isnt my cup of tea. and i feel a little uncomfortable. he also wants me to send him pictures of me doing things to myself.im really not up for that. ive already sent him like 4 pictures, but its just never enough, and he uses stupid excuses like "if you loved me" and "the other guys got to see it"(when i was in seventh grade, i got into a really uncomfortable sexual situation with older boys, and i told him about it, and now hes holding it against me) the other things he pressures me to do, is to give him a hand job and a blow job, and i REALLY dont want to, i mean i have never done that, and i just dont know how to. Am i too young for a serious relationship like this? Im not sure if im old and mature enough for this stuff, but i dont want to loose him, and he tells me that he will wait as long as he has to for me to get ready. but i feel really pressured. i DONT want to loose him,i mean i would be devastated. i have NEVER felt like this. am i too young? should i just let it go and wait until somebody else comes along later when im more mature? should i stay with him, and keep feeling pressured?i mean he doesnt pressure me, but i still feel rushed. i just HONESTLY need help. i would talk to my friends, but im in a group of realy goody goody friends, (im one too.lol)and im the only one who has ever had a real boyfriend, and so they think that making out is gross.
PLEASE HELP.
please and thank youss.
wow thats how i feel sometimes with my boyfriend
our situation is like sooo similar
wow haha like seriously... how long we talk on the phone.. our age.. how long we've been going out w. the guy... the pictures.. when we get in fights.. masturbating on the phone... everything.
the thing is, if he really respects and loves you.. he will wait until you're ready. i feel like my boyfriend pressures me a little sometimes.. and i think thats how you're feeling too. no i dont think you're too young for a relationship like this.. as long as you like it and are comfortable. if you're not comfortable then tell him that. as for like giving him a hand job or blow job.. is the reason that you dont want to because you dont know how.. or because you just dont want to? because if you want to theres plenty of sites and stuff that can help you. but if you really dont want to do that.. then just tell him you're not ready. it sounds like he really loves you and will understand. and if the thought of just like touching him there under his pants is gross for you then you can always like do it over his pants and i'm sure he'll be pretty happy. as for the pictures.. and all that other stuff. guys get horny. hes a teenager. hes obviously really attracted to you and probably finds it really hot when you send him pictures.. etc. that doesnt mean hes just going out w. you because hes attracted to you. it sounds like he loves your personality and your looks. so you're a lucky girl. try to start calling him earlier so you guys wont end up staying up all night! if you get tired.. tell him you need to go to sleep. he'll understand, hes probably just as tired as you are. so yeah and just remember dont do anything that you're not ready for because you will regret it.
xo hope i helped
leave a message in my inbox if you have more questions! or to tell me what happens!
xoxoxoxo77
Who's playing in the superbowl this year? Haha I haven't been paying attention and I'm too embarassed to ask anyone else.
colts vs. bears
GO BEARS!!!!!!!! :)
How do I tell if he likes me and he has a girlfriend that dosen't go to the same school?
okay well sorry hun but he probably doesnt like you. i have a boyfriend that goes to a different school and i admit that i do flirt with guys at my school because my boyfriend isnt there and i get bored so thats probably what hes doing.
14/m
Ok so me and my gf were having sex and i thought that i could hold off from cumming but it was so good that we couldnt stop and i gizzed in her, and i wasnt wearing a condom. Could she be pregnant?
YES. even if you didnt jizz in her then theres still a chance that she could have gotten pregnant.
I am 29 yrs old. I dont have any friends.I have a wonderful boyfriend who is very outgoing and confident.Every now and then he says I need to make some friends. I cant. What do I do, call some girl up and say will you be my friend?? How cheesy. I go out with him where his friends hang out but no one engages conversation with me.They do for a minute then go. I am an attractive person that is not the problem. But how does someone who was abused as a child, not allowed to have friends, phonecalls or sleepovers, and a 10 year marriage where I was not allowed to work or have friends, change and get friendships. It seems so out of reach for me.Help!!!
maybe you should join a club. pick an activity you like. or you can join a health club. also, you can get a job.
Hi im 14 male,i was wondering,how old would most parents say you should be before your girlfriend could sleep over,like in the same room/same bed.I know some parents are strict, but what would most parents say is old enough?
Thanks,
Please Anwser
well if you told your parents that "its just to cuddle with eachother and to kiss eachother goodnight.." i doubt they would believe you. no offense or anything. but most parents think that their teens probably want to have sex. if you really want a sleepover with her that badly you could talk to your parents. i doubt that will work because her parents will probably say no. so then you can try to get a bunch of girls & guys together and have a big group sleepover. if the parents still wont let you try getting a big group together and like camping out in your backyard or something to make it seem like you actually have a reason for a boy/girl sleepover. tell them the boys will sleep in one tent and the girls in another.. but of course you guys can switch once the parents go to sleep. you could try inviting just one guy & one other girl that like eachother so they would be okay with switching too. haha idk just some ideas :)
Alright this is kind of a weird question butttt is it a serious problem that whenever I pee it's been burning? This has been going on for about a week now. I'm on birth control and have sex if that helps? Right now it hurts a little and feels like I really need to pee when I definitely know I don't need to. Does anyone know what could be wrong? Should I go see a doctor? helppp =[
15/f
try drinking more water
you're probably just not getting enough fluids :)
otherwise.. try seeing a doctor
I want a new screen name.
I know i was it it say jessicarr
becuase my friends call me that
but i need to add something
ideas please!
I know people hate these questions.
so sorry, but i need some help.
[[any other cute ideas ill take too]]
add some numbers
or like jessicarrx923
or w/e #s u want
or add xo or something
jessicarrxo
OK so i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a while now and hes never made a move on me. Eh I dont know if should feel bad about this but I kinda want him to already. He is very lovey dubby and love is great and all but jeez and need a little lust every now and then too you know? Anyway any advice on how i can maybe lead him on to making a move, because i would never make the 1st move. so please help.
haha i had the same EXACT problem
&& its funny cuz usually its like the other way around.. like where the girl think the guy is moving too fast
well it kinda depends on how far you're willing to go with him..leave a message in my inbox or post more info onto this question because i have tons of tips! haha
everytime Im w/ her with no one around she is always throwing sexual geustures, ie hand near my dick, un buttoning my shirt, her shirt and showing me her thong, yeah i get hard around her but I dont want to have sex with her becuase of my religon. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
wow usually its the other way around
just talk to her.
explain to her that you dont want to have sex because of your religion.
if she really likes you then she will understand.
ok so if you think a guy is like really cute, does it mean you fancy them?? bcoz i asked my mate do you think _____ is cute but then she said i didnt know you liked him!!
thanks
xx
nooo you can think lots of guys are cute!
theres a difference between being attracted to someone and actually liking someone :)
hope i helped
this upcoming friday i'm going to a private gymnastics lesson, is there anything i should know in advance? i'm learning my backhand spring cause i need it for cheerleading next year.
i can't do a split right now so any advice on getting one quick; like by april? and toe touches?
for the back walkover, any easy ways to walk over? i can do a bridge but i can't quite walk over yet. i don't know why not cause i feel confident lol
:]
any tips for gymnastics or whatever, let me know please!
ok you arent going to learn how to do a backhandspring in one lesson. for some people it can take a year or two to actually be able to do it on their own. one tip-- you cant be scared. try whatever they tell you to do. seriously, the worst you can do is jump back and fall directly on your head.. ive done it lol it doesnt hurt that much. as for your splits.. practice them every day hold them for a minute or two.. push yourself to the point of discomfort but not the point of pain if you know what i mean. for the backwalkover.. do a lot of bridges to help make your back more flexible. when you do a bridge.. push back towards your shoulders and try and make your shoulders go farther out than your arms. sry thats kinda hard to explain but you'll know what i mean once you try it. get your feet as close to your hands as possible and then kick over. :) good luck
well you see whenever i make out w/ my boyfriend i get a sore throat is this normal?
yess it has happened to me before
my friend told me that it happened because i got too many of his germs in my mouth or something and it got me sick. maybe your boyfriend is sick or maybe your body is just not used to other peoples germs
heyy i decided on the 50 reasons list thing so if you could help me with some ideas thatd be great. thanks so much!
haha ok i'll just send u my whole list..
a bunch of them probably wont apply to you but you can use whichever ones do :)
haha ok i feel kinda stupid sending this to someone but thats ok. good luck!
100 Reasons Why I Love You
i take spanish 1 in school, and we recently started doing paragraphs in spanish. i have a hard time figuring out which verb - ser or estar - to use. what's the difference between the two verbs and is there an easy way to remember which one to use in a sentence?
please help!
what you feel and where you are is when you use the verb estar :)
hehe
hope i helped
i know this is kind of weird but i always over-analyze things so here it goes. i have only been to first base. i know i am going to go to second soon but the thing is, i have 32As. what are guys going to think? or will they not care?
some guys care but some dont
if a guy wants to go to second with you..
he obviously can see how big your boobs are and he still wants to so dont worry..you'll be fine
Im 17 and have been masterbating since I was 12, but A few hour ago I masterbated using a vibrator(it wasnt my first time either) and was going really fast, and a little hard, and when I was done I was bleeding, i bled for about and hour almost as mush as my period, but even though the bleeding stoped i feel a weird feeling in my gut and when I pee, can you help me out here, Is this normal?
you probably popped your cherry
well i told my boyfriend that i have had sex before but i havent. if we do have sex, is there any way he could tell that i am still a virgin?
oh and what does it mean when somebody "pops your cherry". lol
when somebody "pops your cherry" it means that they are breaking your hymen which is a piece of skin and when this happens it may bleed so yes he might be able to tell that youre a virgin if you bleed.
i am a 13 year old boy. i met this girl and we started to talk alot but then when i asked her out she just walked away. about aweek later i started talking to her but she will just run away and i dont know what to do. please help.
girls can be weird like that sometimes.. maybe she likes you but shes just shy. she never really said no but she never said yes either. make sure that when youre talking to her you guys are alone so then shes not influenced by her friends or anything.