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Well, I think I might be going out with this guy and I think he is like being to "forward".(Like moving into the relationship too fast.) like last night he wanted to make up "Pet Names" for each other. And i didn't feel comfortable doing that. (idk why) how can i tell him? (link)
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how can you think your going out w. some one? i think you need to get that straight first. what type of pet names.. like babe.. that is fine. i think thats cute. maybe he just feels a little more confy. with you then you do with him. and thats fine.. just tell him what your thinking.. just be like. hey i do like you, but i just dont want to move this fast. and he will just be like okay.. and then just talk about something to make him happy.
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A little while ago I made myself throw up cause I didnt like the way I looked.I promised my friends I would stop so I am,but my so called best friend wrote on her xanga that im bellimic and that everyone says I was just doing it for attention and for those who dont know wat an xanga is its like a website u can write things on and EVERY1 reads it cause alotta my friends have them and I didnt want any1 to know.Now I know that was wrong of her to post that on her xanga but I got really mad at her and I wont talk to her and we were just fighting last nite and we were cursing eachother off and I called her a backstabber.Do you think it was right for me to get mad at her? Do you think I should just let it go and apologize? I kno this gurl wont apologize to me cause thats how she is,but i dont know wat to do cuz I dont really wanna lose her as a friend but shes just really gotten on my nerves lately and she hasnt been a good friend to me.Thanks for reading this! (link)
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Do you think it was right for me to get mad at her? yess i do! that SO wasnt right. not at all. you are going threw hard times. you dont need the whole world knowing!!!
Do you think I should just let it go and apologize? you apologize.. no! she needs to. i wouldn't let it go.. not now at least. make sure she is truely sorry
I kno this gurl wont apologize then she will think.. okay i can just do w.e i want.. and you dont want her taking over your life..
just sit her down and talk to her and tell her what is bothering you. .and ask her why she did that.. and why did she say it was for attention. cuz when your bellimic.. you dont do it for attention. you do it cuz you are not happy about your self
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I have a friend who was going out with this one girl. he's 18 and really loved her. they even talked about getting married! Then one night at a party he did a lot of things with another girl at a party, and after that she had sex with someone els. He was so mad that he cheated on his girlfriend with a "slut" and when his girlfriend found out she was puking and screaming. Now my friend wants to kill himself and im scared. Besides going to an adult, how can i help him? (link)
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well your whole story lost me.. but the killing part, i get. just him. it isn't worth it. its just a relationship. they come and go. nothing that happenes is worth your life. and stuff like that. dont go to an adult.. that makes it worse. when he is ready, he will go get help. all you can do it stay by his side, and help him threw it.
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My(used to be)best friend meghan who now I don't like anymore is flirting with my other friend Alex (who I used to go out with but now he's a really big crush)and she knows I like him alot and if I talked to her about it she would just take it he wrong way like she did last time I tried and I don't know how to get her to stop cuz it really upsets me and I think she knows why I'm mad at her but she just i/ms me asking why I'm mad and pretends like she doesn't know and I think her and my friend Julie were talking about it and meghan asked her to ask me what was wrong and that made me mad too! And I don't wanna be meghan's friend for so many reasons but I just can't deal with her flirting with Alex then denying she likes him and saying she likes this other kid. What should I do? (link)
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after you and alex broke up .. have you told him you still have feelings for him? cuz you could win him over .. and prove to her that your not joking.. or maybe you should sit your ex friend down and just tell her .. be like i dont want to be your friend because of this.. this.. this .. and tell her everything. and with your friend Julie. she was just trying to help out your ex friend.so dont be mad at her. so just talk to alex.and tell him how you feel. then talk to your ex friend, and tell her you dont want to be friends. then talk to Julie and just let her know that what she did upset you
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i just got a boy friend, and i like him . a lot. but i dont know. like i think SO many other boys are hot also. what do i do? am i being rude to my boyfriend? (link)
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yay for you .. who ever you are =) okay.. you are alowed to think other guys are hott, just not alowed to like them. so your fine.. not doing anything wrong, no worries
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Okay well about 3 months ago i met my boyfriend. And its really werid how we met because he liked my friend and i tried to hook them up but she didn't like him. So, he came over to my house and we were just hangin out and then after that we talked on the internet and he said that im beautiful and he had alot of fun and that he REALLY really likes me... so we went out that nite. I told my friend that were going out and she was happy for me and everything. Well this is my question now that you have the background... I don't like having my boyfriend around my friend cause i feel uncomfortable knowing that he used to like her!! i love him alot and he does to and were in love but i still feel that way is that right or should i stop worrying cause hes with me and not her.... HELP!! (link)
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well i really dont think that is something to feel uncomfortable with. i mean. she didn't like him, you did. and he liked you. and thats okay. it will probably be weird for the first cupple of days.. but then it will get better.. just give it time. everything will get back to normal again =)
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My mother was crying about something with my family and I gave her a hug and she got green eyeliner and black mascara all over my new velour sweatshirt. How can I get it out it's my favorite sweatshirt? I will rate 5's. (link)
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dry cleaners.. thats the best place.
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Hey There!
I don't exactly pluck my eyebrows at all, but they aren't "bushy". Is there any tips to help me shape my eyebrows? Where do I pluck, and where do I not. I don't want my eyebrows to get too crazy, you know? (link)
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i think the best thing for you to do it get them waxed. just so they can get them all nice and tidy. then you know were to pluck.. were the hairs are growing back.. and only in those places. if you want your eyebrows to be thinner.. tell the waxer, dont try to do it your self.
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well.. um heres the problem my frinZ dont get along! well not all of them -one of my best frinz and one of the guys im practicualy goin out w/ dont get along i mean they fight so much its rediculous evrey time their around each other its horriable, but the guy im practicualy going out with called one of my best friend a name and she got mad but she called him a name and he got mad ! what should i do they can*t get along.
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well i would talk to the best friend, and ask her.. what is it about the guy she doesn't like. and then talk tot he guy. and maybe you can work out that problem.. and if that doesn't work.. just tell each person how much they mean to you .. and how much the other person means to you .. and you dont want to lose anyone .. and if they still dont get along. then try hanging out w. them one at a time.. and that should help. but just dont bail out of a plan for another one. =)
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Can anyone tell me how to play flag football or just football..pleassseee! (link)
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foot ball.. umm. im not to much of a player. but i think you have to get the ball. and run it down to your goal. place. yea.. um and try not to get tackeled! and the flag foot ball. you do the same thing.. trying not to get your flag pulled
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i have a friend and she always lies to me. i tried ignoring her but she just puts me on a guilt trip and i end up being friends with her again. all of her friends talk about her behind her back because she is like... socialy chalanged. all of my other friends who dont pretend to be her friend hate her and they rnt shy about showing it. ive for the most part exepted my friend's lieing problum but i still cant believe annything she sas. can someone help me? thanx and i will rate 5s for annyone who is not jokeing or being sarcastic (link)
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you shouldn't except some one lying, at all! i think next time she lies to you .. tell her. hey! i really dont like you lying to me, itz not kool. and if her "friends" talk about her behind her back.. they aren't true friends. and i would talk to them and be like . "hey ya'll what your doing, really isn't nice, she thinks ya'll are her friends, and your talking about her." and with your friends..why dont they like her? cuz she is socialy chalanged? cuz thats rude. but if it the whole lying thing.. they you really cant do anyhting about it. but talk to the girl.
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this boy named jerry is unbeleiveable.. i mean he's claming he has feelings for me but im unsure.. he's in 10th grade and im in 8th next year we will both go to high school its exciting.. well anyways.. his friends complain and write me advice notes asking how they can get their buddy jerry back because he talks n spends his time thinkin all around me (cute huh) well he doesn't want to start a relationship now because we did before but we can never find the time to work it out.. so i don't know if even though i really like jerry i should play the waiting game.. or if i should just go on and find other men.. untill the 9th grade...? thanks for your help (link)
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well i would talk to jerry. maybe this time is diffrent.. maybe this time you can work out your problems.. or be willing to make some changes for eachother. and if he still doesn't want to go out now.. then i would move on. and if you still have feelings next year, and your single talk to him. but i wouldn't go out w. another guy if you still have feelings for Jerry. cuz then your not being real, and thats not right. so talk to jerry. and if he says no .. wait till next year, and you think your feelings for him have gone down. start looking for a new man.
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I had turned 13 like about 2 months ago. And i still havn't had my period yet. It doesn't seem right, is it regular? (link)
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yes. that is totally fine! some people dont start until high school. i knew a girl in texas, and her sister didn't start until 10th grade. you shouldn't be worried at all. you should be happy! having your period is a painn! haha. when you get your period like .. runs in the family. like if your mom got it late and her fathers mom did too, chaces are that you are also going to get it late. or if your mom got it early, and your fathers mother got it late (vice versa), you could either get it early or late. or if they both got it early .. you could be getting it late.. yess it is totally normal that you haven't got it yet. no worries!!
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My friend has a really cool bro and i really like him but not as a friend, i think that he might like me 2. Im really stuck cuz if i ask him out and he says yes and if we break up it will be very uncomfortable b/c ill go over his house b/c of my friend. Im also still in love w another person and i think that my friends bro will help me get over him. Should i try to stop my self from liking my friends bro and just be friends w him or should i like him and ask him out and get over the other guy?
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your friends older bor.. how old? have you talked to your friend? cuz it might not only mess up your friend ship w. this guy .. but also with your friend. and your in love with some one else.. i wouldnt date this other guy . not until your completely out of love. because that would be like using him. using him to get over some one else. i would get over the other guy .. talk to your friend and make sure she says yes. then go for the brother ..
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soccer is coming up soon.... i need to get in shape... really bad. whenever i run now i feel i get out of breath a lot easier. and i think my leg muscles decreased, i lost a lot of weight. what can i do do get in shape, and increase my muscles (mainly leg muscles.. although arm muscles would help for my throw-ins)?
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soccer.. is the best!! =) haha. well if you get out of breath running.. are you eatting rite? like.. no junk food. lots of water? do that. then start running again. also for your leg muscles i would say.. you could join a gym like if you have Y or something and use their legg lifting stuff. that helps. and your arms. also lift weight. also make sure you are streching good before and after all of this, if you dont.. some times your muscles go down.
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After begging my mom to take me to the doctors, she's finally going to (because I currently have a soar throat). I've been asking her to take me to get tested for anemia and ADD. Everytime I asked her she would say "I highly doubt you have ADD" and she would just snicker. So I have a soar throat now and I think she's making me drive to the doctors on my own (usually she goes with me). So for sure I'm going to ask about anemia and ADD. The only thing is, how am I supposed to bring it up.? I don't want to just say 'oh yea, I think I have ADD'. How should I bring it up without looking stupid? Should I tell her my situation first (about how I can't stay focused, etc) or should I ask what the symptoms are, or what? And what will they do to me (sometimes I think I have ADHD also) as far as tests and stuff, and will they do it then, or is it a process where I have to come back? And how will my teachers get notified? Will I tell them? Doctors note? etc... and since they'll know, what exactly will my teachers make me do because of it?
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well first off.. why do you think you have anemia? or add? anemia symtoms.
Extreme fatigue
Weakness
Shortness of breath
Confusion or loss of concentration
Dizziness or fainting
Pale skin, including decreased pinkness of the lips, gums, lining of the eyelids, nail beds and palms
Rapid heart beat (tachycardia)
Feeling cold
Sadness or depression
so if you think you have most of those.. go get checked out. just bring that up to your doctor say.. heyy im really tired latly and i cant stay focus im feeling cold and i get sad.. do you know whats going on. and then they will probably send you for a blood test.. i know all of this because i have it. (it is no fun!)
add sym. are
a. often ignores details; makes careless mistakes
b. often has trouble sustaining attention in work or play
c. often does not seem to listen when directly addressed
d. often does not follow through on instructions; fails to finish
e. often has difficulty organizing tasks and activities
f. often avoids activities that require a sustained mental effort
g. often loses things he needs
h. often gets distracted by extraneous noise
i. is often forgetful in daily activities
so also.. if you have all. or more then 1/2 of those.. go tell your doctor..
dont be afraid. they wont laught.
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Ok my dads been married 4 times...he is still on his fourth marrage. he got married about 7 months ago, when he got married we moved to another house and i had to change schools (i hate my new school so much too) well recently my dad came really close to getting a divorce, and we already found a house near my old school. well the day that my dad got the form for the lease, he started to have regrets about moving, like because the house that were in is my dads dream house, or this would be my dads 4th failed marrage, and the fact that his credit would go back to shit if he does divorce. the only reason i really want to move is so i can be at a better school and have all my old friends back, but at the same time i wanna stay because of my dad...any advice?
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is your dad happy with this lady? like. is he in love? dont you think your being kind of selfish.. i mean. your dad is trying to make the family complete. he is trying to get you a mother. trying to let you live a good life.. and you just want to go back to your old school. you have phone and internet to talk to your old friends. i would most deff. not talk to your dad cuz then he would feel bad, and move back to your old school. and might loose the love of his life.
so just think about that.. and come back if you need more?
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I'm in a family low on money (my mom and dad have low income jobs) well I was supposed to sign up for spring league basketball($40) or cheerleading($65) and couldn't because we have no money. Now everyone thinks I'm poor and is making fun of me even my BFF. What should I do? (link)
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well if you BFF is making fun of you. .is she really a friend? i dont think so. and there is nothing wrong with not having a lot of money! just as long as you can eat. and have clothes. there is nothing to worrie about! and who cares about those people. this is something you cant help. your not the one working. im not sure how old you are.. but when you can work. start working. and make your own money too. but until then just relax, and dont listen to those people!
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I just got asked out by a guy who is sorta annoying, but is really nice and sweet. But if i were to tell my friends i was going out with him they'd say ".....ewwwwwwwwww........"
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do you like him .. plane and simple.. if you like him then be happy. if your just going out w. him cuz you want a b.f thats not fair and break up with him. but ask your friends to be nice about it. and try to be his friend
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ok so i think i might og out with a 6th grader and everyone thinks that it weird but i dont see what the problem is. they are only one grade below us so wat. give me ur advice on wat i should do.? thanks (link)
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well i dont think it is weird.. if you love him.. you love him. but usally the girls either date in their grade.. or one up. but thats okay. you cant help who you love. and if you love this kid.. then so be it!. just make sure you dont rush him into doing things.. cuz some 6th graders arent up to that stuff. haha. well i wish you the best.. follow your heart. not what people tell you..
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