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Hey, I'm going to a show for one of my favorite bands and I'm hoping that I'll get to meet the lead singer (many people have met him and have claimed it's very easy to meet him).

I recall reading about a girl who goes to every John Mayer concert, and each time she meets him, she takes a photo of them while holding a picture of the two of them taken from an earlier show. She does this everytime she meets him, holding up a picture from a previous show.

I wanna do something as creative as that, but at the same time I don't want to steal her idea.

If you have any suggestions, it would be appreciated :]

Thanks.

buy one of their shirts, and have him sign and date it everytime you meet him.

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i havent started my period [EVERRRRRR]
but i was wondering if its still ok to have sex
my friends mom had sex before she got her period and nothing happened to her .
could that have just been her

can i still have sex and get my period ?

so, actually, you can get prego. if you havent started your period. you might not know it, but you can have some blood come out, and its not that red. so just be safe

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for startersIm going to say this as apropriatly as i can

I was sexualy asaulted by 6 guys && then a couple months later i was raped and my brother said "If this keeps happening people arent going to believe yu they will just think yu are crying wolf"

well recently i was partying with some friends and i was drunk so i wanted to have fun but not have sex and i made that clear to everyone. me being bisexual i was all over my friend thats a girl. Well these two guys were looking on and one of them had already fucked my friend that night and the other liked me. well some how the guy that liked me ended up grabbing my friend and fucking her. The other guy grabbed me and i told him he cool lick meh down there so he did and then he put a condom on and i pushed him away and told him no i wasnt going to have sex with him And he said stuff like "let me just touch it i wont stick it in" and i told him again im not gona have sex with him. So he touched it nd told me he wasnt gona stick it in and then he tryd to nd i tryd pushing him away saying stop but he just pushed me down and told me to chyll out i tryd pushing him away again but he wouldnt listen nd so i just layd there nd he started having sex with me nd i was crying. after he was done i got up and ran off upstairs.

What should i do? I dont even know if this is wrong it just makes me feel wrong and dirty. Is this wrong or not?

so, im not saying this is your fault, you said no, but you did some things wrong...
1.you went to a party 2. you got drunk 3. you shouldnt of even messed around with a guy, cause all guys think with their dicks when their in the mood.

but go and tell the police, not your brother, tell them about everything, from the 6 guys, to the other 2.

hope i helped.

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im 13/m nd i talk to this chick on msn, she was in my grade last year, she knows i like her, ive asked her out but she said no, that was atleast half a year ago, now she likes some1 thats not me, and i really wanna b wit her xcept she wont allow me to do dat, shes coming over to my house next friday and i wanna do something for her that will make her change her mind about this other guy and go out with me, but i dunno how to,
can you please help, thanks

This post has been in another catagory, but i just realised it was place in the wrong one,

Sorry for any inconveniance

you cant really do anything. but maybe, make her some dinner also, or go out for ice cream, take her somewhere besides your house, and pay for it.

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alright so heres the thing,
1 of the girls i liked at 1 stage recently got dumped by her boyfriend, she keeps putting herself to blame for the reason she was dumped, and i think she is slightly depressed, she thinks nobody likes her, which isnt true cause shes one of the most poplular in year 8, and i think shes at the point where she is going to get hurt,
i dont want anything to happen to her cause shes one of by best girl friends(friendship) can somebody please help me if you could thanks in advance

if shes on of your best chick friends then talk to her. Sounds like she just needs someone to listen to her problems, if shes the type thats like im fine, nothing is wrong, tell her no your not, we have to talk. And if shes like its my fauly, just tell her how awesome she is, and she can find a much better boyfriend. & if you like her as more then a friend, maybe tell her?.. that part is up to you.

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spring break is in a month and i need to loose like 10 pounds or MORE . what all should i do ? like i know running , but how long ? and how much exercise ? and how much water do i need to drink ?

first. try adding an extra 150 steps a day..
this will help not cutting out pop.
second.
lay on your back, legs striaght..
do a crunch, but bring your legs up while doing that and make them go out as in your doing a toe touch.
it will hurt, but doing 15 a day, will help alot!!..
&& just do about 25 normal crunches...

hope I helped!!!

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ok well im not fat but i have little stomache that i cant get rid of and well i want a really faint 6-pack....
do you know any exercises i can do to get the six pack??!?!!?!?!

Thanks in Advance.

I use to have a 6 pack, its great.
i lost mine tho..
i tore my acl..
but enough about me!!..

first. try adding an extra 150 steps a day..
this will help not cutting out pop.
second.
lay on your back, legs striaght..
do a crunch, but bring your legs up while doing that and make them go out as in your doing a toe touch.
it will hurt, but doing 15 a day, will help alot!!..
&& just do about 25 normal crunches...

hope I helped!!!

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Okay, well.. I really want to do highschool cheerleading next year, but I am not flexible AT ALL , and I can't do a kartwheel. lol, I'm pretty sad I know, and then I don't exactly have a cheerleading body i guess? I'm extremely small in height , I'm about 5 feet, and then my legs are muscular .. but then my stomach, ughh. I'm not sure what it's called lol , but I call it a potbelly [: , but i think its really a beer belly? I want to get rid of that SO much by summer, so I would like exercises for that .. and then could you help me to get a six pack maybe , and then ways to do a toe-touch and a kartwheel and round off. thank you sooo much [: .. i know its asking for a lot!

so. i love cheerleading!!.. im a cheerleader..
so to get a flater stomach/abs.
lay on your back..
do a crunch, but at the same time bring your legs up as if your doing a toe touch.
it will hurt.. if you do 15 a day, it will not only help get your stomach flatter, but it will help improve your jumps.

cartwheel..
To begin a cartwheel, stand in a lunge; your "favorite" leg in front, knee bent slightly, arms up by your ears.

Let's assume you are a right handed; if you're a lefty, simply reverse these directions. Reach forward with your right arm, kicking your left leg up as you do so. The left hand should follow very quickly, and as it touches the ground, your right leg should be off of the ground also. You should pass through a straddle handstand briefly. Your left leg will reach the ground 1st, followed by the right, which you will place in back, finishing in a lunge, just as you started, but with the opposite leg in front.

The trick, really, "hand, hand, foot, foot", and getting through vertical. Most gymnasts tend to kick around the side when they are first learning this skill. Take your time, and be careful.

round off-
your going to run about 3 steps..
hop up on your left foot, down with your right, then do a cartwheel...
the landing is differnt and putting your hands is differnt..
you will want to put your hands facind the way you just came then push off and land with your feet together.

jumps-
toe touch
Keep your head up and your back straight.
Don't reach for your feet, instead try to bring your legs up to your hands.
You don't actually want to touch your toes.Your hands should be about where the arch of your foot is.
Point your toes.
Snap your legs down with as much force as you brought them up with.

try this, it will help with your legs
Start off by stretching out. Make sure you are warmed up before you actually throw any jumps to avoid pulling or straining muscles.
Next do 3 sets of leg lifts: sit in a straddle on the floor, hands are behind you for support (hands should be on the floor, under or near your tail), slightly lean back and lift both legs (about a foot off the floor), keep your legs STRAIGHT, WITHOUT your legs touching the floor lift them 10 times, release, count to 10 for a breather and repeat. Do a total of 3 sets. Leg lifts are hard but it will strengthen your legs and improve the height of your jumps!!!
After leg lifts we do side high kicks: arms in a T motion, with right leg kick 5 times, breather for for 5 seconds, switch to left leg 5 times.
Ready to begin: Throw your toe touch, count 5-6-7-8, throw another, then repeat.

over all, its hard, but once your a cheerleader, you feel awesome!.. if you dont make it this year, dont give up!.. get into gmynastics!.. then try out again!..

i hope i helped!!.. let me know if you make!!!!
Land with a slight bend in you knees

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hey im 15/f andi have sadie hawkins dance this weekend.I was just wondering what i should wear and makeup and such
i usually wear my hair in a ponytail and i dont put it down so i guess i should straighten itand put it down??
what would make me look cute and stand out? makeup wise and clothing wise?
thankss

so i LOOVE sadies!... but some schools are differnt then others. at my school, we make our outfits. well my mom makes mine!.. ha.. but i usally have my mom make a skirt, and a cut of top with puffy arms, i put patches on, and the name of my dude of my butt. but i know across the river, they dont do that, they just wear shorts and some kind of farming top and cowboy boots.
but either way, put the name of your dude on your butt!..

hair.. try putting your hair down, and curl it. i have a perm and i wet my hair and moose it and put in low pony tails. its very cute. then put ribbons in it of your outfit color.

make-up.. try taking an eyeliner pencial and out freakles on your cheaks.

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should you always stick up for a friend even when you know they're wrong?

it depends. if you know that they are 100% wrong, then I would let them fight their own battles. But if they have some right in it, then try to help them out by pointing out that they we're right on that one thing.. by being a good friend doesnt mean ALWAYS sticking up for them when their wrong.

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lets say your grandmother is from Hawaii, but your dad was born in the United States. Are you Hawaiin?? is that your background or aren't you because your dad is an American citizen?? thanks.

Yes you are Hawaiian. Your if your Grandmother has Hawaiian in her, then you do too. If she had your father with an American, then your Hawaiian percentage went down, but you still have Hawaiian in you!!

hope i helped!=]

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Ok so as you all know summer is coming up =) and i found a super cute bikini that im gonna try to look good in. You know them people at the beach who wear them little bikinis and just look awful well i dont wanna be one of them. I'm 5'3 a little less than 110 im thinking. So im not saying im over weight its just my stomach is not toned. Its kind of gross...if i stand up its mostly flat its just kind of is flat | like that then go in / like that you know what i mean well not that drastic but just basically i could be alot skinner and toned. I wanna get like this because i have a hot new boyfriend and i wanna look good when i go to the beach with him. How do i get my stomach looking real good??

PLEASE HELP!!!!

If i have to ill stop drinking pop :) thats the extent ill go to :)

PLEASEEEE HELP

110 lbs is pretty tiny.. im 140ish, but if you wanna get abs try doing crunches, or lay on your back, and do a crunch, but while doin it, make your legs go out, as if your doing a cheerleading toetouch. trust me, itll hurt like hell, but if you do atleast 15 a day, by summer your body will be awesome.
another good thing is by adding an extra 150 steps aday, but adding them youll be burning more calories. and if your downstair and have to use to the rest, go upstairs. same if your upstairs, go downstaris, adding extra steps will help, not a lot, but it will save cutting out pop!..

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