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when i grow up i want to go into the medical field, preferably a dietitian/nutritionist or veterinary medicine. so bring on the diet/food questions! i try to get on here as much as i can. & i H@Te Wh3N Pe0pLe TyP3 LyK3 d1s. or don't use proper grammar and spell simple stuff wrong. but i don't always either, so I'll forgive you & still answer your Q =]
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alright i was with my girlfriend and she was on top yah know..and she orgasmed before i did...and well frankly she pulled off too soon and i was about ready to ejaculate...now that i have blue balls and it hurts like a bitch. how do i rid myself of blue balls.

i rate answers. (link)
make yourself jack off.


Well, I am 13/f.This might sound stupid but I found a guy on the computer and I was wondering how I could find out if he is cheating on me or not?Also wondering should i still go out with him even tho he is off the computer? Thanks. (link)
no no no. no computer boyfriends that you have never met. its pointless; trust me. i did it in like 5th grade. i know i lied like all the time, so uh other people probably lie about all that crap too.

hope i helped =]
Jess


Hey,theres this girl i like and i wanted to do something special to ask her out.There was two things i was thinking about and i was wondering if someone could help me decide.The first one was for christmas i was going to get her a card and get a pack of green and red gum (christmas colors) and a pack of her favorite gum and put them all on the card,and get her a bracelet and get one of them gift tags and out it on the bracelet saying i love you more then you can imagine .. will you go out with me?.

The 2nd idea is for valintines day i was going to make two big hearts and put them together with a opening in it and on them write "inside is all the things i love about you"on it then fill it up with little hearts saying all the things i like about her and put the bracelet in the heart.and put a bigger little heart in the middle of the bracelet tied to it by string saying "All the little hearts added together is how much i love you..will you go out with me?

i really like both ideas lol..can someone please help mee??
Thanks :)
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I'd say the first idea. but only pretty much because its at christmas time & you shouldnt have to wait until Valentines day.
Wonderful ideas though, i want a guy like you =]

hope i helped =]
Jess


im in love with my best friend..
the only problem is, right now she is in a serious relationship.
But somtimes she acts like she likes me (which confuses me ALOT)

I would do anything to be with her.

She means the world to me, and i just want to see her happy.

What should i do?
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go with the flow, baby.


ook i know how to dance; just not as modern? so if anybody could tell me how to do any new moves or an internet site or smoething that would be great thanks (link)
well since i dont know EXACTLY what you are looking for i'd say just google "how to dance hip hop" or something along those lines.

hope i helped =]
Jess


So, next week i'm going to a Reel Big Fish concert with the guy I like. I'm just now getting into ska music, and I want to fit in with this guy and his friends. What clothes do I wear that won't make me look like an idiot? Because even though now I'm listening to this music that I'm starting to love, I have no idea what the "look" is supposed to be. Basically I want to look like I have a clue what's going on.

Thanks,
Sweets (link)
I'v never even heard of ska or reel big fish! but i googled reel big fish & there is a picture of a performance & all the people that i saw there just had on jeans & a T shirt. nothing fancyy. But maybe you should ask the guy for an idea just to be sure!

hope i helped =]
Jess


Ok well.... let's say that all of my frieds agree that i should become a doctor when i grow up. It runs in the family, so I know alot about health and such. another reason why I think I should become a doctor, is that in science class in school today, we dissected a Sheeps Brain, and a Cow's eyeball!!! and I was really good, even some of the guys asked me to help them!
what's the problem right??????????
welllll... I'm good at dissecting, and good at health BUUUT.. I CAN'T HANDLE BLOOD!!!!!!!
whenever i look at blood, i get all grossed out!
so how can i become a doctor if i cant even look at blood???
soo my question is... does anybody have any ways to be able to handle blood??? I look at the tv show ER sometimes.. but I just get all pale! HELP ME PLEASE!!!

16/f

PS: dont tell me to choose another job, or that i'm too young to even start thinking about choosing jobs.... i've made up my mind about this! (link)
you could specialize in something that doesn't have alot of blood in it like dermatology (sp). Sometimes you just like get used to it and stuff & grow out of phobias like that.

hope i helped =]
Jess


13/f
well i have this campfriend that is a year older than me. we have been flirting online since this summer and i starting liking him. i kind of stopped liking him a couple weeks ago. yesterday he told me that he really likes me. i was kind of happy but then i realized that he has been with ALOT of other girls and i heard he cheated on one of them. but he is SUCH a sweet guy and we are really close too. so im seeing him this weekend and yesterday he asked me if i wanna hookup with him. ive never hookuped and my friends keep telling me to wait for the right person. i like him but i don't like him THAT much anymore and i don't want to be just another girl to him.
pleasee help.. thanks (link)
so um what do you need help with?
If your asking for a second opinion I'd say don't hook up with him.


ok so i just bought some perfume from juicy couture and i was wondering how to make the scent last longer cause i want to use it for special occasions i heard that if you keep it in a cool dark place it works so i have it in my closet right now and its cool there so is that going to work?? (link)
I'm not sure if thats going to work but i know that the scent stays on your skin longer if you put lotion on before the perfume.

hope i helped =]
Jess


okay so i was on somebody's myspace & i heard a song but i forgot whos myspace and the name of the song & band. it has a really weird begining, its like music you would hear at a circus and then like taps like somebody is tap dancing & then a guy with a wierd voice is singing. i remember like part of the title has 'kitchen' in it, i THINK. um i dont know the lyrics. i know its like a guy band, probably alternative rock kinda thing. i would love if somebody told me the title & band. i know this isn't a very good description but i tried my best, thanks in advanced =] (link)
easy!

various kitchen by skybox!


ok so today, i realized i had to delete som pictures of my ex, i have to get over him you know? but when i went to click on the picture..first of all it wont show! like it says it cant find it or something, and then when i went to delete it, that wont work either! and i cant delete the whole file with pictures either, so what do i do? please help! (link)
most of the time restarting your computer will solve your problems.
but if you can't make a folder inside of another folder & put all of his pictures in there. then try to delete that folder & if it doesnt work atleast you will have all of his pictures tucked away.

i hope i helped =]
Jess


where can i get more myspace layouts like http://www.freecodesource.com/myspace-layouts/view.php?id=L527527410 orr (link)
www.hot-lyts.com


Okay so I was looking at some sites and i don't want my mom to see what I have been looking at. When I start to type a letter in the link bar it drops down the sites that start with that letter, and I'm scared that she will see what I have been looking at and that would be extremely awkward. How do you delete different links? (link)
on your internet bar on the icon tray there is a little clock with a green arrow going backwards right next the the favorites button. click that and delete your history. but if that doesnt work when it drops down from the adress bar hit your "delete" button and that should take care of it.

hope i helped =]
Jess


im 17/f and my skin on my eyes is really dark especailly on my under eyes. i heard of hylexin cream but i dont know of it works ive also tried stuff by avon and vita k but it doesnt seem to be working, i asked my doctor but she said its normal and "its looks pretty" so she wont help me. i want to try hylexin but its 99$ so i dont want to waste my money has anyone used it? can anybody else help me. anything will be helpful (link)
Believe it or not but green concealer takes away bad pigment and covers up mostly everything! I learned that in my drama class during our stage make up unit. We tried it and it works very well under your eyes. You can buy it at a local drug store, you just have to look around.

hope i helped =]
Jess


well i did get my period today which is 10/30/06 i hate it. now my friend who is going to be the last of my gang wants her period what could i say to her that would make her understand that having a period is not everything. please i dont know what to tell her about it except that it is a pain in the ass. help. oh when you first start your period when you stop bleeding the blood in the pad can be red one sec then brown the next? also i think i stopped menstruating is it ok if you only mentruate for one day though this is my first period. im scared!!!!!!! help im desperate. (link)
yeah the red to brown thing is normal.
& your first period is like wacked out. like usually it doesnt last long and stuff.

tell your friend about the cramps and aches and that it feels like weird and then having to wear a pad that feels like a diaper. oh and the PMSing, gawshhh thats gotten ME into so much trouble! and having to change the pad like every 4 hours and how annoying it is.

and a little extra advice - most people prefer tampons the earlier the better. they are more comfortable (my opinion) b/c you don't feel like you are in a diaper.

hope i helped =]
Jess


Hi.

I bent down to tie my shoe and i got up quickly and my right knee muscle jolted and twisted to the side. after, it hurted. now it's been more than 6 weeks, and it spontaneouly hurts like a bruise even when i'm walking i feel it sometimes, maybe in correlation with the cold weather. before this knee injury, my right knee has always been weak, running slightly up the stair would cause it to pop and sends a sharp pain to my right knee.

what is my problem? please advise, should i get it x-rayed??? (link)
You should deffinatley go to a doctor & get it checked out, especially since its been more than 6 weeks. you shouldnt really wait that long.

hope your knee feels better
Jess


okay what is the best hairstyle?I'm going out with a gal next month and I have tried dozens of hairstyles which i liked but which one is the best through a girl's perspective?

i know different hairstyles suits different guys but there are some that suits most guys like either skater shaggy type or spiky mohawk or liberty spikes or emo combover...so what do you suggest?

anyways,here is my appearance first. I have black hair(asian),i have dark eyebrows,oval black eyes which are not typical small chinese,it's average size and curly eyelashes.oval face.i can't describe my lips or nose,but it's nothing special,just average and I just did snakebites,and I have one gauge ear on my right. so what do you girls suggest? (link)
an emo combover sounds pretty hawt =]


okay i have like alot of hair on my arms. very long hair on my arms. are there any products that i can use to remove arm hair so that it'll stop growing even after i shave them off?
thanks =] (link)
I deffinatley wouldnt shave your arms, because you will have to do it for the rest of your life. If you hair is dark you can buy hair lightening cream. (www.avon.com)
But if you really want it gone you should probably get laser hair removal.

hope i helped =]
Jess


heya im 15 years old and recently ive been noticing a lot of hair falling out!

1. when im in the bath and am lathering in shampoo i find a lot of strands knotted around my fingers.

2. when i run my fingers through my hair there are about 4/5 broken strands and about 7 full strands floating to the floor

3. when i brush my hair i leave a carpet of strands of hair on my lap

I dont know if this is normal (because ive heard that you lose about 80 strands of hair a day) and i have a good diet , plenty of fruit n veg etc, and i straighten my hair everyday. I understand that this doesnt sound much but if it happens everyday as it does then wont i have less hair in a couple of years? help!

ty in advance rachel xxx (link)
Its probably normal.
Try not straightening your hair for a day and see if anything improves. Straightening your hair damages it and makes it weaker. So before your straighten it buy some cream to protect your hair ( l`oreal intense repair, texturline hot style ironing creme, etc.) If you blowdry your hair try to do it on the lowest heat setting. You might want to get some strengthening shampoo & a good conditioner. Also to prevent breakage dont put your hair in a ponytail when its wet.

hope i helped =]
Jess


hi this may be long..i like this guy, which is kind of usual for a girl, but he asked me out before and i said i dont know, and the next day he said i dont want to go out with you and it was a mistake so it was like whatever and it seemed like nothing,and we talk and such. Well my friend is going out with his friend, and she was going to the kids house i like to see her boyfriend because they live by eachother and she didnt want to go alone so i went with her, and it just seems like im starting to like him even more but i dont know if i want to tell my friend because i dont know how. she is going to this haunted house thing this weekend and she asked me to go, and she is going with her boyfriend to it and she asked me to go and she wants me to bring someone and i was thinking of asking him but i dont know if i should or not because if i dont ask anyone ill feel like im in the way of her and her boyfriend,and i am just so confused right now!! please help!(sorry if you cant understand what i am trying to say or if it is confusing to read, im really bad at organizing things like that)13/f (link)
i understood it just fine =]
& invite the guy you like. I mean its perfect. You get to hang out with your crush & your friend and he doesnt feel like weird that you two arent going out because hes with his friend. & maybe if you flirt with him a little then he might start to crush on you.

have fun & hope i helped
Jess




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