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Age: 17
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awhile ago me and one of my friends got arrested for vandilism. we spray painted some cars and broke some windows. when will my parents begin to trust me again? me and my friend have talked and we wont get in anymore trouble. we want to hang out. i want trust and think i deserve it.
Thanks a lot
Timothy (link)
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Gaining trust will take some time but you have to earn your way to it.Tell your parents that you will be a changed person,be the child they always wanted to have,you will prove to them.And ask them what they want in return like you would do good at school,do whatever they ask without questioning,that they will not receive any bad news from you and your friend.Don't lose faith and don't get upset.
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I just started my period and i have a very difficult guesion to ask every1....
WINGS OR NO WINGS
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You should get a pad with wings to protect from leaks but in lighter days you won't need one like the two last days of your period.For nightime get a really big one with wings as well.
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my mom is kinda a control freak...
She won't let me shop with anyone but her. .not my dad, any of my friends.. or anyone.
She has to even be in the same department with me...
I only have a pair of jeans and two pairs of (very very ugly) capris that don't fit right.. so I really need to go shopping. She always says that she's too busy or that i don't need anything. I keep explaining to her that I need to go shopping because I am lacking in things to wear.. and she always makes up excuses. I'm also afraid that if we go shopping that she won't let me wear what I want to wear (low rise jeans and form-fitting baby t's) because she wants me to wear things from the girls section still. And when we went into aeropostale (once) she made me buy everything a size too big so I pray that it will shrink. I just don't want to look like i'm too poor to buy clothes.
HELP ME!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!
13/f (if it helps size 1/3 and shirts small) (link)
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Stand up to your mom tell her how she is making you feel,that you are free to wear what you want to wear it's your body,why can't she be a good mom by not telling you what to wear.If you have someone older than you who agrees with how your mom is whatever you said she is then tell that person to help you out if you don't convince her.It's ridiculous why won't she let you shop with your dad either,ask her why,try to insist to let you choose what you want to wear,even show her that you really need to shop for more clothes so she would have no other choice but to buy you clothing.About the size of your clothing she wants to make you wear just tell her straight forward that the size will not look good on you,if she gets mad well she shouldn't because it is you who will be the one to wear it not her besides doesn't she have better things to do than try controlling other peoples lifes she should know better than that!
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ok...so me and this boy have been friends for like...ever, and we hug and tease each other and hang out all the time, and my other friend (amanda) has liked him for a really long time. Heres the problem part...so me and the boy ended up going out to dinner alone (we were suposed to go with other people but everyone couldnt go) and this was like one of teh first times we really hung out alone together and wellwhen we got into his car we started kissing and it felt so so so right and great, and then he pulled away for a second and said r you sure you want to and I nodded my head and then we started making out, and we have like talked on the phone everyday after that and we have been out alone together a few more times and kissed and everything,but none of our friends know so, when ever we are with them its really akward (mostly with amanda) So how should we brake ti to them, and should i tell amanda sepratly? i really want to keep teh friendship
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I know it will be difficult to tell your friend that you are going out with a guy she likes but she is going to have to find out by you becuase either way she will find out one day.Talk to her,tell her that you need to talk to her about something very important,that she should understand,that your friendship with her means a lot to you,then tell her about it slowly,that you are sorry about it,that it wasn't meant to hurt her but it just happened I mean you,the guy really liked each other,she should find another guy who she likes even though she likes him,plus there are other guys out there for her he is not the only one.Show her you care and she should be able to understand if she were in your shoes.
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my best friend and i have been friends for four years now. she started dating this one guy, and they have been dating for over 5 months. at first, i was fine with it because she never really had a boyfriend who treated her so well, but lately she has been choosing him over me, a lot. but not only that, i'll ask if she wants to hang out, and she'll invite him to places with us without even asking me. and then they'll do there little couplely thing and im standing there like a retard. i get sick of being the 3rd wheel sometimes. i always picked her over my boyfriends, and i dont expect her to never spend time with her boyfriend but i do think it is okay to leave some time for a friend?! personally, i think she needs to choose: boyfriend or best friend. (link)
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I would have to say that if she is always treating you like third place then she is not a true friend,it is not right that she is always making out with her guy a lot in front of you.
Seriously she isn't worth it as a friend,you chose her over your guy,look how she repays you now how messed up so you might as well find another friend who will respect you, and someone who is a real friend. She should apologize, if she doesn't then like I said before don't be friends with her anymore also if you decide to do that just remember that she is the one who broke the friendship up not you.
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hey well i have really annoying nails, and normal nails are hard and don't bend, but my nails bend! and they always start peeling and everything, and it's so annoying! and everytime i get a manecure or put on nailpolish, it comes off in like 2 days!! my nails are sooooo annoying! do any of you know any way to help these problems or why this keeps happening?! also, i have hyperhydrosis, which is something when you have really constant sweaty hands that never go away, so do you think this might have anything to do with it?
please help i rate high! (link)
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Yes it does have to do with your nails it makes it peel,brittle.But there is a treatment for it there are three suggestions,seek a dermatologist or there is this medical center at the columbia university in new york you could go to to cure it,or do surgery for it or call toll free(888)END SWEAT(888-363-7963).Hope you get it solved soon.
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okay i want a guys opinion or answer since its about a guy. how can a gurl tell if a guys likes them. like my ex boyfreind said we broke up b/c he thinks of me more as a bestfreind than a gurlfriend and he like is always looking at me and like teasing me and stuff like that but he has a g.f. and i have another freind that i likie but i cant tell if he likes me..there r 2. like a games and stuff we joke around and he puts his arm around me and stuff. HELP! i rate 5z for good answers!!! (link)
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The guy does like you if he puts his arms around you of course!Also if he smiles at you for no reason,see that his eyes seem to shine a lot when he is around you,likes to play with you like touching you or poking you but there are some guys who don't show it usually it's because of their fear of being rejected which is understandable.I mean it is harder for the guy to let their crush know he likes her because they are also usually the ones to ask out the girl which isn't easy for the most part and they get nervous as well.If you like this friend of yours start showing it to him by flirting at him and since he likes you.Don't lose your chances with him.
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ok well tomorrow at 3 i am going to like a basketball pratice i dont know anyone there.. i am a freshman and this going to be my first time doing this. and well i am scared that one of the other girls are going to start stuff with me. i am not the kind of person that gets on peoples bad side but for some reason i am scared because today at the meetin at lunch i saw that soem of those girls had attitude problems. i just want to play the game nothing else. and i am also scared that i am not the best at it and they will make fun of me about it.. someone please help!
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I played basketball before,I was in a situation that I didn't want to be made fun of,but then i didn't care,I kept practing before I began to play with my team.people didn't make fun of me or yelled at me, at first I wasn't really good at it but then I played really well,I'm in basketball still.So I should say is to ignore those girls they simply need therapy,you just practice,focus on the ball,nothing else,take a break if you feel the need to,don't sacriface what you like just so others will be satisified which isn't fair.Believe me that people at the first time playing basketball they were not good at it first but you have to keep practing and then later on you will not have to worry about people making fun of you.Be patient.
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OKay. Make a long story short. I went out with this Varsity football player for like 5 days! But he's either at work or football so i called him to break up with him (Cause i never saw him) n he was like hey call me abck in 20 i'm almost home. so i did and he didnt answer. it was almost 12 and i had to get up in 5 hours so i was like uuugh n left a voicemail asking if we could be friends! i know it was mean but it was like 5 days i didnt think it'd be a big deal. so like 2 days later i called n he was cool said he got the voicemail said he didnt hold grudges then had to go. so i saw him today (like a week later) and he was cold. like my sis drove off so i walking with him back to his work from the liqour store next door n said she was yelling at me for being a caddy bitch and i was really sry bout the whole voicemail thing, n he shrugged n walked inside.
I FEEL TERRIBLE AND I STILL LIKE HIM i need to talk to him asap!! but he works till 11!!! how?!?!|
(sry not so short) (link)
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Do whatever you have to do to speak to him but I suggest you go with someone you can trust or if you decide to go by yourself then be careful.Tell him that you are really sorry for what you said,that you made a mistake like all human beings,that to give you a second chance,and what you can do to make it up to him.If you are saying that he works till 11 at night,since you like him a lot then invent any excuse to you're parents that you are going to a friends house to study or for an important project or any other excuse to go see him but if you need one of your friends to back you up if know what I mean.Good luck!
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plain and simple.. I'm obese, and i feel like dieing. what should i do?
Don't give something as easy as DIET or whatever. Maybe something you or someone you know has done to lose wright? i'm 70 lbs over weight and i hate myself for it... (link)
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Yeah I know someone who lost weight by running like 40 minutes daily and eating a lot of fruit and vegetables and small meals as well.But then she decided she wanted to go to the gym and so she did it took like a few months when she got skinny.But I know it will be hard fro you but you can do it as well.Get rid of junk food you may have,drinking fat free milk,a lot of nutrition,workout such as situps,crunches,try to avoid eating sugar and salt.Another option rather than the gym you could also go to a special program such as la weight loss which I'm sure you seen on commercials.So start taking some action don't waste time!
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theres this kid i like and he came over my house and me n him kissed like 6 times and then the next day he kissed this other girl n i dont no if i like him anymore but i invited him to the movies with a bunch of my other friends and some how the other girl he kissed found out about the movies and shes goin n shes like im gonna make out with him right in front of her(meanin me) face and i dont no what to say to him (link)
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You need to be straight with this guy and tell him that you saw him making out with another girl and that if he is going not to invite the girl to avoid problems as well as humilation to you.But in the first place you shouldn't have invited him he doesn't deserve it you need to put him in his place.What is best for you to do is to just not have nothing to do with this guy who is a cheater and you should also break up the invitation.He needs someone to give him a good lecture on how to respect others.
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I'm in 8th grade and I REALLY need a science fair topic/project/idea!! I'm in a high school credit course so, make it good! THANK YOU SO MUCH! I rate high. (link)
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A good topic would be on air pressure,how does air pressure affect certain objects,use cans,an egg,a bottle,test,keep water inside the upside down cup.Another one would be which battery would las the longest,for this project you will study,how its power can be increased,learn it's structure,and try finding all the different types of batteries on the market or other stores where they sell electronics.Or which lawn sprinkler is the best,compare all types of lawn sprinklers,make a model of it,and design it.Pick which ever one you decide you're more into want to do.
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OK. I'm 16 and I'm male. I made myself throw up twice about a week ago, and got a killer sore throat. Never doing that again.
Anyways, is it possible that my stomach shrunk because of it? Because I have found that less food is needed to make me full. I used to be able to eat 3 slices of pizza, but I'm getting full after 2, and today, I got full on 4 mozzarela sticks. Is my stomach shrinking, not allowing me to eat as much? Is there something I should know?
Thank You!
-PS: I am NOT throwing up ever again, it was an awful experiance. Please don't critisize it or anything, it is done and over with. (link)
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What is happening is that your body is going through some changes,your metabolism as well which is affecting for less food to be digested into your body.You must seek a doctor to give you a check up and see how your body is functioning just to make sure that nothing else is going on which hopefully not and this happened to my brother who couldn't eat as much before either because he started to want to lose weight,did but nothing bad was wrong with him.
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ok i like this boy so much and so do like 5 other girls and he likes 3 of us so what can i do too get him too notice and like me more
Jo Ann (link)
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You could get notice many ways like dressing nice all the time,nice hair all the time or different hairstyles,for him to like you more is to be yourself,talk to him,hang out with him,always try to agree with things he thinks is right but not like stuff that is nasty or bad things because that would be a sign this guy is not the right one for you, and neither for those other girls.Also when he flirts at you flirt back a lot so he would notice you even more.
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i was just wonderin if theres a chart for to dye your hair ..like you can look for the color you want or w/e..i hope you kno what im trying to say..okay i just want a chart to see the colors that i can dye my hair! please help!!
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Go to www.onlinehairstore.com/color-charts/color-charts.htm and then when you get into the site,scroll down,on the side go where it saids customer service in red letters,then click on color charts,then it will say on the top to click one that you like,so the one you should click first is human hair extensions because it's real human dye hair color.
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okay well i just got my haircut and i hate it.. i told this lady not short and no bangs and she made itshort with bangs and i hate it!! but all my friends are like its so cute and the guy i like told me it looks great, but i was just wonderin... do guys like it better if a girl wears her hair up or down?? (link)
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Most guys I know like girls with their hair down but some don't care unless you look nice with it.So try looking in the mirror to see which one you look better with but if you are not sure which one ask someone to know their opinion.
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i really like this kid but i dont know if he likes me back or not beacuse like we flirt and stuff but i dont know if we are 'friends' or if he likes me more than friends if someone could help that would be great!!! (link)
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Of course he does because he flirts at you which is a signal that he is interested in you.So what you should do is to go talk to him and introduce yourself.If he askes why tell him that you just want to be friends or that you want to get to know him.
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my hair always gets greasy by the end of the day. is there any way to prevent this?
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You can prevent this by choosing the right styling products for your hair,using a conditioner regularly,and using a clarifying shampoo once a week.
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okay...theres this guy hu is in my school.... i have known him since like 2nd grade!! we are really good friends but ii like him a lot!! i am scared to tell him what i think of him because i dont want things to be weird around us. i talk to him on the phone a lot... and he told me the other day that my other friend likes him and hes thinking about asking her out!! ii keep on wondering if things would be different if ii just told him.... but ii just cant!! i am so much taller than him and ii guess u could say bigger than him too. ii mean im not fat but i am bigger than a lot of the boys..... this is why im so scared to tell him.. ii dont think he'll feel the same way!
PLEASE HELP I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!! (link)
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talk to him in a place where you too can be alone,start by asking him that if size would matter to him if he will plan to go out with a girl,if it is than is it that she is shorter than him or taller or get a friend to ask him and if it is the case then you will not have a chance with him but if he does not care about size don't waste time tell him how you feel but first start by telling him that it is very hard to tell him this but that you been keeping it because you were afraid that he would reject you because you thought size mattered to him.Hope things go out fine.
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so i likke dis girl and i know dat she likes me but she won't addmit it till i ask her out and i'm not dat good at asking ppl out and i like know what she likes bout me cause she tells me online and yeah what do i do (link)
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what you should do is tell her if she wants to hang out some day so you too can get to know each other well and see how things go.It is better to see each other in person rather than on the computer because you get to see how she really is, how she talks and all.Don't just ask her out without getting to know her well take your time don't rush things.
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