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Hey whattsupp, my names Erin, but i sign E whenever I answer a question. I'm a sophmore in high school. I used to run, but strained my back and now i'm done. I love track so if you need any help in that I'm your girl! I'm love giving advice and helping people with their problems. I've been through so much in 15 years, that I can pretty much help anyone. Feel free to ask me anything I'd rather tell you that i don't know than give you a bad or wrong answer.I love clothes so i'm best at answering questions about style or fashion. When I grow up I want to be either an actress or a fashion desighner. So these are my best subjects! Butt, I can help in pretty much all of them :). Please feel free to ask me anything, I'll ALWAYS answer to the best of my ability, and come on here as often as possible!
-E!
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ok there is this guy i like a lot and we went out in like 3rd grade ;but this year he went out with one of my best friends and he promised me if they broke up he would ask me out but then he went out with my ex friend but he told me that he still loves my friend after i told him how i felt about him so ypu think ypu could help out a lil???
honestly, theres nothing you can do. you can't force someone to like you. if you could ... would you really want to go out with someone who doesn't like you but is just keeping a promise? the best thing to do is move on . i know you like him and you still can but i think the flames have been died out for awhile. but deffinetly keep your eye open for another hottie...then maybe he'll see he likes you and he'll be the one chasing you
good luck!
-E
Im 15 and havnt had a relationship...out of my own choice..i decided when i go out with a boy i want to make sure i know it will lead somewhere and that i have to truly like him..not just a 2 week stupid relationship. But now im getting to a point where im past waiting for boys...genuine boys. You can never find them where i live. They're all into this gansta r and b rubbish. I need a boy who accepts me as their equal and loves everything about me and dosnt want anything sexual. How long till i find someone like that?I want love...whether im young or not and im tired of waiting. My best friend has been hurt so many times and its just proved to us both noone is genuine and cares about the girls heart. Please can someone give me some help..why arent there boys like that ?
honestly, your never going to find the PERFECT guy there is NO guy that has everything you want. don't let yourself fall head over heals that will keep you from getting hurt. but if you give guys that are close a chance you may find that what isn't perfect is what makes them perfect. you can't except them as an individual unless you actually give them a chance
good luck
!
-E
In life, I like to be polite to everyone. This has become a problem because whenever I hang out with my guy friends. At least one of them starts to like me and think that I like them back. I really try not to act flirty but its getting to the point where I'm losing my guy friends after having to turn them down. Its really bothering me, I miss just being friends with them. What do I do?
Well your never going to know if your going to like them unless you give them a chance. if you know in your heart that it will not work then tell them you just wnat to be friends and DON'T let the talking stop. they might feel wierd but thats when you need to stop in and take control. just start acting like nothing went wrong eventually it should go back to normal.
good luck!
-E
my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over a month and its kinda a long distance thing and he wants to see "pictures" of me and wants me to send them through texting... im not really comfortable with that but he gets upset what should i do :/
If he really liked you he would respect your wishes. so you don't want to send pictures its not something that is that imortant where he would break off the relationship just because you said no and if he gets mad at that then thats rediculous and maybe it should come to an end. also, you could just tell him your parents won't let you send pictures -- cuz it does cost money. Also, if the pictures have nudity in them...then over the phone may be the best place to send them BUT he could show his friends which is nasty if i do say so myself.
-e
I'm giving a presentation on rastafari (both culture and religion) and I need to make it as creative and interesting as possible! Other than dressing up like one, do you have any ideas that could make it cool?
It spoth an oral, and written assignment. For the written part I'm thinking of making a poster instead of just handing in a bunch of papers stapled together. But I have nothing cool in mind for the oral part - any ideas are appreciated.
Thanks :)
You know what would be really cool?! talking in that laguange and then if you want you can translate it. also change your name to a comman name that means something like a word that means something special in the religion. you could also bring in a special dish that they make for dinner or for a holiday. have funn
-E
Hey! well i have to do this project for english and my group and i [im the group manager woo] have to build an amusement park and i was hoping that you guys had some suggestions!
on rides
attractions
food/resturaunts
characters
etc. also we are doing half as a water park
It has to be VERY orginal tho!! it has to be based on the 2nd half on the book Odysseus but you dont have to use that at all i will make it so it works with the theme. (You have to love our theme!!! haha NOT)
also i REALLY need to figure out how in the world to build the rides like the roller coasters!! please help! we cant use premade ones either. thanks so much!!!
I love when parks have rollercosters. expeccially water rollercoasters!! talk about FUNN! lol yeah i have no idea how to make rollercosters so i'd rather tell you that i don't know then give you bad advice. but try typeing it in on google i think thats your best bet...have fun!!!
-e
16-f
we've been dating for about 6 months now will be 8 by his b-day
ok well my boyfriends b-day is comming up in about 2 months and im thinking about what im gonna get him now to get it out of the way..
he got me a frog that has a crown sayig he's my prince so i was thinking maybe getting him a animal of some sort with a crown and saying im his princess.
and we dont have many pictures of us yet but i was thinking of maybe making him a photocube with the lyrics to our song on it.
does this sound ok or sound like something you would like or your man would???
any more suggestions i dont have much money so im trying to keep it cute but low budget.
OMG that is such a cute idea! expeccially since your taking something that is like "your thing" and making it more with the song. i think thats an adorible idea!!!
Hey! Well I'm about to turn that SWEET 16!
I was looking into presents that I might want, and I stumbled upon this bag...
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true&itemCount=60&id=14583058&parentid=W_ACC_BAGS&sortProperties=+product.marketingPriority,-product.startDate&navCount=1708&navAction=poppushpush&color=01
do you like it?
I want to make sure my presents are very special and will be chique for a very long time. Thanks!
OMFG that is GORGEOUS! NOW I WANT ITT! haha...just make sure its what you really want don't just get the bag cuz you can get it cuz its chic!
-e
i've only ever pecked a guy, but just in case...
how do you make out?? i know it will come naturally and all but is there some kind of technique or something? I dont want to make a fool of myself..
Thanks so much
One thing that is like the ABSOLOTE worst thing to do is spell the ABC'S with your tounge. its really gross for the other person and just shows that you like aren't ready. if you really want to know go to google and type in make-out. there is no specific kind of technique but if you really want to and really like the person your making out with it should just come to you. If your just doing it to do it your making a big mistake and most likely your gonna mess up witch could get you a bad rep. if their that kind of guy.
-E
okay so i weigh like 150 and im only 16 but i wanna loose some weight by july and i need some tips. It's not that im fat b/c i dont really think that it's just i wanna loo extra special.
thank you!
=))
Okay, honestly you don't sound like your fat. but if you want to loose some extraw weight just run or walk outside or on a treadmil. or just tone yourself up.
-E
Hey everybody! I hope you have fun answering this question! :)
Guess what!? I need some flirting tips! So go ahead and tell me some, I don't care what they are, just tell me! :P Anything you know about flirting, kissing, etc... in general would be great! 'Cause I need that type of advice right now! Thanks a bunch! :D
Okay almost everygirl in the world needs flirting tips. But i have found a few that work. You should act natural with a littltle bit some what?! oh?! wait?! huh?! say it cute. also u should act a little dumb. unless its a REALLY smart guy. Kissing is hard to explain. but honestyl i think that you should go at your own level. don't do anything that you may regreat latter. Don't just kiss someone so you can say i kissed someone. Also, Google has a lot of answeres all my friends learned how to kiss from there...but i prefer the more natural way...learning from experience! lol yeah if you want read what it says in google and then do whatever you feel is right
-E
14/f freshman. I kinda want to change my life around.
Im smart [not genius], nice, pretty and have a few close friends.I never really been involved in sports but im working on that this year. Ive already signed up for a sport.
I want to have a bunch of friends. I want a bunch of people to know me. These days it seems like the only way to really be known is to act ditzy and thats not what i want. Also I want to boost up my flirting skills and hottness. What tips you got for me ?
I think its great that you have a few close friends...and sometimes thats all you need. but if you want to be known more, volunteer to help your comunitty, join clubs, and sports. Not only will you meet new people but you might find something your really good at and really enjoy. (This stuff also looks great on College Applications) =]
And i agree with you today, the only way to get known is to act dumb. But what you don't realize is that these are the people that get made fun of the most. To be a better flirt, don't do anything you might regreat later. Don't get to involved in something you may not be ready for. When you meet a new guy just act nice with a little touch of something extra. This means your flirting in a less obvious way. And with guys..less is more. To look pretty just take your natural beauty and bumb it up. Don't paint on the make-up people(including guys)don't like cake faces. and this will also get you noticed for all the wrong resons. just take your best feature and emphasize it...don't cover it up.
I hope all goes well
-E
hey - 14/f. i had long, dark brown hair. it was about boob-length and i wanted to cut it and then grow it out for the summer. wow, that was a mistake. the girl who cuts my hair asked me if i wanted it about on my shoulder, or a little bove it. i told her what she thought would look better and she said over my shoulder. its cut in a perfectly straight line about 1/2-1 inch above my shoulder. and i haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaate it like you wouldnt even believe. im afraid that people are going to make fun of me when i go back to school tuesday, spcifically boys. my mom loves it and so do all the adults, but what does that matter when i hate it? my mom wont let me get extensions and i have noo idea what to do. obviously it wont grow by tuesday and it barely fits into a poinytail. any ideas on how to get me through this!? PLEASE HELP
It actually doesn't sound like its that bad. If people pick on you or talk about you behind your back just hink about it in a more positive way. I always think that if people are talking about me its becdause there jelous of me and want to be me. I know that sounds snotty but it really works. i barely ever really have to EVER deal with drama. Anyway, As long as you pretend that you L-O-V-E your hair you won't show sighns of weakness whitch bullies look for when choosing their next victium. Just stay strong you can get through this. And eventually, hey, it may grow on you!
-E
Okay so I have a friend, and he says he can't get girls and he needs advice. I'm not really sure what to tell him! He likes one of my best friends, but she says she only likes him as a friend. He's liked her for 3 years. He says he needs advice on "how to get girls" I don't know what to say! Help?
Your friend is just nervous. Just because one girl may not like him doesn't mean its the end of the world. Also, some girls like to keep thier feelings bottled up. Theerfore, she may never tell anyone if she does like your friend. Anyway, there is no right way to get girls. i would tell your friend to be himself..if she doesn't like him for him then does he really want her?
-Erin