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Facts About Me :)>> Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY but now residing in Pennsylvania
>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.
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I've known this guy for like 3 years, and liked him on and off for a while. I like him, and just found out he's going to ask me out. What should I do?
go for it, maybe he's waitin 4 da rite moment. good luk and im excited 4 u...
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okay i'm between the age of 16-18 and i've sort of seeing this guy (whos also in the same age range as me) for a couple of months now, things are going good in the whole 'getting to know each other' department, we have soo much fun together, BUT..theres a slight problem..i just cant conjour up enough courage to just go and kiss him, i mean we've been so close so many times, i just kinda get nervouse and sort of change the whole 'drama' but either talking or just running away coz i've 'got to go now', lol, i dunno what to do, i mean he's kinda never had a 'proper' girlfriend before and i dunno how he'll kiss..i also get majorly nervouse in public and dont think i can give him the 'first kiss' in front of a load of people, what do you reccon the best things would be todo..am i making a big mistake here??? (sorry this was soo long, i dunno who else to ask)
well, take him sum where private and kisshim.....it sounds hard rite? well, when ur ready, just go 4 it. hopefully, it'll get more and more easy as the dayz go bye. good luk...
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my girlfriend has posters on her wall of a bunch of celebrities that she thinks are "hot". She claims to me all the time that she doesnt check them out or think about them in any way but i think she is lying to me. I dont know what to do now. Is she lying to me about checking other guys out or what. She claims they are stupid little pictures, well if they are so stupid why are they up?
well, lets face it. most girlz dream about thir celebrety crushes. if she does check the posters out, so what? it's not like they're gonna make out wit her. sorry, but its da truth. for ex. u might like celebrity's like pam anderson, britney,christina,etc. just tell her ur uncomfortable wit it and maybe she'll take em down. good luk, if u need n e more help, email me at crazyflirty@yahoo.com
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this girl had liked me for a long time. and i liked her too. we hung out a lot. then one night i asked her out and she said that sh'll think about it and then 3 days later she is goin out with one of myu friends. what should i do?
just ask her y she never gave u an answer and y she is goin out wit one of ur friends.it's tru. maybe she didnt wanna hurt ur feelings or maybe she just is still expermintentin...(no offense).good luk...
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Hello!! I never wear makeup!! Should I?? I have medium brown hair, brown eyes and white skin (not very tanned) what colors should i use, and fiunally how do I put it on?? PLEASE answer as much as possible!@!! !Thanks so much!! I'll rate you
DEPENDS WHAT U WEAR.if u wear baby blu pants with a white shirt, wear light blu eye shadow. if ur more like a light color(blu,yellow,brown,etc.), then wear light makeup. lipstick doesnt matter cuz lip gloss is more preferable. the best thing 2 try 2 do is match. if u want to, u can eamil me at crazyflirty@yahoo.com bye
Hey!! I'm 14 andI wear my hair in a low pony tail EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!! im not kidding!! I do this because it is always sticking up somewhere. I can't get a straightener ( im not allowed to) and i can't blowdry it straight. I have brown hair, below the shoulders and it curls alot at the ends. Does anybody have any suggestions on ANYTHING i can do with my hair!!?!?!??!?! Thanks so much!! I'll rate you high:):)
Thanks!
i no how u feel. but my hair is always curly so i also got 2 do a ponytail. well, u can just let it loose and put gel or anti-frizz serum. or u canput a high pony tail and leave the bottom ahlf loose. find more hairstyles by goin on google and typing words like diff.hair stlyles for curly hair. hope i helped.
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My friend and I were exchanging secrets, and i found out that she had been cutting every time she got stressed out; she swore she'd stop, but then I saw two more marks... she just said she'd stop again, and she was talking about it like its no big deal.
(she's been through a lot... she was adopted when she was six, and she thinks her real parents sexually abused her (and beat her)).
I'm worried... what should I do?
-_concerned-friend_-
talk her into getting help or talk to her. confidentally. tell her dat she can trust u. but if it gets serious, she should get help. good luk,
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hey flirty. i heard u giv awesome answers and that you are very thoughtful. do u know how me and my friend can cheer eachother up because recently she has been crying and feeling depressed. and this is serious. she was suicidal but that was only once. plz help me,
signed,
ellie
dear ellie, thanks for da compliment. well, first of all, if she has thought of killing herself once, theres a slight chance she might try to do it again. secondly, try t find out y she's depressed. maybe she just wants sum1 to listen. if she's really down, go to google and search depression bcuz if she's really seriously like this, and if dats not how she acts, then she might be depressed. good luk and hope i helped. if u need n e thing, email me at crazyflirty@yahoo.com . bye.
One of my closest and dearest friends is suicidal. Or was, rather. Her mother mistreats her and she was slitting her wrists out of frustration. None of us knew. Finally we found out and she swore to stop. But just recently her mother and her mother's boyfriend (who they were living with) split up and they have nowhere to stay. I'm worried and really care about her. If I could, I'd let her stay at my house... but that's not an option because my mother won't have her. What do I tell her, how do I help?
well, i hope this helps. u guyz should tawk about it and it might be awkward. or u can go to websites linked to suicidal things and personal probs. i hope this doesn't end tragically and good luk.
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I was really good friends with this girl named madeline.... today she came up to me and punched me in the face in school(i still am in school right now) for no reason at all! I fell on the ground and didn't hit her back! I should of (well i think so at least) And i didn't! Should i of went after her or did i do the right thing by not hitting her back?
she's not ur friend if she punched u!!!! i would've punched her bal....but tawk 2 her and tell her y she did dat!!!good luk...
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hey i have a problem, there are these 4 guys and they all like me 3 of them are friends and the other one is seperate and doesnt know them... the thing is I don't wanna hurt anyone of them... help me plz... what should I do.
this may sound cheesy, but you have to do what u want. if u think goin out wit ur friends is awkward, and u like the seperate one, then go for it. if not, then go on a date with each of them and pik the one u think is right for u. good luk.
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Dear Columnists,
Ok, my boyfriend can be weird and all the girls think he's sooo gross! He can be a little weird, today he told someone who likes me that I like him and I don't! I'm really mad! But, there's bad ruors about him. He's so cool when we're alone. Please help me, I'm so depressed!
don't hurt his feelings but don't be a liar. ask him y does he do that. why does he act so great wen ur alone, but so immature around other ppl.(no offense). good luk and tawk wit him....,
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Hey every1. Um my problem is a little embarrassing. I have this boyfriend that I have been going out with for a while now. I really like him, but he wants me to do all this sexual stuff. I don't want to do it but everytime I say no, he (its pretty embarrassing)tickles me under my arms. I am really ticklish in my armpits and each time i say no, he holds me down and tickles me. No matter how many times i tell him not to, he keeps at it. I really like him and I dont want to break up with him, but I cant stand much more sexual stuff and tickling. Please help me! Thanks!! Jen, 16
tell him what ur feeling, and tell him that if he keeps pressuring u, that u'll do sumtin. i no u don't wanna break up wit him, but he might take it to dat level where it's serious. gooud luk...
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Ok theres this guy lets call him,um, "todd"... well "todd" is in my science class..today he was like ur really quiet n i was like not all tha time he was like yeah i know i saw you at lunch today laughin n talkin n smiling n stuff..n we kept talkin..n then he was like "ur so sexy,perfect for me" i kno its a song...but he sings it everytime we talk...is he tryna tell me something? does he like me?
Sry its long ill rate good if you answer
to me it souns like he liks u. he might be sayin that ur sexy and perfect 4 him, but see if he sings it around otha ppl or just u. or there's a possibility that he justlikes the song
well im 13/f n since i was abut hmm 8 or 9 years old i've liked guys n since that way young i've always gotten hurt in someway or another when i was 8 i liked this guy who was like 11 or 12 n now hes 17 or 16 n he hurt me n then so did some other kid whose 15 now n then a bunch of other guys i liked..n now im scared to get hurt again..my heart cant handle it ne more i just want a nice guy but dont wanna get hurt..is that too much to ask??
no...dats not too much to ask 4. sumday soon u'll find that guy who may be geeky or not ur type, but he is the nice guy who won't hurt u. or if ur blessed, ull find ur type of guy who is nice and sweet and caring....even though most guyz are the same. MOST, not all.good luk..
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hey im a 14 year old male and i need some help.see me and my family went on a camping trip well we camped next to this one family who had a 14 year old gurl. We kind of hung out and then it turned into a kinda love thing. She started getting up on me and we kissed. i dont no why but i like her alot. Well ne way they moved and we keep in touch by aim. but the thing is she is 3000 miles away and i cant strand being with out her. So one night i asked her outand she said yes
Is that fair to her to be so far away and go out wit her?
WAt do i do?
basically, ur havin a long distance relationship. the best thing to do is maybe make another campin trip or sumtin.or plan to visit her...if it's possible.good luk and i hope it'll work out...
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okay im 16 years old and in play football for my school. Well every practice i see this gurl there and she keeps on looking and smiling at me. well one day i went up to her but she ran off.
Does sher like me? WAT COULD I DO TO MAKE HER COMFORTABLE?
it seems like she likes u. maybe she's just shy or doesnt no wat 2 say. just giv her a note or even better, just tawk to her or get her email or sumtin.good luk...
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Ok me and this guy went out in 7th grade i went out with him not cause i liked him cause my friend wanted me to go out with him... Well we went out for like a week and i broke up with him... Well now 10th grade... And i have the biggest crush on him and he likes me too... But he said he doesnt want to go out with me till the middle of the year cause he liked this girl.. (thats now going out with his close friend) But my friend is going to hook us up...Should i go out with him or no
if u want to go out with him and he wants to go out with u, then do it. but make sure he's not using u to make the other girl jelous cuz thats just wrong.
if a guy likes two girls... Ones 19 ones 15 and his 19... He likes both of them equally... Which one should he go out with... Or should he go out with both
the 19 yr old. bein 19 and with a 15 year old is like bein 13 and bein with a 9 year old.
My dad got a job in San Antonio, Texas. I'm EXTREMELY happy!!!!! But the thing is, in a way, I don't want to move. I live in Central Pennsylvania, so its definitely a big move. I know I can't stop my rents from moving. But, I'm just going to miss my whole life. I grew up here, I'm going to have to start all over. Is this normal?
it's totally normal. and i can realte. i have moved ten times. it sux but u get used to the new place ur gonna live.hope i helped...
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