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you can email me: xasktiffany@yahoo.comI like dancing, music, Jake Gyllenhaal, t-shirts, comedy, summer nights, funny movies, and photography.
I hate perfectionists, although I can be one, people who edit their pictures with peace signs and dumb quotes, and flies.
I like giving advice. I don't know if I'm any good at it. Nobody has told me either way.
Ask me whatever, I'll do what I can to help you out.
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um ok in school there was this kid and hes like " i shadi this" and "I shadi that!" and sometimes my sis says it.. but i dont get it. what the hell does it mean? like she'll be like "I shadi not washing the dishes" or something.. what does that mean??? maybe im not spelling it right but its said the way i spelt it. like.. "shah-dee".
Thats like calling something. Like you know nose goes? Its a silly game like that. Its like saying " I call not doing the dishes"
i hope that makes sense
xxtiffany
Okay well ive been having pains in my right breast but i dont feel any bumps that i think could be abnormal or anything.
never had sex and im not pregnant.
Have any ideas of what could be wrong or what i should do?
They are probably just growing. Breasts tend to get REALLY tender when they are growing, i wouldnt worry about it.
If the pain persists for more than a week, talk to a doctor.
xxtiffany
do you have any clue what it means when your body starts to shake while you are having sex??
Shake? Like EXTREME? or is it just brief, like when you orgasm?
I really dont know. If you are in extreme pain, talk to your partner. Maybe they are going too hard? You could always google search it.
Sorry i wasnt of much help.
xxtiffany
EDIT.
hmm im really not sure.
try asking another columnist. sorry :(
So basically, i'll get right to the point.
Pretty sure i'm not very good at these
and definitely didn't know there was a certain
way of doing it, any good pointers on how to do it
seeing as how i'm pretty sure i'm not doing it right?
We really cant go into great detail about how to do this, so just google search it.
sorry, i know you came here for help, but we cant help with things like that.
xxtiffany
Well, i'm thirteen.
This may sound entirely stupid, but I know what love is. I am in love with this boy my age. We have a long history. We are always on and off. Always giving eachother those second chances. He finally said he wanted to go back out with me early september. We were having an okay relationship. Sometimtes he could be pretty assholish haha, but other times it was amazing. He makes me really happy. Well I met his best friend. His best friend is very very hott, nice, and down to earth. I did the stupid and dumped my *true love* for his best friend. How gay is that? We ended up breaking up like four days after anyways. I dont even know what the hell i was thinking. my true love got very mad, as I'm sure you would imagine. I like him again and he pretty much refuses to ever go out with me again. He still likes me, I think but he is just filled with outrage =/ Which I dont blame him for! I've said sorry, made up a few excuses, but I havent told him face to face. MY REAL QUESTION: what do I do to get this guy back? I cant live without him.
Firstly, its not GAY that you broke up with your TRUE love. Its foolish; stupid, etc. ALSO, i do think a 13 year old can know what love is. I know how a lot of people disagree, but i dont think you need to reach a certain age to feel a certain way about someone :)
Secondly, give him a chance to breathe. Wait a week or so. After that, start talking to him again, and you NEED to tell him face to face. Say, hey (name)! I miss hanging out with you. are you busy this weekend? He might not want to call it "going out" right away, because you broke his heart and left him for his best friend. Try to start over with him, another thing you could say to him was "Look, i know what i did was really wrong, but i just want to start over with you." Then, you two can just stay friends, until he builds up trust for you, then you two can get back together.
I hope what i say helps.
xxtiffany
So i like totally like stores like Hollister, american eagle, abercrnie and ficth, and stuff like that. the only problem is that in my town they price the clothes so high, its breathtaking! literally! does any one know where i can find clothes like that they sell in american eagle, etc. that don't cost a fortune? any suggestions for a girl on a buget would be welcome THANK YOU!!
Try TJ maxx if you have any of those stores near you.
xxtiffany
I'm baking a cake for my sister (for her birthday) and I don't know what kind of designs to put on it. I want to use candy to decorate it but I couldn't find any sites that had displays or examples. I don't know if I should design the cake to be birthday-ish (use frosting to make balloons and streamers) or design it with a lot of candy. Can anyone help?
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/creative-kid-birthday-cakes-decorate-candy.html
http://ezinearticles.com/?Creative-Kid-Birthday-Cakes---Decorate-With-Candy&id=516733
http://www.fun-kid-birthday-parties.com/kid-birthday-cakes-decorating-candy.html
Hope these help!
xxtiffany
who is the actress(the little girl)in the cingular commercials?
i could be wrong, but when i googled it, the name tiffany buchard came up.
you can try googling it as well.
xxtiffany
a few days ago i was hanging out with this guy i like. we were at a roller rink (lol) but anyways he hugged me tight a couple times, and
the thing is is that I put padding in my bra. i feel really embaressed becuase when he hugged me tight idk if he could tell that there was padding (its not like bumpy or anything, i dont use kleenex haha) but im REALLLLY worried! Do you think he could tell???
i dont think he would be able to tell.
xxtiffany
soo..today is my birthdayyyy! and im going with a bunch of friends to fright night and my boyfriend and all of his friends are coming with us. im pretty sure my bf is going to kiss me tonight and im really nervous because i dont have any experience and he does. help please!!
Everyone has a first time!
Just relax.
Don't worry about it too much, it should just come naturally.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY :D
xxtiffany
soo theres this boy who i have been talking and well last june we started talking like everyday and got really close like bestest freinds coz he told me evrything and me to him like literalyy everything! until november when my best freind went out with him and then i started feelin bit jelsous! but he kinda gave me the impression b4 hand that he likd me coz he would say all this sweet stuff and say like bf and gf things to me! anyway, he stopped talkin to me in december for some reason - when everyone asks him hes like i dnt like 2 talk bout the past anymore!
soo.. recently he started talkin to me sayin that he dont want 2 keep a grudge with anyone..he used to go to my school but left because he failed and had to go some place else..every time i talk to him i get a rush of feelings..but i dont think about him that much at all! and recently he kissed my best friend and didnt even call her back!
ive been trying to move on but i just cant and i dont know what to do at all!
so can somebody tell me how to handle the problem? if i like him or if were just friends?
and what to dooo?.. and recently again hes bein really rude to me and cuttin the calls when he sees my number or if i all hed hear my voice and cut the phone? lately i have been thinkin bout him
im soo confused thanks in advance and fast please thanks honeys x
I went through the same thing, but the boy and my friend broke up.
You sound like you do like him, but you are the only one who can decide that.
You do have the right to feel jealous, after all, he was leading you on! He might be going out with this girl to make you jealous. Back off of him for now, after all, whats more important, a friend or a boy? Eventually, if they do break, you can continue flirting with him. But now, you two can only be friends.
Im sorry, i know the situation SUCKS.
xxtiffany
ok.. so my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 months.. and whenever he gets texts or calls.. he wont let me see his phone bc he said that its the only think that he can keep "private." once he even deleted a text that he got before i could see his phone and said that it was one of his friends. is it just me or is he doing somethin behind my back? and everytime i wana go out with my friends i tell him im goin to say jennifers house and hes like bull fucking shit about anywhere i wana go. does that mean that he really does that stuff ? what do you guys think?
That does sound a little fishy
And he needs to respect that you want to hang out with your friends.
Talk to him, tell him how you feel.
If he doesnt understand, hes a bad boyfriend, and you should dump his sorry ass.
xxtiffany
I dont know what to do! But my asthma has been really bad latley! I am having to get up in the middle of the night to take my fast acting inhaler. I am a gymnastics coach and am having to call off work or just sit there, I cant really spot my girls well. The phisical activity makes it extremley worse. I went to the doctor and he said that I had broncitus. I was on medicine for it and took all of it that was like 6 weeks ago. I called my doctor back and he told me that there wasnt anything I could do. Any suggestions? I cant hardly do anything! There has got to be something to do. Please help and something fast!! I really need to get back to work so I can get my paycheck!
If your doctor said there was nothing you could do, there is a 99.9% chance that there is nothing you can do.
You should go back to him and tell him what you told advicenators. There MUST be something he can prescribe you.
If he doesnt have anything, try another doctor. Getting more than one opinion is a good idea; some doctors recommend things other doctors wouldnt.
Sorry i didnt help much.
You could also read this, and see if it answers any of your questions:
http://www.ehealthmd.com/library/bronchitis/BCH_whatis.html
xxtiffany
i cant decide beteew to guys i like
cam sweet and hot
or
jonny hot nice smile and nice
First, do either of them like you?
Are you close friends with either?
Does either flirt with you?
They pretty much sound the same. Whichever seems more into you, I'd say. Or you could "test" them out.
Hang out with Cam one weekend, then the next, hang out with Jonny.
Whoever has feelings for you, cause they both sound PERFECT! hope this helps, thanks for asking me.
If you want anymore help, leave it in my inbox
xxtiffany
well this is kind of a long story so I'll try to make it as short as i can.well i like this boy and this boy that i like is my best friend bother.I been liking him for like almost 3 months,well im a freshman and he in the 10th grade.Anyways like a while back when i first started liking him i wanted to ask him out but i decided to wait awhile.Then like he found i that i like him and a course everything was going out great he didnt much say anything about it, i mean like at times he talk to me and stuff. And what i was trying to do was get him to like me back(and by the way he is very flirty like).So after awhile i decided to ask him out and like the next week after, i found out that he liked someone else.So now him and the girl talk and stuff but i dont think they go out.And i been hearing many different things from my friends like, they aint gonna get together and all that stuff.And my other friend is like they might so right now i dont know what to do.I really really like this guy and i want him t feel the same way.So my question is how do you get a guy when you know there's another girl after him.And i dont want to start no drama or nothing i just want him before the other girl gets him.
please help me!1
The best thing to do is to be yourself.
Dont try to act any different, cause thats jsut stupid.
Be a little flirty, but not OBSESSIVE.
Dont stalk this guy, thats just creepy.
Be yourself. And you cant fight fate, if it was meant to be, it will happen.
xxtiffany
Is this some kind of personality disorder im going through?
I jump from happy to angry to sad to just about different emotion to the MAX so if i am happy, im really really happy, but if i am angered by little thing, i get so aggrevated and mad.
I act on my emotion, such as yell at people, punching walls, swearing like crazy (which i have stopped now), saying i hate someone, and then pretty soon after, I just feel so sad and bad that I had done all that and regret so much.
Is that some kind of disorder? I would love to get that checked out by some kind of therapy, but my parents thinks im lying and they are kind of in denial because I said i need some help because I am sick and tired of crazy mood swings. They basically doesnt like to think there's something wrong with me, especially mentally.
You sound bipolar.
See a counselor or therapist. Start by talking to a guidance counselor at school. They can tell your parents if its serious.
xxtiffany
Advice Givers-
what are your favorite quotes?
These have almost nothing to do with giving advice, so im sorry if that was what you were looking for.
But these are my favorites:
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind dont matter and those who matter dont mind.
-dr seuss
Sometimes I lie awake at night, and ask, 'Where have I gone wrong?' Then a voice says to me, 'This is going to take more than one night.'
-Charles M. Schulz
Im in love im in love! and i dont care who knows it!
-ELF (will ferrell movie)
you can also google search quotes.
xxtiffany
15/f
since i was 7 i've had these constant zits in my T-Zone but i only have a few on my cheeks. I've tried all of the oil-free face washes... Then i stopped using those and now i only put white dove soap and normal clearasil on my face. My acne seems to have increased since I made that change.
What products will get rid of worse-than-normal but not horrible acne?
ps: i have super oily skin but I don't want a product that will dry my skin out.
please only reccomend stuff that you personally have tried. (or at least know someone who it's worked for)
I use clean and clear deep cleaning astringent, and it works pretty well.
Also, steaming out your pores with fairly hot water helps.
Wash your face twice a day, with warm soapy water. Then clean if off with cool water.
Drink plenty water, and keep your hands away.
Also, you could also put a little toothpaste or lemon juice on some of your pimples.
xxtiffany
Okay so i really need haloween ideas......
my friend was thinking we should be in a rock band, and the other was thinking of the spice girls, she said i could be Posh but i serously have no idea what she looks likeee.
so my quests is 1.would that be a good idea?
2. what does Posh look like?
thankss
The rock band idea might be hard, because people will want to know who you are, and you'd just say a rock band, when they were expecting to hear a specific name (Avril Lavigne, Kelly Clarkson...etc)
Posh:
http://pub.tv2.no/multimedia/TV2/archive/00069/posh_69957a.jpg
You could also be the fanta girls, [sexy ;)] pirates, or anything like that.
For more ideas, check this out:
http://www.kidsturncentral.com/holidays/hcostume2.htm
Some of the ideas are a little silly, but others are good.
xxtiffany
so my friend has these really red swollen bumps on her pants line. like right where her pants stop on her hips kinda. but a little lower. she has no idea what they are. and neither do i. they are really red and very very swollen. it hurts her to touch them. even when she puts on her pants. it hurts her. does anyone have any idea what these are? oh and when she first noticed them, they started pussing or something. but there was blood with it. we have nooo idea what this is. can anyone help us figure out what this is?
I've never heard of that, but it does not sound normal.
You need to tell her parents, and make sure she sees the doctor. It could be some type of rash, but nobody on this site could actually diagnose her.
Tell her to go see a doctor.
xxtiffany