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Q: I'm thirteen and I want my navel pierced. My Grandparents [who were really strict with my Mom and her sister], are even okay with it. Both of my parents say that I'm too young. But my Dad doesn't live with me, so my Mom can still say yes. I asked her why she wouldn't let me get it done and she said 1] that she thinks if I got that done I would want my nipples done or something crazy like that. 2] she thinks I would walk around with belly shirts or something. I told her I'm not a whore like that and that I wouldn't do either of those. And my question to you is do you think I'm too young? And what do you think I should do to convince my Mom?
Well, I pierced mine when I was 12, lol so I cant really say anything. But I think you should wait, even the piercers say that, because if your 13 then your still growing, and if you get it done and grow more than it will stretch the piercing out and mess it up and it will look really bad.. so I think you should wait untill you are 15 or 16 to be safe, because mine got messed up and I had to redo it about a year ago [ when i was 15 ] anyways.

But if you ARE done growing or something - and you want to convince them. Just sit down and talk to them and say that you really want it done and your not going to go changing because of it - and it doesnt necessarily mean your going to go totally drastic and pierce your nipples, lol.

Q: I shave 'down there' and i do it because it's better for guys and if i dont shave,it'd itch really bad (even before i started shaving) So anyways i have to go to the doctors for a physical and they have to check there..what will the doctor say to me..and will they think it's ok i do?
The doctor probably actually wont say anything to you. & if your just getting a physical I really dont know why they would check down there, I think the only time they do is if you go to the gyno. But anyways if they do - they wont say anything & its not unhealthy or anything .. or dangerous. so your fine =)

Q: Okay. I have make-out before but for some werid reason I am scared to make-out with my bf, james since i really love him and i think it might be because I'm scare he will think im bad but i shouldn't be worrying about it sicne the guys i made out with befroe said im good and everything like that. but i don't know its like i dont care if all the guys think im bad as long as he thinks im good. what can help make me not be scared? im suppose to today, and i want to. but ahh!!

and also he is in 8th and im in 9th what will keep up able to stay together during school? and be able to work it out?
Aw. Sweetie if he really cares for you, than it shouldnt matter if your good or not. Plus there is really no wrong or right way to makeout, so if he says your bad, you can just say your unique =) hehe. Have fun with it ;o)

During the school year.. hmm - try going to each others houses after school and make sure you see each other each week .. that should prevent the "distance" thing

Q: does anyone know how to make a cd label? and what program and stuff?
thnx
I use nero for CD labels. It comes with a CD burner, and if it didnt come with yours or you dont have one, then you can try to go to best buy or a computer store to get one =)

Q: There is a little space in between my AC and the window frame I didn't notice until recently... I think spiders got in through there and hatched baby spiders in here. In the past 3 days I've killed about 9 spiders and they all look the same. Is there some kind of spray or something I can buy to spray in my room to kill these spiders? I've found out I'm scared of spiders so I can't handle killing them every night until they're all gone, I need something to kill them NOW. I know they make can of spray to set off to kill fleas and stuff, but do they make something like that to kill spiders?
Ew omgshh.. I hate spiders too !! .. try buying Rade. It works good for ants and bees and such haha .. and i use it everytime i even see like a tiny bug hahaha..

Q: hey im 15/f and I was just wondering if anyone knows whats a good brand for a skateboard.I been skateboarding for a while now and I have this really old skateboard ( its so old i have no grip tape on it) but anyways I was looking for a good brand to buy cause i need a new one. I know the brand out there i just dont know whats a really good one.So if any one knows let me know.

*SKATERGIRL15*
I dont really skateboard but my friend said that Enjoi's are pretty good & reliable.

Q: what are this fall's back to school fashions? i'm going into 9th grade, and i want to know what the hottest and cutest styles are for someone of my age. i'm going to be 14, it's going to be my first year in high school, i'm a girl, and i'm preppy. what stores are good to shop at? also, what colors of makeup are good for brown hair and brown eyes?
Hm. Id say go for ripped jeans, tight graphic T's [ hollister ] or AE, AF & aero. && as for the makeup - if you have dark skin - use light colors - light skin [ blues, greens ]

Q: ok i make xanga layouts and ive been making them for over a year and i was wondering. where do layout sites get those thin diagonal striped backgrounds? do they get them off a search engine, each other or make them themselves?
I know how to make those. You just open up PSP and make the background a color than use a line brush and make them. you could also make them using paint. you could try using a search engine though if you wanted.

Q: do most jobs.. (for example - target, any restaraunt, walgreens, menards, etc.) hire 15 year olds if they have a workers permit? bc im 15 and i really need a job.. that doesn't require you to work the fry machine..
I honestly dont think that they will hire you. 1 because of child labor laws permitting 15 year olds and under from working most of the time. and 2 because most places like target and walmart require you to be at least 18 years of age. Once your 16 though try working at a gas station, or like a grocery store bagging or working the register. Also, subway isnt bad

Q: i babysit this little boy and i am not so good with cooking. any ideas for cooking for a little boy. he likes chocolate and milk and he also likes cheese, but i don't know what to make for him that he likes or will like. any ideas? i rate really high!
Haha, aw. That doesnt leave you much options. Make him a grilled cheese sandwich. or PB & J. orr a hot dog with cheese.. or uhm.. haha i dont know, thats about it. unless he's really picky .. just ask him what his mommy usually makes him =)

Q: I use the words: incredible, awesome, beautiful and amazing all the time. I was wondering if you knew any words that mean basically the same thing, but are different?
stunning, breath taking, angelic - haha thats all i can think of =)

Q: does hollister have a website? i've tried everything and can't seem to find it. thanks.
www.hollisterco.com

Q: Can someone please type some of the lyrics to the song with Ja Rule and Ashanti... I do not remember it at all but I remember that the video was copying Grease with Danny as Ja Rule and Sandy as Ashanti.. please help!
AHH thats the song mesmerize !!


Girl your stare, those eyes I (love it when you look at me baby)
Your lips, your smile I (love it when you kiss me baby)
Your hips, those thighs, I (love it when you thug me baby)
And I can't, deny I (love it when I'm witchu baby)


for the rest of the lyrics go to www.azlyrics.com and type in Ja Rule and search for Mesmerize =)

Q: me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about a month. and I heard about when a guy does you really good he pops your cherry. how do you know when that happens???

I know this sounds really gross but I`m curious..... sorry.

I`m seventeen and i`m a chick
Its alright, its not gross, lol. When a guy pops your cherry, so to speak, you usually bleed alot. Thats how you can tell when it happens. =)

Q: i am 17/f and this might sound sick but i have hairs on my privates. what is this? thanks
Its called pubic hair doll, everyone gets it when they go start going through puberty. =) Perfectly normal.

Q: right this may sound very VERY stupid but what is xanga?!?!?!?!? people talk about it all the time and i have no idea whatsoever what it is... could someone please give me any idea of what it is/or does. thnx lucee xxx
Aw, lol. Xanga is an online journal thing that some people like to keep to share their thoughts and feelings with people, and anyone in the xanga network can read it, unless they make it private. go to www.xanga.com for details.

Q: I'm supposed to be going to the gyn (women's doctor) in a few months, and I was wondering, when they stick their fingers inside you to examine you, does that hurt badly, or what? Do they loosen you up or what..?

Please answer!
Actually, they dont stick their fingers inside you because that would be considered unprofessional, they stick this thing inside there and then push it open so their able to examine your insides. Im not sure if it hurts because I havent ever been there before, but I would imagine its not that pleasant of an experiance.

Q: ok, i've recently decided to become a vegitarian, but i was wondering is chicken considered meat, or poultry, and is poultry considered meat? so basically can i eat chicken?
Chicken is considered poultry, and when I was a vegetarian I was able to eat that.

Q: hi

im not feeling that well that often, i mean like, its like i dont care about nothing man!

i have had pains thoughout my body, like especially in my stomach.

If i get a chocolate milkshake from carvel (yumm) i get a horribal stomachach and i feel like im about to through up! yet, i do not get malted milkshakes. I dont like it at all. I tried vaniella, and same thing happened! its not how they make it, tis the exact way i make it at home!

and if i get it at a restraunt, YUCKY! same thing happens!

WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME?!
lactose intolerant ? possibly ?

Q: Is it weird for an African-American girl to say things like "Dude", "Narley", "Hot", etc.?
I dont think that its wierd at all. Just because your african american doesnt mean that you have to use all the ghetto talk that most do. [ hope that didnt sound racist or anything ]

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