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 Okay, I'm having trouble with my column.  I put in an HTML code for an add on design, and ever since then it won't let me edit a single thing.  I can't even erase the code I PUT in!!  Not a single thing will change!!  Can someone tell me why this is??  If you wanna check it out.. my column is "Mackenzie".  Also, not only will it not let me edit, some of my codes don't work anymore, and my 'conversation box' (?) is gone also!  Can someone please tell me what I can do about this!  It'd be MORE than appreciated!!I think admin. changed it so that you can't have the chatterboxes anymore or any music or anything, but I'm not sure, none of my stuff works either... [view] 
 I had sex about 6 days ago, and i didnt use a condom! im supposed to start my period sometime this week, or at the end of the month! WHat do i do if i dont have my period, i wouldnt kno what to do because i dont talk to my parents about this stuff..pleez help me!!!Tell one of your closest friends whos parents you are close with too, that way someone will know and your friends parents would take you, in the end you're gonna end up having to tell your parents about it, or they'll find out on their own and you dont want that happening [view] 
 I've been with my boyfriend Steve for alomost 2months now. I haven't seen him in over a month and by the time i get to talk to him it'll have been a month. Lately I've been talking to my best friend Chris a lot. He's really sweet and nice to me. I really like him now. And i'm more open with him and i can talk to him easier than i can talk to steve but hes going to high school next year and im going into 8th grade and so is steve. Chris just got dumped by one of my best girl friends and shes mad at me cause she thinks i called her a slut and i didnt. I told chris i liked him when he was still going out with my friend. about a week after she dumped him he said he liked me back. we were playing truth or truth and he asked me if i would dump steve for anyone. And i said why do you want me to. And he said yes. I said i dont know if i would cause i hadnt talked to steve in so long. I'm really confused i dont know what to do. Should i dump steve and go out with chris? i mean it might make my friend mad cause she gets mad at stupid things. Or should i wait till steve comes home and talk to him cause i also feel like i barely even know him. who should i choose? what should i do?Well you could try taking a break from Steve for awhile, see how your friend would feel about you and Chris, if you dont want to ruin a friendship over a guy its better off to just stay friends with Chris, but if you really want Chris and you don't care if it hurts your friend then date him for a little while see how things work, then make it official, don't rush in to anything [view] 
 i'm going into high school and im really scared and nervous..what if i dont know anyone during lunch and i have to sit by myself?! i dont know what to do..how can i be more brave and not be so scared?Well at lunch if you know 4 people you could hang out with them, or I'm sure you'll meet someone in your class for you to hang out with, you'll find someone don't sweat it :-) [view] 
 (I'm 14) I've been going out with "James" for 8 months, and at the beginning it was all great, except for his ex, Sarah, who, I know for a fact part of the reason he went out with her is because she's...She'll MAKE you go out with her, she has a way of making you, because she can't get anybody because of a bunch of reasons but she's a VERY nasty person (if u get what I mean) and not even pretty, or popular and just...horrible.  She accused me of stealing him, and about a month later, came up with a note that he supposedly written to her, stating that he loved me, but still wanted to be friends with benefits with him, and also said that she could go over to his friends house and they could "have sex since i haven't had it in awhile"  The second he saw it he ripped it up and nearly bit Sarah's head off, was the angriest I've ever seen him, and really upset since I refused to talk to him.  Sarah though, has been known to do ANYTHING to get a guy, and she's known for forging handwriting, and most of her old friends who now hate her, were pretty sure she forged it.  It looked a little bit like his writing, but barely, and the way she said "aren't you going to dump him?" Put it into my head that it wasn't him.  So I forgave him, then a couple months later she came up with some more "notes" and one time he looked at me pleadingly and just said "I didn't write those" which I forgot about, again, but they always stuck in my mind.  Then she gave a note to my friend supposedly from him that said he still wanted to be friends with benefits, but HE had a note from HER that she had written to him, with HER wanting to be friends with benefits, she admitted it, that she had forged the note from him, and BEGGED me for forgivness, with bull notes saying "I'm SO sorry i'll never do it again" I'd never been more upset in my life, because I didn't know who to believe, and it took a toll on me that I did some things to myself I'm not proud of (think hard...) Eventually I "forgave" her, pretending to be her friend.  None of it ever happened again, but that had been the third time.  Ever since the first time, I've been paranoid, always imaginging him making out with her, and I know they did A LOT of stuff last summer.  And now with summer, I hardly see him because we live a whole 5 miles away (sarcasm) and he always has to work at night (which i know is true, I've been there when he's working) and I've only seen him three times since summer started.  I broke up with him once, right after summer started, because another guy wanted to go out with me, a guy that I knew I wouldn't have to worry about him cheating and a guy who could go to movies with me, even if I didn't love him, I could trust him.  I lasted 3 days of crying and screaming to no1 inparticular before I broke down and went back out with him.  A part of me is telling myself that I have to break up with him because everytime he has to go on the phone, even after the best conversations that last for hours, a cynical part of me thinks "Is he going to see Sarah?" and the part that for some reason he never wants me to go to his area makes me even more paranoid than I already am.  It haunts me, and I know it's not healthy, but I also know if I break up with him, I'll be more miserable than I've ever been, but a tiny part of me thinks it's better in the end, but I have no idea.  I love him, he's wonderful, he makes me feel wanted and loved and he's just...Wonderful.  But the thing with Sarah, and that he doesn't want me arond where he lives (btw, two of his ex's live there) makes me paranoid.  And I need to decide now, because I can't go on living with those thoughts of Sarah in the back of my mind.  Sorry this was so dang long, and help would be GREATLY appriciated.Just go to his area anyways, make a surprise visit, don't let him know you're coming call him first off talk for a few minutes and make sure he'll be there (not making it obvious) and then tell him you gotta go, then go over to his area and see for yourself why he doesnt want you there [view] 
 I'll start from the beginning....Ask him how he feels about you, or tell him how you feel about himWhen I was little, i used to live in washington state, but then we moved when i was 8 years old.
 this other family with this boy that had been in my 2nd and 3rd grade class moved to the same part of florida the same time we did, and we ended up going to the same school.
 our families became close friends(my sister is about the same age as his little brother)
 and we'd go over to each others houses a lot, and when we were little we used to come up w/ these little plays (some romantic, we'd "marry" each other...), and well, we got a little older. last year, he moved to orlando, and we spread apart a little. we saw them, and we were playing around and like fake kissing each other in this little "play" we made up (my little sister is only 8, and she really wanted to do a "play")
 and now he's moving back to where we live. i dont kno if he likes me, but i kind of think i like him. what should i do?
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 what is wrong with being a lesbian i mean everyone is always making a big deal what is it?There's nothing wrong with it, it's just someones choice on how they see things... [view] 
 my boyfriend is always hangin out with kids who are 2 or more years younger than us. his friends are kind of immature...so they are always comin up to me sayin.....oooo have u kissed him...oo hes gonna dump you...adn all that sorta stuff its really annoying i know that they are joking but... i mean if they are his freinds why would they say that he was gonna dump me. its not like he spends way more time with me than them, bcuz he doesnt...its the other way around... It's definitely because they are immature, they are mad that your boyfriend has someone and they are still stuck alone... I wouldnt worry about it too much, they'll hit puberty sooner or later.. [view] 
 i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in 18 and hes 19, we have sex often. im a 34b adn he thinks that i should get implants. should i do it just to please him?!?! i really think that he might be the one, adn we've talked about our future.If you are comfortable with your size don't change it, but if you feel you want the implants too then get themhelp
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 how can i put music into my advice column and where can i get the music??IM me to get the code because they won't show it on here.. [view] 
 Last night.. i was with my boyfriend... and we were in the moment. I let him finger me and then we had sex.  I am only 14 and it was my first time.  I wasn't really ready, but I was just so much into the moment.  What should I do?Tell him that you didnt feel you were rally ready and that you dont really want to do it again until you are actually fully ready
 He didn't pressure me into it.  I just let him do it.  He has asked me in the past if it would be alright for him to finger me. I told him I would let him when the time was right.
 
 Do I talk to him about last night.. or should I just let it be and not let it happen again?
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 whats the best way to get over a guy that ur stuck on?Try finding a new one, hang out with new kinds of guys [view] 
 does anyone know any good clothes stores with cheap clothes? i'm not saying cheap cheap but cheaper than abercrombie type cheap. help asap! i rate REALLY good!Hmm Old Navy and Pac Sun are cheaper and so is Aeropostale [view] 
 i have a rating 4 and above how come im not a moderater? ive looked at the moderator faq thing and it doesnt say.You have to be a member for atleast 2 weeks [view] 
 im 11 and i way 110 puonds. its really hard for me to keep up a normal body wait especially in the summer. all my friends are skinny and ive been really self concious lately. is there any way that i can loose10 or 15 pounds by september??Just stay busy and eat healthy, as long as you are always moving your boy will continue to burn the fat, but if you sit around alot then fat will build upthanx
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 Hey I need advice um..i like this 12 year old girl and im 16 should i go outwith her because she likes me i only know her bout 8 weeks already we barely talk when we talk we see at other at dances i love her so much i kiss her on the first time we meetWow, that's kinda young, but if the connection is there, go for it [view] 
 i was jw...is it wrong to maturbate???is there a lotta people that do it???please answer...thank youIt's not necessarily wrong, you do what pleases you, and yeah there are alot of people that do it [view] 
 okay so the usa cup is goin on in mn and since im a mayjor fan of socca im down tehre like everyday and the cup is a mayjor spot to find some really hottie hot hot guys there. and im really horny so i wanna meet some hotties but i don't knoe how to catch their attention or how to start a convo with them so will you please gimme some tips? asap cuz the usa cup is almost overJust be really flirty when you see them, be yourself thoughplease
 
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 there is this guy who i really like but he doesnt even know i exsist what should i do to have him notice meBe really flirty around him and make sure you are being yourself! [view] 
 when you call a guy that you met through someone else, what do you say to them?? answer asap!!! i rate!Just talk to them and get to know them [view] 
 
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