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16.5 yrs old
had my share of drugs/alcohol. and learned.
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"you know what i still dont get, why are you trying so hard to fit in when u were born to stand out"-What A Girl Wants
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I think I'm depressed.. its like sometimes I can be really happy and have a positive outlook on life, and then other times I feel like my life is falling apart. I don't think I'm suicidal, but Im just afraid that someday i might be if i dont get help. I told my dad i wanted anti-depressents or therapy, but he said no cuz he doesnt believe me that im depressed. he just wont take me seriously. what should i do? what are some ways to be happy w/o anti depressents??
ahh..depression. sometimes we all feel it but whos to say youre actually suffering from depression, a mental condition inthe brain which causes chemicals to be unbalanced, altering your feelings. i have severe depression, and my therapist didnt put me on medication for it yet because she wants to settle the "easy" problems first. i just try to look at the good sides of life. i mean if you live with both your parents, and they dont fight alot, be happy! i hate when my parents fight, it tears everything apart. And are people allowed over? are you allowed to go on the computer alot and talk on the phone?? theres alot of things to be happy about, and now during Lent (if youre christian) its about celebrating it. try hanging out with your friends more, or playing with your pets. sometimes cats and dogs alleviate high blood pressure, as they say. and try to talk to your dad, tell him how you feel and tell him that if he doesnt respect your feelings, it will be hard for you to respect his. or some shiz. good luck!
Are you still a virgin if you kind of had sex? meaning... If you were making out and everything and the guy and u start to have sex and stuff and he's like half way in and then you guys stop... is that still considered being a virgin or not?
Thanks!
(Unsure)
well it depends on what you did, if he was like feelin ur stuff then he put it in and u felt unsure and you told him nah no i dont want to then no youre still a virgin. if it was intentional and you guys were actually doin it then youre a secondary virgin now. hope i answer your ques. good!
im a weird person at skewl, i can be nice but thnx to my past on my dad and not seeing my mom i became evil. i want to be nice but people dont give me the chance to. Pleaz help!
lol, yeah alot of things can alter your perspective on life and school, and friends. we are have original sin, a sin we are born with that makes us attracted to evil. i know too, evil can be fun..at times. ive learned so many times that the consequences arent worth it. if you want to be evil, just think of your parents..i guess you can say theyre evil too. do you want others to feel like you? if u treat them evil like youve been treated then thats not good. but then again avil backwards is live..so, i dont know. its up to you, good luck!
Are there any ways that your hymen (sp?) can be broken besides sex? Like using tampons, fingering, etc? And can a doctor tell if its broken or not just by looking@ u down there? (like check ups andstuff)
yeah, even like sitting on a horse and stuff. yours is probably broken already, not to be mean but its really easy to break it, i think
I need advice on how to make cleaning my room fun... it's so boring and i just hate doing it. My room is large, and there is stuff all over it. Any ideas to make cleaning it more fun? and maybe easier? Thanks very much! I'll rate good ideas!
hmm, youre lucky, small rooms are bad haha. well you can try making it fun by...thinking how cool and nice its gonna look when youre done! and maybe figure out ways to rearange it. try making ice cream or something and put it in the freezer and keep tellin urself "as soon as i get done i get that ice cream" so it makes it funner to clean and faster n stuff. i duno my house is shitty and messy so i have no experience lol. good luck!
I have problems. I always do. The problem is that i try to make people feel sorry for me so that they'd go on my side and so that they wont be mean to me anymre. Is this right to do? My "friend" saw throught that and said that "Your pathetic man, you really are". Am i really?
*no youre not pathetic, it was a way to try to stop people from being mean to you. maybe your search for pity was just a way for you to feel comfort, which you probably didnt since people werent treating you very nicely. and the person who said you were pathetic, its not true. nobodys really pathetic! well, some people..but anyways. isnt it weird how your friend saw through that?? maybe you should talk to him and tell himthat you just didnt want people being mean to you. its not bad that you wanted people on your side, who wants enemies anyways? mean people suck! good luck, kid!*
13/m
hi,
i've taken the whole am-i-fat testing and stuff from different websites, and they all say the same thing, that i don't weight enough. i don't have an eating disorder or anything like that. my doctor i guess knows about this, but hasn't really told me to do anything. so... what can i do? i eat until i'm full, and thats it. please don't say "eat more!". i'll rate you if you give extremely good advice, give extremely funny advice, or give extremely bad advice.
yours,
the thin one
well. im the same, but alot skinnier..and for me, it's hell trying to gain weight. iver searched on the internet for a whole bunch of ways but they dont seem to help. and this fasting for lent doesnt seem to help much either lol. try not to eat so much that it gets you sick, the stomachache is realy bad; well for me. here are some sites you can get some info on:
http://www.intense-workout.com/weight_gain.html
and/or http://kidshealth.org/teen/food_fitness/nutrition/gain_weight.html
**some things i know are that banana's have alota calories..and you should hang around fat friends lol. hope i help!
My first love broke up with me. He wants to see other people. He said we can still be friends and that he loves me with all his heart. He says his life is just too complicated. How do I go on when I have to see him everyday? Help me please.
focus on other things to get your mind off of him, or try putting yourself in his position. hes probbaly going through alot right now. are you two still friends? if you are you should be happy about that. hope i help!
I'm a 15 year old girl, who's confident and a sweet person. I feel really satisfied with my life.. I have decent grades, the best friends a girl could ask for, and a great home life. I have an empty feeling inside me though, because I don't have a boyfriend or even a crush. I haven't met anyone that's met up to my standards (which is basically funny, romantic, & polite) All the guys in my grade are either obnoxious and shallow jerks, or else gay. Any suggestions on where to meet guys?
im not sure, if its really bothering you that much write that youre single in your profile and tell your friends youre looking for a guy. if you wanna follow my advice i recomend being exceedingly happy that youre fortunate as to having intelligence, best friends, and most importantly a home life. a Good one in fact. youre living the life that so many poeple want it is so unblieveable. there are so many people that would do almost anything for what you have now, so just be appreciative of what you have. maybe you can go to the mall, cafe shops, and where bands play, there seems to be a lot of guys there. good luck!
hello everyone.... jsut wodnering but what are how are you actually suppost to clean your vagina, and what with? and no not the feminine wipes i am tryign to avoid that humiliation
your vagina is actually self cleaning, thats where the discharge comes from. if you really need to clean it, which i would highly discourage you not to, use a douche. Douching too much will wash away some of the vagina's healthy bacteria which will cause yeast infections or vaginal dryness both of which are very painful. hope i help!
ok soo my face is fine in the mornign wheni get ready for schhool, but then by the end of school my face is soooooo oily, what can i do, besides pound more powder on, cuz i hate to wear a lot of make up, its jsut really shiny, and gross.. but yeah like i i ahte wearing tons of make up, i jsut wear anough to loook natural, and nothing works i've tryed translusent powder,a dn all taht and i do clay masks liek evry three days, what do yuo suggest?
sometimes when you wash your face alot to get rid of the oil, more produces because its trying to fix the dried out skin from over excessive washing. if this is not what youre doing, maybe try oil-blotting sheets. theyre blue and theyre from clean and clear, and they dont take off makeup. you can also try face washes and creams for oily face, too. make sure the makeup your putting on is oil free and non comodegenic (wont clog pores) because that could be the source of the oiliness. your face may not be oily in the morning because no make-up. it may be really oily at teh end of the day because theres tons of make-up on it! see? hope i helped!
Most of my friends dads look at porn! My friend told me almost every dad does it! But I thought my dad would never do it but one day i saved my paper I wrote for school and went into my dads documents and I saw all these things like adults only! Then I was going to savethemusic.com and when i typed in s i saw like sexmania.com or somehting like that! So is my dad looking at these things? Well duh but how do I deal with this situation? I wanna tell my mom but what?
lol ewww! almost every guy does it..good thing my dads a dumbass who doesnt know how to use the computer!! but tis still gross cuz i hear him takling about him whacking off and one time i seen him with a morning boner!! oh man i was horrifyed..and still am. what you should do is tell your mom something like "uhh, mom this is nasty but there was some gross stuff on the computer and i didnt type it in there, and the last person who was on the puter was dad, and now im really freaked out" or something!! ew...men.
I have this friend and she seems kinda perverted, she's never had a boyfriend or anything. When i go to her house and change into my p.js or swimsuit or something it seems she is always watching. and she ALWAYS talks about how big or small someone's boobs are! I told her to stop talking about stuff like that and that i think she is a pervert, but she thinks i was joking. I just wish she would shut up!
just be like "ewww you pervert, youre gross" or "omg you weirdo" or "stalker", embarass her so she never says thing like that again!
Its all started I was freind with this guy, let say his name is Jo, We talk few time and talk online, we started to get know eacther and becoming freinds, I start opend up little and treating him like my freind. and sometimes he be little goffy in class and funny, I like to pick on him and tease. for fun, but he don't do it back. only to other girl that pick on him and stuff. Maybe he just like be my freind. later he started like watching me and lookign at me couple of time for some reasons. when were working on a play, I know he like me as a friend but problem is i feel like i am falling for him, and i don't want that. i want be freinds and talk. but he seeem blew me off sometimes. like he be online for hours, but sometimes he not really on long becouse i am talking to him, but thing is i know he maybe buzy stuff like that. but thing is everytime i friend with a guy I thinking bout having a bf. but i know that i can't make him like me i not doinng that. but i need some thoughts to htink bout not thinking bout him that way.. pls help, i try relex my mind today and listen to my heart but my mind seem to controll me..
amanda
hmm, maybe try telling yourself if you become bf and gf, it might seem akward, and if you break up, you may never have him back ever again, not even as a friend. and youl be losing everything youve ever had with him! hopew i help!
i have a rescuedog and he is so placid but is very scared of men that he dusnt know.yesterday we were about to take the dog out so he was waiting by the car when a man came to give me a leaflet.he went to say hello to the dog,he got threatened nad bit him on the ankle.the man said he was ok and i gave him a plaster it wasnt a big bite just about a cm long.now my dad wont let the dog in the house and wont walk him.the dogs freezing and shaking outside what can i do to get my dad to like him again.?hes never bit anyone before.
thats so sad!! okay he was probably just trying to prtect you!! tell your dad how you feel, and tell him how the dog was just trying to protect you guys! or if u dont care about getting in troubel, bring him inside and go inside a room with a lock and lock both of you guys in there. i feel bad! go get your dog before it freaking dies!! you guys are so mean! if yiu really loved ur dog you wouldnt keep him locked out in the cold and dark and sadness, dont break your dogs heart even more!! youre punishing him for loving you and trying to protect you!!!! :'(
ok, wuts the average age when teens start having sex. I know, it's when your ready for it and all, but i'm jus wondering when is the average age when people start getting together?
well, theres a whole bunch of precentages on this page. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/6839072/
**but that doesnt mean u should be havin sex!! wait for a very long time, you wont regret it!!
I always have to be perfect in every single way. That's just the way I am. Well, now that i'm getting older i feel very uncomfortable wiht my body. I weigh 97 pounds and i am 5'3". I'm worried my thighs are to jiggely and my butt as well. I'm also very uncomfortable wiht my bra size, i'm the 32 AA,=, and i hardly fit in that. Well, yesterday i was making a list about all the things i liked about my body and hate about my body. The only thing i liked was my eye color, and i have evrything else. Please help me!! What are some excersizes that i can get my whole bpdy toned up AND HOW CAN I FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE WITH MYSELF!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
youre beautiful in every single way!! all teenagers hate somethign about themselves. if you really want to fix it, go on a diet, excersize, or something. guys like big butts so u should be happy!! you cant possible hate everything else!! im completely opposite of you, im 5'9'', 105 lbs, basically i look anorexic. plus my face is full of zits, and i have no boobs..OR ass!!! same size bra as you, im guessing your around 13? or 10-15 years? well just find someone hideaus and compare yourself to him or her, it will totally make you feel better, but dont make fun of whoever your comparing yourself to, cuz thats mean! hope i help!
Well, I'm a 14/f, and I really don't know how to describe this, but I'll give it a try. Randomly I would get these pains right under my right breast near the ribs, and i would get a pain on the are right above my left breast, on the chest, not actually on the breast area. I was just wodnering if anyone might know if this is something to worry about. I know it's not cramps, but I'm not too sure what it might be. If you can help, please do so. Thank you.
yay for boobs theyre growing!! but it could also be something else ask your mom or sister..hmm..hope i help!
Ok so heres the deal, out of 100% my family and i might have moved and the percentage of us actually moveing would be 5%. I dont know why but i really really want to get out of NY. If we did move it would be to michigan cuz of my dad work. I want to move so i can meet new people and get away from all of my crappy " friends" though i would miss my family here in NY a lot. I told my parents it would be cool if we moved but of course were not. I really dont know wut im asking i just needed someone to give me there opinion.
omg i wanna move SO BAD, people egg my house and prank call n stuff bcuz of something bad i did!! !!!!^-^, try like egging your house lol and be like, kids at school dont like me and im a loser and my pants fell of and i want to move so i dont have to deal with this anymore, try giving them a pity parade!!! hope i help!
my boyfriend is supposed to hug me on valentines day and it would our first hug ever... but i don't know what to do... this may sound stupid but please helpp.... i love him soo much... also im afraid my arm pits will smell because lately my deoderent hasn't been working... any suggestions on good deoderents and no spray because i have a reaction to it... thanks... 13/f
aww i love hugs! practice hugging your friends, and if you dont wanna feel weird just tell them youre happy about some new..jewelry you got or something. be spontanteus, its fun!. and about ur armpits..my armpits used to sweat alot for no reason so i went to the derm and got some stuff, but yours isnt probably that bad, so try "certain-dri". if you ever have a ques or just wanna talk drop one on my inbox! hope i help!