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alright so i take back the fact that im done with this advice column. but im just letting everyone one here know that i do have a life, and advicenators is not it. however, im here to help. i just wont be on every single day.

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hello, here in the UK none of the stores websites have the nintendo wii. everywhere has ran out! how long will it be before there wont be this instant cycle of putting in on shelves, then 20 minutes later, there being non left? thanks.

hey, go to like bestbuy or eb games and reserve one. what that means is to call them and first ask for a nintendo wii. if they say that they dont have any, request that one would be reserved for you. give them your information and have them contact you when one comes in.

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Hey im 13 and a boy i really want to have sex
so much and alot of kids at school have hade sex already and i want to.wut do i do?
also with this how can i make sure nobody sees us if we do have sex?
where can i have sex?
helm plz im a beginer plz help

hey, well just because everyone else is doing it doesnt mean that you should. at this age, a lot of kids are pressured into having sex when there not mentally ready for it. your going to fall into that trap if you have sex. at age 13, your not ready physically or mentally to have sex. sex is suppose to be something to cherish with the one that you love. you may like your girlfriend or have a crush on her, or even "love her", but that kind of love is soo different from marriage love. just wait it out. sex isnt suppose to be planned. its suppose to be magical and surprise.

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what kind of outfit should i wear to school tomorrow? Its going to be kind of warm, so wanna wear a skirt, shorts or capris. i want something cute though

hey, wear a cute top with a skirt and some leggings. for shoes, wear ballet flats.

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does anyoen have andy ideas for cute screenanmes havign to do with flag team or twirling a flag pole. thanks

hey, what about this? FLAGteamXisLOVE

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well ok i have had a zit above my lip for at least a month and it wont go away !! i have tried to cover it up and that doesnt really work
:( please please please help

hey, well you can always see a dermotologist. im going to list some companies that put out good products for pimples/zits: proactive, clearasil, clean and clear, and lumene. get different things like facial cleansers and masks, dont just get acne medicine. you need to keep your face clean altogether to prevent any further acne anyways.

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I got a perm about ohh...9 months ago and suprisingly most of it is still in. the thing is, i have little straight spots that look HORRIBLE! i straighten my hair every once in a while, (about once a week) and i love it like that. but, its very damaging and i dont want to do that all the time. If i scrunch it i get straight spots..and i do put it in a messy bun sometimes but i dont like to have my hair up very often. Anyway, does anyone have any ideas of what i can do with my hair?

I do not want to get another perm or chemically straighten my hair. I will rate! Thanks.

hey, what about just blow drying your hair with a flat brush to create a straight look without straightening it. also try scrunching your hair with pantene curl hydration products. they have shampoo, conditioner, anti-frizz cream, gel, and mouse. use a diffuser on the straight spots. most of the time, diffusers come with bloydryers. in beauty supply stores, i suppose that you could get them seperately. try http://www.sallybeauty.com

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whenever i find a boy DOES like me, it always seems like they are the ones i don't like! i always find something wrong with them. this is going to sound stupid, but there's a boy in my grade who i don't know well but i have always had a feeling he likes me (he compliments me, trys to startup convos, etc.) i don't have anything against him, and i think he's nice...but sort of awkward...like not totally sure of himself). he is also sort of emo punkish...not usually my type (like he likes screamo music, etc.) it's just not really my thing. i don't know what to do...whenever i am at home i think "oh well maybe i'll give him a chance", but as soon as i see him i change my mind & feel all awkward. what should i do?!?!

hey, well you cant force yourself to like someone and its certainly not fair to anyone to pretend that you like them. just try getting to know this guy as a friend before anything more. if you can build a solid friendship, than maybe its time to give it a chance as a relationship. tell him that tho. tell him that you want to just try to be strictly friends before being in a relationship. if he cares about you enough, he will respect your descision =].

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ok i just got the new sims 2 game. i have it all on my computer and installed and all that jazz. i got to Veronaville and it says that the neighborhood is loading but its taken forever like probably 30min-and hour and i have tried it 3 times to restart it. so what am i doing wrong? or what do i do next? or does it take reallly long?

hey, well maybe your game is defective. when i used to play the sims 2 mine never did that. go back to the store where you got it from and explain the problem. ask for a refund and see if that game is any different. if its the same, maybe your computer isnt compatiable with the game. on the box that the game comes in, there should be a list of things like windows xp or windows 98. those are the ones that work BEST with the game. try to update your computer if you really really want the game to work if it still doesnt after getting a new one.

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ok does anyone know any really good scrunching products. I have curlyish wavish hair and i straighten it so much its sometimes to boring.
Also, i need some product that i could maybe straighten my hair and then put it on to make it look naturally wavy. like pretty but not really frizzy and hard. Thank you :D

hey, pantene products work wonders. they have pantene curl hydration shampoo, conditioner, anti-frizz cream, mouse, and gel. try them.

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I'm running for President of the Student Council at my school, and I want people to give me advice on what they think would be good to say in my speech, and ideas for my campaign. I'm doing t-shirts and posters and pins and the usual for the campaign, yet the speech is a little tricky, because I don't want to promise things or use that 'im not promising anything' line. Do you remember anything you like from a speech or thought was a good idea? And from a campaign as well. Did someone in your school do something particularly eye-catching or funny or out-standing or whatever?

I need all the ideas I can get, so feedback is muchly appreciated.

I'm sixteen/f, btw, and I'm fairly friendly and popular among my peers. So I don't need ideas about how to meet more people or anything.

hey, well you just said "you know the usual things for campaigns". thats bad right there. you dont want pins and tshirts and the usual. you want different. give out pens. everyone uses pens. also make your posterboards loud and colorful.

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Well can you get preganent from having sex with another girl?? Iunno Any way in the world that this could happen?

hey, thats impossible.

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my school is having a crazy hair day in a few days
What are some ideas??
besides the ones everyone does, hair on top of head, dy hair, ect ect.

hey, well ive done two things before. 1) two messy buns on the top of my head with an extremely bright headband and hair dye. 2) half straightened and half scrunched/curly.

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It's my last semester at the university, and I have this research class (last thing i need for my major). I have done my fair share of slacking off, as have many others...which isn't healthy, i know. BUT, now that i've got my act together, there are DEADLINES coming up, and I'm completely stressed out and feel like a nervous wreck. I feel like I'm so worried about the time constraint. I try telling myself to just focus, that it'll pass... I try breathing deeply. I'm still a wreck.
Any tips on dealing with stress and getting back on track? Thanks so much

hey, well set aside study hours. make time for school work and make a little leisure time. more time for school work tho of course. you can expect to get all your work done if theres not even an hour of leisure time. enroll in yoga classes. there soo relaxing.

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i took out my belly ring because the hole wasnt peirced right.. and i had it for 6 months and i had it out for about 6 months... i thought the hole would be closed by the spring so i can get it repeirced for the summer... however the hole is still there but i cant put a ring through.. can i get it repeirced? and if will the hole ever close!?!?
thanks!!

hey, well i think that theres always going to be some sort of mark there just because there was a hole put in your skin. i would go to the piercing shop and see there opinion on the situation. only they know whats best for you and your piercing problems -- after all there the professionals!

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A little over two weeks ago I cut myself. There's only one cut there and it wasn't like really deep or anything, but there's a scar there now. If you knew me you would never expect that I would do something like that, especially since everyone always tells me how im always smiling and happy and like a good girl. I truly regret doing it though, because I hate having to hide it all the time. I'm a dancer and lately I've had to wear like a zipper up sweater thing over my leotard to hide it, but I can't do it forever, and my dance teacher usually doesn't like us wearing clothes over our leotards. Is there anything I can do to get rid of my scar, and quickly? Any help would be GREATLY appreciated!

hey, well for further help, incase you ever have to urge to cut yourself again, here is a helpful tip. keep yourself busy, that way you want feel the urge to cut yourself. anyways, pick up some scar medicine at like cvs.

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what kind of phones make like cartoony pics when you take pictures with them? also sepia, blacknwhite, and color ofcourse, but its rare to find the ones with the cartoony feature too and other features. can you name me some good phones that can do that? and also their prices, maybe? my parents arent too excited about me getting a cell yet since im 13.. so hopefully they wont be too pricey either. thanks!

hey, well if you buy a phone on ebay, usually you can have any service plan as long as the phone says "unlocked" [meaning you can use it with any service]. now what i have in the katana. its a sprint phone. it doesnt have video or cartoon picture taking, but it has sepia, black and white, and pretty much any color of the rainbow.

http://www1.sprintpcs.com/explore/PhonesAccessories/PhoneDetails.jsp?navLocator=%7Cshop%7CphonesAccessories%7CallPhones%7C&selectSkuId=sanyokatanap&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=1476015&CURRENT_USER%3C%3EATR_SCID=ECOMM&CURRENT_USER%3C%3EATR_PCode=None&CURRENT_USER%3C%3EATR_cartState=group

thats the phone there. it also comes in black, navy blueish, and silver/whiteish.


http://search.ebay.com/search/search.dll?sofocus=bs&sbrftog=1&catref=C6&from=R10&satitle=katana&sacat=15032%26catref%3DC6&sargn=-1%26saslc%3D2&sadis=200&fpos=ZIP%2FPostal&ftrt=1&ftrv=1&saprclo=&saprchi=&fsop=1%26fsoo%3D1&coaction=compare&copagenum=1&coentrypage=search&fgtp=

i just searched ebay for "katana" and there are phonecases, accesories, and some actual phones there.

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Hi, my name is Jen and I am 19. I thought you might be able to just give me some advice... my ex boyfriend broke up with me on the 2nd and this past Friday I stopped by his house to pick up the rest of my stuff. Later that night I got a message from him saying that he misses me a lot and still loves me a lot and would like to see me and talk when I get back from vacation. I'm not sure what to do, I didn't expect him to come back at all. We had been going out for a year but he broke up with me when we hit the 6 month mark and then went back out obviously for another 6 months. He wishes that we got along better because he loves me, but he wants his guy time and sometimes I feel that I am just there in the relationship for when he is bored or lonely. I think he needs to grow up because that’s not what relationships are for, but also I think he is scared that we were getting serious. Whenever we got in a fight, we didn't solve it that night he just expected everything to be ok in the morning. I don't know how to get it through his head that communication is everything, and that he needs that to have a good relationship. But when we did break up this month he ignored me and told me he had to or else he would have wanted me back right away. Which is understandable I guess. But I just don't want him to be playing a game with me and saying he wants me back when he really doesn't, he might just want me to be there just in case. I don't know though I am just confused, I haven’t sat down and talked to him yet. So if you could help me that would be great. I realize this question might be hard to understand but there is just too much to explain

hey, well i totally agree with you. you wouldnt want to get into a relationship with him again if your just going to be his "fall back girl". i think that if you still like him and have strong feelings for him that you should talk to him. tell him that he needs to mature a little bit more and decides what he really wants out of your relationship. if he seems indecisive or taking it lightly or just laughing it off, dont go for it. if he seems serious about it and seems like he really cares about you and will try to be more mature and take the relationship seriously, then go for it.

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in camp two years ago, i met this guy jake.
he liked my friend lindsay at the time,
&& i had a boyfriend seth,
so we didnt think much of eachother,
although we were excellent friends.
we didnt keep in touch after the summer =/ but
then last summer rolled by,
and there we were again.
except things had changed.
seth and i had broken up,
and lindsay was out of the camp.
me and jake got really close.
we always held hands,
kissed, etc.
and mann, i really liked that kid.
i couldnt think of anything but him,
finally, he asked me out.
and mi mom even said that he was the first guy,
that she ever saw brought a twinkle to my eye.
and ive had many boyfriends before him,
so it was good to hear that.
jake had a friend daniel who also liked me,
but i didnt like daniel.
jake sometimes flirted with mi friend elizabeth,
so to get back at him, i flirted with daniel.
i know that was so wrong to do,
because i wasnt only getting jake jealous,
but i led daniel on.
the 2nd to last day of camp,
jake broke up with me.
at first, he said it was because of daniel.
i told him daniel didnt mean ANYTHING to me,
but he said "well..we also live pretty far away"
i was heart broken, i teered up so much.
but then when my dad picked me up, i broke down.
i cried SO much, its hard to explain.
i never cried that hard over a guy before.
it hurt. but anyways,
its been 7 months since ive seen him,
and of course, i miss him BAD.
idk if i still have feelings for him or anything,
cus i havnt talked to him since then,
but i'm supposed to see him again this july.
im so scared to see if he hates me!
i dont know what to do or say or anythingg.
it's all ive been thinking about the past few months.
can anyone help me?
please!!?

hey, well what i suggest to do is in july at camp, make him want you. flirt with other guys and always look cute, oh yeah and smell nice. fantasy by britney spears is amazing. looking cute is up to you. i think you know your style and what looks good on you. if you guys start to get back into the swing of things, get his number or some way of contacting him. that way you wont have to go through this all again after camp is over.

EDITS: I REALLY DO HOPE THAT YOU GET THIS. I JUST THOUGHT OF THIS REALLY HELPFUL WEBSITE THAT WOULD BE GREAT FOR FLIRTING TIPS. ITS http://www.links2love.com IF YOU GET THIS, MESSAGE ME IN MY INBOX BECAUSE IM CURIOUS TO SEE IF YOU DO.

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hi i like this boy but he doesn't like me but i want him to can you help me give me a plan and i hope its one that works mainly all the time but anyway so im sure you all are love experts so plz give me a plan because i like this guy ALOT pleaseeee

hey, well you can never force someone to like you or to even have a general interest in you. here are my three tips for you: 1) smell nice, 2) look cute, and 3) flirt. britney spears fantasy smells amazing and draws the guys to you. for looking cute, wear nice tight pants that show off your butt and a shirt that reveals a little something [not too much]. for flirting tips, try http://www.links2love.com . my personal favorite flirting tip is eye contact.

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i have suffered from bulemia since age 13 i am now 17 as i have weened myself off it i occasionally feel the need to start it up again.how do i gert my food to stay down...without needing to make myself sicl and what affect has this done to my body in/out...

hey, maybe you should go to rehab for eating disorders. i know your not 100% into the eating disorder and need help majorly, but i think its a good idea. that way you can get tips and a little extra help.

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