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i need to fake being sick to get out of skool tomarrow!!!! what should i do!! i need sum good ideas to get me out of the play tomarrow!!! i dont kno my lines!! (link)
haha. uhmm..cough a lot,get a lot of tissues often or say you have a really bad headache,...tell them (the ppl at the play ) that ull b out tomrrow so they can get ur understudy tho.


i wanna b a chef but i always burn things so should i b a chef? (link)
sure, practice makes perfect. Just pratice cooking and u could b a chef


I'm 15 and female and I've never kissed a guy. I go to an all-girls Catholic high school, and I haven't kept up with ANY of my very few guy friends from when I went to co-ed schools.

*reads question, cringes at own stupidity*

So . . . how can I meet new people? I have a lot of really great friends, but it would be nice to meet some new people, and possibly get a boyfriend.

Any ideas? (link)
Go out wit ur friends to places where lots of ppl hang out and try and meet some guys there. Like maybe a restaurant, movies, mall, or a other places where a lot of ppl usually go. Hope this helped


my friend gave me a note to give to another friend...and i forgot to. Later that night i remember the note was in my pocket so i did a bad thing and read it. In the note she talked about how she wants to kill herself and about how she is thinking about slitting her wrisits! what should i do! if i tell my friend she`ll be furious that i invaded her privacy...but if i dont....who knows what could happen! (link)
wow! You need to talk to the friend who gave it to you and tell hjer that ur concerned. Tell her u didnt kno wat the paper was in ur pocket so u oppened it and read it and saw wat it sed but u didnt' kno it was the note from today until after you read it. But u def. need to contact some sort of counsler for this girl, she def. needs to talk to someone


how are molecules in a solid fit together (link)
wit neg. and positive bonds? lol idk


ok me and my friend were sitting on his couch watching this lovey dovey movie. We looked at eachother and smiled and the next thing i knew we were making out... LIke hands up my shirt full tongue and kissing my neck and breasts! i loved it. Then it got serious he started un buttoning my shirt and i was like w/e noting will happen then he took off his shirt and pants and by now we were both stripped to our panties. I was having fun though! i' was finnaly being with some guy. So then we were sitting on his couch and he got some beers and then we got drunk. when i woke up the next morning i was naked in his bed and there he was ontop of me. We fell asleep having sex and i don't know what to do.... please help i'm only 15 (link)
wow sounds like quiete the night. I thikn the best thing for you to do is take a pregnancy test just to be on the safe side, and i know its gunna b hard but tell ur mom or dad. They probably won't be to thrilled, but they can take you to a doctor who will help you. I guess next time, try not to get too carried away with the beer cuz that seems to be wat led to you two having sex, i know its hard cuz its in the moment and everyhting but next time ur wit this guy or another guy try to do that. I hope i helped, and don't worry too much about it, it will get worked out and ur prolly fine. I hope this helped :)


last night was horrible. i went to this dance and i asked these girls if they would dane wit me. i got rejected 3 times but my friend got to grind wit them. PLEASE HELP ME JILL!!!! (link)
aw man that sux. These girls aren't to nice to turn you down like that, and then go over to your friend. Sometimes that just happens, it happens to a lot of ppl ur not the only one. At the next dance just ask different ppl, and avoid the girls you asked. i give u propz for straight out asking girls, that takes a lot of guts.

btw could u im me on tell me who this is? im just curious.


ok what is the name of the song with lyrics that go: she lives in cailfornia we can go the beach we will never be bored...thanx for any help at all (link)
"back home" by yellowcard i think..hope that helps


OK, my best friend in the whole world likes the same guy i do. i liked him first and have liked him for 5 years. I asked her and she told me she did like him a few months ago but didn't now. i accepted that because she tol dme the truth. But as soon as we went over to visit him she's all over him... flirting and being all playfully hitting him and saying " hee hee ur so mean" and i just stand there watching her do this. What should i do
-- please help-- (link)
hmm. You need to tell ur best friend that you like this guy adn that it hurts you wen she flirts with him. She knows that you like him, so she shouldn't be doing that to him, there are plenty of other guys. if she still likes him still you guys should either decide who should focus on him (preferabley u since u lked him for 5 years) or just decide to both not like him. But since you sed that she said that she doesn't like him, she def. sholdn't doing that to him. So basically, tell her how you feel like you did before and make it claer that you don't like it wen she flirts with him, she mite not be aware that she's doing it and that it mite just be her personality with guys. Hope this helped :)


Well there's this song I'm pretty sure it's on a CD called Jimmy eat world or w/e and it's also on a NOW CD!! I wish I could give you some words- but I can't! So [if u can] please help me and tell me what its called/who its by! Thanx! (link)
i think wat ur think of is "The middle" by jimmy eat world.


well, im turning 14 in february and i wanna go somewhere special with three of my friends... i live in miami(it might help if u knew that) any ideas where i can go???? thanxxxxxxxxx (link)
Maybe take a vaca. to a beach and like spend the day there and at nite go out to dinner somewhere special.


holy crap people i want to beat the shit out of everyone at my school.

There is this grl that i sit with every single day at lunch and i chill with her at school all the time and i really like her cuz shes 1.REALLY HOT..but 2. shes the nicest n sweetest person i have ever met in mi whole life and like seriously i love her..ppl r like kid ur so shallow u just like her cuz shes a cheerleader..when thats not even the reason...wut do i do?? beat the shyt out of all these gay kids or just ignore them cuz theyre just people and i shudnt care wut they think?? (link)
just ignor them , it only matters wat u think not wat they think. If u like her for her personality and the way she is then t hats cool and ur opinon not theres


hey everyone ok im gay for starters and i have been made fun of my whole life for it and now people at work are starting too and i think im going to kill myself so please talk to me.:( (link)
That is not acceptable! These ppl at work shuld not be making fun of because of ur sexual preference. You need to let your boss know that they are doing this to u so he an talk them, they are jerks and as hard as it may be you need to try and ignore them. If it keeps up, tell ur parents or someone who you trust. whatever you do, don't kill yourself. This problem can be resovled, and yes it is very difficult to deal with and you have to remember not everyone is like that. These are just people who are losers and don't know how to deal with things. Maybe you should see a therapist or counsler to help you with how u feel. If u need n e thing, dont hestiate to ask.


I broke my wrist lyk 2 years ago and sometimes it totaly gives out on me is that normal?
-kla
Ps.I wear a brace to do tumbling.
and im 13 so i was 11 when i did it so ya! (link)
go to a doctor and tell them, i broke my wrist too but that doen't happen to me. Maybe urs was a especailly bad break. Feel bettr


ileant my mum 40 pounds and she wont give me it back cause she think i stole it out of her purse I DIDNT (link)
tell her that u didn't steal it and try and convince her and also ask why she thinks you stole it.


ok, i named the brown puppy Brownie, i named one of the black ones Walker, cuz its always walking around, and i named another black one Tiny, cuz its the smallest of the litter...there are still two unnamed black ones who are fat and always together, as if their twins....any ideas for THEIR names? (link)
haha..maybe chip and dale? sry im not good at names but maybe you can go to a dog name site, i know there are books out there that have great dogs name in them. Sry i wasnt of much help


i have two best friends. one i've known since middle school...so that's about 4 yrs now. and now i also have a new best friend...whom i met in high shcool. they're both wonderful and i'm so glad i have them but there's one problem. they can't stand each other for anything! when i'm with one, she's talking shit about the other. and when i'm with the other one, she's talking shit about her. they both want me to take their own sides and be more loyal to one then the other. ahhhh! what do i do!?!??! HELP! (link)
oh thats a tough one! You have to get them to both understand that they are both ur best friends, or close friends and that they can't keep talking to you about the other one. Make them see how hard of a position they are putting u and if they respected you and want to continue the friendship they wouldn't do that to you. Tell them they have the right to dislike the other person but they can't involve you in it and that its' really dificult for u. They also shouldn't make u take sides. So baiscally, if u explain all of this to them they should understand and stop making you take sides. Hope this helped and good luck! :)


if u no the truth...what types of girls do guys like, like personality, clothes etc. And is it true that guys like girls that r "easy"?

thnx i rate (link)
Well depending on the guy depends on the ype of girl thhat guys usually go for. Some guys like girls that are esay, that's tru but they shouldn't and rarley that happens as guys get more and more mature. They realize that isnt wat u should look for in a girl. I also think that guys don't usually base on who to like by what type of clothes a girl wears,or atleast they shouldnt. Sometimes if they dress simialiar it means they have a similar style and that may attract a guy to a girl..but it doesn't necesarially mean thats a main thing he looks for in a girl. Hope this helps..!


My hair right now is a little past my shoulders and for me, it's long. I was thinking about growing it out longer to about the middle of my back and then cut it to a little past my chin and donate my hair to Locks of love. My question is, what is the minimum in inches of hair you can donate? Thanks for the help! (link)
In think it is 10 inches, great idea btw!


ok... i like this guy alot. I had just set up my friend and the guy she like ryan. Ryan was friends with the guy i like so i asked my friend caroline to ask her boyfriend to talk to my crush for me... now the whole school knows that i like him and i think ryan told them. THis includes my crush....wut should i do

pretty in pink
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eh thats okay :) See this could acutally be good. Ur crush will find out that you like him,, and he mite secretly like u but was just too shy to admit it or do anthing about it so now that he knows that u like him he will know that u feel th same way. If he doen't like u back then this whole thing with the school will pas very qucikly and if anyone confronts u about it b like "Ooh idk wat ur talking about, im only friends wit this kid" So either way it will work out. Best of luck wit ur crush! :)




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