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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

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well i met this guy that i really really like. im not really sure how he feels though. when we met we had this talk about how he would go out with me and blah blah blah. but im not sure if he changed his mind. im scared to bring it up too because we are like best friends. i just dont know how to ask him how he feels anymore. help?

I would just have a normal converstation then be like I wanted to tell you something. Then tell him you like him. He might tell you if he feels that way, if he doesn't and he's a nice guy he'll tell you in a nice way he doesnt feel that way. I wish you luck! ♥

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My dad said I could get my nose pierced; instead of my belly button.
-How much does it cost?
-What does it feel like?
-Addition Information,.
Thank you.

It depends on where you want to get your nose pieced, like if you want to go to alittle shop call them in the phonebook or try googleing. It might be from 30-50 dollars. Everyone has there own way of feeling pain, some people say that it hurts and some say its just a little pinch and it's fine after. Just make sure you clean it like your suposse to. ♥

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my lips are swollen from being so chapped.. i try chap stick and it doesnt seem to make it better. what can i do?

I've had that problem too, you probally got a really bad sunburn on your lips. You are probally allergic to the chapstick your using. You can go to walmart and buy blistex it's a really good chapstick that has different things it too help your lips. ♥

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Is there a way that I can add fonts onto my AIM? Does AIM have its own little fonts folder that I can put new fonts in there?
My original font folder, most of my fonts don't show in my AIM.

No I don't think there is. I've been looking forever, i think it's just whatever font your computer has on it is the ones that will show up on AIM. ♥

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13/f I love my best friend to death (in a friendship way don't worry), but in the last week we've gotten in minor disagreements every day. nothing big and she's ussually appologized for over reacting, but I'm wondering if our friendship is like dying. It could just be that it's the last day of school, but I have the kind of best friend that could also just be annoyed with me and is to nice to tell me. i sent her an email which im waiting for her to come home to read, so i dont need advice on what to do, just if you think my friendship is ending. i rate high. thanks.

No the friendship isn't ending, Maybe you guys are starting to get annoyed and sick of eachother if your always hanging out,calling eachother,and other little things. You could try to take some space and maybe it will help.♥

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Soo..I'm depressed and I can't seam to get better. It's just my dad hates my mom. My mom has no one, and I feel horrible for her because she doesnt have any friends. Then, I am so self concious and no self esteam. I hate how I look. Also, all the people I used to be so close to and who used to call me, don't call me anymore. I have to call them and they never return my phone call. I was hurt really bad by one of my best friends, like he was the guy I went to, to feel better bc I knew he cared about me no matter what, well that was a lie, but w/e. It's just I hate myself, and I feel no one but my family cares about me. I'm also very scared to go out w/ someone again, because last time I did, I was hurt very bad. I'm not sure what I'm asking, pretty much I needed someone to talk to I guess and any tips on what to do. thanks

Everyone feels like that one time or another. Don't give up any hope because there is someone who does care. I'm sorry that your dad hates your mom, i don't know if they are divorced but maybe you can get them to try to talk again. It will take awhile, but maybe if they get out whatever they feel, things will move on. Your friends are jerks. If you could, try to talk to them in person let them know how you feel. Things will get better, you'll find a real best friend who will care and always be there to talk to you and listen. Your family will always love you, sometimes it's all you need and can depend on. You can try dating even for fun and help you feel better about yourself. I hope I gave you good advice, if not you can just send me a message in my inbox and i`ll try to help you out some more. ♥

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Ok I am a 15 year old female that turns 16 in august. i have a job, and i only got like 500 dollars saved so far.i want a car for mi birthday. my dad said that if i came up wit half the money he would get the otha half. being that i got 500 already means it shouldnt be long more before i find me a decent car. can someone help me wit summen that i could do to get more money. thanks

Since it's summer, they're are alot of job opportunities like: mowing lawns, babysitting, washing cars, cleaning pools, or see if they're are flyers around for some easy jobs. ♥

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Okay my birthday is in like 2 months. Aug 14. I don't know what i want to do. I want to be with my friends but I have plans for that night. I wouldnt mind having a party, but it cost money. what should i do but i dont want to spend a lot of money

You could have a pool party if you have a pool, just tell people if they want they can bring snacks and drinks. A movie night would be fun too, you could rent a ton of movies. Or hint to friends to throw a surprise party. =] ♥

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ok well i like this guy who my friend went out with. she has had numerous boyfriends since they broke up like almost 2 years ago and i dont think she still has feelings for him. i dont want to ruin our friendship over a guy but i dont kno how to bring it up when talking to her. help!

I would ask her if she still had feelings for him, or just be like do you like anyone right now? or if she still has any feelings for ex boyfriends. If she does say no, just be like we'll i kinda like someone then say you like him. I'm pretty sure she won't have any feelings, being that she's had numerous boyfriends. If she gets mad tell her she shouldn't have said she didn't like anyone. ♥ Good luck.

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so there's this guy, and he's liked me for a while and i always thought he was kinda cute. and the other day he asked me out, but then i rejected him but i still told him how i felt about him. that i like him and blah. i rejected him cus he's leaving after this summer. my friends are telling me to go out with him, to have a summer fling. but then i've been having so much trouble getting over guys that i really liked. this guy taht i went out with in sixth grade, im still not over him. and if i end up liking this "summer fling" guy too much, i might get really upset and everything. and plus, he's leaving. so do you think i should go out with him? or should i just leave it the way it is.

I think you should just have fun while he's there. You could just be really good friends too. Whatever happens- happens. ♥

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what are some other great pop punk bands? i like the academy is, matchbook romance, cute is what we aim for, taking back sunday, something corporate, motion city soundtrack, hellogoodbye and all that stuff. if you give me at least 5 good bands then ill rate!

All American Rejects, Dashboard Confessionals, Jimmy Eat World, Panic! at the disco, Weezer & The Fray ♥

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How much alcohol is too much? How do you know if you have been drinking too much (at one time) and if you are at serious risk of causing harm to yourself? And, what does vodka normally get mixed with?

When you drink to a certain point where you are tipsy and know what you are doing - stop there because after it will get worse. It really depends on how much your body can handle. You can harm yourself, causing liver problems, pancreatitis, high blood pressure, various cancers, including liver, mouth, throat, larynx (the voice box), and esophagus, and psychological disorders. Vodka is usually mixed with orange juice. ♥

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i was always told that going on the pill would make your period stop completely (by freinds, not doctors) and lately i've been seeing a commercial about a pill that can reduce your period to only 3 days?? now, is it true that there is such a thing as a birth control pill that can make your period stop altogether, or is that just a myth?

No, the birth control pill won't stop your period it just regulates it. I did see a commercial too about like 4 season period. It just regulates your period, and you only get it 4 times out of the year. You can probally try googleing it or going to a gyno. ♥

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is always calling him. Like everytime I am with him, she calls. she'll call like 92875 times if he doesn't pick up. Then he told me that he told her to stop calling because he has a new gf and she cried, cuz she loves him and they lost their virginity to each other but they broke up in february. soo then i thought she stopped calling, but then the other day when i was with him and his friends and his friend has his cell and told him that she called, and then he's all like, why.. what time.. etc. He was really interested in her call.

i've never met the girl, she goes to a different school.

I feel like i'm just getting in the way of something that they could have again. If you've seen The OC, I feel like I'm Anna and they're Seth and Summer. I wish I knew a way to bring this up to him, but I don't know how and I don't even know what I'd say because I can't even put it into words how I feel. I feel like a fool, but theres more to it.

and then last night we hung out til like 11, and then he called me at 11:15 because he's going on vacation and we won't see each other til next week and i said i had a headache, and he told me to go to bed, and i told him that it wouldn't matter if i went to bed because i'm not tired. at the time i thought he was just trying to give me good advice about my headache, but he was really just trying to get rid of me so he could CALL HIS EX GIRLFRIEND. after the headache thing, he was all like, "im sooo tired, im gonna go to bed." but i believed him at the time. then i logged onto myspace and his ex left him a comment being like, 'thanks for calling me at 11:30 last night! call me tons when your down there!" me and him got off the phone a little before 11:30. so much for GOING TO BED.

i've never mentioned anything about how i feel about him and his ex gf, i just keep it to myself because i don't know how to bring it up. he said he'd call me while he was on vacation, so when he calls I think I'll just be like, "I'll let you go, so you can call [his ex] or something." Idk. Advice?

You should tell him, I saw your comment last night on your myspace. Why did you lie to me and tell me you were going to bed? And just see what he says.
He obviously still has feelings for his ex and i hate to say it. Maybe he's not over her and it's still to early to date. You should tell him if he doesn't tell her straight out he doesn't want her bothering him and if it doesn't work then tell him you don't want to be with him. If it does work then it will be ok. He might also just be nice and not want to be mean.

Hope this helps..

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My parents have been divorced since i was a baby & i am know 16teen!I went 14teen years with out saying anything cause nobody cares.I had a teacher for the last two years & she forced me to talk to her then the last week of school it got really bad & she said to me that i put her in a bad spot!It hurt cause i thought i could trust her!My sisters are 11 & 9 years older than me so they think i should be over it by know but it has just really been driving me crazy the last couple of years!My dad got caught with the woman is still dating & its just really hard for me 2 like her cause i was only 3 days old when they were caught & my stepdad & me are always getting into then it cause problems with me & my mom!My grandma is really sick so my mom is really stressed out about her so i get yelled at for everything!Then my dad has the nerve to ask me if i feel like he a banded me.Then i got stupid asthma from his side of the family & everyone thinks i fake having asthma attacks!I am the baby & nobody wants to let go & let me do things my friends do or listen to music thats not country!Being the baby sucks cause you can`t do the anything they did when they were my age!I just don`t know what to do anymore!

Being the youngest sibling sucks because the older siblings do things before you and ruin it for you. You really need to calm down because you sound really stressed out. Talk to your mom about it, tell her you are sorry for being mean and that you are there for her. Your mom is going to through at hard time, Just be there for your mom. Your dad on the other hand just wants to know how you feel, be honest with him. Tell him everything that you feel. If you are really stressed out your going to have asthma attacks. Don't give up. If you start showing more responsiblity or just being really nice you might be able to do things you want. Hope things get better for you.

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Hi! Well, lately my eye (bottom right of right eye) has been twitching, so I was wondering if anyone might know what's causing it and how I can stop it. Thanks.

Ocular myokymia is the involuntary twitching of the eyelid and it is often caused by stress, lack of sleep or too much caffeine. This occasional twitching typically disappears and does not become a problem unless it persists or extends to other parts of the face.
Hope this helps.

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Where do I go to get birth control pills prescribed for myself? Do I have to go to a ob/gyn, or can I just go to my regular doctor? Thanks.

I'm pretty sure you have to go to the Gyno, so make an appointment there and they'll prescribe it to you.

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18/f
About 2 weeks ago I had unprotected sex, that was my first time having sex in a year. I have lost my appetite a few days ago, I have been vomiting, I'm a smoker and now cigarrettes taste completely different to me and almost make me gag. A couple days ago I spotted. Does this sound like preg. symptoms?

You can be pregnant, but you should take a pregnancy test first. If it comes out negative, you should go to the doctors.

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does anyone know a good site to get icons with quotes or just quotes.

i need good quotes to say goodbye. by friend is moving to another country this year and im making this thing for her but i need goodbye quotes for it.

thanks

I have a quote site- www.xanga.com/quotealiciousx. I`m sure you can find those kind of quotes somewhere on it. I will try to look for some. =]

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so i am very uncomfortable about talking to my mom about "girl things". how do i tell my mom that i need a razor? please help i rate 5.

First tell your mom that you want to talk to her about things because you are starting to hit puberty. Then ask if you can start shaving. =]

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