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Q: hi this questions is for the girls, i would just like to know how old you were when you first gave oral sex

i was fourteen.

Q: How do you get rid or shin splints fast? I have a meet tommarrow and both my calfs have splints. I have to run the 1600(mile). if that helps

resting, and try icing it

you can actually make it worse by running.

Q: There is a couple of my boyfriends buddys that calls him baggins, whats that mean?
he doesnt know either lol

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=baggins

go there it gives you different definitions but basically i guess its a person that smells bad like a hobbit?

Q: so last night i dreamed that i was giving some dude a handjob and he like cummed all ove and stuff.
but the thing is, ive never given a hj.
in my dream, i did it so right though.
i know people have said that "dreams mean something", so could this mean that i should not be afraid to give a hj, bc i wont completly suck at it?

well there really isnt a wrong way to give a handjob unless you like... squeeze it really hard or something ha. You probably wont suck at it, it comes like naturally, and for the dream indicating that.. personally i dont think so.. have you ever heard of a guy having a wet dream.. maybe you were just like horny or something and thats why you had that dream ha.

Q: My frien had openly admitted she sniffs tip ex, inhales and goes through bottles a week. Im worried about her. She isnt sick, hasnt been sick or hasnt changed in my eyes. But i dont know is this is a really serious thing or not. She doesnt do it outside of work (i dont think). But has similar problems like sniffind nail varnish and polish remover. Just how serious is this. Is tipex not bad for you if you eat it?

well tip-ex isnt toxic.. and it can't really get you high.. so i dont think its all bad but it isnt really normal.. if you sniff it like all the time everyday im sure you can get sinuous problems as for sniffing nail polish remover yeah that can get you really high and .. its also really really bad a lot worse then tipex.. it can cause brain damage and kills brain cells.. you should maybe try telling her to stop or go get help.

Q: ok..so i'm planning on having sex with my bf for the first time soon
i want to know if there is anything i should do before i go over and do it.
i have no idea weather to shave a certain way?
what guys like down there?

or anything like that
my biggest fear is that we will finally have sex
and he will be disappointed in me

and if i do shave what happens if i cut myself or have razor burn
will he think thats gross?

ok well since its your first time having sex with this guy, im sure he is going to be into it to much to even care about "razor burn or if you cut yourself" most guys shave to.. so im sure its happen to him before so i dont think he will care, and he definitely wont be disappointed in you for that.
but if your really worried about it, make sure its a clean new razor your using and a lot of shaving creme to avoid razor burn sometimes after shaving if you put a little tinny bit of lotion on it the helps with razor burn also.. for styles of shaving um most guys i know like it at least trimmed, it doesnt have to be a certain way whatever your comfortable with. like me i shave it all before i have sex, it really depends on what you want to do, or you can ask your partner what he prefers.

hope that helped.

Q: I'm in a business class where part of our grade is to run the school store. We do it during lunch periods, so we can't sell food because we aren't allowed to "compete with the cafeteria" as our principal says.

So far, we've come up with paper notebooks, pens, pencils, cheap nailpolish, index cards, and cap erasers. We give away paw-print stickers with every purchase (our mascot is a bulldog). We can't sell school-spirit items because that's what our student council/leadership committee does... it's their territory. Other than food and school-spirit items, we can sell anything.

Other ideas I've come up with but have yet to tell my teacher:

Mini handsanatizer, tissues, 5-stick packs of gum (people are ALWAYS asking me for those).

I guess I'm asking is other suggestions. If you have a school store, what items sell the most? If you don't - what would you buy if you did?

At the end of the semester, we're donating our profits to Habitat for Humanity (each year our school chooses a cause and any money we raise goes to it).

our school store sells :
folders
pens
pencils
paper
hats
rulers
water bottles
headbands/sweatbands
hoodies/shirts
lotion
some candy
magnets
some magazines
braclets like the livestrong ones
glue
scissors
.... ext.

hope some of that helped.

Q: Ok, so I'm a 16 year old girl and one of my best friends is a guy and he is turning 16 in a couple months and i know boys are hard to shop for so i decided to start brain-storming early. I don't really know what to get him so if you have any ideas that would be great. Also he is interested in: scotland (he is part of the Sinclair clan), paintball, fencing, BMX, japan and the martial arts, video games, anime, the renaissance era, and fantasy
Any ideas would be greatly appreciated and naturally i can't get anything really expensive. Thanks in advance.

mm maybe you could get him a shirt or something with bmx on it or anything you mentioned, something that he's interested in.. or a gift card to his favorite store .. does he wear hats? thats what i usually get my guy friends a new hat. you said he likes video games? you could get him a knew one. or you could do what most people do... just give him some money and let him buy what he wants with it..

hope that helped a little.

Q: ok so im 15/f
i would like to get my naval pierced
-does it hurt?
-how long to heal
and anything and everything you know about them??

also, i had my ears done 5yrs ago but want to have my seconds done on both sides and a third on one side thats hoizontal to my helix(i think thats what it is). what do you think about that? and which side would i have the one on? thanks a bunch

when i got mine done i couldn't even really feel the needle going on i felt the clamp they use more, but it hurts less then a nose piercing.

it really depends on the healing part it could take anywhere from 4 weeks to a couple months it depends on if you take care if it the right way after and got it done professionally with clean needles. but if you do then about 4 weeks.

Q: what are some good photo editing softwares that i can download that wont give my computer viruses or anything

i mean a software that contains a lot. & is easy to work

i know you asked for site to download but www.picnik.com is an awesome photo editing site and its free

Q: Anyone have any ideas on how to stop?
I can't do things I need to do, because I'm so busy cybering, and no matter how hard I try, I keep going back. Help!

its not bad, unless thats all your doing.. try maybe unplugging your computer or turning it off or go be active and go out with some friends or anything to take your mind off of it.. read a book? haha anything can work like that.

Q: Is it Bad to be addicted to sex? Like I sseriously think I am. and like sometimes my vagina will hurt when I have it to much, but I can't help it b/c it feels so good. Plus, my man lives with me so its kind of hard to stay away, ya know?

thanks ahead of time

well, it could be a problem if thats all you do, like you dont want to go hang out with people or do other things, if all your doing everyday is sex then yeah that could be bad... but otherwise its normal to like sex a lot, just as long as its not the only thing you do everyday.

Q: i git really bad cramps at school from my period.
what can i do?

midol or advil works good

Q: on bullitens on myspace.
is it double spacing for anyone else?
because everything freaking double spaces.
and i dont know why.
help me out?

yeah same thing on mine im pretty sure its everyones its probably another knew thing they added even though its annoying as fu**

Q: 16/f
theres this guy. hes my new friend. he likes me though. and i dont feel that way about him anymore. i liked him for a few days, but not anymore. anyways, he asked me out and i told him no because my best friend likes him. but now he keeps texting me every night and calling me and asking me to hang out. hes nice, but hes SO ANNOYING. my other guy friends stopped being friends with him because he is just so freaking annoying. i cant stand it anymore. i mean i guess i can be like that sometimes when i like a guy, but usually he likes me back and he doesnt mind that we talk so much. (not to sound cocky or anything, and i also like make sure the guy like texts me first sometimes and stuff like that, i like it when the guy makes the first move to talk). but anyways i never text this guy first and he is so annoying. im like flattered when he calls me pretty and tells me how much he likes me. but i already told him it cant work out. i didnt really tell him i didnt like him though. i just told him my friend liked him. i dont want to hurt his feelings. what should i do?

i was in a similar situation and i think if you really dont like him like that, you should just come out and tell him so he doesnt think your just playing hard to get, or that there still is a chance .. since you didnt come out and just tell him that, that may be what hes thinking that there is a chance.

Q: why does moaning or gasping or whatever tunr a guy on even more when a couple is having sex or doing something sexy or some sort of sexual act or even just intensly making out? my bf says he likes when i make sounds when having dry sex and that its really sexy when i do when we are making out---thanks so much! :) im just always wondering about things...hahaha

im pretty sure its usually because it makes the guy feel like he is making you feel good and hes doing it right.

Q: when you pop your hymen during sex does blood get all over your partner?

well if hes wearing a condom no, and it depends its usually not a lot of blood and your hymen could already be popped since it can pop from other things then sex like sports or inserting a tampon.

Q: how do i get tight again..i want my stuff to be great again any ideas that will make it juss like new again

do Kegel Exercises they tighten the muscle in the vagina and make it tighter again.

Q: my 1 year is tomorrow and i really need to get my bf a gift!!! HELP! i've done a lot of gifts for him already.. mainly revolving around pictures. i waant something REALLY special. any ideas?

hm you could by him any new cloths or if he wears hats?
you could take him out to eat at a his favorite restaurant..
around where i live theres a shop to make your own tshirt and those can be really cute and sweet if you have a picture of you and him? you could do that..?
or you could just ask him what he wants to do for your 1 year that can always work ha

or have you ever seen the movie how to lose a guy in 10 days? buy him a love fern hahahaha.

Q: okay so ive had my period for about a year and a half. Its so irregular and sometimes I skip a couple months. I masterbate sometimes so I was wondering if that had anything to do with it. Just wondering what's up with me. I don't think I should have this irregular cycles.

its normal actually.. not everyones cycles are normal, if you want them to be normal you can try regulating them with birth control and nooo masturbating does not effect it at all.