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my friend is goin out with the guy i like and my other best friend likes him. how can i win him over the other 2?i rate high.

p.s. the other 2 girls are mad at me for certain reasons

There isnt really a way for your to get him, he will choose who he wants to go out with. But if your friend and best friend are liking him you dont want to make them upset. because my friends come first you have to think about whos more important.

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Every night when I go sleep, I notice tears welling up at the edge of my eyelids for no reason. Its just totally random, I'm not even thinking of anything... Is it possible ,y eyes are just irritated after I've taken my contacts out from wearing them all day? Or is it just another body regulation thing like tapping your leg repeatedly?

Hey it could be your contacts. why not take them out at night? Or if not try going to the doctors and find out withs wrong with your eyes.

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i really want a graphic that says Lisa in glow letter they are like bubble shaped..im know it sounds wierd but if anyone knows what i'm talking about could you please find me one.It can be any color just make sure it says Lisa.I'm searching hometown.aol.com but there are so many pages!!!Someone please if you find one send me a link to the page! xO!

Try www.carrielynnesworld.com they have lots of different things. Also try www.starmks.com
and you can find codes and copy the infomation into your profile.

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okay...theres this boy that i wanna ask to our end of school dance, but i already asked him whose hes goin with and he said no one and i didnt ask him to the dance. i have no idea how to do it. any suggestions? or any ways to get him to ask me?

Hey why not just go up and ask him, Be up front with him then he might like you. if your been honest and how you feel.
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One of my friends has tried to comitte suicide twice before and i am afraid she will do it again it terifies me what should i do.

Hey remind her of all the good things she has in her life like you and if shes going to do that that tell her to think what shes leaving behind her family and friends in tears picking up after shes gone.

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hi, im 15 f and i really want a bf. but everytime i go near a boy i get all shy, is this normal? please help
confused girl :S

Yes its normal, lots of girls get imbarrased and shy. Just think that your talking to a friend. And that can really help.

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are men (guys) supposed to masterbate?

Most guys do masterbate. But some guys dont. but if there "supposed" to do it thats there choice

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people always say i am outta style and im worried because i really want to fit in what should i do!

Dont listen to what other people ahve to say. You wear what you want to wear. Its your life and your own style!!! you just be you, if they want you to change dont bother.

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my legs are muscular, and fattish. how can i make them smaller, or more presentable in a swimsuit? they are big. not fat, but like...ugh this is difficult. when i stand there my butt/thigh part looks like it has little indents around there and i feel like that is fatty stuff. ive been doing leg raises and i feel tahts tightening it up, will that make it look better? how do i get my legs smaller? or more presentable? please help, ill rate!

love, erin

try doing areobics you can do it in your bedroom get a video and you can do aerobics on your legs. Dancing is a good way to help tone your body and legs.

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Is it normal to think your boyfriend is going to break up with you? I don't like being online because most of my relationships ended that way and I'm afraid of getting notes... My other two relationships were pretty bad and I dunno...Am I too paranoid?

Your a little paranoid dont worry about it some people think that. Just forget that you think hes going to break up with you and have a good time.

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there is this guy at school who likes me ALOT! and i kinda like him, but hes part of the popular group, and im not really.. im just part of the normal group. His friends asked him "why do you like her, she doesnt hang out with us, she doesnt deserve you" should i go out with him even though his friends said that, and people would make fun of me if i went out with him? PLEASE HELP!

It shouldn't matter what other people think its what he thinks of you or you think of him. If hes popular there probs just jelious because he asked you out. and not them. Just ignore them and go out with him.

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ok, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over 3 months, but we havent made out yet. we hold hands and kiss, but not open mouth. we've said that we love each other, and idk. is there a problem with this? i mean we talked about it and said we're ready, but like we just cant find the right time cuz of school and stuff.

Why not set the scene make him take you to the movies or a meal or even a walk on the beach and then you'll be ready and it will be great. Its alright to not make out with someone if you've only been going out over 3 months thats very normal because the first kiss is always hard in a relationship.

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when ever i watch a love scene in a movie or show i kinda of think of me and my crush and then i suddenly feel so depressed . but it last for a long time

films that are romantica all always cheesy and full of romance. But not everyone has that. They like the person who the date but dont get to cheesy about the whole situation. Dont worry about it mabe you can get a bit more romantic or try hinting him that you want him to be more liike in the movies.

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I like this guy at my school and he flirts with me and stuff but my friend likes him too so i asked for her and he said he likes her!!! so now i am depressd do u think it is true or he is just saying it??

-heartbroken

Hi. If you like him, you dont really want to upset your friend by asking him out or telling her that you like him. Hang in there he might like you soon.

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Hi, Ive wanted to get my belly button pierced for like 4 years. Im 16 now and my mom said she would take me this summer. Im just kind of curious about the amount of pain. I heard like when you get the needle through your belly button you dont feel it, but when the put the ring in you do. And how long af ter does it hurt? like a day or a week? If someone could please tell me about their experience that would be great... Thanks in advance :)

Hi i havent had it done but my friend has, and she said it stings a bit but doesnt really hurt at all. You'll have to clean it with salt water to keep infections away or they can give you some cream to rub in.
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Hi! Ok, This may seem weird, but I discovered that my bf doesn't like the smell/taste of mint. So I was wondering what type of non-mint things can I use to freshen my breath? Like candy or something... Please help. Thanx!

You can get different types of mints. that are different flavours. or gum which is strawberry or lemon. Try that that should work.

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This morning, I woke up and I noticed there was a tiny white dot/ball on my upper eyelid. It kind of hurts when I move my eye. Does anyone know what it is and how it got there? How do I get rid of it?

It could mean alot of things. It could be a that you havent been getting alot of sleep or that your worried. Go see that doctor see what they say.

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is there anything that helps minimize strech marks?

Hey yes there is this cream called coco butter cream. It helps make stretch marks less noticable. If you dont want to try that they usually go silver when you lose weight or put it on.

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ok im goin out with a guy named david!! well we haven't been going out for a long time and i want to brake up with him!!! he is sooo nice and treats me like a princess!!!!! he's soo sweet but i dont know how to brake up with him!!!!!! i feel so guilty!! plz help me!!!!!!!! how should i brake up with him???!!! i rate high!!!
ineedhelp,
megan

If he treat you nice and everthing why would you want to break up with him? Anyways just be honest say that you dont feel like there is anything between you. He will be upset but lets hope he will take it well.

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im wicked bored. any ideas of fun websites to ammuse myself? like magazine sites besides, j-14, seventeen, cosmogirl, teen people...
Thanks!!! (13.f)

try www.smilepop.com they have lots of fun quizzes and stuff like that.
also www.kwiz.biz/
there good try google and search some of your favourite online magazines.

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