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I joined this site when I was very young (hence the ridiculous username) but now I feel I'mn old enough to give out advice.

Ask me anytime. I have had my fair shares of family issues, as well as good at solving relationship problems.

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this boy really likes me and is apparentely goign to ask me out. Im not sure what to do, i really really like him but im not sure if i can be in a relationship right now because of other peoples cocky comments like haha hes going out with her! what shall i do, shall i say yes or no?

So your going to let people get in the way of love.Dont care what they think.You for it.If anyone says anything just forget it and tell em stick there comments up where the sun dont shine.As long as your happy thats all that counts
Say yes!!!!How cares what others think
xx

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Sorry is this is kind of weird but lately a lot of people have been saying " Who wears the pants in a relationship? "

I don't really understand what that means. =/ Thanks lol

Who's the boss!!

It means like who is the boss in this relationship?

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how do u get faded pics like how do ya make them and that

you need to special programmes to make them faded
It depends by what you mean faded but I'll have a guess
go to download.com and type in photofiltre

Once you've downloaded photofiltre


open photofiltre
right click, click open then click ok
Paste a picture

Then at the top theres a little rainbow picture next to it is a blue picture - click on that
sort out your colours and then press ok.

But if you'd like to make your pics faded and together and transpaarent and sutff

go to download.com type in 2pic, download it then open

Paste two similiar pictures in each box

and on the left picture make it slightly smaller.
Then click on "side by side" which is at the bottom.Move the little bar up to 100% and press ok!

There you have it!

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do you have to be baptized to go to Heaven?i believe in Jesus Christ and i know thaat He died for our sins.do i have to be baptized to go to heaven?

thank you.





(if you can, give me Bible verses where it says you have to or/if it says you don't have to.)

Our religion is extremeley weird.But if you havn't been baptized, you can still go to heaven.

If you live a good life,and confess your sins you shall go to heaven...baptisim is a cermony to welcoime you in the the christian community - but god will not punish you for it and send you to hell.You can sin all you like but at the the end of the day if you do good deeds pray, confess you will reach heaven - if you dont bother to live a good life or even think of god then you will go to hell....

God isnt unfair.He wont send a murder who dosnt beleive in god,and has never ever confessed to sins etc and has been baptized he will go to hell

But if a normal person or murderer wasnt baptized but beleived in god and lived a good life and followed god then they shall go to heaven.

You can get baptized if you want....you can be as old as you want and god wont go

now ....(whatever your name is)

Lets see

You had three childrem
went to church
had a wonderful family
and died of cancer

wait whats this??Not baptiisim

thats it your going to hell!!!!!!!!

He dosnt hold grudges.He wants everyone to go to heaven.So summarise.No you dont have to be baptized to go to heaven.

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Okay, so my boyfriend has a little cousin and she is veryyy large. She turned 5 in the beginning of February (Feb 2nd, ironically enough Groundhogs day haha.) and weighs around 110. We are both very close to her, and care for her alot.. but her weight is downright unhealthy and I just wish there was something more we can do. Her parents seem to be unphased by her weight and just don't really acknowledge it. This obesity runs in their family and so does Diabetes. (Lucky for me, my boyfriend doesn't have either) But we just don't know what to do with her.. take her running? Haha I really am at a loss. Any feedback would be FANTASTIC!! Thanks!! ♥

The last thing you want to do is hurt her family or make the child upset - she weighs more than me!(i think)

Sooo to make a difference, take her out swimming each week...and after woulds buy her flavoured water a healthy lunch and fruit...talk to her about daily life ands stuff and if you two spend time togther - she'll like you as a sister and look up to you as a role model so if she sees you eating healthily,she will too.

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I'm a 21 year old female. I live in Pennsylvania. I met this guy about two weeks ago off of a dating website. He lives in Canada. I know two weeks doesn't seem long, and to fall in love with someone you've never physically met is stupid, but this guy stole my heart. I instantly fell in love with how much of a gentleman he was, how much he cared about me, and how sweet he was. I'd never felt so happy in my entire life. People actually commented me on how happy and alive I seemed. We got into some sort of argument over something, and he told me that he felt as if we were too incompatible. And the distance. I told him I'd move to him and everything. The thing is, I just can't get over this. I cried the hardest i've ever cried before in my life last night. I didn't sleep a wink, I got up for work at 5:30 this morning feeling like a zombie. I sat at work for three hours just staring into space, not doing anything, feeling like I didn't even exist. I haven't had anything to eat since 7:00 last night... the thought of putting food near my mouth just makes me sick to my stomach. I came home from work at 11:00 because the pain was just too much to handle. What should I do? I don't know how to cope with this at all.

I know it's hard.But...you don't really know him that much and he obviously dosnt care.And the pain is sharp and sore.There is now way that you can get over a heartbreak quickly.You need to be strong, and dont let him spoil your life,you've got a whole life ahead of you and whats the point of holding back this future that awaits for you - children,family,a husband.You've only known him for about 2wks and you LOVE him...maybe he felt to pressurized because you feel this strong already...dont get hang up on him...and besides how do you know who he really is.

I think you should take some time off to get your head around this and go out with a few mates to get yourself out and about and your mind off him.Dont let him tear your life away and destroy it.Get some confidence.

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are there any free websights where you can like download your pictures and then edit theme like you would on a program like photoshop or somthing like that? anything that you can edit like crop and cut out or basically anything editing would rock! thanx so so much!
xo

hey!!

I design layouts and photos and stuff..!

Well as adobe photoshop is something you have to pay for

go to www.download.com and type in 2pic or 2 pic (i cant remember spelling) this is really good
instructions :

after you've downloaded get to pictures,that are smiliar,ie you at a party,2 different poses,
then click at the bottom where it say side by side
then move "fading" all the way up to 100% there you go!!!!!!!!

Also try photofiltre that is very good and you can change things,like colour and size,You can change E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G





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Does anyone have any ideas on the Ben Harper lyrics to "Roses from my friends"?

It sounds like a pretty sad song..but I can't seem to understand what the lyrics mean. here are the lyrics:

I could have treated you better
But you couldn't have treated me worse
But he who laughs last
is he who cries first

Sometimes I feel I know strangers
better than I know my friends
Why must a beginning
be the means to an end?

The stones from my enemies
these wounds will mend
But I cannot survive
the roses from my friends

When the last word has been spoken
and we've beared witness to the final setting sun
All that shall remain is a token
of what we've said and done

When all we've had has been forsaken
And distant church bells no longer ring
That's the sound of a heart taken
and the story of tears from a king

The stones from my enemies
these wounds will mend
But I cannot survive
the roses from my friends

This may be the last time I see you
Forgive me for holding you close
This may be the last time I see you
So of this moment I will make the most

This may be the last time I see you
But if you keep me in your heart
together we shall be eternal
If you believe
we shall never part

The stones from my enemies
These wounds will mend
But I cannot survive
the roses from my friends

It's basically saying

that when a friend does something hurtful towards you,that hurts more than a enemy who hurts you and "throws stones"

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i need help finding big tropical pictures for a background on my computer. i want either palm trees, sunset, a surfer surfing in the sunset, tropical island, or just anything at all that is summery or tropical. thanks a lot!

make sure the pictures are big and dont tell me to google it. (i already tried.) thanks.

here ya go

http://www.alohafunwear.com/images/wallpapers/sunset-north-shore-oahu.jpg

http://image02.webshots.com/2/3/77/20/52037720ReFkrd_fs.jpg


http://uk.search.yahoo.com/search/images/view?back=http%3A%2F%2Fuk.search.yahoo.com%2Fsearch%2Fimages%3Fp%3Dsunset%2Bsurfing%26ei%3DUTF-8%26fr%3Dyfp-t-344%26x%3Dwrt&w=800&h=600&imgurl=i1.trekearth.com%2Fphotos%2F10161%2Fsurfing_in_sunset.jpg&rurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.trekearth.com%2Fgallery%2FEurope%2FGreece%2FMacedonia%2Fphoto113209.htm&size=134.2kB&name=surfing_in_sunset.jpg&p=sunset+surfing&type=jpeg&no=2&tt=8,008&oid=206335b90c2ec04c&ei=UTF-8

http://www.adventurist.net/trips/bay_area_06-2004/aquarium/photos/tropical-fish.jpg

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my name is Gabi
im loud
i talk a lot
im really crazy
i really want my name is my SN
i was thinking something like hii its gabi but thats taken
anything with my name in

if u help me i can help u back

thanks a lot

How about

GAbBiLeCiOuS HeRe

IkkleGobbyGabby

-x-Pwincezz_Gabzz-x-

Wild$Child$Gabby

Ello-Gabzie-here

Gabby2k7

gobby-gabby-here-to-gab

gabLURRVESyou!

GabbySayzHiii

SayHi2Gab

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well im going to a semi next week, and im totally nervous. i was set up on like a blind date, ive only talked to the guy online. hes a junior im a sophomore, he seems really nice .. but this is like my first date to a dance, so ive never grinded before. im totallyyyy excited, but i dont even know how to grind? what do i do, how do i do it? pleaseeee help

Calm Down girl.

Grinding and Winding well......

2 ways

Ripple your body on the spot,make sure he is behid you....and well also you shake your bum (go round in circles)and if you want you can do it going down and up.

The rule is basically dance like beyonce and just move you bum....watch this vid to help
http://youtube.com/watch?v=tfrpgJLZF-Q

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okay I have an I-pod and I need more songs on it I like almost all music just not like metal or stuff close to that. Can any one help me pick more songs?

beautiful liar - shakira and beyonce
exceptional - jojo
fly like a bird - mariah carey
candyman - chritstina agueleria
careless whisper - george micheal
give it up to me - keisha cole and p.diddy
say it right - nelly furtardo
my love - justin timberlake


Here are some artists
p.diddy
beyonce
scissor sisters
leona
mieka
mariah carey
jojo
ashley tisdale
phil collins
omarion (ice box)
timberland

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**I hit my boyfriend yesterday, i didnt mean to hit him that hard. I slapped him in the face really hard, left a mark, plus it was really loud.
**I did it out of anger and surprise, we've been going out forever, but it really was stupid of me to overreact that way.
**He called me fat- kinda, he used the word "plump" which i hate.

**So, I was really pissed for a while and after school I realized that he was too. Instead of stopping where we usually do to hang out, he sped up kinda walking in front of me and didnt hold my hand. Then he looked back and saw that i was hur and was all sweet and comforting, but somehow I was still mad him.

**On the phone, he said that he was only joking and that I took him too seriously. I said I was sorry today.

**I've been in a really bad abusive realtionship before and its nothing like the way I treat my boyfriend, sometimes he'll say "You're abusive" and it really makes me mad because Im weaker and hardly ever hit him. My ex used to punch, kick, cut, and rape me, so slapping my boyfriend a few times when he's being a jerk doesnt phase me as abuse.

Today: He was working and its my little bros 6th bday. I was really busy when he called on his break to talk to me, he could tell I was busy, it was loud and there was a lot of commotion so he was like "you sound busy." and I told him I was and had to go he said "OK" but sounded kinda mad about it. So iwas like bye, Ilove you, but all I heard was a click. I know he didnt hear me say Bye and I love you or he would have responded. But he didnt say bye or I love you to me like he ALWAYS does.

***So, finally, here's my question: How do I get out of this "abusive" cycle, and is it really abusive? Do you think he's still mad at me, he's the best thing ive ever had and i never want to lose or hurt him.

I guess you are a bit abusive and there a ways of dealing with it.You've been through sooo much before,with being raped and stuff, that's where you've picked it up,does your current bf know about this??Explain to him and tell him you do love him,it's just your worried your going to lose him and your just so upset because of your previous relationship.If your angry just take some breaths and get stress ball,keep a blog and diary and get that stress out.

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how do i tone my thighs?


workouts or links please



love youu :)

This video is perfect!!!!!!

http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-exercise-your-thighs-without-weights

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I need some REALLY good chicken recipes [I have chicken breast],
I don't know what to do with it. I've tried a lot.
I just want something that tastes good, is easy to make, and one that you need basic ingredients for.

PLEASE help. :)

Thanks

Ok

some exoctic things : http://busycooks.about.com/od/chickenbreastrecipes/Chicken_Breast_Recipes_Boneless_and_BoneIn.htm

Some Good Ones : http://www.sainsburys.co.uk/food/mealideas/10thingstodowith/chickenbreast/10thingstodowithchickenbreast.htm

http://www.bbc.co.uk/food/recipes/database/stuffedchickenbreast_13852.shtml

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Are there any home remedies for a scratchy throat? I'm also starting to loose my voice. I can't take any time off school, I already missed about 10 days. [From surgery]

I can't get to the store any time soon & I don't have any tea. I have only basic ingredients in my house b/c my parents haven't been grocery shopping in a while. So, please help!


Thanks alot in advance

Take some really really really strong medicine and drink plenty of fluid just keep and keep on drinking plenty.Bread with butter helps, especially soup,it's R-E-A-L-L-Y good.Also you must drink a lot of orange juice or have plenty of orange juice.

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I've seen some girls wearing shirts that say, "Little Miss Sunshine" and "Little Miss Trouble", etc. It says that, then has a picture of a girl underneath. There are a bunch of different sayings, not just sunshine & trouble. But I need to know where you can buy these shirts? Thankkkkkk you!

Well aren't you lucky?

http://www.truffleshuffle.co.uk/store/cartoons-little-miss-tshirts-c-21_184.html


http://www.80stees.com/pages/t-shirts/Little-Miss-t-shirts.asp

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This morning my grandma passed away. The news pretty much made me cry for hours, and right now I still feel a bit distraught.

But last night, I had a dream about her, where I was visiting her at the nursing home (where she lives) and she was alive, happy, and glad to see me. We were surrounded by a big room filled with lights and it was just white. She was wearing brightly-colored clothing, and all she did was smile at me.

When I woke up this morning from that dream, I found out she passed away.

As a christian, I deeply believe that was God telling me that she is happy where she is right now (in heaven), and smiling down on me, feeling happy she is at peace.

Do you think God was really trying to give me a sign? Or is it coincidence?

Yes.God is trying to give you a sign and let you know that everything is ok and your grandma is going to be fine.Her spirit will always be with you.She'll be up in heaven and being taken care of and being welcomed by everyone else up there, including you ancestors.She'lll be meeting her parents again and friends.She'll happy.And she wants you to be happy.God is giving you a sign.Go with it.

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So I've picked names out and I've liked them forever, and I've wanted to name my kids these names.
But my family doesn't like them.

so here we go-
(boys)
Tobias
Pilot
Asha or Sasha
Lucas
&
Gavin

Theyw wont hate you,their unique and special anmes and really good I loke Pilot and I'd go for asha than sasha

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just wanted to know some peoples favorite songs. no screamo please. haha (:



thanks
xoxo

fly like abord,circles,so lonley.one and only by Mariah Carey - well I LOVE all her songs, especially "through the rain"

I really like exceptional by jojo - that's good....the words are SO nice.

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