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>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.
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advice
can u get pregnent from fingering yourself??????
thanks
no, getting pregnant from fingering yourself is impossible.
flirty =]
STD, STI. WHichever you want. This is just really a curiosity. Say if there was a situation where a girl gave a boy (too young to have expeirnece beforehand, I mean literally only just UK legal) oral sex, and to put it bluntly she "swallowed". They are both virgins, garunteed. (Don't doubt this or say there's no real way of knowing, I'm talking about a situation where there is absolute certainty). Could the boy be carrying an STD that the girl would then catch?
If it is possible he had one, if the answer to my first question was yes, (and if I had no evidence to believe he did, giving that he is a virgin, and I have no doubts in him) then what would be the chances of the girl contracting it?
I feel more comfortable with the 'he' and 'she' if you wondered. Thanks for helping :)
well, u can also contract std's from toilets and whatnot so being sexually is not always the case unfotunately. IF he did have an std, then yes you can catch it by giving oral sex if he had anything like herpes and so on. best bet is to use a condom even if it's only for oral sex. good luck =]
flirty
Ok, I've been dating this girl for 3 weeks she is amazing and i dont see us breaking up anytime soon, or at all=D. anyways i need to know what would be good to do for valentines day....any ideas would be great
Aww congrats you guys will make a moth soon! Well us girls love for the guy to be very analytical meaning tell us we look beautiful and why. D.not cheesy but truth ful comments. Also teddy bears! O so agree wit the columnist under me. Us girl love teddy bears. As long as its cute and stuff we will be happy with the gift. Show her affection, hug her kiss her and love her like you don't care about anyone else =) and if you want to take her out tale her to the movires or out to eat and make her feel special good luck hun!
Flirty=)
i had a crush on guy but i don't like him anymore. but i had a dream about him and me kissing. now i don't know what i should think. do i like him again all because of a dream? or should it just stay a dream? does he still like me? (not likely) i don't know what to think...
Well, dreams can sometimes be caused by how you feel. It doesn't necessarily mean you like him or vice versa, but maybe you focused so0 much on how much you liked him that you ended up dreamin bour him. Its natural so0 good luck hun
Flirty =)
14/f what do you ask sumone [a guy] when your trying to get to know him?
any questions topics etc..
Well, you can ask him things like what he looks for in a girl, how long was his longest relationship, what's his favorite anything, jus ask bout his interests and this should lead to more conversations. Good luck
=) flirty
wow...15f and my mom has been acting wierd lately, more explosive (mad) for things that i think dont make any sense. my dad is calm, and my sister says she is going insane...which i dont believe (or dont want to believe.) it has been really stressful and hectic lately though. but i just dont know what to think or do anymore. i am having a mental brake down...and i just cant stop crying (i am alone and not going out of my room because i dont want them to know.) what if this is the start of my life going downhill? my dog is the only one keeping me sane, i love him to death. and my mom and i are REALLY close, so if she looses it...i think i will just about be screwed up. help? ps.i am not goth, i wear bright cloths and have many friends and teacher like me.
First off, I hope everything works out. This is not the start of your life going downhill, its just that sometiems parents get stressed out too. Try to give your mom the afection and let her know you love her. Put yourself in her shoes raising a family is pretty stressful let alone other things. I undrerstnd this is hurting you deeply, and ild suggest you talk to her because she needs to be aware her behavior is affecting you. Crying isn't bad, but crying everyday is certainly not healthy. Good luck mama and I hope everything works out
Flirty =)
ii really like this boy :(
well, both of you cnt help what you feel. have you told him how much you love him? and are you sure it's love. if he loves this other girl the only thing you can do is let them go out, and soon enough he will realize whT you did for him, which is not be selfoish and sacrifice your feelings to see him hppy. and thats love. what goes around comes back around. and feelings can come and go. who knows, if they do go out, maybe you will find someone better who takes your feelings into consideration. good luck mama
flity =]
15/f
okay i have big breasts and i want them to go smaller. I am overweight and i want to lose it. I am currently 5"4'and weigh 176 lbs. i was wondering if you knew any way for me to lose weight around my breast area without pills or surgery.
Also can you tell me things i can do to lose weight around my belly, love handles, and thighs?
Thank you!!!!
hi! well, as far as your breats unfortunately we cannot make them go down thats genetics you know?? but for your belly u can definately do things like dance belly dance jus move and sweat it sounds stupid but it works trust me! be sure to eat healthy you know you can go to your doctor and maybe they can give you a guide to eating. thighs:: you can definately go to this site it ha much info http://www.teengrowth.com/index.cfm?action=info_advice&id_advice=9614 and this one if you want more info on eating healthy this might help http://www.runnersworld.com/article/0,7120,s6-242-304-310-7771-0,00.html and last but not least for the belly area i think this includes all three answers hehe http://www.military.com/newcontent/0,13190,smith_051904,00.html
good luck mama =]
flirty
okay so my boyfriend ended up breaking up with me after everything because he said that he loved one of my best friends at school and that he has ever since the beginning of last year and so basically he dated me three times while being "in love" with her and playing me thinking that he loved me. but nope i got played. and well i dont know what to do. i am fine in a way because well he has his own feelings and i understand... but well me and him are friends and me and my friend is.. but the feeling is still there
wow i feel you i'm going through something like dis hehe. first of all thanks for letting him go. he's a big boy and should learn to make decisions and honest ones too. secondly those feelings will fade away little by little, and if they dont then you probably loved him alot. i dont blame you for still having those feelings and its mature of you to not get rid of both thier friendships. just lay low for now let things cool off and hopefully those feelings will go away or he will realize you were his one. hope i helped
flirty =]
ive had sex about 9 times and theyve all been pretty hardcore. isnt your cherry suppose to pop your first time and isnt it suppose to hurt extremely badly? this hasnt happened to me. is this abnormal?
well huni not all girls bleed the first time. some dont bleed at all others do. so its not abnormal dont worry.
flirty =]
I met this girl named Martha a few months ago, and we instantly got along and became fast friends. Now she considers me to be her best friend. However, the more that I get to know her, the more I begin to not like her personality. At first she was very nice to me, but now she constantly gets an attitude with me. I don't want to be friends with such a mean person because I'm not used to that. Is there a way for us to grow apart, or do I have to stay friends with her and just put up with it?
no you do not have to put up with anyone's attitude hun. yes there are ways to grow apart. i mean, you can jus talk to her less and less each day. seem uninterested. if you feel inferior this is a problem a frienship is 50/50 not one feeling lower then the other nor control. goog luck mama
flirty =]
does anyone know how to say the following in spanish..
-I send a lot of email to my friends
-She turned off the computer
-Do you save all of the data on a disc
-I left a message because nobody answered the phone
thanks!
yo mando muchos emails (correo electronicos) a mis amigos.
ella apago la computadora.
guardas todo la informacion en un disco?
yo deje un mensaje porque nadie contestto el telefono
flirty =]
ok well my boyfriend was fingering me like really hard but i was ok with it cuz it felt really goood! but likei twas weird cuz i was moving as he was doing it because it was so hard is that weird at all?
lol no thats not wierd at all. we all have diff preferences ^_^
Ok me and my ex have been broke up since Nov 14th, I love her so much! but she is going out with another guy now who treats her like shit!! he doesnt even really love her. I want her back so much! me and my freind oliver were talking and he said "man she just told me like a week ago that she was finaly over you". the other night me and her were talking about our romantic memories i could name off 5 in great detail, but she couldnt. She has started to smoke to and I HATE smokers. And she said that its an escape. But i really just think she is doing it cause her new boyfreind is, and hes a loser. I dont know what to do, i said told her that i thought i knew what the problem was, it was that i boerd her. And she said yeah i think it was, not trying to be a bitch. She said there was something about me that she still likes, it was that i held her. I dont really like that fact that me and her did nothing but she has oral sex with her new boy freind, but her told me she isnt going to loss her virginity to him. I just dont know what to do! help me! Im really consirned about the smoking, cause they wont be together for to much longer i know that and she might get addicted. So how can i help get her back and get her off smoking?
Btw she is a stuborn 15 year old who wont listen to anything, she will if i make a really strong point without getting mad. thanks
wow well she needs to grow up (no offense). if you try and talk to her chances are she will ignore the advice for the simple fact that you're not her boyfriend. i suggest you show her the consequences on following what others do and help her open her eyes with the info you know. good luck and i hope she follows the right path hun,
flirty =]
my boyfriend sam and i have been going out since 5th grade. He is captain of the football team and i love him. Every now and the he sneeks away randomly and goes off to who nows where. Last week i went to his house and saw him kissing my bffl. What do i do? what should i do about my friend? Please help me.
wow this boy is definately not worth your time if he'd rather go off kissing your best friend than being with you. break this relationship off, no use to waste your time. if you want to be fair, let him explain, but hey that's all you mama. good luck and i hope u find a reall duu to treat you right =]
flirty
don't tell me i was too young or anything, i already know.
i had anal sex for the first time on Friday;
and now my butt, like 4 inches above my anus,
is red, itchy, painful, and bumpy.
it's like on my buttcrack, if you will
i know it's not an std, my boyfriend and i both went to get tested last Wednesday. [he's 16, if it matters]
it hurts when i poo also.
what do i do?
it's killing me.
im sorry but about the itching problem i have no clue why its happening. and the pain is normal b/c he basically stretched the hole from its normal size so dont worry the pain will go away in a few. not much to do unfortunatel =/ but i hope u feel better mama.
belkis =]
So like the subject says, are there any dances like the Soulja Boy dance and the Cupid Shuffle? I really apreciate anyone who answers.
Thanks, Shawneesrock
youtube is the best thing on this planet. okay maybe im gassin it up hehe well type in crank dat in youtube and all the dances will come up. theres also dutty wine, hip roll, spider, etc. google it also. good luck doing the dances
flirty =]
Thanks for the advice flirty but if i tell Matt how i feel and get rejected will that make things odd between me and him? He sits right by me on the bus and he sits at the table next to me at lunch...so i guess what i wanna know is if i tell him will it make things akward between us on the bus and at school?
well, this depends on the guy mama. some guys will be jerks and brag about how u told him so and so and then you will be made into a fool. or he might be the type of guy who will see you for the brave girl you are for telling him and either accept or reject you the nicest way possible. if u can tell me what type he is, this would REALLY help. but in the meantime, if hes the jerky guy dont even go for it. BUT if hes the guy who would understand, then things might be wierd if he rejects you...soon it'll blow away though... hope this helps. feel free to stop by my inbox anytime trust me i hope we can get down to the bottom of this hehe.
belkis =]
what does it mean for a guy to be whipped?? like in john tucker must die it said that.... what does it mean?
for a guy to be whipped that means to be dominated hehe go0d timesz hehe have fun having a guy whipped =]
flirty
i was just about to go running then BOOM i pulled something. i never strech before i run. so i was thinking right when it happend oh jus keep running. yeah no it hurt even more to the point i couldnt walk without bad pain. its right where my bikini line is. i cant walk without like hoping sort of.
what did i pull?
is this serious?
or will it jus pass?
ive had these before at the most awkward times hehe. well, good news is, the pain will go away in a few maybe day or 2. or pissibly quicker. bad news is idk why these things happen. hehe good lucka nd i hope it gets better.
belkis =]