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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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hey I need help on downloading this great game knight online. I need help on which thing to pick to download. well i chose main download site thing but it took forever to download, started at 96 hours but then disappeared when it reached 56 more hours to go. you can just giv me a list of steps to follow so it can be easier. also, is it possible to download something like that and make your computer save power as well cause I noticed when I left my computer on for a few min it went on standby but now it dosn't do that anymore. can you teach me how to set it like that plz? thx. here's the site to help you: www.knight-online.com.my/

thx!!! i'll rate 5s!!!

hey, im not quite sure how to but you should search google. cait ♥ = ].

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im really depressed and i take medication but still suicidal and i cut
i know cutting is bad and can kill you but i really want to stop
ive asked other people who have cutted but their advise wasnt so great
i just want to ask how can i stop??

hey, you have to be happy with your life in order to stop. so go out wiht friends. have a good time. cait ♥ = ].

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Ok, my friend who doesnt have an account on here needs some help and wanted me to ask this for her. She cuts, and she really wants to stop, but she cant. I really want her to stop too, shes a GREAT person, but ya, please tell me so I can tell her, how does she stop?

hey, she has to be happy with her life in order to stop. so be the best of friend to her and comfort her not bring her down. encourage others to do the same. cait ♥ = ].

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My friends' mother is an alcoholic. She is constantly drunk, belligerent, and aggressive, yells and passes out in front of guests. Her children cant stand living in the house anymore, but despite numerous calls to child services and the police, they have been told that there is nothing that can be done unless the mother seriously injures one of them. I fear for my friends, the stability of the family, and their mental well-being. All of the family members are kind and caring people but at home, they are constantly at each-other's throats and on the verge of a possibly much more serious problem. Is there any way to force this mother into a rehabilitation program? I really appreciate any insight you can provide, my friends are at the breaking point and feel there are no options left.

hey, theres no way to force her. the only thing i would suggest is for the children to move out ASAP. cait ♥ = ].

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Okay well if anyone knows what im talking about,you know thw sunspots were if your in the sun too long or something you get a browish dark spot on your skin ? well yeah i have a couple on my skin and its horrible.I use concealer to cover them up but it dosent seem to work,i want to like take them off like reduce the brown i guess but it cost too much money i already talked to my parents about it.So i was wondering if anyone had any other tips or ideas to get rid of them or at least to make them less noticable? thank you!

hey, okay jergens natural glow is the best thing. its a sunless tanner. theres 3 different bottle designed for your skin color. theres fair, medium, and dark. apply it evenly once a day. you can purchase it at CVS. wash your hands after each use. it will tan the rest of your skin and help the sunspots blend in. cait ♥ = ]. EDIT: IT COSTS ABOUT 20 DOLLARS

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ok im running out've ideas for my hair. i always have to wear it up in a sloppy bun, because my hairs so curly. it's like ethnic hair, but i'm not ethnic. i can't straighten it, so i don't even wanna get into that. scrunching it makes it weird too. idk if i should brush it all out, dry it & juss leave it go er should i curl it with a curling iron?? any ideas?? i have side bangs if that helps.

thanks!

hey, thats exactly me! i have curly hair and side bangs. i ALWAYS wear my hair in a messy bun. thats like my notorious hair style. what i use is "aussie sprunching gel" and yes its sprunching not scrunching. that works great to tame the curls so that you can leave it down. high ponytails ususally work for me to. cait ♥ = ].

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what gets rid of a heartburn?

hey, i have heartburn too! just make sure you eat 3 meals a day. that helps a lot. theres also pills that you can take. which i choose not to tkae. cait ♥ = ].

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SORRY THIS IS SOO LONG!
but i just need advice..


how do i get a boys attention? oookay yeah this might sound selfish or conceited or whatever you wanna call it but i love gettin attention from boys..i mean who doesnt =p but i have this one boy in mind. he goes to a different school than me but i hear that he cant get over his ex girlfriend...and they are always talking. but my cousin actually talks to him sometimes..just never hangouts with him. he plays baseball..so im thinkin i should go to one of his games with my cuzin ...but the only thing im worried about are the girls that go there. because if they see me they will be like whose that? why is she here? she doesnt even go here? and all that shit. i know this one girl i dont like will be there...and that other girl i was talking about that this boy cant get over. i wanna like go to the baseball game and have him notice me..like thinkin wow whos that cute girl? havent seen here before....wish i could talk to her...like i said im not a bitch or anything or conceited..but how do you think i could get his attention? like i bet after the game all those girls i dont like will go up and talk to all the guys...and me and my cousin will probly just go home!! i mean i wonder if he has seen me before? because ive seen him many times..sometimes at a distant tho....and at his hockey game one time my cuzin was like OH MY GOSH THERE HE IS!! and i guess he walked by?? and i was like huh where i didnt see him!!? and shes like are you kidding me..he was staring like right at you...but the only prob. is my cousin always says stuff like that around guys i think are hott..and them girls i was talkin about earlier were RIGHT behind me so i bet he was lookin at them (since they are very pretty). i dont see myself as pretty..or attractive so i dont think that helps and i for sure dont have the confidence to march right up there and talk to him. i dont have any cute clothes....i cant just all of a sudden go on a shopping spree you know..i never know how to where my hair...curling it never works only straightening it does. i am an unperfect girl
i just want this one guys attention..or even talk to him ..anything!!!
so if anyone could please help me with my situation i will for sure rate you 5!!
thanks for everything guys
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hey, okay i think its a good idea to go to the game! outfits dont always have to be extravagant to be cute, they can be simple too! just wearing a pair of classic jeans and a cute cami would be just fine. if its cold out wear maybe a half sweatshirt or just a long one. for the shoes, just wear cute sneakers that MATCH. oh yeah and make sure the whole outfit MATCHES. for the hair just straighten it and put it in a classic ponytail with pieces down or sidebangs (if you have them). another cute way is striaghtened down with one of those stretchy headbands witht the pieces or side bangs down. as for the girls, forget about them. who cares what they think. your here for one person (the boy) not them. just be confident and let him know your interesting by eye contact. good luck. cait ♥ = ].

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i like this boy in my gym class we USTE to be very good buds..We ALMOST dated before .. then he uste to be a real jerk.. so i quit talking to him for about month. i decided to start talking to him and i like him again.. Should I?

hey, you cant control who you like. but if hes a real jerk to you then i suggest that you dont get to involved and caught up in him. if hes better now, then i dont see a problem in liking him! cait♥ = ].

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Does anyone know where I can find a video of Joaquin Phoenix and Reese Witherspoon singing Jackson? I want to put it on my myspace. I need something that has a code or url. Ok thank youuu!

hey, try www.urbnmix.net or www.musicfeet.com cait ♥ = ].

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Hey, thanks for your advice, but I dont really know what he likes, I just kinda sit there at my 4-H meetings and try and think of a way to talk to him, and ya, I cant even talk to him 24/7, I only go 2 4-H once a month! lol! But ya, I will talk to him the next time I see him!

hey, okay sorry i didnt help much. cait ♥ = ].

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what are some signs of alcohol poisoning? and what does it mean when you throw up blood?

hey, throwing up blood doesnt mean you have alcohol poisoning. it could mean a number of things. as for further research try google. cait ♥ = ].

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Ok, theres this boy in my 4-H class, and he is sooooooooo cute, and funny, and seems nice, but I just cant talk to him! Please help me out, tell me, what should I say? Please answer!

hey, talk about things both you and him like. but most importantly give him space. dont be all up on him 24/7. that shows signs of desperateness. just play it cool. cait ♥ = ].

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Ok well my mom is the type that dosent listen. She dosent trust me going to my friends house when the parents arent home. She thinks we going to do something. Thats gets me very mad to cause i try to tell her we wont but she dosent believer me. I lost my trust with her once. I want to get it back but it just wont work and i dont know how. She just dosent let me do hardly anything to get it back. So can someone please tell me what can i do cause i dont want to loose my best friends because of something so stupid like that. Please answer fast because i need to talk to her soon. Kristy.

hey, kay well my mom is the exact same way! trust me theres no way around it, thats just the way she is. i have a similar problem with my friends too. they were like "your mom has way too many restrictions on you". that did cause our friendship to be not as good but i didnt care because that just showed that they werent my true friends. i mean come on they dont want ot hang out with me because of my mom! thats just gay. well anyways good luck. cait ♥ = ].

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How do I get this picture I printed out onto a T-shirt?

hey, you need to buy iron on paper! cait ♥ = ].

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Okay, So I need pics for simple fun hair styles. I'm sick of teh normal up, down, or curly!! Dont tell me to google it becuase i know i can do that but i want pics. uhhh I'm a 14 female if that helps any.

hey, if you want some cute hairstyles look in all the "hot" magazines of today! try seventeen or cosmo girl. they always have something. cait ♥ = ].

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Is it possible to extract the perfume from a perfume ad or something? I tried rubbing one on my neck and it smelled good for a while. I have a small collection now, from magazines, and could just use these for free instead of buying the real thing!

hey, i dont think you can extract them. but if you really like the perfume is uggest buying it. if not go to the perfume counter and get the samples. they last longer and you can keep asking for them. cait ♥ = ].

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I really like this, you can say odd or weird, style of jeans. All my 'punk' friends do this, they sew their jeans to make them skin-tight! And i really love the style. My problem is that i want to learn how to do it myself with a sewing machine. So far i put the jeans inside out, put them on, and safety pinned them so theyre tight, and then how do i sew them with the sewing machine? Am i doing something wrong? Do i cut them? Please help, i'm very..slow. But instructing me on how to do it, or give me a website (Must Be Very Detailed!!) on how to sew skin-tight jeans will help so much! 5's! Please help! THanks sooo much!

hey, um i dont suggest sewing them. just buy these type of jeans called "brazilian" jeans. they come in white, black tan, and all different dark and light wash jeans. you can get them at made in brazil or tellos. cait ♥ = ].

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do guys really like blond better than brown hair?? cause in movies there like always blond girls with good looking guys and everything! so i just wanna know what collor do guys like better?

hey, the hair color that guys like best depend on the guy. everyone thinks that all guys like blondes better. but thats not even true at all. it varies. cait ♥ = ].

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I have just recently started uni and for the first few weeks i actually made a lot of friends. Everything went so well and we had a lot of laugh for the first few weeks, it seems like all the friends i've made are actually my best friends. However things has gone a little bit sour afterwards, some of those friends of mine begin to talk less to me like as if i am becoming too boring for them. They begin to hang around other people who are more interesting and more funny.

These kind of things have happened to me since high school, i get along so well with people at the begining but then things get shytter later on. Is this because of something that i might have said or do? its like one day they know me well and the next they are like who are you do i know you? -_-. Or maybe i don;t share something in common with them? that they get bored of me? it hard to talk directly to them because they would just make up any lame excuses.

For some others i see their friendships build up really strong and they can actually maintain it for a very long time and they always do things together.

Why can;t i be like that? being able to maintain friendship for a long time with others and to share your good times, bad times and sad times together. i always get cut off somewhere during the line and it is really irritating.

Plz give me some advice on how to build a stronger friendship, i appreciate it.

hey, just give them alot of space and free time with themselves and there other friends. also tell them some secrets about you and other people, but dont bring others down in the process. when people know secrets they feel "more connected" with you. also include them in EVERYTHING. cait ♥ = ].

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