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Ok, on the weekend I had my 2 best guy mates over and my best girl mate. I've known for a long time that one of my guy mates who I will call Ben likes me and if I was single I would probably like him back. But I have a boyfriend. So I had them over and my girly friend and the other guy went off and Ben went and lied down on my mum's bed coz he was feeling sick(we were all very drunk). I went and lied with him because I was bored with no-one to talk to. We fell asleep in the early hours after a nice talk. Next thing I know I wake up and he's moaning my name and grinding himself against my butt and leg. I was still half asleep so I just rolled over and went back to sleep...Wake up I don't know how long later and he's trying to finger me. I moved and went back to sleep again and nothing more happened.I didnt really think much of it the next morning coz I was so tired and hungover but i've been thinking about it now and it makes me sick! I told my boyfriend and he wants me to go to the police and if not he wants his name and number and shit so he can get him bashed!! But the thing is, I dont blame Ben becoz he was drunk and here I am lying next to him, it mustve been pretty tempting because he does like me, and the thing is I don't blame him! But I know the right thing to do is go to the police...Please Help me :S (link)
going to the police will be the right thing to do to prevent drunken rape!Maybee the guy did it on purpose or not.If you don't want to go to the police just make sure to keep your distance from him.But since you asked me,id be pretty scared and paranoiy to have to be looking over my shoulder all the time!
Just do what you feel is right!


I got sick two days ago, and my throat has been sore the whole time. It's at the poihnt now that I can hardly talk. I'm giving a lecture in front of my class and it's a huge deal. I can't miss that day or I will fail. Any suggestions to get over this fast? I've tried zicam, apple cider vinegar... nothing works. (link)
well,try this vocal exersize,do not talk for 3-7 days and when you have sometin to say write it,when you are ready to talk dont over work your vocal cords.this has happened alot and never fails
hope it works for you 2!


i really want to get my tounge pierced. what is the worst thing that can happen? is it very common? how long does it take to heal? how long will i not be able to talk for? (link)
it is a very bad idea to pierce your tounge,it takes forever to heal,it hearts so bad,people can't understand you when you talk,and every single meal has to be eaten through a straw.So write back to me and tell me what you think,look for zcftc...thats me!:)


hi! i have braces, and i would like to whiten my teeth, but i've been told that you're not supposed to use the kind of teeth whitening stuff that you kind of paint on. but I was wondering, is there any other way I can whiten my teeth? can i use the strips or is there a kind of toothpaste or ANYTHING?

thanks so much! (link)
it probrably wouldn't work to use strips with braces so talk to your orthodontist or a professional!


I know this is sick, but I have a male cat and he has this problem with peeing everywhere, and my house smells like cat pee. It's absolutely sick, and I love the cat but it really makes me want to get rid of him. He stays in my basement/mudroom now, but what can I use to get rid of that sick smell? (link)
Use the indoor odor eaters,lysol,or ousts that should get rud of the smell!


so i want to get my belly button pierced at a salon,but i'm only 15 and i don't have my parents permission. however, i have an older sister who i look really similar to...too bad she's 22. she looks really young for her age so i could probably pull it off somehow.. (i'll figure this out myself) and i can talk really proper cuz i hang out with older people alot and everything. and i'll talk in a fake chinese accent cuz it makes me sound older hhaa. anyways, but if i get caught...will they just kick me out of the piercing parlor or will i actually get in troube with the law for using a fake ID? if they all my parents i can have my friend to wait at her phone and pretend to be my mom or something..but would i get in trouble with the actual law? thanks so much.


p.s. i could use my sisters expired drivers license, by the way. (link)
Well the whole thing is a bad idea because even if you don't get in troble with the law,you could still get in alot of trouble with your parents!


hey.

well. tomorrow i have to present a social studies project
about a roman / greek topic & i just have to show the
class my shape sheet (just a picture of whatever you
are doing). & explain five facts about my project.

well i'm really not good in front of a class. i just get
really nervous & stutter.

how can i be more confident? i've already tried reading
it aloud in front of the mirror to myself, but that doesn't
seem to help.

thanks in advance. (link)
Well you probrably stutter from nervousness.What you should do id picture everyone in a funny situaton when you start to get nervous!


15/f. since its warmer out and i have oily skin, my side bangs tend to get greasy by the end of the school day since they are on my forehead. so what can i do so they don't get greasy from the oil on my forehead anymore?

don't say to use foundation to touch-up during the day, i already do that. plus i don't always have time between classes.

thanks!!! (link)
Well you could always make it ungreasy by not allying as much lotion after showers and stuff and they won't be greasy!


what do i do without telling my parents !?!? (link)
Well look in the yellow pages for a private macanic and set an oppointment for someone to come over and fix it when your parents arent there!


This year i am in 8th grade and i go to a school that doesn't feed into the high school i am going to. The school i go to is more ghetto and has gangs and bad students, and minority students. I am a black. The high school I am going to is more high class and more white people, I'm scared either 1 everyone will not like me, or 2 everyone will be my friend because i am black, and back stab me behind my back. How can I get over this fear? (link)
Try talking this over with your parents and maybee you can search for another school that better suites you!


I absolutely hate my school and my town, and I want more than anything to go to boarding school. But my parents are like, "We'll miss you too much." I think that's the only reason I can't go. Money's not a problem, and all the ones I want to go to are excellent schools. How can I convince them? (link)
Just say,it is what is best for me and it will be preparing them for when you go off to colledge and that it would be better if the start to get used to it now by letting you go!
HOPE I HELPED


ok i have to do a presentation at school tomorow on my project, in front of the whole class. well i'm really scared of talking to people
(especially a class). i'm considered the shyest and most quietest person in the whole class. and i dont know how to over come my fear of that.
please help me i'm really scared of that. (link)
Well i would practice saying the reprt to myself in the mirror and perfect anything you think might need work,that way you'll be more confident that you'll look good in front of all those people,then,when you're up there and you get nervous,picture everyone in their underwear or whatever makes you laugh! HOPE I HELPED


i currently have a camera phone and if i get a new camera phone is there any way to still keep my pictures?

i know you can keep your contacts because you can save them on your SIM card, but is there any way to keep your pictures too?

thanks!! (link)
See what you do is take a picture and press the little camera icon and select save!


Okay i wanna loose like 20lbs.+. How can i do that? What would be a good schedual. I will go to the store and get good diet foods too. I have a tredmil but how long should i run? and how many days out of the week? Please keep im mind i have school and work . (link)
If this was my case i would eat healthy meals for breakfast,lunch and dinner.but as to the tredmil idea,work out after school(when homework is done),on the weekends and when ever i get free time. P.S remember,your body is a temple so don't starve,overheat, or overwork yourself!
HOPE IVE BEEN A BIG HELP!


I have a red dress for prom, but i have no idea what kind of eye shawdow, I have brown eyes. And i tryed red and i just look sick. So any suggestions, would be apprecited.
Thank you! (link)
This is one of my favorite topics,
i would wear purple since you don't like the red.if not go out of the "what matches' box and go for my two favorites blue or green. p.s good luck at the prom and i hope i really helped answer your question!


what are some sites like advicenators? like where i can give advice- yet not have to pay. just join.
thanks (link)
Well you can do that here at advicenators,i came here looking for advice and i loved it so much that i started to give advice to others.I found lots of advice sites on ask.com,google,or yahoo.com!
hope i helped answer your question!


Hey im a 13/f and i have a b/f and he is so cool and i love him to death. But he is getting absessed with kissing me should i let him or not ??? but please help..... (link)
Every girl knows her limit if he goes beyond your limit,stop him before things get out of hand:if you know what i mean!


is there any way to change your name on advicenators? I dont like mine, so how do I alter it? thanks so much! (link)
That is very easy,just go to profile settings and change whatever you want to change!
HOPE IVE BEEN A BIG HELP!


Im 14/f and im 5'10. I know I'm tall. I HATE being tall. Anyway, how do I make myself look shorter? And also, do you think people think differently about tall girls? PLEASE BE HONEST. I would rather you say people dont like tall girls. Thanks so much. (link)
Well if being tall is a problem,start wearing more flats and don't try to hide behind people to make you look shorter.I dont know why you'd be treated any different because you're tall.All that matters is who you are,don't forget that!
AND THAT IS THE HONEST TRUTH!
I SWEAR!


what does farce mean (link)
Farce means a broadly satirical comedy with an improbrable plot;or the humor characteristic of a farce or pretense;or a ridiculas or empty display
hope i've been a big HELP!




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