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Ok me and my sisters BEST friend usualy comes over to our house friday after school and saturday and then leaves sunday night and goes home now my sister and i live in a different town then our best friend were about 15 minutes apart anywho her mom lately has been saying she cant come over on the weekends or she can only spend the night friday night and stuff and my our friend said her mom is jealous of my parents and us because our friend always talks about how much she loves my family, my sister and i and stuff and her mom says our friend never wants to hangout with her family now the thing is, it that my sister me and our best friends are really close and ever since me and my sister moved to a different town it's been hard to hanogut with her so thats why she comes over every weekend and i mean i know why her mom would be a little upset that our friends always wants to come over here but she would want to hangout with her family if they werent always arguing and being chaotic and stuff also her moms says she wants her(our friend) home but then her mom and stepdad just stay in there room the whole and time and so does my friends so i dont see why here mom wants her there if they dont even really talk when there there does anyone know any advice for this like how we could keep our friend coming over every weekend and stuff
well since you guys are used to hanging out every weekend and her mother only wants her spending the night on fridays, maybe you and your sister can go to her house on saturdays. this way you guys can still hang out. and maybe do different things. hope i could help
if you and your boyfriend is going out for 3 weeks and you guys were arguing a lot and he breaks up with you even though he still likes you and he wants you back after 5 days of break up would you still get back with him?
part of being in a relationship is going through tough times. you really have to ask your self if you want to be with someone who might brake up with you everytime things get a little rough. on the other hand people make mistakes, sometimes you dont realize what you have till its gone. if you really like him forgive him and give him another chance but have your gaurd up because he may do it again and you dont want to be the one getting hurt. hope i could help.
why the HELL did the condom come off when my boyfriend and i were last having sex?! this has never happened to either of us before...has this happened to anybody else before? and why?
thanks?
there could be a couple reasons. maybe the condom was to small or didnt fit him right. maybe it was put on right. and yes your not the ony one this has ever happened to. hope i could help
i missed 2 active pills and got my period. should i take the inactive ones now and throw out the rest of the pack or keep taking the active ones according to schedule?
when you get your birhtcontrol it gives you directions on what to do if you miss a pill. i believe it says to take the ones you miss as soon as you relize. and dont skip any. just keep taking them in the order you are supposed to. but make sure you use a condom.
hope i could help
how do you shed fat from stomach? im thirteen
do pleny of walking and eat good. and sit up really help to. but dont expect results right away it takes time. and work.
hope i could help
ok i need help FAST! how do you make hickies go away faster? and about how long are they visible for? any advice at all please
the only trick i know is putting ice on it.
other then that just cover it up with makeup.
and they usually last about 7 days.
hope i could help
15/f
alright so i really want birth control not just because im sexually active, but because i have bad PMS and im not close to my mom at all i dont go to her for anything or talk to her about anything and im really close to my boyfriends mother and shes really laid back and i was wondering does your parent or guardian have to be present to go to the doctors with you to get birth control? or can someone like my boyfriends mom go with me, my mom would also flip out a lot if she knew i wanted it, and i was sexually active.
nope your parent doesnt have to be present with you. you can do it all by youself and its private between you and the doctor. i think your being really responsible for wantin birth control.
ok here are the details:
im thirteen and will be fourteen in november
im normal, not anorexically skinny.
i skip a meal every now and then though, but only because i wasn't hungry
but im not anorexic.
i mostly over eat :]
but anyway, the problem:
i got my first period in march; and it lasted for a week.
its been five months, i havent changed anything about my health or my diet, and i havent gotten it since. i havent told my mom, because im hoping it will just come back.
im kind of worried, is this normal?
what do i do?
actually its very normal for periods to be irregular for young women. are you sexually active? is there a chance you could be pregnant? either way if you arent sexually active or are you should tell your mom to make you a doctors appointment just to make sure.
hope i could help.
What is the fastest way of getting rid of a pimple, like within 3 days, or atleast the redness. Dont say proactive or something like that, becuase i need to start tonight and that doesnt come fast sinse its mail order. Anyways any suggestions are appriciated
if you dont have any pimple stuff try and put toothpaste on it and it should dry up right away. if not just put some cover up on it. hope i could help.
I have this ex and we recently broke up and he got back on the dating scene. Well after about a month I started being strangely jealous about him dating her. Now they broke up because she was saying at lunch that they were gonna break-up. So now he is single and he has been flirting with me a lot, and just the other day he told his friend something when I was next to him and the guy got all wide eyed and stared at me? I don't know whether I should confess my love to him and possibly get turned down or should I stay in my dumb shell and know that I will always love him?
my advice to you would be to tell him, because if you dont you might always wonder what if.
hope i could help
idk wut 2 do. exactly 2weeks ago 2day, i was supposed 2 go out 2 lunch wit my 2 friends 2 mcdonalds. we had tried 2 go 4 like a week straight but things kept comin up. but we finally set it up. it takes about 6 min 4 me 2 meet them up at r locker areas & i thought my best friend knew that. she was usin my other friends cell phone 2 call me up & find out where i was. she cursed a little. i explained didnt she know it always takes me this long? as she said some sentence wit f*** in it as she hung up, i turned the corner. my boyfriend & i happened 2 b hand in hand bc he missed his bus. i guess she took him as the reason for my lateness & 2 make matters worse her & my bf hate eachother. wut rly sucks tho is that she stopped talking 2 me & its been 2 weeks. i miss my best friend so much. we always hung out & told each other everything. we were so happy when r schedules changed & we got a study hall 2gether... how can i get her 2 realize that i want things 2 go bac 2 the way they were or that i rly care about her friendship if she doesnt wanna talk 2 me?
well maybe you should try and talk to her. if you havent even tryed how do you know she doesnt want to talk to you. as best friends you should be able to talk to each other. also maybe you shouldn't choose your boyfriend over your best friend, expecially when you had something planned. and if he "missed" his bus you should have told him you had plans with your friends and hes not welcome to come because hes a jerk to your best friend.
15/f.
I'm in the 9th grade and I really like this guy. Well, V-day passed and I didn't even bother asking him out or anything....and he didn't make a move either. I know that he likes me as much as I like him. Should I wait for him to make a move? and meanwhile, dress a little more...em..."open?" and flirt around to attract attention..?..or should I just ask him out? :S :S :S
well since you know he likes you he probably hasn't made a move yet because he's nervous. Don't start dressing open. t will attract other guys and send a wrong message about yourself as in being slutty. flirt with him not every other guy but him. again, you don't want him thinking or anyone else thinking you are a slut when you are not. its really not a good image.Ask him out! you waited long enough for him to make a move.
I've heard all this talk about not turning the volume up too much on your iPod headphones, or it will damage your ears. How loud is too loud?
never put the volume all the way up besides ear damage its what causes most headphones to blow out after a short time.
I need a good site for pictures, Like cute pictures that i can put on my space, or nex, please help
search them on photobucket.com
hey well im 14/f
and i have a school dance this week. and i have a date.
but i have one MAJOR problem. i suck at slow dancing and dont really know how.. i dont wanna look retarded. please help if u can! :)
its easy. just move your feet from left to right and your date will follow the rhythm. Most likely he will put his hands on your hips and you should put your hands on his shoulders. gazing into eachother's eyes makes it romantic and make sure you have gum if you guys get close ;) don't stress it. hope i helped ya!
14/f
i am very athletic, and play soccer on 2 different club teams. people say muscle weighs more than fat or whatever so i think thats my problem. how can i drop to maybe 110?
well as long as its muscle i dont see why you would want to drop? its only a number, and if its not fat i dont see the reason.
hope i could help
Are there any weight loss pills that actually work ? everyone says they are a waste of money but there has to be something.
yeah theres something, goto the gym and watch what you eat it really works!! theres no lazy way to loose weight.
hope i could help
I go to an all girls private high school. Before that, i went to public school. I am having a sweet sixteen party, but the only problem is, there is going to be twice as many girls (i'm still friends with all of my public school friends, which is even in the boy to girl ratio) but then when you had all of my school friends, it like doubles the girls. Should i cut back on the girls--or make a desperate attempt to meet some more guys??? Would it just be really awkward if there were too many girls (it would be like 20ish boys and 35ish girls)
Thanks in Advanced.
i dont think you need to cut back on the girls. just invite all your friends and who cares if theres more guys then girls.
hope i could help
Well i weigh alot and im signed up to a gym but i don't go that often because i have aot of homework. Also i'm having some acne problems. And theres this girl i've been trying to impress latly so plz help me.
well i say when you dont have homwwork goto the gym, like on a weekend get all your homework done of friday so you can go saturday. and days that you have alot of homework you dont even have to goto the gym, when you get done with your homework just go outside and take a jog.
have you tryed proactive for you acne? it works really well. if your haveing trouble finding something that works well fro you go see a doctor an allergic reaction to something you eat can be causing the acne.
hope i could help
i'm 17 and have been thinking about birth control. i know you really dont need a parents permission to get it but i'd like to talk to my mom about it. i need help on finding a way to bring it up in a conversation with her. anyone have ideas?? and any suggestions on which birth control? i was thinking about Seasonale but i dont know how much that costs for the year.
hi!! theres really no way to bring that conversation up in a conversation. I would just sit your mom down and tell her you want to be safe, if u do deside to have sex. and when you go see the doctor he will probly give u suggestions on what type of birth control.
hope i could help good luck
xoxo