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Q: i feel that im being abused by words.. is that possibal?

and im 13/f and would i be able to call a abuse line? and get my mom taken away from me?

yes it is soooo posible my dad does the same thing i threatend to call the cops on him 12 times!!!! but im not so sure if it would work to call an abuse line to get away from your mom but you can defently try






hope i helped your problem,katie =)

Q: hey, i was wondering if weed will show up in a blood test. I'm probably going to have one for something completely un-related to drugs. i mean like, they aren't looking for weed or anything. So, i guess i'm wondering if it will show up at all and if they have to be specifically looking for it to find it. How long does it stay in your system? I've heard 38 days, but i've only smoked twice (yesterday and three days ago) and i didn't smoke very much at all. Between both days, i probably didn't even have a bowl. Thanks
well,how old are you?but it probly wont show up in your blood test (can you sneek me some hun LOL ha ha ha)

Q: I'm 13/m in jr high and I was wondering, how old is an appropriate age for sex? I've heard of people my age that have had sex, but I don't think 13 is an appropriate age, so..... how old should you be to have sex?
well im 14 and i honestly think that any age is appropiate if you know you are truly ready and you have a great boyfriend like i feel that the right age is 15 or 16

Q: I am getting my nose pierced and for all those that have had it done can you tell me if it hurts or not.
well it kind of herts but it herts more after

Q: ok sorry its long but... i have a lot of problems and i dont know whats wrong with me. there are just so many things...here are just a few:
1-i cut myself...like really deep to the point where i pass out and wake up with blood all over

2-i pull the ends of my hair on urdge

3-i feel tension and stress about everything bad

4-i over analyze EVERYTHING makeing it scary and bad

5-i think about suicide all the time

6-my mood can change in an instant-one minute ill be all happy and something will happen or someone will say something and ill go all depressed

7-i burn myself on occasion

8-i find it really hard to express my feelings and what imthinking b/c ik that noone will understand...they will try but they just dont get what im going through unless they r goin through it too

9-i am always tired all the time b/c i dont sleep much...i havent in like a week

10-i have lost a lot of weight b/c i refuse to eat and when some one makes me eat i throw it back up

11-at times i will find my self sitting in my room and all of a sudden i will just like start crying and i will cry for hours

12-for the past year i have been trying so hard to make it sound like i am happy and im so good to the point where my parents think that i am a "happy delightful young lady who is fun to be around"



you see? there are so many things wrong with me and like i have tried sooo many different ways to cope with the stress in my life but like nothing that i have tried works! its just realy hard and idk what to do.


ill rate high for good answers...nothing cocky plz


♥ rrenef ♥
well to me your life must suck i cut to but the way i try to deal with things that piss me of or stress me is listeing to music and screaming or even hitting myself i know it sounds stupid but it works. and i tried killing myself by taking 13 advils but it didnt work i just threw up all kinds katie =[

Q: people say im emo wich bugs because i dont like
to be a certian thing i like to be what i am these are some bands i love my chemical romance ,sensis fails,brand new,the used ,and velvot revolver
dude wtf that was my mine oppsy daisy lol well MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE rocks

Q: hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother she has been acting wierd around us when i am over there adn she doesnt hang out with us as much and she has a bunch of guys that r just friends that r over there all teh time too adn i feel weird like i suddenly become all protective like her bro! please help
well it all depends who you like better . i wold talk to her brother about it before you make a move

Q: My guitar teacher asked me to find a song I liked with a strumming pattern in it. Problem is, I don't know any songs I like, with that it in. Any songs/tab would be greatly appreciated.
I like mostly alternative/modern rock songs.

Brittany
smells like teen spirit from nirvana and times of your life from greenday

Q: ok well i've recently started playing the guitar and i'm totally into michelle branch's music so i was wondering if anyone knew a site or place where i could buy a michelle branch guitar music book? thanks a bunch ! i rate !
well actully what i think is easyer is tab just go in the internet and look for mb tabs

Q: my 8th grade graduation is at the end of this year ...ive been looking for songs i found a few the class might like but if you have any you think fit to a 8th grade graduation that would be really helpful ill rate high for some good ones ...thanksss
this is a great song it makes me cry i love it sooo please chose it please
=] Times of your life-greenday

Q: hii. i think i am fat i weigh 141 and i dont like the way i look so im thinking about becoming anerixic for just a few weeks to shed some pounds. But i heard it can be dangerous
um well um in stead of going anerexic dont eat alot because if you dont eat you loose enregy and you get really grumpy belive me because i dont eat alot but im not anerexic

Q: i dont have my period yet and im 13years old. all of my friends have it too. is there like something wrong with me?
no way there is nothing wrong at all people start at different ages. belive me you dont want it your period suxs i started when i was 11 and im 14 now but belive me you will have a cople different sighns when u get your period by the way talk to your mom

Q: well lately i have been really thirsty and i like cant stop drinking durrin school i go through like 2 water bottles and when i get home i drink a ton more is that normall?? or is there something wrong??
well theres baad news and good news good news u might just be thirsty i geuss bad news u might have type 2 diabetas cause that happened to my friend

Q: Ok well I like this guy, he's awesome, and I've liked him for like.. a year... and I don't know if I should tell him because sometimes he freaks if someone says they like him... which I no, is stupid. What should I do?
hey well i went through the same thing u did i liked this guy named tyler and my friend she told him that i like him and asked him out for me and he said yes but he dumped me in a week and all he wanted to do was make out so if you really like this guy go tell him that u think hes hot and you like him alot (go get him tiger
:]he he]

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I'll give you a list of everyting i love in order
BOYS,music,friends,MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE,flirting,school dances,my guitar,danceing,shoping,ummm....the beach,stevens untiteled rock show on fuse wich also rocks,the color red,black,green,.

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