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Q: hey i pierced my bellybutton a couple of hours ago and I want to know how to clean it and can I die from this??????? I did it by myself
hey i did that a week ago but dont put a ring in so then it will heal

Q: Okay I started my period a few months ago and I'm only using pads. I'm SO scared to try to put in a tampon and I don't even know why! I'm afraid I'll do something wrong and hurt myself. My mom keeps telling me to try one, they are way more sanitary blah blah blah. Can someone PLEASEEE help me? I don't really know what I'm asking, I guess just I need tips for how to put a tampon in for the first time. Thanks! I rate for only GOOD answers!
well tampons are way better then pads they are easy to use ussally in the tanpon box there is instructions

Q: Im getting my hair dyed professionally and its going to cost me about $50. Assuming the hairdresser does a good job, how much should I tip? Thanks.
ten to fifften dolaers ir it is really good but probaly five dolars

Q: well my friend i think lied about being pregnant and after a while to get her way out of it she said she lost the baby which i think is an awful lie. but if you do lose your baby when your say 3 to 5 months pregnant do they like have to take it out of you? or does it just like go away? i feel like an idiot :/ ill rate any answer
dont feel like an idiot becase im not sure but i think they preform surgery

Q: I determined to find some new bands to like, I don't really want any mainstream bands just like, got-to-their-shows bands. I don't really, like much emo and I don't like any skater/incucbus/audioslave type music. I am into punkish music and music with synthesizers but not techno. My favorite artists are Bjork, Polyphonic Spree, Aquabats, Me First and The Gimme Gimmes, Cranberries, Len, and Electric Light Orchestra. I am cool with Ska as well. Just give me a list of bands that I could listen to and I'll be satisfied.
um.....Akline trio The killers? those are good bands but they arent emo

Q: I get jelous way easily. I'm always jelous of my friends if I'm not hangin out with them or if I'm not being invited to hang out with them. I go into the slight depression stage and get all moody when I'm jelous. I HATE THIS. How can I become more uhh .. not jelous ?
like i geuss this kind of happens to me i deal with it by just relaxing and telling myself that i know that they like me but if they are bitches like KORAL RAGONA you should ditch them

Q: Hey I know this song is by Fall Out Boy but I just can't figure out what song it is. I've looked and searched but none of the lyrics are right. Can you guys help? Here the only parts I know.

"The pepper something something.." I'm not sure about that part. Heres the other part I know.

"Nothing comes easy when you lay in your bed all day"

Thats all I know. THANKS SO MUCH! I like the beat to the song but I can't figure out what the song is!

Xo Kristen
nobody puts baby in the corner

Q: Does anyone know of any sites where I can find sweat shirts or hoodies of bands besides their own sites? Some of the bands I want are:

Underoath
Fall Out Boy
From First to Last
Hawthorne Heights
All-American Rejects
Taking Back Sunday

Those are just some. But if you know of any websites that you can buy band clothing from besides their own sites id greatly appreciate it. Thank you so much you guys!
oh man those are awesome bands and you can find clothes from them at hottopic.com

Q: There's this song by Queen and Bowie calleed Under Pressure.
MCR and the used did a pretty good cover on it too..

i love the song and i want to know.. what are some good sites to look for video codes or song codes for myspaces that would possibly have that song in their library?

my space vidieo codes im on it wright now and listening to MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE

Q: I was wondering if anyone knew a few good websites besides Hot Topic that sold Greenday shirts at a cheap price. I would appreciate it if anyone answers this. I'll rate 5's for good websites!
GREEN DAY.com/merchandise

Q: what are some good stores that sell cheap clothes? clothes that are pretty and something a teenager would wear.. any suggestions?
khols_target_and wallmart

Q: Well i am a grl and i like to wear boy clothes!!!
is that weird or normal?
well it is really normal unless they are hella baggy then it is unatractive but its fine if you dont care what people think of you not trying to be bitchy

Q: So I have olivish golden skin and I want to buy like a beigish(sp?) lip gloss like tha stuff that Jessica Simpson wears.. It's really cute but I dont want stuff that is super thick
Okay so my boyfriend doesnt like glossy lips because when he kisses me it gets on his lips... soo is there anyway that I can lighty add color to my lips while making them soft and kissable?
youse alip stain or just tiny bit of colored chap stick

Q: ok, i have fat cheeks for some reason and i need to know is there anything i could do to make them appear less chubby? I have greyish-blue eyes, average sized lips, and my skin tone is a little darker than fair. thanks!
i think that you should use a dark apple blush and apply it right were your cheek bone is

Q: A local radio station played a song that I can't find anywhere.

Part of it goes, 'you're turning me into a zombie / i want to be your zombie' or something like that. The radio station said it was 'You Know What You Are' by Nine Inch Nails but I looked up the lyrics to that song and they were totally different from the one they played. So I looked up that bit of lyrics on a lyric search engine and on google and I couldn't find anything. So that may not be what the song says. But that was the only part I was pretty sure of .. so does anyone know what song I'm talking about?
i think that it might be from velvot revolver ........................................................................................................maybe :p

Q: Is limewire free?
the illegal one isnt but the leagal one is :p katie

Q: ok look i shave down there and wen i do like a day after there is red bumps and they hurt a lil like wen i put on my jeans and i do use shaving cream and soap wen i dont have any
well you got like razor bumps but i know that you use alot of shaving cream when you shave there and dont use soap

Q: Ok this could be long! I am in 8th grade and last year there was a kid in my class. EvEryone made fun of him and he was bipolar and had some mental problems. Well, yesterday 11/3. He attempted suicude for the second time. He jumped from the bak of a moving school bus and he is now in acoma. He broke his arm and probably his bak and neck too. He isn't dead though. ThEre was BLooD everywhere. The first time he tried to stab himself with scissors. I feel really bad because I was one to make fun of him. How can i make myself not feel so bad? ALl my freinds say im different since but im really scared for the kid. He seems like he could be nice. Plese help will rate. _-HeArtbreaker-__
sorry for giving you a smart ass anwser but you really shouldnt make fun of retarted people because thats so rude but if you ever see him again apoligise hun okay !!!!!~!!!!!!~!!!!:P

Q: please help me! I am looking at my vaines right now and I just want to take a blade and trace them all the way up my arm! I am so depressed and I really need someone to talk to that im not afraid will judge me!
PLEASE HELP ME!
EMAIL ME ANYTHING OR LEAVE ME ADVICE PLEASE

email - pink_lip_gloss91@hotmail.com
hi you cut to well stop hun it sucks because you get millions of scars on your arm so STOP by the way why are you sad

Q: I kno this guy and i have been going out with him fer a lil under 4 months and i really want to french kiss him, but i have never frenched kissed a guy be4.. idk what to do, how should i start it should i say i'm gunna french u cause how will he know? my friends say i am obsessed with him so i looked up the word and the definition was thinking about it all the time.. i allways think about him.. i think i am pethetic.. what should i do? please i really need help, i asked my friends and the just sorta are sick of me talking about him.. i am so confused!
well to me it sounds like you really like him if you wanna french him.just so you know you dont tell him that you are gonna kiss him babe you just do it !! it is easy just kiss him and stick your flippn tounge in his mouth !!!!





hope i helped , katie

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