Heyy im tara, I'm a pretty cool kid if you get to meet me. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born and raised on Long Island, stuck in a little city and if i dont get out of here soon im gonna explode. I always wanted to move to california so hopefully i'll go to collage there. But for now im here and trying to enjoy it. I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I'm starting to become a little classy girl. Me? Classy? Of course. I love getting my nails done. Makes me feel extra girlie. Any music really turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;] I have a boyfriend his name is Paul. He's gorgeous. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world.. So ask me anything you want im here and will take all of your questions seriously! xoxo.
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E-mail: jsfan621@yahoo.com
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Location: New York
Occupation: high school
Age: 16
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15/f
i've been going out with this guy for about 9 months. we're totally different and hang out with completely different people.
Me = the drama nerds, and preps.
Him = the ghettofabulous people.
for this whole time, i only hang out with a few of his friends, the ones i can stand. but tonight, he invited me to go to the roller rink with him. i said yes, thinking it was only me and him. but apparantly a few of his friends are going. ones that i've talked to, but never really wanted to be associated with. i guess i feel pretty obligated to eventually hang out with his friends since he hangs out with mine all the time.
any tips on how to get along with them and not feel like a total outcast?
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just try to be a social as possible, sometimes you get misconseptions from the first couple imprestions, hopefully his friends are as nice as him! chances are they are! good luck
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hi
well i appologize now fore making my question so long!
i really like this guy named ned! and he's in 9th grade i'm in 8th grade and i dont see him very often but he's often in the same bus when i drive home and well i think he likes me 2 because he is smyling at me very often and he also is looking at me all the time! but i kinda am a shy person (with boys normaly i'm everything but shy) so i never smile back even if i like him so i think ji'm kinda confusing him cause once he was in the same bus than me and i was just sittin there looking out the window and than he comes next to me and he was like:
ned:hi
me: uhm hi?
ned: how are you?
me: uhm i dont know
ned: you dont know how you are?
me: thats what i'm saying
ned: well ok..anyways are you good in school?
me: uhm i'm ok but not the best
ned: do you want a basketball? ( i think he said that because we were just driving next to a basketball field and he didnt know what to say :-)
me: uhm no?
ned: yeah me neather
me: 2 bad
ned: yeah seriously 2 bad
me: whatever
ned: soooo are you proud to be the new classpresident was it your dream?
me: no not really
ned: uhm ok do you like robert? (some guy in 8th grade 2)
me: NO WHY???
ned: because i hear rumors that your going out with him (which is totally not true!)
me: WHAT WHO SAID THAT???
ned: well i cant tell you that its a secred
me:whatever
ned: so who is like your best friend?
me: i dont have any friends (because i had this big fight that day but everything is fine now:-)
ned: so do youu wanna be friends with me?
me: dunno
ned: why are you being so mean to me? your not answering any of my questions!
me: uhm...
well yeah and than my busstop came so yeah well now i want to apollogize but he wasnt in school for one week now and uhm do you think he likes me? please i need some advice! (link)
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yea he deffiantaly likes u! and deff. apolyise just be like i was having a bad day sry about that. hope i helped xoxo tara
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Well , i really like this guy in 7th grade, but the thing is I'm in 8th grade. I don't really know him that well but i really like him.
I know him well enough to like ask him out, but i dont want to yet.
I know some of my friends would give me a hard time about it but i know his friends wouldn't.
Should i ask him out or not?
I rate high for help
x0
>torn (link)
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yea deffanitly ask him out what do you have to lose! you dont have to right away try talking to him alittle more whenever you get the chance then when you sre confident enough you should ask him out! good luck! xoxo
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A close male friend of mine broke his foot and now he can't work, he has to wait for it to heal and stays at his house all day. I've been really supportive and have offered to drive him to the hospital but he delcined. Well he has been a total jerk to me since he broke it. At first I could understand him being in a bad mood but then it started to upset me. For ex, I phoned him and was going to ask him if he wanted a visit. I started the converstation by telling him that I was bored, and he YELLED at me and said "how could you be bored"! And never invited me over.
Another time I phoned him and politly asked why he hadnt answered any of my emails, and then he replied "I don't sit around all day on my computer"!!
He normally isnt like this, I know it must be a drag to have a broken foot and be out of work, but he doesnt have to take it out on me I'm just trying to be nice.
What should I do? (link)
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honestly i think its his male ego problems. I think he feels like helpless and i no that bothers guys alot, especilly when girls are trying to help them. So just lay-low for a while and not talk to him as much and then when you start talking agian dont give him any sympathy ( i know, weird consept). hope i helped xoxo
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okay, so this boy that i went out with like about 2 different times told his friend he wants to go to prom with me (yes, i do realize its only september) .. does that mean he likes me?? because its weird. Everytime i come back from away he Im's me right away.. and he talks about me a lot his friend told me. so whats the deal? and i dont even know if i would like him back either...? (link)
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yess i think he likes you...if he is acting like that if you have anymore questions im me at sunshineqt62 good luck xoxo tara
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well i dont eat a lot anymore....i eat like once every like 4 days and then im not hungry so i eat like a cookie and thats it ....its not like im trying to i just dont get hungry anymore and its like really bothering me...and all my friends are like i need help cause i do have anorexia but i just am not like hungry...and i think im fat but i know im not...but even the most skinney person in the whole world thinks they are fat sooo its normal in girls...right???? well
ill rate 5 for good answers
~to scared to focus~ (link)
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you really need help, i am sure you are not fat at all!! if you go on to toneteen.com they have really good ways of healthy eating and they also have tips on what a good, skinny weight is for your body!! please eat right now!! hope i helped xoxo tara
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Ok there is this guy I like and his name is Cody. Me and my friend met him at an assembly and ever since he has been talking to me. Everytime I see him in the hall me and him talk and stuff. But my friend is always there when i talk to him. Sometimes he will kinda poke me and go " ewwww " but in a joking way. And he comes and sits with us sometimes at lunch when his guys leave. There was this boy bothering me today and he goes up and tells him " You better not be bothering her! " So What? Does he like me? Please no smart ass answers. Thanks In Advance (link)
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he might like you..but he might not... the best way to find out, try flirting with him and see if he flirts back (but from what you say...i think he likes you! ;) good luck plz give me some feedback...xoxox tara
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I'm 13/f and I just had my first kiss. Well... Sorta. Anyways we were at the mall and he pulled me aside and said "I love you, I think your beautiful" and he started making out with me. It was the best moment of my life but after about three seconds I got really nervous and I didn't know what to do so I sort of pushed him off a little and I hugged him and he said it's still okay and he loves me. I know he isnt upset but I feel bad because I really wanted to kiss him and I probably made him feel bad although he won't admit it and he says its fine we'll try again another time. He's coming over Saturday. Is there anything I can do to not be so nervous? Or advice on your first kiss? Thanks a bunch. =) (link)
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ur gonna do great...cuz i mean he is obviously obsesed with you, so he is gonna like it no matter wat just keep telling ur self that and be toattly relaxed...god luck ull do fine..xoxo tara
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okay, i really really need help!! this guy and i, were supposidly dating... i like him so much, and he said he liked me... well last night he called and he starting fighting with me over the fact that i never give him a straightforward answer... i dunno what thats supposed to mean, but i always tell him i dont care, and i guess that bothers him... well he told me everything was over... and then told me he was getting sick and needed to take a shower, so i told him to call me back after becasue we needed to talk about this... so he called back like 15mins later and was all calm and he stopped yelling at me... but he was like i hate how you cant tell me exactly what you want, and how you only do stuff to make me happy... im so confused... if theres anybody who can help me witht his please do!! are we still broken up? how can i get him back? what are smoeways i can get over him?? anything will help... but please!! soon! thanks (link)
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no i dont think that you guys are like officaly "broken-up", just ask him to meet you somewhere so you guys can talk and settal things out. He obviosly still likes you because he wouldnt be going though this much time and effort to tell you how he feels. I hope everything works out, lots of love! xoxo Tara
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Kay well Im having some problems with boys. So I met this guy and his name is Nathan and hes like wonderful he treats me really good..but for some reason whenever im around guys i like i get like these cute little butterflies in my tummy and yeah . but when im with him i feel like NOTHING. soo i dont know what to do i dont really know how i feel about him .please help becasue all my friends want me to hook up with him and i dont want to be leading him on
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well you obivosly dont like him so just be like it will be better if we were friends, tell him that he needs someone that will like him the way he likes them and that you like him as just a friend hope i helped xoxo tara
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Well I'm dating this guy... and he's really hott and I like him SO much... but it seems like everytime we hang out all we do is makeout and other stuff like that... and once I didn't really wanta do it and when I said I didn't feel like doing that he was like whatever and left! So I feel like thats all he's in this relationship for! And of course its fun... but I don't want only that in a relationship... and I kinda want to break up with him but I just like him so much! And I don't know why and I don't know what to do! (link)
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ummm yea break up with him!!! you should never ever let somebody treat you like that!! you could find wayyy better guys theat care about you and ur feelings hope i helped xoxo tara
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I was with this kid Brendan about a year ago for about six or seven months and even though after we broke up I went out wtih other people... I'm definetly still in love with him. He has not been with anyone since but with him it's just different. Even if I wanted to just talk to him I get scared and don't know what to say. Everyone can tell and I hate it! Last night I was talking on the phone wtih his best friend and he just came up on the topic and said you and Brendan were the best couple and I think you should go out again... I don't know if that's just his opinion or if Brendan has been talking to him about me or if his friend is just trying to hook us up for the fun of it or something. Yeah so I don't know...
xo elise (link)
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no no boys tell there best freinds everything he diffantly wants to be with you agian....so just go up to him flirty and be like i havent seen u 4 a while we should diffanly hang out! then hopefully that will spark somthing....good luck!! xoxo Tara
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I am a pretty outgoing girl, but for some reason I am a lot shyer when it comes to approaching boys. If they talk to me first, then it's all good, but I want to have more of a interaction with them then just in class. I don't know how to approach them, and it's not as easy as "just being brave and talking to them" (most people say this) because they already have other girls who are their friends, so it's tough because they already have friends. To me it sounds eaiser if I start talking online, but then I feel like it would be awkward because they'd be like "where the heck did she get my screen name" so I wouldn't know how to IM them first. Does anyone have any good tips for me on preferably starting a conversation with a boy you only know from class, or IMing someone? I would really appreciate a good thought out answer from someone who has ahad the same experiences because a lot of people say be brave but it's not so easy for some girls as it is for others! I am a 16 year old female if it helps, & I would say I am pretty (not the most gorgeous girl, but nice looking). THANK YOU! (link)
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when you are iming them be like, heyy its (your name) i got your sn from (person your got it from) your in my (subject) class, right? , that way he nos that u like him enough to talk to him but you dont sound desprate. hope i helped xoxo Tara
o0o0o, just like compliment him on his clothes or someting or talk about how dumb the teacher is or about the weather anything really but remember to always smile!! and flip your hair, not alot just a little so they notice it. and laugh at all the things they say that they are trying to be funny.
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oookay.. homecoming is on october 22nd at my school, and i was wondering does anyone know of a cute dress i could get, thats not uber exspensive? i'd like to look at them online. i'm sorta wanting a short, like cocktail party dress? i dont have a whole lot of boobage, lol, so anything super revealing isnt going to look too good on me. i'm open to any ideas, though, so anything you think is good let me know!
thanks.
i rate 5's (link)
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on fover21.com they have some really cute dresses, that where i got one of mine! macys gots some cute ones too! good luck, xoxo tara
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I am in a club and I wanna try to run for president. But I am really shy and the speech part I think I could do but theres like 50 people in this club and when we have club meetings we gota go by the rules of skills usa and its like your in a court room so should I go for it or not? Or would it be too much? I will give yall 5's if you help me!!! (link)
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diffantly go for it what is teh worst that could happen. and remember it is only 50 people they see you everyday, now they are just gonna hear you talk. i think it will be a very good experince!! have fun! xoxo- Tara
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okay, well where do I start? As always, the story begins with "there was this guy.." haha
Well, I met this guy on my vacation this summer. And we got really close and everything..so close that we decided that we'd meet again this christmas (i live in the UK, he lives in the US..he's flying here this christmas - Just to see me (aww, hehe) well, anyways..im working really hard to make sure that he'll think it's worth it when he comes here, ive lost alot of weight, whitened my teeth proffessionally, got my hair fixed, bought alot of sexy clothes, took a seductive dancing class..well, basiclly EVERYTHING! now the only problem is, how do i become sexy? i know there's no specific thing to do/say to be sexy..so i was just wondering if there's any one thing that you remember as sexy. For example, the sexiest thing mý ex-bf said was ' let's give them something to watch' and then he kissed me right infront of everyone! (This group of girls where staring at us, and i was like : what are they looking at, and then he said the wohle ' well, lets give them something to look at -thiing' and i thought that was really sexy! You know, stuff like that..like it dosnt necessarily have to be something that i can do, i wont copy whatever your gf did. I just started thinking about all this..and wanted to know the things you considered sexy. Cause i know what girls think is sexy already, for example : when a guy wears axe, or when he calls you babe/baby, when he touches your hip,when he simply givs you a kiss on the forhead..or when he carries you 'lol, makes me feel like a tiny woman, and he's my strong hero' lol..well anyways, is there anything you guys can tell me that you think is sexy? thank you =)hah sorry if it was long.. (link)
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well when your talking to him i no boys love it when you touch there arms, run your fingers threw your hair, call him babe, compliment him, when his talking bite your lower lip and if i think of anymore things ill let you no. Have fun sounds like he's really special!! good luck xoxo tara
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Okaii of course I need help alright is there anything I can do to my hair to keep it from frizzing out and stuff when I take a shower and let it dry my hair frizzes and is kinda a funny curly way too I striaighten it with a curling iron or the straightener my mom got which is huge and hard to use kinda but sometimes it still doesnt wanna straighten right whats some good ways to try it I dont really like using mouss our things like that in my hair its just me dont know why..if you can let me know id appreacite it thanks (link)
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there is this stuff called friz-ezz by john frieda it works so so so good my hair used to be frizzy to but with that stuff if you want to strighten it, it looks so good and when you just leave it it looks good too. All you do is when you come out of the shower you comb some threw. good luck xoxox tara
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so like i said before i met this great guy! at my school. Im thinking will i see him again will i ever get to go out with him and get to know him? he goes my school but does not do any of my subjects. I feel all shy around him. he was chatting to me for ages like over 1 hour! so does he like me or is it 2 early to tell. someone advice me pleasee i will rate you high. (link)
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well if he was talking to you for over an hour i think he like you. If you want to you could ask him if he would want to go out but you dont have too. Just try flirting and see what he does it might be a little to early to tell though! hope i helped xoxo- Tara
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Ok, you know Ashlee Simpsons hair when it was still black how it was short..but like, at the top it was fuller then as it got down to the bottom it got thinner? Well what kind of hair cut is that called? I want my hair like that but I dont know how to explain it. If you get what im saying PLEASE PLEASE help..I rate 5's!
Oh yea, I dont need anyone saying im stupid and Ashlees stupid cause I could really care less..Just help me out and this question will be outa here. So just ignore it if you dont like it!
xoxox♥ (link)
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Here is some good pictures of her short hair i tried to find good ones for you:
( I think the first 2 links are the best)
http://www.gallery.ashlee-star.com/performances/cbs/arles_gallery/imagepages/image1.html
http://www.gallery.ashlee-star.com/performances/aol/arles_gallery/imagepages/image8.html
http://www.gallery.ashlee-star.com/appearances/ama2004/arles_gallery/imagepages/image3.html
http://www.gallery.ashlee-star.com/appearances/ama2004/arles_gallery/imagepages/image3.html
That is such a cute hair cut!! good luck xoxo -Tara
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my sister is 14 and she is going in 9th grade and she wants to ask our mom if she can wear thongs but she really doesnt kno how to.. and also she a real tomboy and stuff she always playing sports and she wants to get some skritss but she doenst kno how to assk
please helpp!!!
thanxs u guys for helping herr outt (link)
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tell her to ask her mom can i go gets some skirts for school I want to be more nice looking since school is starting (or started). I'm sure her mom would be happy to take her, cause what girl doesn't look cut in a skirt once in a while! And about the thongs, tell her to say some of my pants you can see my underwear line though can i get a thong, well tell her good luck, -xoxo tara
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