Hi! I love to give advice. All of my friends say I'm really good at it. I'm sure alot of things you ask me, I'll answer based off of experience. I've been through alot, and I know alot. I really want to help you, so please don't be afraid to ask :]
Love,
xmcrgirl5x
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Age: 16
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okay I really want to know which condom is best for protecting against sperm.(pregnancy wise) and also which one is the worst?
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I personally think Trojan. I'm sure there are kinds with spermicidal lube on them and stuff. [And if they're not well lubricated, it's easier for them to tear.] Hope I helped! :] Good luck!
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I am a sixteen year old female, and for about three years now my hair has been falling out pretty bad. I used to dye my hair but I don't anymore because I am trying to get it back to the way it used to be before I started dying it. I also straighten my hair but very rarely and when I do I have a protective spray that I use so it doesn't get as damaged. I use Pantene Pro V shampoo and conditioner and when I shower my hair falls out really bad. I don't know if it's due to the shampoo or what. I also heard that hair falls out because of stree and I suppose I am a pretty stressful person considering I have very many family problems and I struggle to keep up with school work because I have always been a straight A student. I really dislike my hair falling out because it's usually all over my clothing and such.
1) Can stress play a part in hair loss?
2) What shampoo strenghtens hair and is good for hair loss?
3) Is there anything else I can do to strenghten my hair? (link)
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I have the same problem, but, ALOT of mine does. Like, it's really noticable. 1) Yes. That's one of the main causes that mine does. [But, I have a disease called Alopetia Areota, and it's a hairloss desease. You might want to go to a dermotoligist and have your hair checked out. I have to get injections for mine, but, they don't hurt.]
2)I use the same kind you do. It's good for your hair, but, they have Rogaine shampoos that help get your hair back. 3) Um, I'd try deep conditioning. [Ha ha I need to too.]
I really hope I helped. I know how stressfull that can be. [Which doesn't make it any better.]
--xmcrgirl5x--
P.S. If you want to know anything else, you can always e-mail me, or add me on myspace :]
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does anyone know how to make those blueish bracelets they are from a soda cap seal and they are used that when you beak them you have sex with someone my boyfriend wants me to wear them to spice up our sex life please help (link)
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That's interesting. At my school, it means you make out with the person lol. But, you cut out the middle, and you hold it inbetween your hands for a minute and warm it up [it helps it stretch better and not break] and then you stretch it. Lol have fun dear :D I hope I helped.
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So when I go down on my bf, some stuff comes out of his penis (not sperm) its like, before he gets off and its kind of salty.. but i know its not sperm because its clear..and theres just a little bit. He has never actually ejaculated in my mouth, so i dont know what cum tastes like. so my question is, What is it? and if you know what it is, Does it taste the same as sperm?, and if not, What does sperm taste like? (link)
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It's pre-cum. I learned in health that it does have a few sperm cells in it, but, I'm not really sure, because my health teacher didn't know what she was talking about half the time. My best friend told me it tastes pretty much the same. But, actual cum tastes more salty. I hope I helped :]
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i saw you answered someones questions sya you got your cartilkage shattered. ive been wanting my cartilage pierced for a long tim,e but ive been afraid of shattering my cartilage.
exactly what does shattering your cartilage mean/do?
and is there any way to heal it once its been shattered
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Don't be afraid dear. If you get it done at a profesional place, it'll all be good. :] If your cartilage gets shattered, there's not much you can really do, except clean it alot and it will heal. When it gets shattered, it just means that like, it kinda gets like, if you were to punch glass :/ that's the best way I can explain it. It'll heal though. You just have to clean it alot, so it doesn't get infected, because it'll be more suceptable to infection that way. Good luck! I hope I helped!
If you have any more questions, don't be afraid to ask :D
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what is that piercing called that is like right in front of ur ear hole? its like a little stub that comes out of your ear and its above your earlobe (link)
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It's a tragus :]
I've got one.
They're fun :]
If you get one done, try and avoid getting it done with a gun.
I got mine done with a gun, and it shattered the cartilage, and it gets infected alot.
Have fun!
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umm well..my boyfriend ate me out..sorry this is kind of a weird ? but like is this weird cuz im only 14(female) and he fingered me like 2 weeks ago and a week after he did that i got my period and now this happened..i feel like something could be wrong with my vagina..any advice??
sorry kind of a stupid question haha.
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Wait. Are you asking if it's weird that you got your period a week after he fingered you?? :/ Sorry, I got a little confused. If that's what you're asking, then, it's pretty normal, depending on when you should get your period. You have nothing to worry about! :D [unless you have bad pains or anything.] I hope I helped! :]
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Alright....my boyfreind and i have been together for a while now and we have sex and whatever....ok my problem is that he has no problem like getting hard and staying hard before we start having sex but like once he puts on the condom its hard for him to stay hard....i don't know what to do and sometiems he just gets frustrated and we stop...i dont know what to do? (link)
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Hey! My boyfriend kinda had the same problem. With him, he got nervous, you know, because after the condoms on, it's like, oh god! it's happening! you know? But, Maybe try some more foreplay, and stuff. That's what helped us. If it doesn't, maybe there's a problem, and he might need to go to a doctor. I hope things work out!!! :] Good luck!!
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i'm 16 yrs old and sexually active. after being touched, my labia minora usually gets bigger, which makes the clitoris more sensitive to touch. i've been sick lately and yesterday i noticed it was larger even when not being touched, and it seems a little sore. this is still happening the next day, and i'm just wondering if anyone knows what's going on here. i don't want to get worried if it's nothing big. thank you in advance :) (link)
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Normally when you're horny, it will get bigger, and that's what happens to your clitoris. But, if it's appening when your not, and you're not being touched, you might want to see a doctor. I'm sure it's nothing that big, so don't worry. Stress is never good. I'm sure all they'll do is check, and if something's wrong, you might just have to take some pills. If you don't want your parents knowing, I'm sure PlannedParenthood will check you without telling them. I hope I've helped!
Good luck sweetie!
-xmcrgirl5x :]
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Last night, I pierced MY OWN ears. I play after school sports, and the coach is gonna make me take out the piercings. Its only 2 hours, and so could I take them out for two hours, without them closing up? And if not, should I wait a week and then do it like that? Also, any advice other general advice for how to care for them?
And now I'm afraid that they could be infected. But isn't it only supposed to be infected if its been 24 hours or shorter, and so if pain lasts longer than that, then its been infected? And if so, and I don't feel any pain at all, right now (been about 16 hours) and so what if I began to feel pain in like 2 days or something?
I gave myself three new piercings. (I already had the first normal two). If you can answer just one part, or give me just any advice at all, I would be so thankful!
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One thing you can do if you don't want to have to take them out for sports, is go to the mall, like, a store like a jewelry type one, or hot topic or spencers, and you can get clear earrings, called retainers. To take care of them, just clean the earrings and your ear twice a day with alcohol, or neosporin, or peroxide or something. That should do it. They probably aren't infected. Sometimes they hurt people untill they are all the way healed. Don't worry. I hope I've helped!
If you have anymore questions, message me.
--xmcrgirl5x :]
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how do you break your hymen...like...can you break it by a vibrator..and your finger? (link)
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You can break it by doing many different sports, ect. Yes, you can break it from vibrators, and getting fingered. And of course, by having sex.
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I've always had a 6th sense for detecting peoples body lang. and things like that. I also get these feelings that I have to protect someone...
I'm a 15/m and I feel like I have to protect this guy. And I don't know why or how or when b/c he barely talks to me. His life is not the best and I think that's why I have to 'take care of him', kinda like a brother... but the guy won't talk to me and it's very hard for him to trust people b/c of family issues... idk what to do... normally I would just let it go right? ... WRONG!!!
I can't stop thinking about him... and it's not like I like the guy... I just can't stop wondering if he's ok today, or if he's smiling and happy. I feel like I have to play the part of father? I don't know what to do! Why can't I just stop thinking and worrying about him!?
What should I do? Have you ever felt like you had to protect someone that you've never met?
Please Help!
Thanks in advance.
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You're actually pretty much like me. Although, my 6th sense can tell when something bad's gonna happen too. Have you talked to him about it? I mean, I'm sure you wouldn't tell him about the sixth sense thing, but, maybe just tell him that you wanna be there for him. But, if you don't know him that well, talk to him, and get to know him better, so, it's less awkward. And, in my personal opinion, I think the reason you feel this way, is, you're a very kind person, and it bothers you maybe? to see him unhappy, and you just want him to be. The only thing you really can do is to just talk to him, and be there for him. I hope I helped! Keep me updated. If you need more advice, or need to talk or something, you can always talk to me on here, or my myspace and my e-mail's on my page thing.
--Christina :]
Oh, and, yes. I have felt the need to protect someone I didn't know.
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16/female. in march im turning 17 and i havent had sex yet... all of my friends have done it already.. so i feel weird when they talk about it around me. some have boyfriends and some have just done it with radom guys at parties (which i dnt want to do).
i feel that im missing out and that im ready to do it for the first time but i dont have a boyfriend and i want my first time to be with someone i can trust and that i can remember it as being spacial.
is it weird that i havent done it yet and everyone else has and the fact i will be 17 soon.. my sister is 19 and she did it when she was 15 so i feel like i should of already.
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Don't worry. It's completely normal. Don't do it with some random guy. You have a good point. Your first time should be something special that you can remember, and should be with only someone that you trust and care about. You're not missing out on anything. In my opinion, wating until you've found someone you really care about and trust, will make it all the more meaningful. You're doing the right thing.
I hope I've helped :]
Good Luck, and, when you find the right guy, all I have to say is, have fun! :]
--xmcrgirl5x
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what is the chance you could get pregnant if you have sex with a boy who is not wearing a condom but you are on birth control (link)
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The chances you can are pretty slim. Not a lot of people who are on birth control and don't use condoms get pregnant. My best friend's on the pill, and she never uses a condom, and she's always been fine. But, you never know.
-xmcrgirl5x
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I want to give my boyfriend a hickey, so how do I do it? Thank You in advance. (link)
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When you're kissing him, just start to kiss his jaw bone, then move down to his neck,[or where ever you want to give it] and pretty much make out with his neck [or various other part of his body]. You might have to suck kinda hard. You can bite him if you want to, but, try not to do it too hard. That might hurt him. Good Luck :]
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It seems almost like my relationship with my boyfriend is all centered around lust at this point. We are very drawn to each other physically and although we do connect emotionally, I feel like we need to connect more emotionally. How do I make sure our one month relationship doesn't turn into something sexually based? (link)
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I went through the same thing. Don't let it happen, because, then it's not really considered a real realationship [in my point of view] Talk to him. Tell him that you want to focus on your emotions towards him, and that you want to maybe get to know him more or something before all of the sexual stuff. If he cares about you, he'll listen, and your relationship should be dandy :]
I hope I helped!
--mcrgirl5
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is it weird that i like to finger myself?
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Nope. Personally, I don't like to do it to myself, because I can't really feel anything from it, but, alot of other people do, and it's just natural. You have nothing to worry about :]
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wah does it feel like to be fingered?...n when somebody does it is it meant to hurt? and does masturbation hurt? x (link)
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Personally, I think it feels quite good, when it's done right. It depends on you though. It's meant for it to feel good, but, sometimes people don't know what they're doing, so it won't. For instance, if someone just puts his finger up there, you don't feel anything. The masturbation thing, well, it depends. I don't find self-masturbation appealing, but, some people do, and it hurts different people. I hope I helped :]
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i recently shaved my vagina for the first time, like the top part of it, and now there r all these red bumps and stuff and it looks gross! my boyfriend was unbuttoning my pants a while ago and i made him stop cuz i didnt want him 2 c. i dont know what wrong! help! (link)
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Don't worry hun, this happened to me too. It's just from razor irritation. Some things that will help are to just not shave very often for the first little while, put lotion or [this is weird, but it helps] stick deoderant on afterwards, and instead of shaving cream or gell use conditioner. Good luck, and I hope I helped :]
--Christina
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Today when my boyfriend was fingering me, all of sudden all this blood came out! It was really weird and it's not my period definitely. Now my stomach hurts and it keeps making really loud noises! I think he popped my cherry but im not sure? If anyone has any websites on whats supposed to happen to you when your hymen breaks then can you send them to me? thanks!! (link)
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I think that's what happened. It happened to me too, except I didn't bleed, and my cherry wasn't popped. For me, it was just because he put pressure on me, and it kinda hurt my stomache. So, your cherry may or may not be popped. Just maybe google it, or go to ask.com and search. If it wasn't popped, and this lasts for a while, I'd maybe consider seing a doctor, because that's not normal. I hope I helped :]
--Christina
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