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ok so im trying to learn how to booty shake... i can go side to side but its really hard for me to go up and down... i have to like shake my whole body.. so does anyone have any tips on getting better at booty shaking? haha a how to video or something would be nice. But i need all the help i can get haha

This video pretty much says it all. xD
and it's pretty hilarious, but still helpful. :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K88yBMzm4Dc

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curious

Hm, well that's something, lol:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pantyhose_for_men

But then again, you can't ALWAYS trust Wikipedia, though I usually believe most of it's true lol. Honestly, I think guys who wear panthose; that's kinda strange in my eyes. o.o I guess it just depends?...

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Where can I get this shirt? Other than hollister or whatever. It'd be nice if someone could send me the link of the actually shirt instead of just listing some random stores... thanks

http://i29.tinypic.com/23lm5np.jpg

I think that girl got that shirt from American Eagle, you can kind of see something that looks like a green eagle on her shirt. I looked on the website but I couldn't find it. I found something VERY similiar though, I'm not sure if it's what you wanted, but I hope you end up liking it. :) Maybe you should check out your local mall or local American Eagle to check if they have it, because sometimes websites aren't that accurate. I looked at Aeropostale, Pacsun, Charlotte Russe, Abercrombie, Forever 21... Anything I could think of lol. But I'm still pretty sure that's an eagle on her shirt... Here it is:

http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?catId=cat380161&productId=1341_6058
(It has different colors also.)

:) I hope that's good enough. If not, you can still try going to your local mall and browsing stores similiar to American Eagle, and all of the other ones I named, and such.

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before reading this,im gunna ask that you NOT say "oh theres nothing wrong with you, you still have time", etc. because guess what? i am a FIFTEEN year old girl with absolutely NO breasts. i don't fit into the smallest of small size cups because there is nothing there. i know i could just be a really late bloomer, but i have already had my period and i thought you were supposed to develop breasts about 2 years BEFORE getting your period. is it possible i'll stay like this forever? is it really possible i'll never ever get boobs and have the chest of a man? is there anyone else out there like me?

I'm only 14 years old, turning 15 in about 4 months, and I'm pretty much flatchested too. You're not alone though, you might think you are, but there are MANY girls out there just like you. I've also started my period... Is your mom on the big-chested side? There's a good chance you'll develop almost the same size as her sometime. Ask your mom when she started developing her breasts, because that will most likely be the same time you'll start developing breasts. I know you probably worry about it a lot, but you shouldn't. You should just be happy with who you are. :) I know, you've probably heard that a lot. There's nothing wrong with being flatchested. If people make fun of you, don't care or worry about what they have to say. Obviously, they're just trying to find a way to make themselves feel good about themselves. And obviously, I guess they won't accept who you are. If you're like me, yes, I worry about what others think about me, and I constantly think about what people will say about me being flatchested. Well if they aren't willing to get past that, then screw them, honestly. If they can't accept or like me for the way I am, to the point where they can't get past it, then whatever. It's personality that matters. :) You MAY be a late bloomer, but you'll just have to be patient. (Yea, you've probably heard that many times before too, but it's true.) Not to make you feel bad, but you might not develop breasts at all. It happens to some people, it's just in the genes. You COULD always get surgery, but why would you want that? It's all fake anyway. There are NO 'home remedies' to make your breasts grow larger. Don't believe them, you'll just have to wait. I mean, look at the bright side, you won't have any back problems due to large breasts. Do you know how painful (not literally) it can be to have large breasts? It can be very hard to find clothes, clothes that fit, would you want your breasts popping out of your shirts? (Idk, some girls like cleavage... o.o) Smaller chested girls tend to look cuter in tank tops (in my opinion.) When you're running, exercising, or doing anything in gym, well, they'll be bouncing all over the place. x.x Also, if guys are attracted to you, they might ONLY like you because of your breasts. :\.... I'm not trying to diss on girls who have breasts though. These are just some things to keep in mind. I thought about these things, and I'm STILL learning to be comfortable with my own self. I know everything I said; you might have heard it before, but just be happy with what you've got. :)

Sorry if you didn't want a whole 'speech/lecture' as an answer, but I hope I helped. xP

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What is the name of this song and who is it by?

http://rhsclassof2010.com/

Everyday - Carly Comando
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RCObXuAwCIA
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19/M

I've been with my girlfriend on and off again for three years. She's 2 years younger than me, not really a lot. But her being being underage is hard. Well, I have to move to another state in a couple of days. I want to come with me. I'm financially stable and I know that I can support her and her needs. But again, she's underage.

I want her to be happy and I don't think she will be with a long distance relationship. So I'm thinking of an open relationship but just for you. So she can go out with other guys, but I won't. I care about her so much I don't want to lose her. What can I do to show her how much I love her?

I want to make her a CD for when I leave. I always have a CD of our songs. But I would like a CD filled with songs that say that I still think about her even though we're miles apart and that I will always love her. So, what are some good songs?

I'm not sure what genre of music that you would like, but I'll just name songs. :)

- ANYTHING by nevershoutnever. Trust me. :D
- Also probably ANYTHING from Stephen Jerzak. (A good song from him would be 'Cute')
- Thunder by Boys Like Girls
- Hero/Heroine by Boys Like Girls
- Heels Over Head by Boys Like Girls
- Heartbeat by Stereo Skyline
- Down by Jay Sean
- I Wanna by The All-American Rejects
- When You're Gone by Avril Lavigne
- Forever by Chris Brown
- Roses and Butterflies by Making April
- So Bad by Making April
- Seventeen Forever by Metro Station
- Kiss Me by Rediscover
- My Pretty Eyes by Rediscover
- Say it like you mean it by Rediscover

Just look these up on Youtube, I'm pretty sure you'll be able to find them there. :) If you want even more songs, you'll probably find some similiar songs in the 'related videos' section of any of these songs.

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Okay so I was told by friends not to ignore this guy I like or anything. I don't mean ignore like in a mean way..I just don't know what to say to him!! So, I wouldn't really call it ignoring. Anyways, we talked on myspace once for an hour and a half. I asked for his number, he gave it to me. Then the next day he randomyl messaged me asking for my aim. He IMed me and we talked for 30 minutes (this was 5 days ago) it ended so soon because he got logged off, he came back and didn't IM me. (i was aim mobile so i cant see whos on) So I messaged him saying "you left :(" and he said he came back and then i told him he can IM me if he wants..but all he said was "that suckss haha" when i told him i cant see people who are on..i guess that doesnt matter though?. The next day..I decided to IM him..we talked for like 2 hours? But..it was sort of boring mainly because I was the one coming up with everything to say! Not until theend did I end up getting him to talk more..but that didnt last long. So, I said bye..I waited for him to say bye back..but like 3 minutes passed so I just logged off cause I had to leave. He commented on girls pics calling them, sexy, meanwhile he doesn't even do that for me? He acts like a sweet, nice, gentlemen around me! I found that kind of weird...but, whatever. So, I havent talked to him in 3 days now. I want to! But, what do I say to him? I really have no idea what to say. We've already talked about sports, school stuff, working, old friends. I mean..what else is there for me to ask? I hate being the one who brings every topic up..but, i dont know maybe he's nervous or shy around me or maybe he was just tired haha. I dont know!
Any advice?
Thanks!

I think you should wait a couple or few days and see if he tries to talk to you. If he doesn't, then well I'm not really sure what's going on in his mind. Try not to sound desperate to start a conversation though. It IS good to take action and talk to him first. Sometimes when you talk about random things, things will just lead to another thing to talk about. Or sometimes the conversation will die. xD Did you say you talked to him for hours on AIM? If he didn't reply much, it be possible that he was busy, annoyed/upset/sad about something, or didn't want to be bothered much at that time. If it were any of those cases, he probably replied to you because he didn't want to seem rude. Maybe you should give things a bit of space, and spark a new conversation later. You'll probably have more things to talk about, and it'll probably be more interesting, since you haven't talked in a few days... You know what I mean? That's way different than talking to someone everyday. It can seem a little same old, same old. You can also talk to him about hobbies and interests and stuff! Get to know eachother more, things like that, and maybe likes/dislikes, what kind of music he's into... If you want to talk to him, go for it! :) Just don't text/IM him every 5 minutes like, "Hey what's up?! Hello? Are you there? What are you doing?"... That cam seem very annoying and just plain weird and/or stalkerish. Oh, and if you decide not to talk to him for a few days or something (so you can see if he talks to you FIRST), don't completely ignore him! If you see him at school, definitely say hi in a calm, casual way. Don't seem like you're bored or not happy to see him though. After school, you could also text him saying things like "Hey! How was your day?" Things will not go anywhere though if you're texting eachother with one-worded or few-worded texts.(I hate that! xD) Now, about that pic commenting... Man I understand what you mean! But you also have to keep in mind that guys who TRULY like a girl when be NICE to you, just like you said :D Guys like that will also call ou pretty, cute, and/or beautiful. :) Guys who do that probably don't want to make the impression on a girl that he's a 'player', if he calls to sexy or hot or something. Some other possibilities could be that he's nervous about what you'll think of him if he commented your pic, he doesn't want to say the wrong thing/doesn't know what to say if he comments your pics... One more thing... You said that he barely talked back? He might've been nervous. Like, he didn't want to say anything stupid. Everything I just said is not the 100% absolute truth, so keep that in mind. I will not gaurantee you anything that what I said was true, or will work, because everything I said came from my own opinions, and past experience. But I'm sure this will help you. :) I hope I helped!! Please feel free to inbox me ANYTIME if you need anymore advice, and I'll do my best to help you. Good luck! :)

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My boyfriend went on holiday yesterday for 2 weeks, we both got credit so we can text each other. We only really text if we need to talk about something or if we're meeting up etc.
So what's some cute texts I can send him? Without just telling him what I'm doing and telling him I love him. Thanks

I'm not sure if you're into this kinda thing, or if your boyrfriend is, but I myself would definitely use pickup lines on my boyfriend. xD (jokingly, of course lol.)

Possibly things like:

- What's cookin' goodlookin'?
- What's shakin' bacon?
- Him: What are you up to?
You: Oh, nothing much, just thinking about you. :)
- How was your day? You must be completely exhausted since you've been running through my mind all day!

And things like that. If you like that idea, just search up a bunch of pickup lines and use them however you want. xD I KNOW, it's cheesy and corny. It's a suggestion though. :) I know my boyfriend would definitely get some laughs, but also think it's sweet. x] :P Just show your affection. Say things like you miss him a lot and you can't wait to see him, or even a simple "I love you soo much, I miss you" can even mean a lot. :) Try to be creative though. I'm sure nobody likes one-word texts. You could also even use a smiley or '

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My problem is this: I used to work in a restaurant with a lady we will call Dee. Dee and I became the best of friends, even after I quit we would talk 2 or 3 times a day on the phone. The problem was that Dee had parties all the time and I was never on the guest list. This went on for fifteen years. I had confronted her about it a couple of times and got very evasive answers, Like you don.t know my daughter (after she was having a 300 guest graduation party). She also had jewelery parties and I love jewelery more than anything. I also have to explain around Halloween she lied about passing out candy when i told her I was bringing the kids trick or treating by her neighborhood. (She didn,t want me there) I have to say as well that I don't have parties at my house. And one more thing Dee did invite me to a pyschic party she was having an hour before it started, just because she was short on the quota of 10 people and needed my 35.00. A really strange thing to is she used to always invite a friend of hers who she always complained about. Why I am writing is because I miss my friend, this was the only problem we had and its bazaar to me. We now haven;t spoken for six months, after she was telling me about another jewelery pary she was having. I don;t want to go back to this hurt, But if we are friends again I don;t know how to get thru it. Because if I get invited I donot want to go. please help I really feel used because maybe she just wasn't my friend

Before you decide if Dee is a true friend or not, I think you should try talking to her again. If she just ignores you or is rude to you, that's a sign that she's not a real friend. She might be showing off to you or something. Who knows, she may have talked to you just to 'pass the time' or she had nothing better to do or something. If that's the case, forget about. You don't need people in your life who cause you pain. Although the people who you love the most, may even cause you more pain than anyone else. Again, I think you should nicely and calmly confront her again. Why don't you call her about chat about how she's been or what she's been up to lately? I know how it feels to be excluded from something, so you're not alone. :) If you do end up moving on from the past, who knows, she might come 'running back to you'.... You never know what you have until you've truly lost it. Telling or showing her that you feel hurt, she might get some sort of sick and strange satisfaction from that. When she realizes you don't care anymore, she might come running back to you as I said before. Or maybe she's embarrassed to introduce you to all her other friends? Again, you'll never know the truth unless you talk about it.

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im super super shy and i cant help it.
it ruins everything. my face gets beat red. and i start like idk stumbling over stupid words. and i just get sick of it.
i get all nervous. adn i never no what to say. can someone please help me to overcome my shyness, im 15 by the way.

These should definitely help, if not, then at least a little. :) I love WikiHow! :P

http://www.wikihow.com/Accept-Being-Shy
http://www.wikihow.com/Quit-Being-Shy
http://www.wikihow.com/Not-Be-Shy
http://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-Shyness

Coming from myself, I think you'll just have to start talking to people. Who knows, you may even make new friends. :) I'm really shy, but I've managed to start a few random conversations to people I don't know when I took summer PE, and we ended up being really good friends! I just started out say something like "heyy what's your name?" and the convo just took off from there lol. Try to to worry or think about it too much. Before you say something, think before you act. That may help you overcome your stumbling of words. Don't overthink though, you'll probably get even more nervous! You should have a good friend, or a couple/few hanging around too. :D When I'm with my friends, even if it's just one person, I feel more comfortable around people I don't know, and less awkward.

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I'm stuck home this weekend all alone and I'm so bored. My parents went on a business trip and they let me stay home but there's nothing to do! I really don't feel like going out either because I'm on my period and I'm tired a lot. Is there anything fun to do without leaving the house? I thought maybe some sort of neat free internet game or something? I can't think of anything. I don't know...

ideas?

- omgpop.com :)
- Talk to your friends on Facebook/Myspace?
- Search up random things on the internet, like "how elephants got their name" or stuff like that. xD
- Invite friends over? (if you're allowed to)
- Do you own any type of instrument? You could try playing certain songs by ear.
- If you like reading, go to the library and check out some books.
- www.aol.com/games
- www.yahoo.com/games
- http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070608093645AAuzQPR
- http://www.secondlifeupdate.com/uncategorized/top-9-online-virtual-3d-worlds/

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you know on myspace there are layout makers.

like cbitw and ms nerds that kind of thing. well on there they always have page graphics which are normally just sayings in different font styles, or pictures with sayings underneath them but you can put them on your myspace in html form.

(you can also find them on tinypic.com or photobucket.com)

anywho how can i make those myself? is there something i have to buy something i have to download?

thank you in advance!

The best thing about it, is that you DO NOT even need Photoshop at all. :D You can just use the Paint program, which should come with every computer. If you want some unique and a variety of fonts, you should go to dafont.com and download some. If you need help installing the font, feel free to send me a message to my inbox. :) The most commonly font used to make those quote graphics you usually see for page graphics, is called "king cool KC." This font can be found at dafont.com.... Open up paint and make the space big enough where you can type something. Make a text box, and select the font 'king cool KC' and type whatever you what! :) You can crop the space so it fits the whole quote. Then save your picture! Save it as a .png, for the best quality. :P For pictures, you can do the same thing. Just search for pictures, copy it and paste it into paint, then do the same thing with the text box and type whatever! Then save as a .png.... Hope I helped, and hope this made sense. :) If you have any other questions, feel free to inbox me!

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How can i still look tomboyish with this shirt. I like the style that they have these days and the leggings and tights but is still want to have my guyish side there with this shirt.

http://charminglychic.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/kimchi-blue-buffalo-pintuck-tunic.jpg

Wear it with some jeans and a pair of Converse. :P Maybe a pair of ripped jeans, to be more specific? You could also try putting your hair up in a ponytail.

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On HBO there is a commercial for the incredible hulk, and the song playing in it is like all instrumental, violins i think. Does anybody know what song that is?

Lonely Man by Joe Harnell

Maybe?

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My favorite kind of music is the singer/song writer acoustic music. The john mayer, jack johnson, jake coco, ben harper, ben folds, jason mraz, dave barnes.

Question:
Are there any more unknown artists that i can find music like this from? I'm not a fan of the main stream music... and no DMB please. Thanks in advance!

This seems like a good website, you should check it out! :)

http://www.unsigned.com/browse_artists/acoustic

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15/f
I have a profile on Facebook and under my friend suggestions is this guy that I went to school with since pre-k to 8th grade. Ever since I first saw him in pre-k I thought that he was really cute. We became not so much friends but in between acquaintances and friends. The entire time I went to school with him everyone thought that I had a huge crush on him, but I only thought that he was cute. I dont know if I should be friends with him or not. Im afraid to ask him to be my friend because Im afraid that he will say no. And if he says yes Im afraid that my schoolmates will make fun of me again for being in love with him. Im friends with all my schoolmates so its hard sometimes. I would ask my best friend but he's her ex,so I cant. Anyway and suggestions to what Im dealing with can help. Thanks and please help me.

I think you should definitely add him on Facebook! Maybe you could leave a note when you add him, like "hey! I didn't know you had a Facebook!" You shouldn't care what your ppl at your school will say. It's not like they personally know the relationship between you and him. You can try telling them that you don't like him, and if they don't believe you and still make fun of you, then so be it. At least you know the truth, don't let them get to you. You should also tell them how you feel about them teasing you. If they were your real friends, they would listen to you and understand. If he does add you on Facebook, I think you should try talking to him, start a conversation! Whether it be in a comment, or in a message. Don't just add him and not talk to him! Adding him in the first place would've been completely pointless then. If he decides not to add you, then that's ok, don't dwell too long over it. Just move on. :) Don't let social networking websites get you down. It's really easy for them too, like if someone doesn't add you, or your not in their 'top friends'....

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13/m (not sure if this is in the right category) and sorry its so long.

ok so i like writing stories and i think that i;m quite good but i haven't done it in ages but i got interested in doing it again when the other day i had to do something in my English class its hard to explain but we got a sheet of paper and it had 1 of 4 different pictures that we had to base the story on 1 was a tiger, 1 was a Ferris wheel, one was a car with a dog kennel tied onto the top (i dont know either haha) and 1 was a setting of ghosts under a bridge type thing. and with our scene thing we had to write a opening paragraph then the teacher collected them and gave them to other people with no one knowing who wrote the original thing. then we wrote a paragraph that created a problem the the teacher collected them and gave them around to different people again then finally i got one with the ghost type setting and i was reading through and it sounded like it was getting scary so i changed it around completely and made it really funny im not being stuck up cause i showed my friends and they cracked up laughing and i also one a prize for having the best story. so i started writing a scary story the other day when i had nothing to do. i have written about a paragraph and i think its quite good but i dont really want to show anyone yet until i have finished
so does anyone have any tips for writing this story, making my stories better and just anything that will help my writing in the future
thanks alot
oh and does anyone know of any websites and things that will help.

I think writing down ideas for your story would be a great idea, kind of like brainstorming. Be sure not to ramble on about anything, the reader may get confused or bored. Be sure to be clear on who's speaking in your story, and the details of your story. Stay consistent! You don't want to have any misleading details. Also try to make the beginning of your story interesting. Whenever I read something, I have trouble keeping focused since I always get bored in the beginning of books.... Using a wide variety of vocabulary is great too! I think it's fun using a word that makes you need to look it up in a dictionary in order for you to know the definition! Being specific about things in your story will help greatly too. I also think you should write from the heart, don't try to recreate a story, and don't write a story that's like every other scary story you've heard. Just write whatever you want. :) Reading other scary stories, or even watching some horror movies may give you inspiration if you're having trouble finding what to write about next. :) Here are a couple of great websites that can help or guide you!

http://www.bremen.lib.in.us/scarytips.htm
http://www.wikihow.com/Write-a-Scary-Story

Hope I helped! :D

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Do you usually use pads or tampons? Do you know any brands that work good?

I usually use pads, but that's just me. You can use whatever works best for you, or whatever is more comfortable for you. I personally prefer pads. If you go swimming, then you might wanna use a tampon. You've probably seen many commercials on tv, but I would recommend Always or Kotex. You can always talk to your mom, she can give you some great advice too!

Hope I helped! :)

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any body know any sites where I can downlaod music and put on my mp3,
thanks

http://www.downloads.nl/local/en/mp3.html :)

And if you want to download music off of Youtube, go to this website and enter the link of the Youtube video. :D

http://mediaconverter.org/index.php

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I want to create some sort of tribute to Michael Jackson. I miss the man. The King of Pop. He was an idol for some many. He was the ultimate pop star. I'm sure plenty of people will miss Michael Jackson since he died just a short time ago, at a very early age.

I thought about making a website or something but I'm not sure what to do. I know that MySpace put a tribute to Michael Jackson up for fans--a MySpace page with Michael Jackson songs up to listen to. My friend suggest I write a song about and for Michael Jackson but I'm not sure about that either since I am not a good singer. I want to do something so people can remember and enjoy Michael Jackson for a long time. Something that he would like.

Ideas?

You could always write a poem(s), or make a video about him and possibly put it on YouTube. :) Something that would also be cool, is that if you knew how to, you could make some neat mashups of any of his songs. :)

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