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This guy...
Okay so I was told by friends not to ignore this guy I like or anything. I don't mean ignore like in a mean way..I just don't know what to say to him!! So, I wouldn't really call it ignoring. Anyways, we talked on myspace once for an hour and a half. I asked for his number, he gave it to me. Then the next day he randomyl messaged me asking for my aim. He IMed me and we talked for 30 minutes (this was 5 days ago) it ended so soon because he got logged off, he came back and didn't IM me. (i was aim mobile so i cant see whos on) So I messaged him saying "you left :(" and he said he came back and then i told him he can IM me if he wants..but all he said was "that suckss haha" when i told him i cant see people who are on..i guess that doesnt matter though?. The next day..I decided to IM him..we talked for like 2 hours? But..it was sort of boring mainly because I was the one coming up with everything to say! Not until theend did I end up getting him to talk more..but that didnt last long. So, I said bye..I waited for him to say bye back..but like 3 minutes passed so I just logged off cause I had to leave. He commented on girls pics calling them, sexy, meanwhile he doesn't even do that for me? He acts like a sweet, nice, gentlemen around me! I found that kind of weird...but, whatever. So, I havent talked to him in 3 days now. I want to! But, what do I say to him? I really have no idea what to say. We've already talked about sports, school stuff, working, old friends. I mean..what else is there for me to ask? I hate being the one who brings every topic up..but, i dont know maybe he's nervous or shy around me or maybe he was just tired haha. I dont know!
Any advice?
Thanks!
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I think you should wait a couple or few days and see if he tries to talk to you. If he doesn't, then well I'm not really sure what's going on in his mind. Try not to sound desperate to start a conversation though. It IS good to take action and talk to him first. Sometimes when you talk about random things, things will just lead to another thing to talk about. Or sometimes the conversation will die. xD Did you say you talked to him for hours on AIM? If he didn't reply much, it be possible that he was busy, annoyed/upset/sad about something, or didn't want to be bothered much at that time. If it were any of those cases, he probably replied to you because he didn't want to seem rude. Maybe you should give things a bit of space, and spark a new conversation later. You'll probably have more things to talk about, and it'll probably be more interesting, since you haven't talked in a few days... You know what I mean? That's way different than talking to someone everyday. It can seem a little same old, same old. You can also talk to him about hobbies and interests and stuff! Get to know eachother more, things like that, and maybe likes/dislikes, what kind of music he's into... If you want to talk to him, go for it! :) Just don't text/IM him every 5 minutes like, "Hey what's up?! Hello? Are you there? What are you doing?"... That cam seem very annoying and just plain weird and/or stalkerish. Oh, and if you decide not to talk to him for a few days or something (so you can see if he talks to you FIRST), don't completely ignore him! If you see him at school, definitely say hi in a calm, casual way. Don't seem like you're bored or not happy to see him though. After school, you could also text him saying things like "Hey! How was your day?" Things will not go anywhere though if you're texting eachother with one-worded or few-worded texts.(I hate that! xD) Now, about that pic commenting... Man I understand what you mean! But you also have to keep in mind that guys who TRULY like a girl when be NICE to you, just like you said :D Guys like that will also call ou pretty, cute, and/or beautiful. :) Guys who do that probably don't want to make the impression on a girl that he's a 'player', if he calls to sexy or hot or something. Some other possibilities could be that he's nervous about what you'll think of him if he commented your pic, he doesn't want to say the wrong thing/doesn't know what to say if he comments your pics... One more thing... You said that he barely talked back? He might've been nervous. Like, he didn't want to say anything stupid. Everything I just said is not the 100% absolute truth, so keep that in mind. I will not gaurantee you anything that what I said was true, or will work, because everything I said came from my own opinions, and past experience. But I'm sure this will help you. :) I hope I helped!! Please feel free to inbox me ANYTIME if you need anymore advice, and I'll do my best to help you. Good luck! :)
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