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This is a really.. stupid.. question.. but.. here goes anyway:
I want to buy some condoms (im a girl) and i think its kind of embarrassing.. i mean.. i dont want everyone to know im having sex. I cant drive.. and if my sis or parents found out i was buying them.. they would KILL me.. Anyway.. when i work up the nerve to buy them.. whats the best kind to buy... i prefer lifestyles or trojan.. so whats the best.. and cheapest at that.. to buy

thanks!

Its nothin to be embarrassed about!! Its good to protect urself.. now having to carry a baby around for 9 months at a young age when ur not ready.. thats worse.. .I think the best kind to buy would be trojans, but whatever kind u decide to get make sure it has the right protection and all of that...

what should i do my friend is mad at me for some reason really upset might lose my best friend :(

Talk to her and listen to all that she has to say

Hello ... where can I get the breast cancer bracelet from? Thanks

try Target.. i saw some there

im 14/f i have a LOT of blackheads all over my nose and they won't go away does anyone know how to get rid of them?? because i have a formal coming up and my pores are pretty big so a lot of people notice the blackness of my nose everyday!!!!
please dont delete this!!!!!

Try Biore black head strips and do them like once a week.. my best friend has that same problem!!

hey yea this is sammi... im wondering... how do yew get backgrounds fer yur column but not tha 1s that tha site offerse yew? well thanx to any1 who answers or attempts answering!
sammi (or) SwEeTbAbI

hey go to google and type in cute backgrounds and you'll get a whole list of sites.. a good site i think that has a few is http://www.hallelnet.com/whisper/backgrounds.htm , it doesnt have alot but it has some pretty ones :)

My boyfriend who is also one of my best friend just called me and accused me of cheating and told me never to talk to him again. I know i didnt cheat on him, what do i tell him?

ask him how he thinks u cheated on him and explain to him that u didnt, hes ur best friend and boyfriend he should listen..

Just bcuz that girl is 16 and weighs 65 pounds doesnt mean she has an eating disorder. Im 17 and I weigh 87 pounds and I dont have an eating disorder. If anything, I eat way too much. It's called having a fast matabulisum and there's nothing you can do about it.

ok thanx.. just 65 seems really light

For the person that asked if it's an unhealthy choice 2 have sex during ur period....it's not at all....it may be considered a little gross by some but it surely isn't unhealthy...take it from me....an 18 year old female that has talked 2 gyno's about this....it won't hurt you....if you and ur partner are ok with having sex during ur period then go for it, if not, then that's ur choice.....

ok thanx :)

my boy friend has been ubducted by the new game halo 2...he is obsessed! how can i get him back???

lol hide the game from him

There is this guy I like, and its like taking over my life.. all the sudden thats all i think about, its crazy! I can't conentrate anymore, even when I'm with my friends.. i dont pay any attention to them. I haven't told anybody that I like him. But how can I stop thinking at him ALL the time? -- Love *Melissa*

Its just a crush!! :) lol.. if u wanna stop thinkin about him just try thinking about other things and putting you mind on something else like staying busy with things

Ok, ok. I admit it. I'm not eating enough. But no one will leave me alone about it! I have this one teacher who's about to call my mom. I seriously don't want to eat more, but if everyone (like my mom) gets on my case about it, I will have no choice! I'm doing well losing weight! I have never looked better! And if everyone gets involved I'm gonna gain it back. Everyone always asks "What did you eat today" And when I say "nothing" they get all mad. How do I get them to leave me alone? (Please don't be like everyone else and tell me it's not good for me) I just want to know how to get them off my back. I would lie but I'm a bad liar. Thanks.

I think you should eat at least 3 good meals during the day, and to loose weight theres other ways than starving urself.. but if u wanna go without eating (i know u dont want to hear it) but its not healthy.. if u just eat at least 3 good meals or even 2 you'll still loose weight but be healthy, like eat breakfast lunch and dinner.. or just lunch and dinner

okay im about 125 lbs n i dont think im a fatty or anything but how can i lose wieght quickly and tone my body?

Just exercise for about a half hour every day

okay i just started my period. I have a few questions.
a)if when you put a tampon in, and in 6 hours later when you take it out. and theres blood on it.but when you wear a pad and you take it off, and theres no blood. is this a period?
b) can you bathe with tampons in?
c)is mastrubation with your period a bad idea
d)it acually hurts when i insert a tampon, could it be that i forgot to take a previous tampon out?
e)what exactly are cramps?
f)is it healthier to wear a pad or insert a tampon?
g) can you get pregnent if you are having your period?
h)is having sex with your menstrual flow an unhealthy idea?

thanks

a) yes its a period its just the tampon catches the blood right there while its leaving and the pad catches it after its already left ur body.
b)im not to sure you might be able to but i think its better to take it out if ur bathing, you can swim in tampons tho
c)yea
d)if it hurts it could be that ur putting it in wrong.. make sure u take the tampons out or u could get really sick
e)cramps are "A sudden, involuntary, spasmodic muscular contraction causing severe pain, often occurring in the leg or shoulder"
f)its healthier to wear a pad
g)no, unless ur having sex but that usually isnt a good idea to do it when u have ur period
h)yea it is

is it alright to date a guy that is 3 to 4 year younger than you?

i think it depends what age u are and what age he is...

ok i have a rash on my back, it has little red bumps going all down my spine.. its really ichy and really red! im really scared because i dont know what it is!! PLEASE HELP ME IM SO SCARED!!!!!!
Thanks so much for all y'all who can help!
*mar*

Its probably just an alergic reaction to something, u should go to the doctor and get it checked out

sometimes, my armpits sweat for no apparent reason. I dont even have to run around..and they start to sweat...it leaves these horrible sweat marks underneath my armpits and i dont even want to raise my aroms up...does any one have any ideas on how to stop this??? Oh yeah, and they even sweat when it is cold out!!!

Use deodarent with Anitpresperent and use deodarnt powder (shower to shower deodarnt powder).. it works really good!! Put the powder on after the deodarent

Ok... I am 14/f and I weigh 100 lbs. My friends think I am anarexic and last year my teacher turned me in for anarexia. I eat, alot, do you think I should she a doctor about my weight.

I think its a good idea to see the doctor about ur weight, ur a little below normal weight for age 14, but it also depends on how tall u are

what are some good eyeshadow colors for someone with green eyes?

i think light greenish colors or like browns/tans

i'm somewhat flat chested, but i have great legs. how can i take all the notice off my chest (or lack thereof) and refocus it on my legs without being thought of as a skank?

try wearing really cute skirts that are kind of short but not like really short, just enough to show off a lil

I've just discovered Good Charlotte when i heard "Predictalbe". It's like my favorited song EVER! But i'm wondering if the ther songs on the cd are as good, or better. If anyone has the cd, tell me if it was good. Thanks!

i have their cd its great!! almost all their songs are really good :)

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